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 Family › Ladies STOP Choosing Men Base On The Place They Are Working by Familyfirst(op): 1:32pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Bisi Adewale. A whole lot of Ladies do choose who to marry base on the place the guy is working, if you try to talk a lady and you are working in a Nursery and Primary school you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, that a guy work in a nice place does not mean he is the best for you, LIFE IS MORE THAN BREAD AND BUTTER. You need to be careful; MATERIAL THINGS MAY BE IMMATERIAL ON THE LONG RUN. NOTE THIS!!!!!!! He may be working in a BANK, but can you BANK on him He may be working in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK and may not GUARANTEE your peace in future. He may be working in GLO and give you many BLOWS in future. He may be work in FIRST BANK and make you LAST in his life. He may be working in SHELL Petroleum and puts your destiny in a SHELL. He may be working in FIDELITY BANK and be full of INFIDELITY He may be working in KEYSTONE and take the KEY of the home and STONE you. He may be working in NESTLE and not allow your life to SETTLE. He may work in CADBURY and CANDIDLY BURY your future. May be working in ACCESS BANK and you cannot have ACCESS into his heart......read more from....http://www.familyparliament.com/217/ladies-stop-choosing-men-base-on-the-place-they-are-working |
| Romance › Ladies STOP Choosing Men Base On The Place They Are Working by Familyfirst(op): 1:16pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Bisi Adewale. A whole lots of Ladies do choose who to marry base on the place the guy is working,if you try to talk a lady and you are working in a Nursery and Primary school you will hear the story of your life. Ladies,that a guy work in a nice place does not mean he is the best for you,LIFE IS MORE THAN BREAD AND BUTTER. You need to be careful,MATERIAL THINGS MAY BE IMMATERIAL ON THE LONG RUN. NOTE THIS!!!!!!! He may be Working in a BANK,but Can you BANK on him He may be working in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK and may not GUARANTEE your peace in future. He may be working in GLO and give you many BLOWS in future. He may be work in FIRST BANK and make you LAST in his life. He may be working in SHELL Petroleum and puts your destiny in a SHELL. He may be working in FIDELITY BANK and be full of INFIDELITY He may be working in KEYSTONE and take the KEY of the home and STONE you. He may be working in NESTLE and not allow your life to SETTLE. He may work in CADBURY and CANDIDLY BURY your future. May be working in ACCESS BANK and you can not have ACCESS into his heart......read more from....http://www.familyparliament.com/217/ladies-stop-choosing-men-base-on-the-place-they-are-working |
| Family › Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For Her Pastor - Husband Tells Judge by Familyfirst: 12:24am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Islie:Bo This is very strange. www.familyparliament.com |
| Nairaland General › Re: Nigeria Top 10 Forums by Familyfirst: 3:06pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
fuke:www.familyparliament.com is my take as it teaches about relationship,marriage,family life and parenting |
| Family › Re: Moments Like This by Familyfirst: 2:30pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Lamispaco:Blood pressure will rise for many,. I was told a bride collapsed when a man suddenly got up at that moment,unknown to her the man was going to the toilet,what a day that was. That is why we must live right,if you live right you will fear no foe and your marriage will be the best. That is why I love to visit www.familyparliament.com |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Names New Service Chiefs by Familyfirst: 5:23pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
fretnot:This is nice,that is what many people even said on www.familyparliament.com |
| Phones › Re: JUMIA vs Konga: KONGA Will Always Be Smarter. by Familyfirst: 9:49pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
kendraloops:They credit your online account,they then inform you. If you need the money then you click on withdraw money inside your online account with them,then they credit your bank account within 1 to 5 days depending on the kind of bank you are using. www.familyparliament.com |
| Family › 31 Facts About Parenting by Familyfirst(op): 9:45pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
By Bisi Adewale. Parenting is a calling, we are all called to do it. Parenting is a journey, not a destination. It is a marathon, not a sprint parenting is a thankless job, but God will reward you. Parenting will expose your preparedness parenting determines the destiny of new generation parenting needs cooperation and unity between husband and wife. A child not well taught will bring shame. Parenting is not a competition parenting needs both love and logic every child is different training is the core area of parenting love is the most important investment in parenting communication is the most important skill for parenting time is the most important thing you can give to your parenting. In parenting you must be both teacher and student of your children. Parenting needs strong knee, you can’t do it alone, you must pray. Friendship is a foundation of good parenting, befriend your children. Provision is a very important aspect of parenting. Provide for your children. All hands must be on deck to raise a total child. Parenting cannot be delegated to school teachers, Sunday school teachers, nanny, house girls, grand ma. If you terrify your children when they are young, they will terrorize you when you are old. Parenting is a delegated assignment from god to you, you cannot afford to fail. When you don’t build a solid marriage, parenting becomes a difficult task. Parents are not always right, say am sorry to your children when you are wrong. Parenting is not labelled “for women only” men, get involve. There are different seasons of parenting, a 12 year old is different from a 13 year old, and they are in different seasons. Toys cannot replace your time with your children. No child is born a saint, keep eye on your children. Parental failure can lead to destiny tragedy. Children are not born again from the womb, lead them to Christ. http://www.familyparliament.com/104/31-facts-about-parenting 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Man Injures Wife, Whips Daughter With Barbed Wire In Lagos (Photos) by Familyfirst: 7:46pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Cwaya:A lots of men went into marriage without learning how to be a real man,good HUsband and great father. You must avoid this kind of mistake,ladies too should never go into marriage without adequate knowledge of what it means to be a great wife and virtuos woman. I think becoming a member of www.familyparliament.com forum will be a great help to all of us. 1 Like |
| Webmasters › Re: 6 Killing Blogging Myths [experttales] by Familyfirst: 7:31pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Frankicent:Blogging is good and wonderful. The impact nairaland,naij and www.familyparliament.com is making can not be over emphasize. |
| Politics › Re: We Were Paid N2,500 To Bomb Yola Barracks – Arrested Kids by Familyfirst: 12:56pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
kazmanbanjoko:This is parenting failure,I think all parents should visit www.familyparliament.com to learn about parenting and avoid raising children like this. |
| Family › Re: Check Out The Toys Some Parents Bought For Their Kids To Play With by Familyfirst: 12:18pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
PrettyAngel22:This is funny. Ithink these parents should visit www.familyparliament.com regularly to learn about parenting |
