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 Health › Re: Why Some Nigerian Women Die At Child Birth by Familyfirst: 9:52pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d:In developed countries it is zero % women that died in Labor,we need to do something about this in Nigeria. I read series of Family issues like this on www.familyparliament.com |
| Family › Re: Man Lives With Corpses Of Wife And Children for seven years by Familyfirst: 9:01pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
tyokunbo:MOD Story like this deserve front page. |
| Family › Re: Man Lives With Corpses Of Wife And Children for seven years by Familyfirst: 9:00pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
tyokunbo:this is a mystery,how did he knows how to preserve the body from decomposing,there is lots to be known about this. I have read FUNNY STORIES like this on www.familyparliament.com |
| Webmasters › Re: Suggest Quality Backlinks For Website Owner by Familyfirst: 2:26pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
loverprince:Join a forum like www.familyparliament.com as a member,you can post regularly on it with your URL,posting something good guarantee you front page and back link. Also comment regularly on the site. |
| Properties › Re: Businesses And Houses Underwater In Lekki by Familyfirst: 9:19am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Thank God for site like http://familyparliament.com/Thread/businesses-houses-underwater-lekki/ that provide such information |
| Family › Woman Gave Birth To Triplet After 17 Years Of Waiting by Familyfirst(op): 7:44pm On May 24, 2016 |
Woman gave Birth to Triplet After 17 Years of Waiting https://i0.wp.com/bisiadewale.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/agboola-2.jpg?w=489 agboola It Is the Breakthrough for Singles and Married, May Edition will include our annual couples’ programe This Sunday 29 May, 2016. This Will Be A Special And Once In a Lifetime Opportunity For Every And Anyone Trusting God For The Fruit Of The Womb As We Will Be Having Pastor (Mrs) Agboola – The Latest Mother Of Triplet In Town Live At The Venue Of The Summit. You Can Not Afford To Miss This Opportunity To Connect To The Lord That Answered Her After Over 17 years Of Marriage. Just Like Hannah, She Has Been Going To Shiloh For Years; But SUDDENLY The Lord Showed Up And Answered Her Once And For All. It Is Your Turn To Testify. https://i2.wp.com/bisiadewale.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Mummy-Agboola.jpg?resize=300%2C200 Mummy Agboola http://bisiadewale.com/woman-gave-birth-to-triplet-after-17-years-of-waiting/
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| Romance › Purpose Of Sex In Marriage by Familyfirst(op): 4:06pm On May 10, 2016 |
Purpose of sex in marriage-“Sex is beautiful, delightful, and necessary. God made it so.It is an expression of oneness, a total commitment, a complete self-giving, a sacred obligation. Sex is not a right to claim selfishly, not a Cavour to withhold childishly, not a weapon to dominate one another, not a reward for good behavior” — Dr J Allan Petersen To maximize sex in your marriage, you need to know its purpose and the reasons the Lord put it in your marriage. If you don’t know purpose of a thing, abuse is inevitable. They are: 1: PURITY: ‘’ Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband’’. (1 Corinthians 7:2, 3 KJV). You need to know that one of the major purpose of sex in marriage is purity, so to make your wife and you remain pure before God, get the best of sex from each other. 2: PRESERVATION OF YOUR MARRIAGE: When purity is secured, marriage will be preserved, so one of the purpose of sex in your marriage is preservation of your marriage please don’t take it lightly. 3: PLEASURE: Sex is also the gift of pleasure from God for married people so it will be wrong to say you will only do it when you need a baby, no, it is for pleasure, for satisfaction and fulfillment, get it at home, and don’t look outside for it. ‘’Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?” (Proverbs 5:19, 20 KJV). Get all the pleasure you need from your wife; don’t go to any other woman for it, let the breast of your wife be your delight not the breast of any other lady .Whatever your wife has is the best, get pleasure at home, that is a safe and secure pleasure. 4: PASSION: It is also for sexual love called passion, which helps to strengthen marriage and make the home stronger and better. This is what makes marriage different from any other human relationships. ‘’A fountain of gardens, a well of living waters, and streams from Lebanon. Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits”. (Song of Solomon 4:15, 16 KJV) 5: PEACE: Good sex in marriage bring up passion, satisfaction, fulfillment and purity which all combine together to generate peace in marriage. One of the major causes of misunderstanding in marriage is sexual denials. When couple gets to the level of sexual satisfaction, they hardly fight and easily settle their differences. So, when you seek to give your wife sexual satisfaction in your marriage; you are only looking for peace. 6: PROCREATION: ‘’And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth’’. (Genesis 1:28 KJV) God want us to be fruitful and multiply and replenish the earth, the only way we can fulfill this is through matrimonial sex. 7: PARTNERSHIP: Good sex in marriage helps our partnership in marriage. It aid agreement, it is a communion, it leads to bonding and deep intimacy. It leads to togetherness, fondness and oneness at home. 8: PROTECTION: When sexual fulfillment is gotten at home, it leads to protection of couples from sexually transmitted diseases and bind them together, a sexless marriage will easily open the family to sexual immorality and many easily fall into error. I agree perfectly with a marriage counsellor that said ” A good sex at home is the best way to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases and untimely death” So, to protect yourself and your wife in that marriage and prevent error, satisfy your own wife sexually and get your sexual desire fulfillment only at home with your wife and not any other woman. 9: PROGRESS: When couple agree, walk in purity and in peace; which I said sexual fulfillment in marriage normally lead to, it do lead to progress and prosperity for that family, but when couple open the room for sexual temptation and open the door widely for infidelity, it will affect every other part of their life including their progress. So, when you sleep with your wife only, you are only calling for progress and prosperity in your home. Now that you have known the purpose of sex in your marriage, you need to go ahead and be the best at home, you will do well to be a generous giver to your wife and sleep with your wife only, seek to make her enjoy it not just for your pleasure only, this will make her to be receptive to you and turn your marriage around, get my book:[url]Sexual Fulfillment In Marriage[/url]. There, I opened your eyes to how to get the best sex in your marriage from your wife and preserve your life and the life of your wife and sanctity of your marriage. I will make you to know the right thing to do to become an irresistible Husband, if you put just 50% of things you are going to learn in this book into practice; I can assure you of extraordinary love from your wife and more readiness from her to sleep with you. http://bisiadewale.com/9075-2/ |
| Romance › 17 Rotten Reasons Guys Indulge In Pre-marital Sex by Familyfirst(op): 12:17pm On May 09, 2016 |
Bisi Adewale These are the reasons single men indulge in pre-marital sex: To feel good: Some guys go into sexual immorality just to feel good and enjoy themselves. Pre-marital sex is not a way to feel good as it will give you regret, shame, sexually transmitted diseases and may be untimely death. To have a story to tell: Most guys discuss their sexual experiences when they gather. During the discussions, there is a tendency to develop an inferiority complex when they begin to tell you how many girls they slept with and what method they used. This can incite the crave to have sex so that you can also have a story to tell. Most of those men who claim to have been involved with one or more ladies are a bunch of liars. Please do not listen to them. Remain pure and in the Lord. To get a pay-back: Some guys demand sex from ladies who needs their help because they feel that is the best way to be paid back. This is very wrong, sex is not the currency of love; do not expect to be paid back through sex. Everybody is doing it: Because of the way guys talk when they gather, innocent young boys will think everybody is involved in pre-marital sex and be left out if they don’t do it. This is not true. Not everybody is fornicating! It is only immoral and the indiscipline boys that are involved in this act. I want to know whether she is good in bed: Any man who has this belief before marriage is exercising foolishness in the highest order. Sexual ability is not what determines the success of a marriage. A lady that is good in bed may not be a good wife. Do not use this as the basis of your marital decision. Sexual Compatibility: This is wrong; there is nothing called sexual compatibility before marriage. The truth is; you may think a woman is