YoungDaNaval:
Wow! This is awesome! I'll love to be friends with you if you don't mind. I need people like this around me most especially at this point in time

We are friends here already. Or are we not?

If you are under 25, invest 80% of the money you make on personal improvement and self development opportunities including both formal and informal education.

Make sure you learn any monetizeable skills, most especially those that would expose you to rich people's contacts/homes. Don't just learn, learn with purpose.

If you are a guy, forget about women and cast all focus on yourself except from your mum and sister.

Anything from 26, set annual goals, which can be done either on your birthdays, or new year day, and do everything within your power to accomplish them.

Your goals should have minimum 10 points across 10 different areas. Eg:.

Career Goals.
Business Goals.
Academic Goals.
Financial Goals.
Health Goals
Spiritual Goals
Family Goals.
Etc....according to your need per time.


Career goals could go this way;

1. To round up my graphics design skills acquisition by September 30th.

2. To get an internship with Mid-level digital hub by October 1st.

3. To improve your professional network by 10contacts by November 30th.

4. To increase your salary by 30% by December 31st.

Etc.......

When you focus on doing all these and you are intentional about them, you will eventually become the most interesting guy amongst your peers and subsequently among your colleagues. If you keep to it, over time opportunities will keep chasing you.

Now most importantly, in all of these, never get involved in a transaction in which the next person will feel cheated and think of you as being selfish. Be honest and sincere in everything you do, it's not always easy to find honest people, and when good people see an honest person, they can do anything to keep them.

The internet has come to stay! Never bother about your last last paragraph cos it will never happen. It's a contract which can never be broken.

Talking about your data plan, also check out to see what plans they for the nights.

As for me, ever since I discovered and registered on nansconcept.com.ng, I bade goodbye to all exhorbitant data price. I used to make use of 50GB to 80GB/ month and it do cost me between 10 - 15k, but on nansconcept.com.ng, I now spend way less than 10k on 100GB!

pS: I thought you live abroad?

Jennifer70:
Abeg I need your advice
I have known a very good friend of mine for 3years I really wanted to have sex with her but she told me about her past and how she has been done wrong and used for ex by men and she has been celibate
We decided to meet up but I begged her to have sex with me and I will pay her 150k she was reluctant but later agreed after I lashed her through out the night the next day I gave her 50k and told her to go
She cried and cried and sent me a message on WhatsApp cursing me telling me I will never know peace and my life will crumble saying she is from the water, that she curses me with her tears
She later blocked me and I could not apologize
Will the curse follow me?
I only wanted to use her for sex

I don't believe in curses, cos those things are superstitious. It's a mind game that if you allow it, it will keep troubling your mind. Let's say you are still very young and have means.

How can you promise a lady onefiftyK simply to get laid? Even with the 50k you paid, some people would have appreciated you for that. Your focus should be on building your career, ladies and women will come when the time is right.

Never bother about the curse it's all meaningless but if you have your way, find a means to make peace with her through a friend contact.

That's your advantage King. It takes grace to carry what you have. Now that you have discovered it, it's time to use it to your advantage.

People trust you easily and that's why they are approaching you, if you flip it, there's nothing you can not achieve with it. I have male friends like that and in all their secret weapons when it comes to negotiation, that always stands out.

I love this

2aces:
Everyone is living on borrowed time, invest yours wisely, money should be the least thing you spend your loaned hours chasing, not worth it.

This is a food for thought 🤔

mmadu4:
Opay and moniepoint is the future. all these banks are useless

Then you don't know how bank works. Opay and Moniepoint are only in the tiny area of banking and doesn't the kind of infrastructure needed to run serious banking.

Imagine saying JP Morgan Chase and Wells Fargo are useless simply because Interra and Mabray banks are the future. Laughable

It's important the CBN remains committed to safeguarding depositors’ interests and ensure smooth functioning of the banking sector through proactive measures and strategic interventions. Up next will be the Education sector. It needs total overhaul.

This is the kind of thing I like to see. Nigeria as a couuntry, our people love themselves and there's nothing wrong with Nigeria. Our problems are the leaders who have weaponised poverty and use religion and tribe to divide us.

atiku4President:
Farooq likes writing big grammar. Who is he talking to? Ordinary Nigerians or university professors? He will likely be a bad leader if given the opportunity to rule like those he constantly criticises because he has refused to subsidise his grammar to appeal to the common man on the street.

Is the subsidy on grammar that got me

Chai!

This one pained me. This woman cd created an indelible memory in our family. My mother is not going to love this news. But death, a debt we all owe.

Condolences mama. You have played your part and the world will forever remember you til the end of time. May your soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.

AnnieBadiru:
Same ifeanyi ubah of the defunct ifeanyi ubah FC, woow it would have resulted from his overweight, learn to work on your fitness

My thoughts exactly

Karma is a beast! So after all the dragging with Cosmos Maduka this is how it later ended? Escaped death in Nigeria and met it in London? May his soul find rest.

I appreciate the fact that you are willing to share this journey with us. More like we are traveling with you to the USA on a virtual visit. I'm certainly going to follow this thread to the end. Hopefully, I am going to learn one or two things.

A study on marriage.com found that 54% of first-time cohabiting couples break up within six years of moving in together, compared to 33% who officially marry during that time. Only 29% of school sweethearts end up together after graduation.