| Family › Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Familyfirst: 10:46pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
mysweetnina:You are playing with fire and it will burn you seriously,wake up now 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Advise Needed Please by Familyfirst: 6:41pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
abbyt:Discus with your friend first,look her straight in the house when discus eye ball to eye ball,she will be dodging your eyes to tell lies or end up saying the truth,you will be able to know the next thing to do after you know the truth. But your brother in law destiny must be protected,but becareful lest they make you a guinea pig saying you want to destroy their relationship. Visit: www.familyparliament.com for more help. |
| Family › Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Familyfirst: 6:33pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
avwerosuoo:You need to see a counsellor fast and I pray he follows you. I also advise you to visit: www.familyparliament.com for advise and contact of people that may help. |
| Phones › Re: JUMIA vs Konga: KONGA Will Always Be Smarter. by Familyfirst: 3:08pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
[quote author=Tolzeal post=34362188][/quote]Konga is by far better,if you want to sell on Konga you set up your store within minutes,they pay you promptly even if it one Naira,they reply your mail in a jiffy. But Jumai is too arrogant,my friends and I have been trying to sell on that platform for months,they treat you as if you are nobody,they won't reply your mail. I recommend all Nigeria entrepreneur to go on Konga to go and sell their products and leave arrogant and cocky jumia alone. I think somebody need to talk to them. 1 Like |
| Romance › 10 Hot Reasons To Attend Lagos Couples' Conference by Familyfirst(op): 10:43am On May 14, 2015 |
Hey Friends, are you planning to attend this year, LAGOS COUPLES CONFERENCE? You can t afford to miss it, the following are Ten hot reasons to attend this extraordinary Program: 1) Lagos couples conference will involve Intimate talking time(ITT) You ve not seen it before? Then don t miss Lagos couples conference. 2) Lagos couples conference will involve romance time, Waoh, you can t afford not to be part of this. 3) Lucky you, You will have time to "globally" dedicate your Children, Don t forget to come with their pictures 4) It will involve Couples dancing competition, you and your spouse can win the star prize, start practicing now and don t forget your dancing shoes at home. 5) The program involves Two-diet seminar you ve never seen before. 6) It will also involve QUEEN DRESSER; want to know what that means then join us at Lagos couples Conference. 7) Have you heard about SOUL GAZE before now? whoosh, you are missing, okay it will take place during LAGOS COUPLES CONFERENCE, don t miss it.  Praise-Connect will also take place, you will be glad you are part of it.9) MELTING POINT will also take place, I know this is strange to you, don t worry you will enjoy it when you come to Lagos Couples Conference. 10) There will also be TEXT-A- L session at LAGOS COUPLES CONFERENCE, huuuuuun, you want to know what that means, come along with your spouse you will enjoy it and start new HONEY MOON after. Woah, there are lots to gain in this year Lagos couples conference, it will be an unusual program, full of surprises, it will be romantically romantic, am expecting you there with your spouse, invite other couples and be a blessing to them. Date: 29th, May 2015, time 9am. Theme: Excellent Marriage. Venue: Tamarin hotel,158,Adekunle Fajuyi Way, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria. Ministering: bisi and Yomi Adewale. Visa: N4000, If you pay before 26th of May, N5000 After. Pay at: Zenith Bank, account name: Family booster ministry, Account Number: 1013626553 For info: Call 08051512823, 08068312004. Totalfamilylife.com BB PIN: 2AF5C883 Stay tune with me for more gist about LCC (Kindly like and repost this until it get to all married couples, you may be saving a family) # lagos couples’conference https://www.facebook.com/familybooster/media_set?set=a.10206660398890156.1073741902.1278605868&type=1&pnref=story
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| Politics › Re: Lagos PDP Sacks Chairman by Familyfirst: 10:10pm On May 11, 2015 |
Keneking:Nigeria we hail thee. |
| Romance › Re: Why You Should Not Have Boyfriend by Familyfirst: 10:55pm On May 08, 2015 |
Enegod:nice post,well done |
| Christianity Etc › Colours Of Marriage by Familyfirst(op): 3:26pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Bisi Adewale “Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes. Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song 1:15-17 We can use different colours to report different kind of marriages around us. Every marriage has colour that represents it. You need to learn about these colours then change the colour of your own marriage. 1. Black Marriage. This is the marriage of unbelievers, people who do not know the Lord, whose marriage is not based on Biblical principles but on worldly philosophy and human understanding. This marriage is always full of strife, demonstration of flesh and negative habits and character. “The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble”. Proverbs 4:19. 2. Yellow Marriage. This is a marriage at “drifting level”. It was once full of love, intimacy, acceptance, romance and joy. Due to carelessness or busyness of the couples involved, they begin to neglect each other, taking each other for granted, remove courtesy, honour and respect, spends less and less time together. No more playing time, no time to do those “sweet things” they use to do when they were in courtship and honey moon, they allow other things to be their focus instead of each other. At this stage of marriage, women are known to put all their attention on their children to the detriment of their marriage, leaving their marriage to grow “yellowish” and dry. Men at drifting love or yellow marriage put all their attention on their jobs and friends; having no time for the marriage and family. “Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent”. Rev 2:4-5 3. Orange Marriage. Marriage at this level has grown beyond “yellow level”, since nothing is done to arrest the situation. It grows deeper into “matrimonial dillusion”. At this stage, it is not just about “drifting” from each other, it is about “hurting” each other. The marriage now involve outburst of anger, hatred, bickering, fighting, peace today; fight tomorrow, hurting each other with words, etc. 4. Red Marriage (Proverbs 19:13-14). This is a bleeding marriage; it has gone beyond drifting and hurting to bleeding. The truth is, when marriage is not attended to at yellow level, it will grow orange before going to red, if the signal is still ignored. A red marriage is a terrible marriage. A marriage devoid of love, joy, care, affection, attention, communication and passion. It is full of total war, violence, all-out-battle, malice, cutting remarks, abusive words and murderous thoughts. A red marriage is a marriage at its worst. Some couples at this stage, seek for help in the right places, some in the wrong places, compounding their problems, some will not look for help from anybody, they will just remain like that fighting battles all their live while some will opt out of the marriage, ending up as divorcees. Proverbs 21:19 5. Pink Marriage. This is the kind of marriage where the woman is in charge; ruling and reigning over the husband. In this kind of marriage, competition, rivalry, power struggle and in-fighting is the order of the day; making life difficult for everybody. The order of God is for the husband to be the head of the home and the wife submit to him. 1 Cor. 11:3, 8-9. Marriage is always difficult when this divine order from God is not followed and respected. Read more from http://totalfamilylife.com/2015/04/colours-of-marriage/