sexually compatible with you before marriage only to discover that you are very different after the wedding. When she becomes pregnant, she will change. When she is breastfeeding, she will also change. Marriage is all about acceptance and contentment not about compatibility. Wait for God’s time, do not destroy yourself. We will get married soon: Intention to get married is not marriage. For the mere fact that you want to get married does not mean that you are married; wait for your time. To seal our love: Sex is not the seal of love, it may even steal love, hence, do not indulge in it. If you truly love that lady, you will wait till your wedding night because true love waits. To demonstrate my love to her: Sex is not the best way to demonstrate love, it is the wrong way. If you want to demonstrate your love to that lady, zip up till your wedding night. Help her to keep her testimony and do not destroy her glory. Helping her to maintain her integrity is true love. I want to know what it feels like to have sex (curiosity): it is natural desire to wish you could have a feel of sex even before marriage. However, you must wait till you get your ‘sex license’ which is your wedding certificate before you do it. Do not destroy your precious life because of few seconds of enjoyment. Wait for your time. To conquer another girl: Guys boast about the number of girls they have slept with. Hence, they sleep around just to increase the number. This is high level of foolishness. Just for the fun of it: Many young men involved in pre-marital sex do not realize that sex is much more than fun. It entails the sharing of your body, soul and spirit with a consequence far greater than you can ever imagine. To become experienced before wedding: Every sexual experience before your wedding will negatively impact your marriage. You can only get false experience from pre-marital sex. To get the girl pregnant before wedding lest she is barren: Marriage is not just about making babies. If you go against the law of God because of a child, you will end up grooming a child of disobedience. To avoid loneliness: Get yourself busy working for the Lord. Sex and disobedient cannot eradicate loneliness. All you need is the presence of God, which sexual sins will take away from you. To practice what they watch on television, internet, read in books and magazines: If you expose yourself to wrong information, you will end up deformed. Stop feeding your soul with junks and live for God. I can’t help myself; I just have to do it: You can help yourself except you are an animal. Sexual emotions cannot just control you except you unduly stir it. If you don’t satisfy it, it will go. Nobody put a gun to your head to do it, hence; don’t be stupid, you can help it. It takes just a godly decision and discipline to stay out of it. http://bisiadewale.com/17-rotten-reasons-guys-indulge-pre-marital-sex/ |
| Family › Married Or Not, You Should Read This by Familyfirst(op): 2:43pm On Mar 03, 2016 |
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband…. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late. If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up http://www.familyparliament.com/7833/married-or-not-you-should-read-this |
| Christianity Etc › Case Closed (you Must Read This Interesting Story) by Familyfirst(op): 10:33am On Mar 03, 2016 |
HOLY DAY SET BY FLORIDA COURT-This is great!! A Florida Court Sets Atheist Holy Day! Gotta love this Judge! A proper decision by the courts for a change. In Florida , an atheist created a case against Easter and Passover Holy days. He hired an attorney to bring a discrimination case against Christians and Jews and observances of their holy days. The argument was that it was unfair that atheists had no such recognized days. The case was brought before a judge. After listening to the passionate presentation by the lawyer, the judge banged his gavel declaring, "Case dismissed!" The lawyer immediately stood and objecting to the ruling saying, "Your honor, How can you possibly dismiss this case? The Christians have Christmas, Easter and others. The Jews have Passover, Yom Kippur and Hanukkah, yet my client and all other atheists have no such holidays..." The judge leaned forward in his chair saying, "But you do. Your client, counselor, is woefully ignorant." The lawyer said," Your Honor, we are unaware of any special observance or holiday for atheists." The judge said, "The calendar says April 1st is April Fool's Day. Psalm 14:1 states, 'The f00l says in his heart, there is no God.' Thus, it is the opinion of this court, that, if your client says there is no God, then he is a fool. Therefore, April 1st is his day. Court is adjourned..." You gotta love a Judge that knows his scripture! This is too good not to forward! http:///9KiJ0O |