Research has consistently shown that 85% of people will experience a breakup in their lifetime, while 71% of people stay in touch with their exes after a breakup, 60% of people admit to stalking their ex on social media after a breakup. Approximately 70% of straight unmarried couples break up within the first year.

With the above scientific facts, it's obvious that breakups, divorce, separations etc are integral part of our social lives. Meaning it's not new and didn't start today and won't stop in our generation. What are the lessons you learned after your failed relationships?

pS: Romantic Relationships of course, not business relationship.

Zonefree:

I'm sorry to say this, but, you're not seeing any recent pictures of her. She's approaching the Wall now . The greatest fear of every woman.

The years she took the photo in her dp, she wasn't creating threads asking why men don't approach fat and chubby women or why men don't love. She was busy experimenting different men, she had numerous men at her palms then.

Now, the wall is close, she's blaming men for not making same effort they used to make back then. Now, she wants to love and be loved.

Women always want to eat their cake and have it.


I do not come in peace any longer!

Are you always this bitter, or did something triggered your aggression this morning? You can still make your point without insults.

Zonefree:
True love does not exist any longer, especially with a Nigerian girl. It's unwise to be in a relationship with someone because of LOVE.

LOVE is a word used by two fools to deceive themselves. To seek for true love is to seek for doom.

What's your definition of a Nigerian girl?

Zonefree:

If you're looking for love, get a puppy or cat. True love comes from caring for a pet than caring for a woman.

Only women above 27 years are the ones searching for true love cos they've already exhausted their flower age whoring with the wrong men. They're now looking for demented men to accept their baggages in the name of True Love. A man in love is a man without a working brain.

Nigerian girls below 24 years don't bother about love because they're already busy spreading those legs like butter on a bread.


I come in peace.

I don't think it's a wise thing to say. You should know that people's experiences are different, so making such hasty conclusion might prove you fatally wrong since you haven't lived everybody's experience.

I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

Is it still worth it to take the risks?

Bliztzer:


Omo, hit the gim. Some additional dey make some women look older than their age. If u still dey early 30s, omo go diet. No do Shakira too much.

Men few this days, na boys plenty. If you know, you know.

I'm below 30, only that "Chubbyness" is in our family.

muyico:
No!! I prefer lepa

What's your reason?

Bliztzer:


I think is not physique based decision.perhaps, you should investigate the issue. As me o, nobody wey I no fit date except you too old for me or shapeless. If yiu re the person on the profile pic, not bad at all.

That's where the mystery lies and it gets more confused. If I don't tell you, you won't know. But that's a fact.

brain54:
OP if that's you on your profile...


Then you ain't chubby o.

Just so you know!

Lol... You can't be too sure.

drimzsmoke:



Yes, I hate anything orobo!!!!

Why?

May I know your reason?

Bliztzer:


I think is not physique based decision.perhaps, you should investigate the issue. As me o, nobody wey I no fit date except you too old for me or shapeless. If yiu re the person on the profile pic, not bad at all.

The pics was taken some couple of years back. I'm a bit thicker now.

Men be honest… would you date someone who’s a little chubby? I feel like men only want skinny woman these days and that’s something I have never been.

Dating has been super hard for me and I’m wondering if it’s because I’m a little thicker than most females I know, I’m not talking obsessed but thicker for sure.

So, men… does weight matter to you when it comes to choosing a lady to date? Be honest, let's talk.

Fairview1:
RE: Honestly it's insane how much money men have spent on me (even though I never ever asked for it and I'm always more than happy to pay for my own things). I would never spend money on a person I barely know, even if i am romantically interested in them.

I guess the obvious answer is because they expect something in return (usually sex) but I've noticed they sometimes continue doing it even if I i tell them I'm not interested.

I'm no holy angel, obviously I i enjoy getting free stuff sometimes but other times it does make me mad, uncomfortable and idk how to react anymore.


Nlfpmod

Nlfpmod

RE: Honestly it's insane how much money men have spent on me (even though I never ever asked for it and I'm always more than happy to pay for my own things). I would never spend money on a person I barely know, even if i am romantically interested in them.

I guess the obvious answer is because they expect something in return (usually sex) but I've noticed they sometimes continue doing it even if I i tell them I'm not interested.

I'm no holy angel, obviously I i enjoy getting free stuff sometimes but other times it does make me mad, uncomfortable and idk how to react anymore.


Nlfpmod

DevilsEqual:
I know things are hard and almost everyone is feeling the heat

But I'll be never e understand the need for creating this kinda thread as I've seen 100000 of this in the last two weeks

We can't pray for you
We can't pay for you
We've always complained about it


What do we do about this now

It's important we keep talking about the situation of the country as some of you never experience this sort of thing.

blowjohn:
Iluyomade was until last week, the pastor of the hugely 'successful branch'


I don't understand that part, 'successful branch'


How do u describe a church as being successful?

Is it in soul winning or number of attendees or what?

I think it's s wrong way to describe a church.
Makes it look like a business.

Those are the words of a journalist not a constitution. Just like businesses, churches measure success in different dimensions; revenue, membership, building size etc

saddler:


Nothing surprising here... Church na business.

Na only mugu dey argue am.

No one argues whether church is a business or not, the question is what are they selling? And those who are buying them, are they complaining? Church is a Kingdom Business with Priests and Pastors as the entrepreneurs.