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| Family › Colours Of Marriage by Familyfirst(op): 2:29pm On Apr 22, 2015*. Modified: 3:36pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Bisi Adewale “Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes. Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song 1:15-17 We can use different colours to report different kind of marriages around us. Every marriage has colour that represents it. You need to learn about these colours then change the colour of your own marriage. 1. Black Marriage. This is the marriage of unbelievers, people who do not know the Lord, whose marriage is not based on Biblical principles but on worldly philosophy and human understanding. This marriage is always full of strife, demonstration of flesh and negative habits and character. “The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble”. Proverbs 4:19. 2. Yellow Marriage. This is a marriage at “drifting level”. It was once full of love, intimacy, acceptance, romance and joy. Due to carelessness or busyness of the couples involved, they begin to neglect each other, taking each other for granted, remove courtesy, honour and respect, spends less and less time together. No more playing time, no time to do those “sweet things” they use to do when they were in courtship and honey moon, they allow other things to be their focus instead of each other. At this stage of marriage, women are known to put all their attention on their children to the detriment of their marriage, leaving their marriage to grow “yellowish” and dry. Men at drifting love or yellow marriage put all their attention on their jobs and friends; having no time for the marriage and family. “Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent”. Rev 2:4-5 3. Orange Marriage. Marriage at this level has grown beyond “yellow level”, since nothing is done to arrest the situation. It grows deeper into “matrimonial dillusion”. At this stage, it is not just about “drifting” from each other, it is about “hurting” each other. The marriage now involve outburst of anger, hatred, bickering, fighting, peace today; fight tomorrow, hurting each other with words, etc. 4. Red Marriage (Proverbs 19:13-14). This is a bleeding marriage; it has gone beyond drifting and hurting to bleeding. The truth is, when marriage is not attended to at yellow level, it will grow orange before going to red, if the signal is still ignored. A red marriage is a terrible marriage. A marriage devoid of love, joy, care, affection, attention, communication and passion. It is full of total war, violence, all-out-battle, malice, cutting remarks, abusive words and murderous thoughts. A red marriage is a marriage at its worst. Some couples at this stage, seek for help in the right places, some in the wrong places, compounding their problems, some will not look for help from anybody, they will just remain like that fighting battles all their live while some will opt out of the marriage, ending up as divorcees. Proverbs 21:19 5. Pink Marriage. This is the kind of marriage where the woman is in charge; ruling and reigning over the husband. In this kind of marriage, competition, rivalry, power struggle and in-fighting is the order of the day; making life difficult for everybody. The order of God is for the husband to be the head of the home and the wife submit to him. 1 Cor. 11:3, 8-9. Marriage is always difficult when this divine order from God is not followed and respected. Read more from http://totalfamilylife.com/2015/04/colours-of-marriage/
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| Nairaland General › Colours Of Marriage by Familyfirst(op): 2:11pm On Apr 22, 2015*. Modified: 3:37pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Bisi Adewale “Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes. Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song 1:15-17 We can use different colours to report different kind of marriages around us. Every marriage has colour that represents it. You need to learn about these colours then change the colour of your own marriage. 1. Black Marriage. This is the marriage of unbelievers, people who do not know the Lord, whose marriage is not based on Biblical principles but on worldly philosophy and human understanding. This marriage is always full of strife, demonstration of flesh and negative habits and character. “The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble”. Proverbs 4:19. 2. Yellow Marriage. This is a marriage at “drifting level”. It was once full of love, intimacy, acceptance, romance and joy. Due to carelessness or busyness of the couples involved, they begin to neglect each other, taking each other for granted, remove courtesy, honour and respect, spends less and less time together. No more playing time, no time to do those “sweet things” they use to do when they were in courtship and honey moon, they allow other things to be their focus instead of each other. At this stage of marriage, women are known to put all their attention on their children to the detriment of their marriage, leaving their marriage to grow “yellowish” and dry. Men at drifting love or yellow marriage put all their attention on their jobs and friends; having no time for the marriage and family. “Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent”. Rev 2:4-5 3. Orange Marriage. Marriage at this level has grown beyond “yellow level”, since nothing is done to arrest the situation. It grows deeper into “matrimonial dillusion”. At this stage, it is not just about “drifting” from each other, it is about “hurting” each other. The marriage now involve outburst of anger, hatred, bickering, fighting, peace today; fight tomorrow, hurting each other with words, etc. 4. Red Marriage (Proverbs 19:13-14). This is a bleeding marriage; it has gone beyond drifting and hurting to bleeding. The truth is, when marriage is not attended to at yellow level, it will grow orange before going to red, if the signal is still ignored. A red marriage is a terrible marriage. A marriage devoid of love, joy, care, affection, attention, communication and passion. It is full of total war, violence, all-out-battle, malice, cutting remarks, abusive words and murderous thoughts. A red marriage is a marriage at its worst. Some couples at this stage, seek for help in the right places, some in the wrong places, compounding their problems, some will not look for help from anybody, they will just remain like that fighting battles all their live while some will opt out of the marriage, ending up as divorcees. Proverbs 21:19 5. Pink Marriage. This is the kind of marriage where the woman is in charge; ruling and reigning over the husband. In this kind of marriage, competition, rivalry, power struggle and in-fighting is the order of the day; making life difficult for everybody. The order of God is for the husband to be the head of the home and the wife submit to him. 1 Cor. 11:3, 8-9. Marriage is always difficult when this divine order from God is not followed and respected. Read more from http://totalfamilylife.com/2015/04/colours-of-marriage/
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| Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris & Anita Oyakhilome Reportedly Share Their Two Children by Familyfirst: 1:31pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
You need this book to lay a solid foundation for a sustainable marriage. Info: 08056457013, BB: 2AF5C883 #preparingformarriage Join us for breakthrough 4 Singles - with Pastor Bisi Adewale Date: 29th March 2015. Time: 2;30pm Theme: PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE Ministering: Pastor Bisi & Oluwayomi Adewale VENUE: EDEN COMFORT PLACE 17, Alade Avenue, Opposite Lagos Airport Hotel off Obafemi Awolowo Way Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria. Info: 08056457013, BB: 2AF5C883 Pls share with others and don’t miss it #Breakthrough4Singles