| Romance › Re: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by Familyfirst: 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
211Observer:I will strongly advise you Get a copy of this book STRONGER THAN DIAMOND BY BISI ADEWALE it help my friend overcome mastubation after more than 10 years of addiction,it will help you. You can get it on Konga.com or call this number,I got it on the book 08056457013. I pray to God to deliver you from something that keep you busy and take you no where. |
| Family › Reasons Men Give For Beating Their Wives by Familyfirst(op): 12:00pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
You can’t be a great husband if you are fond of beating your wife. Treating her as a punching bag can only make her see you as a monster. You can’t call yourself a gentle man if you keep beating and kicking her. You have no reason to beat your wife and you shouldn’t do so under any condition. Reasons include: - “I beat my wife because she provokes me.” - “She is stubborn.” - “She dared me to beat her.” - “She abused my mother.” - “I have to remind her that I am the head.” - “She is foolish; I need to beat sense into her.” - “She is disobedient.” - “She shouted at me.” - “She refused to submit.” These and many more are the lame excuses men give for beating their wives. The truth is, ONLY A BEAST WILL BEAT HIS WIFE. http://www.familyparliament.com/4558/reasons-men-give-for-beating-their-wives |
| Family › Re: Certified Marriage Counsellors In Lagos Nigeria by Familyfirst: 8:23am On Nov 03, 2015 |
Tyra101101:get in touch with bisi Adewale here 08056457013,twitter@bisiadewale, www.familyparliament.com,I believe he should be able to help,he also have more than forty books that will bless your marriage |
| Romance › Don’t Ever Marry This Kind Of Person - BROTHER/SISTER “N.F.A” by Familyfirst(op): 3:10pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
“Where there is no vision, the people perish; but he that keepeth the law, happy is he” Proverbs. 29:18 N.F.A means NO FUTURE AMBITION. That is why the abbreviation is used to refer to people without visions, goal or ambitions. A goalless and visionless life is a straight road to poverty and lack of fulfillment in life. That is why Proverb 29:18 says where there is no vision, the people perish. In fact, living without a goal is tantamount to living like an animal. A goalless life is a godless life. People of goals are the people of God. Anyone without a plan for tomorrow is as hopeless as the dead body deposited in the mortuary, just waiting for the undertakers to take it to the graveyard. If you must marry, never marry a person without vision. Never marry a person that behaves as if tomorrow does not exist. They say, they “take life as it comes”. They have forgotten that if people that lived before them had taken life as it came without changing anything in it, the world would still have been in the Stone Age. Brother or sister “No Future Ambition” is not the best marriage partner for an ambitious person. Never marry such. Going out with a person without vision is like traveling in a car with the windscreen covered. You know what will happen? A motor accident is even better than a life and destiny accident that will happen if you marry a brother or sister N.F.A. God saw how busy Adam was before he gave him a wife. Adam was a farmer; “a reaper” That is why God gave him a helper. You must have a vision to qualify for a partner. Never marry somebody without a vision. A GOALLESS LIFE IS A GODLESS LIFE. WISDOM TIP IF YOU LIVE WITHOUT A GOAL, YOU WILL LIVE LIKE A GOAT http://www.familyparliament.com/3730/don-t-ever-marry-this-kind-of-person-brother-sister-n-f-a |
| Family › A Must Read For Everyone That Want To Avoid Dangerous Lovers by Familyfirst(op): 9:52am On Oct 22, 2015 |
Got this from a friend I am in between two disturbing situations. I am a young lady who has been living her life quietly before I met a guy who came from abroad on a holiday but he is my Mum’s friend’s son. We got talking; he visited me severally when I was in UK all the way from US. Along the line something happened, we just got fond of ourselves and before long we started planning wedding. To cut the long story short we got married and he stayed for 1 week before traveling back with the hope that I will join him soon. When he got back abroad he called once and after that stopped calling. Whenever I called, he will not pick but on this day I called and a lady picked who told me she was his wife and I later got to know