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sage111:
Hmmmm.....

No problem being happy but he is being OVER happy like he is being vindictive

Bestinstinct:
Stories like this just dey increase person trust issues. Bro. As much as I hate judging from one angle, I just have to conclude that the woman is not just a cheat but a dangerous one. Yoir cousin is just risking his life getting involved with her. I can boldly tell you she's this 'I must be successful' kind of person, believe's so much in 'I can do without you', she's super secretive and she never agrees to misdeed, even if she does, it's going to be aggressively. Please tell me I'm wrong....

victorian:
In some marriages, na only one dey cheat, while the other turns a blind eye. While in some both cheats but later forgive themselves and make amends.
So in your cousin scenario, he's having a taste of ladies he has bleeped and dumped in his university days. Karma has decided to rear its ugly head on your cousin, smiles.

If he like let him be, Mr faithful and Mr responsible in marriage, karma will still knock on his door. Except he's lucky to marry a virtuous woman.

victorian:
Yes even cheating


Couples who want their marriage to work, forgive each other.

Celebs whose marriages are still standing firm, simple forgave each other in cheating. Cause they want it to work
Do u think Omotola is faithful to her husband? But they are still together. The husband sef is doing his own, far away abroad. But chose to stay together for the kids and for glam.

Rmd and jumobi, u think they were both faithful to each other abi? Their own almost break them up but they realised they need each other, more than ever.

Ben Bruce and his wife. You think Ben is so faithful abi? He's doing his own codedly and the wife simply turned blind eyes to it.

I'm not supporting cheating but at the end. Some couples do forgive each other, if they are remorseful about it and promise to change? Marriage continues

While some nah Divorce straight or stabbing the partner. While some will kill the cheating partner and all their children with himself or herself join and burn house on top.

That's complete massacre.

Na WA o.

Emaprince:
service? Haha haha... I know what you talking. In my NYSC days in camp especially, married women hid all their rings and did their thing Like the single ones did. They came to have fun.. And none of them wants to be left out. They wanted the attention and the sex fun.

cyntigirl:
I don't get.. She aborted because she knew that d baby would have some defects due to d X-ray she underwent or it was d X-ray that showed her d baby would have some defects?

nijabazaar:
She could have been scared by the xray reports and made the decision impromptu.

The husband might be a staunch Catholic whom he knew will oppose abortion no matter the consequences... In this case, xray deformity. So she went straight ahead. Afterall, she would be the one to bear most (yes, people will definitely heap the most blame on her) of the psychological trauma of giving birth to a seriously deformed child

VULCAN:
You sound very naive.

If Not, you would have read BTW the lines.

The pregnancy belonged to someone else.

I can bet on it.

And for her to go and abort with her landlady shows that the real father may not be around or he may be a married man. Or perhaps he is a student she met after she regained the admission she was persuing.

victorian:
Me too


A friend gave birth to a child with defects they are going through hell as we speak. And the child is really an imbecileee.. I pity them. I told them, why didn't they abort? Why keep such child. They said its a sin to abort.
I say na WA o

Nothing wrong in aborting an slowpoke. They are better off ,not existing sef.

Hmm but op, your friend marriage na wa.


Am short of advice about it.
Cause people like your friend will still reconcile with his wife. And accept her back.. So I have no advice jare.

Oyindidi:
Op is the husband

nijabazaar:
See, having a baby with defects x a real pain in the ass...its even better to remain childless than havr an xray deformed baby

OgahBohz:
wait if she wants to confess make she confess full time na ..
abi ewo ni radarada gaan sef ..

I blame her mumu pastor ..

SOFTDRINK:
It's very simple.


That woman has been sleeping around and eventually got pregnant,she decided to hide it by aborting it.


No woman will abort her husband's child without telling him even if they are quarreling or not.



That biitch should be sent packing.

ednut1:
d aborted child i meant. Why ur bro self go marry pikin

Houseofglam7:
There's more to this story

chloride6:
Simple...

Impregnate her best friend and then abort it

sage111:
I'm not in anyway absorbing her off any misdeed but that doesnt change my aspersion about You being happy

derrydinny:
the man is a bastard if he accepts the woman back


it is obvious that she played away match and she got pregnant so she aborted it, ogun go kill that man if he accept am o

sage111:
Why do I feel like You are happy she is GONE

virgoquin:
Sometimes sef it's just best to let the sleeping dog lie.

In as much she has acknowledged her misdeeds pls your cousin should forgive her.

tejiri4:
why did she decided to leave n drop d baby? throw more light

ValCon888:
Its really horrible for her to carry out such an act without her husband's knowledge.

But the totality of the act is not enough for the marriage to crash - if he still loves her. After all, they can always have another kid.

But if he does not love her or want the marriage again, the act is serious enough for him to use as an excuse to start seeing other women.

If a man does not want you, even putting excess salt in his soup is enough reason for him to collapse the marriage .

Timil:
So she aborted a pregnancy because of birth defects when some people who have been without child for years are even praying to God that even if its an slowpoke they should just give birth to one.

Her second reason is a flimsy excuse to abort a pregnancy it doesn't sound reasonable at all, why would any woman abort a pregnancy because she and her husband aren't on good terms.

No matter the kind of quarrel between them being pregnant alone is enough to end it we are talking of a child here.

From my own view the only reason why a woman would get pregnant and still go ahead to the abort it without informing her hubby, who she already has the vow of "Always and Forever" with is due to the fact that she was having an extra marital affair during the time she and her hubby were feuding and in the process she got the pregnant for another man.

So to save her marriage from crashing as well as save herself from disgrace the best option for her was to abort it, I may be wrong I may be right but there's a a greater possibility that your cousin doesn't own the aborted pregnancy.

NarnieSnyper:
From the write up, I think her FWB idea is quite manipulative because she'll end up gaining from both end; She gets the money and also good sex whenever she's hot.....and you just get the sex (which I predict will be just doggy and missionary, which in the end, you'd be the one who'll burn energy).

Oga, try to revisit the contract and explain it better to her that both of you should benefit both ways but no strings attached.

thesicilian:
Use your brain bro, otherwise you'll never make that kind of money you're talking about. Will you "pour" your hard earned money on the ground like this?

funmisticqueen:
No she isnt, and he slept with her for free. that is the only thing that made the girl mess up.