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| Car Talk › 15 Places You Must Never Overtake The Car In Front Of You When Driving by Familyfirst(op): 2:29pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Pastor Bisi Adewale My job and ministry involve lots of traveling, this make me to see a lots of people dying unnecessary death in road crashes due to careless driving. Am inspire to write this this morning when I was in a car and the driver made this mistake, he overtook another car on a very narrow bridge, luckily for us no other car was coming on the opposite direction, can you imagine what would have happen if another car suddenly appear on the opposite direction? During this holiday and Yuletide period People will do a lot of traveling to different places in their cars and buses and every year this has led to lots of preventable road accidents, due to over speeding, drunk driving, aggressive driving, bad vehicles, driving when tired or sleepy and overtaken in the wrong places. Don't just pray for safety and protection on the road we must learn to do the right thing. My focus here is to open your eyes to places you must not overtake a vehicle in your front of you on narrow roads, may be this write up will save many souls, may be it will even save your own. Researchers at Nottingham University determined the following statistics when studying police records of overtaking accidents: 35% hit a vehicle turning right as the overtaking vehicle was attempting to pass 16% hit a vehicle travelling in the opposite direction 10% side swiped the vehicle being overtaken 8% lost control during whilst overtaking or returning to the nearside lane 6% hit a vehicle that was turning or crossing at a junction 14% involved 'undertaking' (passing on the left) 5% resulted from evasive action taken by a driver when attempting to avoid someone else's risky overtaking manoeuvre If you are driving your car adhere to what you about to read here and if you are in public Vehicles you may remind the driver about these If you discover he is making these mistakes that can be fatal, do this without distracting him. Please don't overtake in the following places: 1) ON A BRIDGE: Avoid overtaking on bridges, bridges are dangerous places to overtake as you don't have other places to go than inside water or collide with opposing cars if other cars suddenly appear as you try to overtake. 2) ON A BEND: When there is a bend, please don't overtake no matter how clear you think the road is,it is very dangerous as you can't see the front, another car may be coming. 3) ON A MOUNTAIN: like in a bend,mountains,hills are wrong places to overtake you can't see the front clearly and you may not be able to speed enough to overtake and avoid colliding with traffic from the opposite direction. 4) SHARP SLOPES: It is also dangerous to overtake as your brake system may not work the way you predict. 5) TO THE RIGHT: Don't overtake to the right of the vehicle in your front on narrow roads,you are only permitted by Nigeria law to overtake on the left. 6) WHEN THE VEHICLE IN FRONT OF YOU SIGNAL IT WANT TO TURN THE LEFT: Remember you are only allow to overtake by the left side, but when the vehicle in front of you signal it want to turn to the left don't overtake, please let the vehicle turn before you move on. 7) WHEN YOU CAN NOT SEE THE FRONT CLEARLY: If you cannot see the front clearly for any reason please don't overtake. WHEN IT IS RAINING: When it rains heavily don't overtake because the road may be slippery and your visibility is low.9) WHEN YOU ARE FOLLOWING CONVOY OF FAST MOVING CARS: Avoid overtaking fast moving cars in convoy it will be dangerous to do that. 10) WHEN FOLLOWING CBN BULLION VANS: Central Bank Bullion Vans normally travel between states in convoy of heavily armed vehicles and they expect road users to keep a distance of several meters away from them and never try to overtake them, this is for security reason. So don't try to overtake them though they do drive slowly. You have to follow them for as long as they are in your front, if you try to overtake them they may shoot you taking you for an armed robber. 11) WHEN THE ROAD IS TOO NARROW: some roads are too narrow to take two vehicles at the same time, avoid overtaking in these kinds of roads. 12) WHEN THE ROAD IS SLIPPERY: Rain, water, Slipped oil, swampy areas are known to be slippery, be cautious about overtaking in these kinds of areas. 13) AGGRESSIVE DRIVERS: Avoid overtaking aggressive drivers. These are drivers who increase their speed whenever you try to overtake them so as to prevent you from overtaking. These kinds of drivers sees the road as a race track, they are dangerous drivers and can easily cause road mishap. For your safety and that of others, avoid overtaking these kind of drivers, you don't need to prove you are faster or better than him, please don't race to the Cemetery. 14) WHEN YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE A VEHICLE COMING FROM THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION: Don't assume the car is far, your judgement may be totally wrong, many people got to the grave before they realize their mistakes. It is safer not to overtake when the oncoming car is already in view, please be careful. 15) WHEN DRIVING IN THE NIGHT:[b][/b] Driving in the night involves great caution and carefulness, if you cannot see clearly please don't overtake, if you don't have good eyesight don't drive in the night at all, if you must do it with all carefulness, drive in such a way that you will live to drive for a long time. I wish you safe journey as you travel around the world there will be no evil report in Jesus name. 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| Family › Nine Parenting Foundations by Familyfirst(op): 1:24pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
- Pastor Bisi Adewale If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalms 11:3 KJV) To be a successful parent their are many things that must be done, if we don't do them well parenting Godly Children may be a very difficult task. All these things that we suppose to do as Parents are what I call parenting foundations. I will be mentioning nine of them in this piece. They are: 1) SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 3:11 KJV) - Your spiritual life is the foundation of your parenting work - If you are lukewarm you may raise a set of spiritually dead Children - If you are a bench warmer in Church your Children may never go to Church tomorrow 2) MARITAL FOUNDATION Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. (Proverbs 31:28 KJV) - Your marriage is the nest in which your Children will be hatch. - You can't be a good mother and father until you are a good Wife and husband - when you keep your marriage, you are preserving the destiny of Children - A bad marriage will make your children live like refuge in their own house. - The best gift a mother can give to her Children is to submit, honor and respect their father. - The best gift a Man can give to his Children is to love, care, provide and protect their mother. - Do your Children a favor build a better marriage, never divorce or separate from your spouse. 3) PRAYER FOUNDATION My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you, (Galatians 4:19 KJV) -- YOUR CHILDREN MAY REJECT YOUR TRAINING, ABHOR YOUR CORRECTION, DISDAIN YOUR INSTRUCTION, CONTEND WITH YOUR LEADERSHIP, OBJECT TO YOUR ADVISE AND OPPOSE YOUR AUTHORITY BUT THEY ARE POWERLESS IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR PRAYER. -- You can't pray too much for your Children you can only pray too little. -- Persistent prayer is key to the success of your Children -- A child bath in many prayers can never go dirty. -- A Child of many prayers can never go astray. -- One parenting duty that will never end is prayer, no matter the age of your Children. 