that he had another lady too he impregnated. So he currently has two women with kids though married to one. My mother informed his Mum who claimed she never knew anything about those ladies but made a statement that “that was how his father started carrying young ladies too at his old age.” Immediately she made that statement, I just remembered what he did before travelling. When he was leaving, he packed my wedding gown, the certificate and every other thing that could be a sign that he married me and when I asked why he said just to reduce my load when I am coming. Presently, I stay alone and I’m shattered. Pls what can she do? Please your sincere and urgent advice needed. Also join us to learn how not to be a victim of such and also dine with Pastor Bisi Adewale at Breakthrough For Singles And Married Summit Tagged: HOW TO AVOID DANGEROUS LOVERS. Are you single and in a relationship but you are not sure if the person you are with is right for you due to some things you are seeing? Then, here is an opportunity to know what to look out for in a real Lover . Are you married and want to turn your spouse to a True Lover? Come and learn how to go about it. Join us this Sunday 25th @ Eden Comfort place, Alade Avenue, Awolowo Road, Ikeja, Lagos. Time: 2:00pm Theme: HOW TO AVOID DANGEROUS LOVERS Ministering: Pastor Bisi & Yomi Adewale Info: 08051512823, BB Channel: C0039CD28 Twitter@parliamentforum & @bisiadewale
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| Romance › 9 Wrong Way Couples Quarrel In Marriage by Familyfirst(op): 10:41am On Oct 20, 2015 |
For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men? (1 Corinthians 3:3 KJV) It is interesting to know how couples quarrel. Some educated ones behave like illiterates while many others act like babies when they quarrel. a. ‘Pity Party’ quarreling. Couples in this category prefer to lament, nag and pity themselves. They become sad and depressed whenever there is a quarrel at home. b. Snail quarreling style. If you touch a moving snail, it quickly withdraws into its shell. These couples also prefer to withdraw into their ‘shell’, become moody, unnecessarily quiet and unconcerned. Some men will move into another room and close the door. Some can even leave the house without anybody knowing their whereabouts. c. Bulldozer quarrelling style. Those in this group fight aggressively. They quarrel like mad dogs, fight like garage boys or market women. Argument to them means a battle. They use everything at their disposal to fight. They are ready to fight their spouses at home and, even move to the church or office to continue with the fight. They destroy anything on their way as they fight. They reveal the secrets of their spouses, abuse their in-laws, and destroy TV sets, cars, house utensils and electronic gadgets. They see real battle as a way to peace. Their slogan is “I hate cheating; you cannot cheat me”. They are known as trouble-makers. d. Reporters quarrelling style. People in this category go to anybody that cares to listen to report their spouses. They report to their children, parents, in-laws, neighbours, friends and anybody that cares to listen. e. Suffering and smiling style. Those in this group are ready to do anything to look for peace except communication and counseling. They easily compromise with their partner to give peace a chance. Even if they are not happy they pretend everything is alright. They will never tell anybody their problem but will rather prefer to live in sadness and depression. Sometimes their spouses may even think they are in good term. f. Avoidance style. They either avoid the issue or turn it to an ‘’untouchable’’, or avoid each other like plagues, thereby finding solace in their children, work, friends or strange women. g. Ambush quarrelling style. Couples in this group are fond of vengeance. They pretend all is well and each waits for his own opportunity to hit back. The wife may wait until the husband asks for s*x to ‘’deal with him’’ while the husband waits till the time his wife will ask for money. h. Diabolical quarrelling style. Some go as far as using diabolical means to fight their spouses. i. Round table quarrelling style. People in this group engage positive communication means. They talk heart to heart. They disagree, argue or even quarrel without abuses, manipulation or beating. They speak their minds and listen to their spouses without interrupting with a view to finding an amicable solution. http://www.familyparliament.com/3615/9-wrong-way-couples-quarrel-in-marriage 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: "Nigeria Finally Plays Into The Grand Strategy Of Biafrans" - Vanguard by Familyfirst: 9:24am On Oct 19, 2015 |
