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where is the last one? number 1 is hilarious .

ok

yeah so is everywhere else.

oh! baileys my fav

that's cool, I guess the settings doesn't require customers asking them anything that need them to retort.

MrCork:
..i came to network thou

how va jester of the year

Toks2008:
Why we say Gods love is unconditional is because of his loving grace.

If my wife commits adultery I could forgive her for the first time but if she dies it again there is no way I can be with her again even if she is forgiven

But with God he is so loving that he will keep forgiving you even if you keep fooling yourself by sinning against him again and again....that is the unconditionality of Gods love.

LWKM he will keep forgiving if you keep fooling yourself again and again. yeah that's the grace I mentioned earlier but not everyone one enjoys that.

of course it should, especially to the female folks it seems our mothers are too busy to lecture our sisters.

Toks2008:
Gbam! so we can conveniently say there is always a reason attached to that facade called love and as long as that reason is still there they remain together.

Nevertheless if the reason vanishes and you still see some together, its either they are no longer at a vantage position to leave each other for one reason or the other.

Tok love is provisional and conditional in nature even God's love. practically God want us to worship and follow him and who doesn't do these won't enjoy his eternal blessings. now that's a condition but not in all cases some enjoy grace.however it doesn't mean it is not love because there are conditions to it.

frankly, love is overly used to make someone believe or do something for you. example men use love to get sex while girls use it to get money and favour, same as son and daughters to their parents.


in a nutshell, it is what we use to get something irrespective of what we really feel. it is a powerful word. in terms of feelings we define it according to what we see and fancy at the time of expression.

danbrowndmf:
80k will still do. U talk as if house rent is payed every month. School fee is been paid after every 4months. Y'all over hype the bad economy sef. My uncle dnt even have up to 2m in his acct when he married early this year.all is about total planing sir.

I know when all those are paid before I asserted. outside necessities they are other expenses one can incur brother.

Berbierklaus:
With this your 5m initial capital,I don't think you will be.

I am still a work in progress

you think 5m is unattainable?

chronique:
Yes,even at that,you don't need 5m. Except you're not expecting additonal income over the next 12 months.

we can only cogitate.

Xiadnat:
We get it...alright mate. Mr. Economist. You want to be a Millionaire before you settle down. So just send that lady who rocks your world packing because you aint a millionaire yet, right? Abeg, do tell her that on your date from day one so she can find the next exit soonest.

Clearly, you have being hitting your economic books. Good. Now keep hustling for that million...if you are lucky till gray hair starts appearing.

In the mean while, just know, not everyone will be "mark zuckerberg", you may have to settle for a regular shmoe.

It's your kind that will keep chasing money and never quite pin it down. Good luck tho.

I don't need to be millionaire to cater for myself and family but to start a family and sustain them I need to be, starting with a minimum of #5m being it in liquidity or asset.

leave catering aside, I don't want to settle for less, you want an endowed lady, respectful and brilliant, good cook and loyal wife? get rich and see how you will attract hundreds of them. thou being rich doesn't guarantee all the mentioned from a woman.


dude, I am not asking for too much, I set my priority and i'm working towards achieving them.

chronique:
No. He does not need 5m,but should have a reasonable inflow of income from salary or biz.

Bros I am looking beyond food and shelter but the capability and ability to purchase normal goods and services, meet contingencies and adapt to changes in economy.

Berbierklaus:
You never ready to marry

sure I'm not are you?

danbrowndmf:
Mr falconey you wrote well. But for u to actually say u have to dwell in million for you to be able to carter for your you and your family. People earn less than 80k a month and they still get married and leave a decent life off their pay. It a matter of setting your piority right.

yes sir and when there is change in economy policy, will the priority sustain such family? 80k is too small sir, unless the man has a huge savings in the bank. this 80k can not sustain a family for a month with rent, inflation and tax rate on direct and indirect goods and services etc

family expands, needs grow and number increases, with income not more than 150k it will be difficult to cater and save. before a man will plan to marry he should at least have #5m.

Oliviaarims:
I don't get it. You want the kind of savings that can sufficiently cater for a family for plenty years before you get married? Maka why?
It's not as though you'll get married and start sitting at home. Both of you would definitely continue to make sure things get better.

yeah savings, a job with stable income or an investment with good yield, either of the mentioned would do. depending on your occupation.

lol, you make it sound like it is a team work, a wife choose to support while a man has to support. from many homes I have come to realise that when a woman is rich her mother,father and siblings come first then her family if the husband couldn't provide at that time while for a man his wife and children first before anyone. I stand to be corrected thou no prose.

Oliviaarims:
So, you plan and budget wisely.

affirmative. rationalize and make decision on the best alternative that you will derive maximum satisfaction.

I am a practical individual, if my income can't cater for more than one person I won't marry, I will not want to inconvenient myself or sacrifice my well being. until it can provide food for more than 2 people and sustain them for many years which means I need to have millions (minimum of 5m). getting money for marriage isn't a problem, most people outsource from family and friends, after the wedding that's when the journey begins.............

Oliviaarims:
You're missing the point. If a man decides that he cannot get married because he doesn't have enough to cater for his family, it becomes ironic when he spends much more than that on prostitutes and other frivolities. And of course, that's as good as "wasting."

I just explained to the op, to economist like myself it is not a "waste" but positive spending base on benefit. I get his message and aver on the "waste" part of it to economist.

your approach and his is normative in nature and that's not the only theory in resource disbursement. let me give you a practical example; fuel subsidy that's a normative approach because it is what an average man will want for the masses to afford the pms as well as increase their purchasing power. while removal of it is positive, we analyze and decide base on boon we can derive from it.

I'm afraid I'll have to demean your remark on spending much more on prostitutes and frivolities. both of us know catering for a family which is most likely to expand with time is more expensive, there is possibility of increase in expenditure.

I disagree, first of all the value of money has depreciated due to inflation, what 500,000k could do last year you will be need 1.5m-2m to do it now.

you'll need to be Financially buoyant, swim in millions to at least Carter for yourself and your family for the next 10years no matter the change in government policy and global economy, unless of course your fiancée is ready to support in resource generation,management and solvency.


"It is also an irony that these same guys who said they are hustling and don't want to get distracted by a woman will still spend so much money on drinks and prostitutes. If you're the kind of guy that claims women are distractions but you waste your money on the same women randomly and on drinks then you're your own problem"

funny post, naijaboiy please modern economist(myself) will bash you for this, because I don't spend on what you believe is right doesn't mean I'm wasting my resources(money). we have two major spenders the normative spenders like yourself according to your funny post and me the positive/scientific spender. if I spend on drinks and prostitutes I am being practical because of the benefit i'll derive from them which may go against your norm. and that doesn't mean it is a waste.

LWKM hahahhaha

Mimidiva:
incredible

problem?

mrcork unlce

see mark top gan like say na him be the naija rich man house boy.

dunderhead he is and a nipper. what girl will say yeah when she sees and knows her boyfriend isn't ready and won't want to coddle "her market"

they are always open for business and welcome newest bidders. As long as she is advantageous when I need her, I don't need her to be faithful.

ok

what's with the picture?

is this a national problem? although thousands of wankers will be affected.

wow! eminent transformation.

sexxkillz I gat one for you (your colour), you guys will be perfect together.