4) KNOWLEDGE FOUNDATION Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches. (Proverbs 24:3-4 KJV) -- You cannot raise your children better than what you know. -- A quack Parent will do much harm than quack Doctors. -- You must learn about children, Parenting, raising Children by age, by sex, by seasons, the act of motherhood and fatherhood. -- Learn about Children according to their gender, boys and girls. -- Learn about your Children about their ages. Toddlers (age 0-3),preschoolers(age 4-5),Grade schoolers(6- Preteen(9-12)Teenagers(13-19)adult Children(20 and above)-- Get good books about parenting, boys, girls, Toddlers, preteen, Teenagers, adult Children etc. -- Attend parenting seminar, organize one in your church, office, NGO, School etc -- Your Children may not rise more than the level of your knowledge 5) BREATH FOUNDATION And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. (Genesis 2:7 KJV) -- Every Child comes in a dusty way, they need the breath of life to become a living soul. -- To breathe on them you must stay with them. -- God did not send angel to do it for him, hence, you can't delegate the breath. -- You breath on Children by spending time with them and showing them what to do -- You breath on them by going out with them. -- You breath on them by teaching and training them. -- You breath on them by praying for them. -- You breath on them by leading them by example and be a model. Read more from......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/11/nine-parenting-foundations/ |
| Christianity Etc › Nine Parenting Foundations by Familyfirst(op): 1:08pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
- Pastor Bisi Adewale If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalms 11:3 KJV) To be a successful parent their are many things that must be done, if we don't do them well parenting Godly Children may be a very difficult task. All these things that we suppose to do as Parents are what I call parenting foundations. I will be mentioning nine of them in this piece. They are: 1) SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 3:11 KJV) - Your spiritual life is the foundation of your parenting work - If you are lukewarm you may raise a set of spiritually dead Children - If you are a bench warmer in Church your Children may never go to Church tomorrow 2) MARITAL FOUNDATION Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. (Proverbs 31:28 KJV) - Your marriage is the nest in which your Children will be hatch. - You can't be a good mother and father until you are a good Wife and husband - when you keep your marriage, you are preserving the destiny of Children - A bad marriage will make your children live like refuge in their own house. - The best gift a mother can give to her Children is to submit, honor and respect their father. - The best gift a Man can give to his Children is to love, care, provide and protect their mother. - Do your Children a favor build a better marriage, never divorce or separate from your spouse. 3) PRAYER FOUNDATION My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you, (Galatians 4:19 KJV) -- YOUR CHILDREN MAY REJECT YOUR TRAINING, ABHOR YOUR CORRECTION, DISDAIN YOUR INSTRUCTION, CONTEND WITH YOUR LEADERSHIP, OBJECT TO YOUR ADVISE AND OPPOSE YOUR AUTHORITY BUT THEY ARE POWERLESS IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR PRAYER. -- You can't pray too much for your Children you can only pray too little. -- Persistent prayer is key to the success of your Children -- A child bath in many prayers can never go dirty. -- A Child of many prayers can never go astray. -- One parenting duty that will never end is prayer, no matter the age of your Children. 4) KNOWLEDGE FOUNDATION Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches. (Proverbs 24:3-4 KJV) -- You cannot raise your children better than what you know. -- A quack Parent will do much harm than quack Doctors. -- You must learn about children, Parenting, raising Children by age, by sex, by seasons, the act of motherhood and fatherhood. -- Learn about Children according to their gender, boys and girls. -- Learn about your Children about their ages. Toddlers (age 0-3),preschoolers(age 4-5),Grade schoolers(6- Preteen(9-12)Teenagers(13-19)adult Children(20 and above)-- Get good books about parenting, boys, girls, Toddlers, preteen, Teenagers, adult Children etc. -- Attend parenting seminar, organize one in your church, office, NGO, School etc -- Your Children may not rise more than the level of your knowledge 5) BREATH FOUNDATION And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. (Genesis 2:7 KJV) -- Every Child comes in a dusty way, they need the breath of life to become a living soul. -- To breathe on them you must stay with them. -- God did not send angel to do it for him, hence, you can't delegate the breath. -- You breath on Children by spending time with them and showing them what to do -- You breath on them by going out with them. -- You breath on them by teaching and training them. -- You breath on them by praying for them. -- You breath on them by leading them by example and be a model. Read more from......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/11/nine-parenting-foundations/ |
| Nairaland General › Nine Parenting Foundations by Familyfirst(op): 11:46am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Pastor Bisi Adewale If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalms 11:3 KJV) To be a successful parent their are many things that must be done, if we don't do them well parenting Godly Children may be a very difficult task. All these things that we suppose to do as Parents are what I call parenting foundations. I will be mentioning nine of them in this piece. They are: 1) SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 3:11 KJV) - Your spiritual life is the foundation of your parenting work - If you are lukewarm you may raise a set of spiritually dead Children - If you are a bench warmer in Church your Children may never go to Church tomorrow 2) MARITAL FOUNDATION Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. (Proverbs 31:28 KJV) - Your marriage is the nest in which your Children will be hatch. - You can't be a good mother and father until you are a good Wife and husband - when you keep your marriage, you are preserving the destiny of Children - A bad marriage will make your children live like refuge in their own house. - The best gift a mother can give to her Children is to submit, honor and respect their father. - The best gift a Man can give to his Children is to love, care, provide and protect their mother. - Do your Children a favor build a better marriage, never divorce or separate from your spouse. 3) PRAYER FOUNDATION My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you, (Galatians 4:19 KJV) -- YOUR CHILDREN MAY REJECT YOUR TRAINING, ABHOR YOUR CORRECTION, DISDAIN YOUR INSTRUCTION, CONTEND WITH YOUR LEADERSHIP, OBJECT TO YOUR ADVISE AND OPPOSE YOUR AUTHORITY BUT THEY ARE POWERLESS IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR PRAYER. -- You can't pray too much for your Children you can only pray too little. -- Persistent prayer is key to the success of your Children -- A child bath in many prayers can never go dirty. -- A Child of many prayers can never go astray. -- One parenting duty that will never end is prayer, no matter the age of your Children. 