cybertyrant:he will pay for his sins,when next you see him you will pity him. Pirate radio is a crime,calling for violence is totally wrong no matter who you are,all the rogue will soon be arrested when they deal with him and he begin to sing like parrot. 1 Like |
| Webmasters › Re: How Do I Report Family Parliament For Copyright Abuse by Familyfirst: 11:46pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
buchibrand:.[/quote]posting on family parliament is from different people just like Naira land,see the caveat under the site,your contention holds no water,it is an open forum |
| Politics › Re: Suggest A Portfolio For Babatunde Fashola As A Minister... by Familyfirst: 1:39pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
showboy81:. Still thinking,will get back to you after contacting Tinubu,sharaki,Diezini,alamsiya and Buruj |
| Politics › Re: Suggest A Portfolio For Babatunde Fashola As A Minister... by Familyfirst: 1:35pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
showboy81:I repeat again minister of justice and AGF |
| Politics › Re: Suggest A Portfolio For Babatunde Fashola As A Minister... by Familyfirst: 1:05pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
showboy81:he is a fine Lawyer,he should be Minister of justice. |
| Christianity Etc › Are You Single & You Want To Enjoy A Blissful Marriage? by Familyfirst(op): 6:13pm On Sep 18, 2015*. Modified: 11:44pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Are You Single Still Searching Or In A Relationship And Want Your Relationship To Lead To An Excellent marriage? It takes a lot to make that work out well as you are planning it to be and one of what it takes is using the right pillars to build after laying a good foundation. If the pillar is wrongly laid, be sure the house will soon collapse. Though a lot of people; singles and married alike believe LOVE is all it takes for any marry to be successful; LOVE is just one pillar out of many and even what a lot of people call LOVE is PURE LUST. That four letter word is an acronym on its own ; L- LISTEN O: ONENESS V: VALUE EACH OTHER E: EMBRACE & ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER. Are you seriously in need of the wisdom needed to have a solid marriage that all your mates will envy? Do you wish to put an end to all these incessant break-ups? Then…. BE OUR GUEST @ LAGOS SINGLES & MARRIED CONFERENCE to learn more FREE registration @ http://www.totalfamilylife.com/lsc/ Date: 27th of September 2015. Time: 2;00pm Theme: pillars of marriage Ministering: Pastor Bisi & Yomi Adewale Song Ministration: Benita, Aperire, Proverbs 360, Living voices Featuring: - Book Bonanza, Fire Prayers, Dynamic Teaching, Free recharge Cards, etc VENUE: NATIONAL STADIUM (N.I.S), Gymnasium Hall, Surulere, Lagos. Info: 08051512823, BB Channel: C0039CD28 Twitter@parliamentforum It's Never Too Late To Enjoy A Happily Ever After Please Don't Miss It.
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| Family › 72 Reasons To Pray For Your Children by Familyfirst(op): 12:19pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Every child needs two 'labour rooms' for his life to be what God created it to be. The first labour room is biological in the hospital ward. The second labour room is spiritual in your prayer room. We must travail so that our children can prevail in life. Apostle Paul said: My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you (Galatians 4:19 KJV). Our prayer must be consistent, continuous and it is a life time project of every parent. There are many reasons to pray for your children. Some of them will be mentioned here: 1) It is your duty 2) To cover their destiny 3) To avoid sorrow at old age 4) To protect them from evil harvester 5) To defend them from enemies of their souls 6) To empower them 7) To protect them from destiny wasters  To protect them from spirit of errors9) To partner with them as they navigate life 10) To involve God in their journey in life 11) To give them blood cover 12) To secure rest for yourself at old age 13) To make things easy for them in life 14) To make their journey smooth in life 15) To nurture them spiritually 16) To turn the army of the alien away from them 17) To set angels of God in motion for them 18) To protect them from the battles that you fought and battles that fought you 19) To strengthen their feeble hands 20) To deliver them from curse 21) To set force of blessing lose for them 22) To make life easy for them 23) To protect them from untimely death 24) To make their life smooth 25) To show that you are a wise parent 27) To crown their lives with blessing and