FruityLass:
My mum would even say write their names to help take to prophets not even one for prayers like am dating dozen...lol
Mums want the best for their kids.

MarvellousGod:
Don't worry, when you don't have a female child you'll understand. . You'll continue doing all chores alone because men don't do chores abi?
Yes, some chores may be feminine but what happens when a female isn't around? The mother will continue toiling because men are allergic to chores abi??

The instance you gave about female washing cars.. so if you don't have a brother, you'll leave your dad to be washing his cars while you watch?

The children are all grown, they should even be willing to render any assistance they can to their parents before they leave and start their own family. .

People like you will be saying men shouldn't do chores but will cry when your husband doesn't help at home..
Had he been the person watching African magic while his mum cooks, he wouldn't have seen a problem. .there is a problem because it's the woman watching

I see no problem with op doing chores at all.. the only problem i see is the canning even though op may have been rude to his mum....

pet4ril:
Better convince her well ooooo

menix:
OP am very sure IMO state was number 1 on her list..

nickz:
Bro marriage is overhyped
work hard,make money,spoil your mother and sisters,travel enjoy nd be happy.

HAVE CHILDREN OR ADOPT-don't chain yourself to a tree especially a nigerian (ibo,hausa nd yoruba,they are all same)one that likes to use padlock for the chain...2 kobo

tpiander:
instead of listing each of the 36 states, wouldnt it be easier to just ask her which states she doesnt object to.

Haywhymido:
BUHARI must hear dis

MarvellousGod:
... So funny. . Just keep convincing her..


So you don dey plan marriage, faith? Nice..

spicyglobalgist:
Very funny

baby124:
Lmao. You better hope she marries you. She is being picky, when you are not even sure if those gals wanna marry you sef

jaymichael:
@op, did she mention Banana Island?

Laitesmart:
Did she mention VGC in lagos by chance? #jezasking

FruityLass:
Been there.

Approval and support from mother can mean a lot and she have her reasons which will help exploring partner's past experiences with people from different states and also helps gaining insights to defend your loved one.

nerdymufasa:


Wow cool,i haven't gotten such message though I applied last week friday...when exactly did u apply

faith2ogesco:
ur a lady he's d first son. Big difference. I cook at tyms in d house but when dey wanted to turn me to kitchen boy one certain tyms, I jux park

freecocoa:
Babe, if I lived with my parents, it will give me pleasure to do all I can for them in the house, least of all chores, I won't be comfortable sitting while my mum does chores, unless she insists, has his mother not been taking care of him since? What's the big deal? What sort of child even complains that his mum does nothing but watch african magic? Except his mum has been that way since they know her, then I can't understand his angle, besides, it's not like he doesn't have siblings who help out, or does he do [b]everything[/b]himself?

It's not entirely fair to complain after someone's made effort but then, that also doesn't mean he can't take correction and cook better, maybe it's me but I find it really strange that a man in his 20s living at home, will expect his mum to do chores for him.

My dear, late forties don dey old these days, if not the way our country be, one should be thinking of things to do for his/her parents as appreciation or just to even show them love, not complaining about cooking for them.

Durent:
Too much of mouth odour has killed an innocent baby, dey will tel pple with smelly mouth to swish 4 30secs wit mouthwash but dem no go hear

obowunmi:
There's no one size fits all. People look for different things in their spouses.

I have an aunt who can't cook or clean the house yet she's been married for 28 years.

She survives with different house maids.

faith2ogesco:
don't get me wrong. I try. Jux DAT its harder for som1 with ma temperament combination. But trust me an arranged girl will thoroughly prefer ppl with my character . We tend to attract . And I ll learn from her sha. Abi name woman wey dey do like me go teach me?? Naaaaa

MarvellousGod:
You can scatter and she go dey arrange na abi? ... Better learn how to be organised. .

Nigel1:


Yes, Faith2ogesco,

The training comprises both indoor and outdoor (field) sessions.

If I understand your "distance" concerns correctly, you are worried of getting screened out based on how far-off you are resided.

If that's true, I suspect there's no cause for alarm.

Regards,
Nigel K.

Nigel1:


Hello Faith2ogesco,

The FEDP-500 Piping, Pipeline and Process Control Course is absolutely free, 100% sponsored by EPCM Engineers Limited and partner organizations in the Petroleum and Energy Industries.

The costs for the other programs are not flat but subject to cumulative performance in the pre-enrollment screening activities i.e. Test and Interview.

You can take advantage of the free FEDP-500 Piping, Pipeline and Process Control Course. (Kindly refer to the brochure for more details).

Regards,
Nigel K.

Nigel1:


Hello Nerdymufasa,

Having submitted your answers, you're definitely in the running for the $180 prize.

I wish you the very best too.

Regards,
Nigel K.