4) KNOWLEDGE FOUNDATION Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches. (Proverbs 24:3-4 KJV) -- You cannot raise your children better than what you know. -- A quack Parent will do much harm than quack Doctors. -- You must learn about children, Parenting, raising Children by age, by sex, by seasons, the act of motherhood and fatherhood. -- Learn about Children according to their gender, boys and girls. -- Learn about your Children about their ages. Toddlers (age 0-3),preschoolers(age 4-5),Grade schoolers(6- Preteen(9-12)Teenagers(13-19)adult Children(20 and above)-- Get good books about parenting, boys, girls, Toddlers, preteen, Teenagers, adult Children etc. -- Attend parenting seminar, organize one in your church, office, NGO, School etc -- Your Children may not rise more than the level of your knowledge 5) BREATH FOUNDATION And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. (Genesis 2:7 KJV) -- Every Child comes in a dusty way, they need the breath of life to become a living soul. -- To breathe on them you must stay with them. -- God did not send angel to do it for him, hence, you can't delegate the breath. -- You breath on Children by spending time with them and showing them what to do -- You breath on them by going out with them. -- You breath on them by teaching and training them. -- You breath on them by praying for them. -- You breath on them by leading them by example and be a model Read more from ……….http://totalfamilylife.com/?p=9586 |
| Romance › Pastor Chris Divorce Controversy, A Word For All by Familyfirst(op): 3:52pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
- Pastor Bisi Adewale (Family Booster Ministries international) As a full time family minister, author of more than fifty books on marriage, parenting and family life, owner of the first marriage school in Africa, Marriage counsellor, called to build homes and restore family life, I have put many years in fruitful labour behind me into building homes without running any Church. Giving this level of involvement in family restoration, sustenance and repair, it always gives me pains when I hear about turbulent marriages, separation or divorce, especially when it concerns high profile individuals like Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Anita his wife. Till now I have held back my comments on this matter on the internet and decided not to say anything about it in the papers. But my encounter with a young man who wanted to go ahead and divorce his wife changed my stand. The young man said, "If Pastor Chris can do it, it is not wrong after all." Hence, I think it is better to talk, strengthened by the saying of one wise man. He said, "Evil will reign not because of the noise of evil men, but by the silence of good men." Who knows? This counsel I’m about to give may help somebody, or heal a home. I want all readers of this piece to note that I am neither judging nor taking side with either of the couple. It is a straight counsel as I address different set of people. 1) REJOICING CROWD To those of you out there, rejoicing over this case, thinking it is all over, you will not laugh last. Mocking crowd and panel of judges, why do you rejoice at halftime into the ‘match’? It is not yet over. The God of restoration will step in through the prayers of the saints. It is only in the Lord's army that soldiers rejoice when a comrade falls or gets wounded at the battle front. In other instances soldiers protect, carry, defend and help fallen comrades. Stop rejoicing over them; pray instead, and the situation will not continue like this. I am not a fan of Pastor Chris. In fact, I do not agree with many of his teachings. But in this case I pray both parties come to their senses and allow the scripture to prevail. Let them stop playing God and humble themselves, because I perceive both are still riding their high horses. Attacking and counter- attacking each other as if they've never been friends or lovers before. 2) PRAYING SAINT It is time to pray. If you are doing that already, don't stop until the battle is won. God must restore Pastors Chris and Anita into their old love and bring new wine into their marriage. So, join me and my wife let us pray for them. You may not even like them; you may not have a stake in their lives or have anything to do with them or their ministry, but let’s do it for them as comrades. Let’s do it for their innocent children who will bear the brunt. You know when two elephants fight, the grass suffers. Let’s do it for the kingdom and let do it for the feeble ones who may emulate their indiscretion you will be rewarded for it. 3) SUPPORTERS CLUB To all Brethren and Pastors in Christ Embassy and beyond that have been taken sides, supporting either Pastor Chris or Anita, you are wrong. In every marital dispute nobody is guiltless. A Chinese proverb says, "If the wife is wrong, the husband can never be guiltless." So, stop supporting any one of them; rather, be on the side of their marriage and their children who, am told are really hurting and angry. Stop painting Anita as a devil. If she is a devil, what will you call Pastor Chris? It take devil to marry a Devil, Whatever a wife is perfectly describes her husband. They are one body. So, stop writing negative comments on the net; just begin to pray for them so that God can remove the covering on their faces, that they may come to the light of truth (as it happened in the case of Benny Hinn) and save the destiny of millions of souls attached to theirs. 4) AFFECTED SAINTS I was somewhere recently; there I heard the news about a young couple who were ready to divorce, saying it is not bad if Pastor Chris that they respect and see as a model could be going through it. To many of you in similar situations, whose faith is shaking because of this messy divorce case, please remember that you never gave your life to Pastor Chris but to Jesus. Pastor Chris never died for you, but Jesus did. The Bible is not the word of Pastor Chris; it is the word of God and God will not change it because of this issue. The truth still remains the same, that God hates divorce. Culture can change, men may turn around, but the word of the Lord remains the same. Don't put your faith in man. Let it be on the word of God. The truth is the best man no matter how strong or anointed he is, is still a man. The fact that a man is anointed does not shield him from marital crisis, Marriage is not built by anointing, and it is built by knowledge, understanding and wisdom. (Proverbs 24:3-7) That is why we have many anointed pastors who are also wife beaters. When any man or woman falls short of the principles of marriage, no matter how rich, famous, anointed, and wise they are they get their finger burnt. That is what happens in cases like this. So keep your focus on God. 5) PASTOR ANITA Ma, you may think you have all the reasons to quit your marriage. But then you know "quitters never win and winners never quit" I am not aware of any efforts you have made before now, to get your husband’s attention on certain things, but you need to do more and pray. You are a woman of faith. Remember the title of the book you wrote years back titled: DONT PACK YOUR BAG YET, sister why are you packing yours now, do you think God made you to write that book in error, Know the message is actually for you. SISTER, DIVORCE IS NOT THE OPTION. Somebody said "divorce is a stupid answer to a difficult question" Clarifying this statement, he said, "It is like cutting your leg because you have a sore in it, or your head because of a severe headache." So, check where you have fallen and rise; withdraw the case and become a good example to millions that call you Mother, biological and spiritual. Please, note that divorce is worse than the death of a partner....Read more from.......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/pastor-chris-divorce-controversy-a-word-for-all/ 1 Like 1 Share
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| Family › Pastor Chris Divorce Controversy, A Word For All by Familyfirst(op): 3:08pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