make their ways drop fatness 28) To shield them from destruction 29) To protect them from spirit of Belial 30) To secure the help of God in parenting 31) To secure joyful marital life for your children 32) To shield them from all arrows of the enemy 33) To make their light shine brighter than their equal 34) To release the spirit of wisdom on them 34) To make them fulfil purpose 35) To make them arrow in the hands of the mighty 36) To give them spirit of accuracy in life 37) To give them long life and prosperity 38) To shield them from sickness 39) To paralyze all demons set against them 40) To destroy every weapon formed against them 41) To condemn every mouth that rises against them in judgment 42) To shoot arrows of righteousness into their hearts 43) To pray the spirit of excellence into them 44) To strengthen them in the battles of life 45) To make lines to fall unto them in pleasant places 46) To pray the fear of God into them 47) To settle them in life 48) To place them in the hands of their maker 49) To empower them for prosperity and wealth 50) To empower them for victory over their enemies 51) To give Holy Spirit the resident permit in their heart and lives 52) To empower them to make heaven 53) To make them children without blemish (Daniel 1:4) 54) To deliver them from every bondage 55) To prevent the rod of the wicked from falling on them 56) To prophesy into their lives 57) To get help for them in time of needs 58) To deliver them from marks of destruction 59) To connect them with divine friends 60) To connect them with divine wives and husbands 61) To hide them in the secrets place of the most high 62) To protect them from unholy addictions 63) To make them to be addicted to righteous things 64) To turn your boys to men 65) To turn your girls to virtuous women 66) To protect them from every wrong spirits 67) To prevent parenting tragedy 68) To shine lights on their paths 69) To protect them from end time spirits, characters and vices 70) To send angels of God ahead of them when we cannot go with them 71) To create unquenchable fire of the Lord in them 72) To make them exceptional children of the most high God. You see ,it is your responsibility to pray for your children. You cannot run away from it. You cannot afford to fail. You just have to do it. If you want to live your old age in rest and peace, pray for your children NOW. Go ahead; pray for them. Jacob blessed Joseph. Isaac prayed for Jacob. It is a divine assignment; pray for your children. http://www.familyparliament.com/1153/72-reasons-to-pray-for-your-children |
| Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Richer Than Bill Gates - Pastor Adeboye by Familyfirst: 9:34am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Freegift75:spiritual riches is the true riches,Pastor ADEBOYE is an embodiment of integrity and credibility. Yes you are richer that Bill gates of this world,we believe in you,People may say whatever they want to say www.familyparliament.com 4 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Miriam Kene-Kachikwu, Wife Of NNPC Boss, Ibe Kachikwu (photo) by Familyfirst: 12:22pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
lalasticlala:Lovely,you can predict how far a man can go in life and fast that will by the kind of woman he chooses to go with him. Choose wisely,I encourage you to make www.familyparliament.com a site you will visit everyday if you want to enjoy your marriage. |
| Romance › Re: She Masturbate A Lot And Its Worrisome by Familyfirst: 11:22am On Aug 05, 2015 |
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| Romance › Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Familyfirst: 11:16am On Aug 05, 2015 |
emusmith:right on point,they need to visit www.familyparliament.com to learn how to live better life. |
| Politics › Re: Lady Spotted VP Yemi Osinbajo At An Eatery And This Happened... by Familyfirst: 3:47pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
FlirtyKaren:this iss the change we pray for www.familyparliament.com |
| Family › Funny Thigs Children Do 2: See Our National Anthem by Familyfirst(op): 4:02pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Singing meaningless song with all dedication Nigeria National Anthem(Children version) Arise o pantor Nigeria cull obe To seve our pada ha With come and sent and mice The navor or our Huron pass Shall never be again Tu aha aha and ha One lation bind and fetom Piece and uni ease. National anthem of which nation is massacre like this? Please add funny things you see or hear children do. http://www.familyparliament.com/848/funny-things-children-do-2
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