- Pastor Bisi Adewale (Family Booster Ministries international) As a full time family minister, author of more than fifty books on marriage, parenting and family life, owner of the first marriage school in Africa, Marriage counsellor, called to build homes and restore family life, I have put many years in fruitful labour behind me into building homes without running any Church. Giving this level of involvement in family restoration, sustenance and repair, it always gives me pains when I hear about turbulent marriages, separation or divorce, especially when it concerns high profile individuals like Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Anita his wife. Till now I have held back my comments on this matter on the internet and decided not to say anything about it in the papers. But my encounter with a young man who wanted to go ahead and divorce his wife changed my stand. The young man said, "If Pastor Chris can do it, it is not wrong after all." Hence, I think it is better to talk, strengthened by the saying of one wise man. He said, "Evil will reign not because of the noise of evil men, but by the silence of good men." Who knows? This counsel I’m about to give may help somebody, or heal a home. I want all readers of this piece to note that I am neither judging nor taking side with either of the couple. It is a straight counsel as I address different set of people. 1) REJOICING CROWD To those of you out there, rejoicing over this case, thinking it is all over, you will not laugh last. Mocking crowd and panel of judges, why do you rejoice at halftime into the ‘match’? It is not yet over. The God of restoration will step in through the prayers of the saints. It is only in the Lord's army that soldiers rejoice when a comrade falls or gets wounded at the battle front. In other instances soldiers protect, carry, defend and help fallen comrades. Stop rejoicing over them; pray instead, and the situation will not continue like this. I am not a fan of Pastor Chris. In fact, I do not agree with many of his teachings. But in this case I pray both parties come to their senses and allow the scripture to prevail. Let them stop playing God and humble themselves, because I perceive both are still riding their high horses. Attacking and counter- attacking each other as if they've never been friends or lovers before. 2) PRAYING SAINT It is time to pray. If you are doing that already, don't stop until the battle is won. God must restore Pastors Chris and Anita into their old love and bring new wine into their marriage. So, join me and my wife let us pray for them. You may not even like them; you may not have a stake in their lives or have anything to do with them or their ministry, but let’s do it for them as comrades. Let’s do it for their innocent children who will bear the brunt. You know when two elephants fight, the grass suffers. Let’s do it for the kingdom and let do it for the feeble ones who may emulate their indiscretion you will be rewarded for it. 3) SUPPORTERS CLUB To all Brethren and Pastors in Christ Embassy and beyond that have been taken sides, supporting either Pastor Chris or Anita, you are wrong. In every marital dispute nobody is guiltless. A Chinese proverb says, "If the wife is wrong, the husband can never be guiltless." So, stop supporting any one of them; rather, be on the side of their marriage and their children who, am told are really hurting and angry. Stop painting Anita as a devil. If she is a devil, what will you call Pastor Chris? It take devil to marry a Devil, Whatever a wife is perfectly describes her husband. They are one body. So, stop writing negative comments on the net; just begin to pray for them so that God can remove the covering on their faces, that they may come to the light of truth (as it happened in the case of Benny Hinn) and save the destiny of millions of souls attached to theirs. 4) AFFECTED SAINTS I was somewhere recently; there I heard the news about a young couple who were ready to divorce, saying it is not bad if Pastor Chris that they respect and see as a model could be going through it. To many of you in similar situations, whose faith is shaking because of this messy divorce case, please remember that you never gave your life to Pastor Chris but to Jesus. Pastor Chris never died for you, but Jesus did. The Bible is not the word of Pastor Chris; it is the word of God and God will not change it because of this issue. The truth still remains the same, that God hates divorce. Culture can change, men may turn around, but the word of the Lord remains the same. Don't put your faith in man. Let it be on the word of God. The truth is the best man no matter how strong or anointed he is, is still a man. The fact that a man is anointed does not shield him from marital crisis, Marriage is not built by anointing, and it is built by knowledge, understanding and wisdom. (Proverbs 24:3-7) That is why we have many anointed pastors who are also wife beaters. When any man or woman falls short of the principles of marriage, no matter how rich, famous, anointed, and wise they are they get their finger burnt. That is what happens in cases like this. So keep your focus on God. 5) PASTOR ANITA Ma, you may think you have all the reasons to quit your marriage. But then you know "quitters never win and winners never quit" I am not aware of any efforts you have made before now, to get your husband’s attention on certain things, but you need to do more and pray. You are a woman of faith. Remember the title of the book you wrote years back titled: DONT PACK YOUR BAG YET, sister why are you packing yours now, do you think God made you to write that book in error, Know the message is actually for you. SISTER, DIVORCE IS NOT THE OPTION. Somebody said "divorce is a stupid answer to a difficult question" Clarifying this statement, he said, "It is like cutting your leg because you have a sore in it, or your head because of a severe headache." So, check where you have fallen and rise; withdraw the case and become a good example to millions that call you Mother, biological and spiritual. Please, note that divorce is worse than the death of a partner. When a partner dies, he is buried. But in divorce you must live with the 'buried' partner. You will still meet, more so since you have children. Your lawyer may be happy he is smiling to the bank, and the devil too, he is happy to make your home join the statistics, don't permit him now. We who are lovers of families, including yours are very sad and worried, because of the effect this will have in the life and marriage of millions of young ones. Many will certainly be affected and possibly fall out of faith should you take this case to a definite conclusion. And will God be happy about this? Your children are not happy, already. People that have genuine love for ........read more....http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/pastor-chris-divorce-controversy-a-word-for-all/[/b]
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| Nairaland General › Pastor Chris Divorce Controversy, A Word For All by Familyfirst(op): 2:58pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
- Pastor Bisi Adewale (Family Booster Ministries international) As a full time family minister, author of more than fifty books on marriage, parenting and family life, owner of the first marriage school in Africa, Marriage counsellor, called to build homes and restore family life, I have put many years in fruitful labour behind me into building homes without running any Church. Giving this level of involvement in family restoration, sustenance and repair, it always gives me pains when I hear about turbulent marriages, separation or divorce, especially when it concerns high profile individuals like Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Anita his wife. Till now I have held back my comments on this matter on the internet and decided not to say anything about it in the papers. But my encounter with a young man who wanted to go ahead and divorce his wife changed my stand. The young man said, "If Pastor Chris can do it, it is not wrong after all." Hence, I think it is better to talk, strengthened by the saying of one wise man. He said, "Evil will reign not because of the noise of evil men, but by the silence of good men." Who knows? This counsel I’m about to give may help somebody, or heal a home. I want all readers of this piece to note that I am neither judging nor taking side with either of the couple. It is a straight counsel as I address different set of people. 1) REJOICING CROWD To those of you out there, rejoicing over this case, thinking it is all over, you will not laugh last. Mocking crowd and panel of judges, why do you rejoice at halftime into the ‘match’? It is not yet over. The God of restoration will step in through the prayers of the saints. It is only in the Lord's army that soldiers rejoice when a comrade falls or gets wounded at the battle front. In other instances soldiers protect, carry, defend and help fallen comrades. Stop rejoicing over them; pray instead, and the situation will not continue like this. I am not a fan of Pastor Chris. In fact, I do not agree with many of his teachings. But in this case I pray both parties come to their senses and allow the scripture to prevail. Let them stop playing God and humble themselves, because I perceive both are still riding their high horses. Attacking and counter- attacking each other as if they've never been friends or lovers before. 2) PRAYING SAINT It is time to pray. If you are doing that already, don't stop until the battle is won. God must restore Pastors Chris and Anita into their old love and bring new wine into their marriage. So, join me and my wife let us pray for them. You may not even like them; you may not have a stake in their lives or have anything to do with them or their ministry, but let’s do it for them as comrades. Let’s do it for their innocent children who will bear the brunt. You know when two elephants fight, the grass suffers. Let’s do it for the kingdom and let do it for the feeble ones who may emulate their indiscretion you will be rewarded for it. 3) SUPPORTERS CLUB To all Brethren and Pastors in Christ Embassy and beyond that have been taken sides, supporting either Pastor Chris or Anita, you are wrong. In every marital dispute nobody is guiltless. A Chinese proverb says, "If the wife is wrong, the husband can never be guiltless." So, stop supporting any one of them; rather, be on the side of their marriage and their children who, am told are really hurting and angry. Stop painting Anita as a devil. If she is a devil, what will you call Pastor Chris? It take devil to marry a Devil, Whatever a wife is perfectly describes her husband. They are one body. So, stop writing negative comments on the net; just begin to pray for them so that God can remove the covering on their faces, that they may come to the light of truth (as it happened in the case of Benny Hinn) and save the destiny of millions of souls attached to theirs. 4) AFFECTED SAINTS I was somewhere recently; there I heard the news about a young couple who were ready to divorce, saying it is not bad if Pastor Chris that they respect and see as a model could be going through it. To many of you in similar situations, whose faith is shaking because of this messy divorce case, please remember that you never gave your life to Pastor Chris but to Jesus. Pastor Chris never died for you, but Jesus did. The Bible is not the word of Pastor Chris; it is the word of God and God will not change it because of this issue. The truth still remains the same, that God hates divorce. Culture can change, men may turn around, but the word of the Lord remains the same. Don't put your faith in man. Let it be on the word of God. The truth is the best man no matter how strong or anointed he is, is still a man. The fact that a man is anointed does not shield him from marital crisis, Marriage is not built by anointing, and it is built by knowledge, understanding and wisdom. (Proverbs 24:3-7) That is why we have many anointed pastors who are also wife beaters. When any man or woman falls short of the principles of marriage, no matter how rich, famous, anointed, and wise they are they get their finger burnt. That is what happens in cases like this. So keep your focus on God. 5) PASTOR ANITA Ma, you may think you have all the reasons to quit your marriage. But then you know "quitters never win and winners never quit" I am not aware of any efforts you have made before now, to get your husband’s attention on certain things, but you need to do more and pray. You are a woman of faith. Remember the title of the book you wrote years back titled: DON'T PACK YOUR BAG YET, sister why are you packing yours now, do you think God made you to write that book in error, Know the message is actually for you. SISTER, DIVORCE IS NOT THE OPTION. Somebody said "divorce is a stupid answer to a difficult question" Clarifying this statement, he said, "It is like cutting your leg because you have a sore in it, or your head because of a severe headache." So, check where you have fallen and rise; withdraw the case and become a good example to millions that call you Mother, biological and spiritual. Please, note that divorce is worse than the death of a partner. When a partner dies, he is buried. But in divorce you must live with the 'buried' partner. You will still meet, more so since you have children. Your lawyer may be happy he is smiling to the bank, and the devil too, he is happy to make your home join the statistics, don't permit him now. We who are lovers of families, including yours are very sad and worried, because of the effect this will have in the life and marriage of millions of young ones. Many will certainly be affected and possibly fall out of faith should you take this case to a definite conclusion. And will God be happy about this? Your children are not happy, already. People that have genuine love for ........read more......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/pastor-chris-divorce-controversy-a-word-for-all/
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| Romance › 12 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy. by Familyfirst(op): 3:46pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
- Bisi Adewale Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them: 1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice; I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character. 2) MUSCLE: [/b]Muscular and heavy looking guys are also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say "they look manly" "they look like real men". Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face. [b]3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who have a house with King size; beautiful Italian Settee, micro wave oven, well stock freezer, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you. 4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They don't want to know where the money is coming from; they don't even want to know what the guy does for a living. What concerns them is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED, it won't turn to GREEN. 5) PLACE OF WORK: Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a small firm, or one man business. What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is not about where he is working but about who is working in Him, God or devil. Read more from......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/ 104 Likes 22 Shares |
. I was so angry but I kept my cool and I have not discuss anything with her. I want the best for my brother in law and I don't want to hurt my friend my as well. what do I do please.