It takes more than a lip talk, more than profession of love, more than conviction that you truly love him or her. It takes more than the money he spends on you. It takes more than the fun, the pleasure, the sex and the “unspoken words”. Relationship is beyond all these factors.

I believe it without a dispute when I first heard this statement from one of my counselee. She was sobbing profusely and subconsciously made the statement: “Now I know it takes more than love to READ MORE ON http:///2xZBKGn

It takes more than a lip talk, more than profession of love, more than conviction that you truly love him or her. It takes more than the money he spends on you. It takes more than the fun, the pleasure, the sex and the “unspoken words”. Relationship is beyond all these factors.

I believe it without a dispute when I first heard this statement from one of my counselee. She was sobbing profusely and subconsciously made the statement: “Now I know it takes more than love to READ MORE ON http:///2xZBKGn

It takes more than a lip talk, more than profession of love, more than conviction that you truly love him or her. It takes more than the money he spends on you. It takes more than the fun, the pleasure, the sex and the “unspoken words”. Relationship is beyond all these factors.

I believe it without a dispute when I first heard this statement from one of my counselee. She was sobbing profusely and subconsciously made the statement: “Now I know it takes more than love to READ MORE ON http:///2xZBKGn

Forget about her beauty, her gorgeous look, her sexy figure-8 body or the pleasure you derive anytime you are with her. The moment you realize your lady keep antagonizing or is completely thinking in an opposite direction anytime you make mention of your dreams or future goals, it is a sign of incompatibility that you need to address with urgency. Never allow your heart rule over your head.
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Forget about her beauty, her gorgeous look, her sexy figure-8 body or the pleasure you derive anytime you are with her. The moment you realize your lady keep antagonizing or is completely thinking in an opposite direction anytime you make mention of your dreams or future goals, it is a sign of incompatibility that you need to address with urgency. Never allow your heart rule over your head.
A woman has the power to make or mar, to build or destroy, catalyze or READ MORE ONhttp:///2xD96ci

Forget about her beauty, her gorgeous look, her sexy figure-8 body or the pleasure you derive anytime you are with her. The moment you realize your lady keep antagonizing or is completely thinking in an opposite direction anytime you make mention of your dreams or future goals, it is a sign of incompatibility that you need to address with urgency. Never allow your heart rule over your head.
A woman has the power to make or mar, to build or destroy, catalyze or READ MORE ONhttp:///2xD96ci

Procrastination portrays satisfaction for you at your comfort zone, but gradually you are deteriorating and blowing away your chances of doing something meaningful with your life. Procrastination will make you do the right thing at the wrong time.
You may think, well there is still another time to do it tomorrow, perhaps, what you have been thinking is, age is still very well on my side, but you are wrong! Every seconds that tick counts forward. The two hours you wasted yesterday is a minus from the... READ MORE ON http:///2fjKCAc

Procrastination portrays satisfaction for you at your comfort zone, but gradually you are deteriorating and blowing away your chances of doing something meaningful with your life. Procrastination will make you do the right thing at the wrong time.
You may think, well there is still another time to do it tomorrow, perhaps, what you have been thinking is, age is still very well on my side, but you are wrong! Every seconds that tick counts forward. The two hours you wasted yesterday is a minus from the... READ MORE ON http:///2fjKCAc

Procrastination portrays satisfaction for you at your comfort zone, but gradually you are deteriorating and blowing away your chances of doing something meaningful with your life. Procrastination will make you do the right thing at the wrong time.
You may think, well there is still another time to do it tomorrow, perhaps, what you have been thinking is, age is still very well on my side, but you are wrong! Every seconds that tick counts forward. The two hours you wasted yesterday is a minus from the... READ MORE ON http:///2fjKCAc

Your passion and dreams are God-given, so you don’t have to kill your inner desires and passion because people let you down or circumstances around fail you. People will definitely disappoint you because no man would believe in your dream as you. Some people will let you down, not because your dreams are worthless, but because they are scared of you doing better than them. Others will let you down because they, themselves, don’t have the capacity to bear the magnitude and strength of your dreams. You don’t have to give up now. Just keep... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/09/topic-161-you-are-almost-there-so-why.html

Your passion and dreams are God-given, so you don’t have to kill your inner desires and passion because people let you down or circumstances around fail you. People will definitely disappoint you because no man would believe in your dream as you. Some people will let you down, not because your dreams are worthless, but because they are scared of you doing better than them. Others will let you down because they, themselves, don’t have the capacity to bear the magnitude and strength of your dreams. You don’t have to give up now. Just keep... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/09/topic-161-you-are-almost-there-so-why.html

Your passion and dreams are God-given, so you don’t have to kill your inner desires and passion because people let you down or circumstances around fail you. People will definitely disappoint you because no man would believe in your dream as you. Some people will let you down, not because your dreams are worthless, but because they are scared of you doing better than them. Others will let you down because they, themselves, don’t have the capacity to bear the magnitude and strength of your dreams. You don’t have to give up now. Just keep... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/09/topic-161-you-are-almost-there-so-why.html

Let me start by saying you owe no man your destiny (not even your parents). You only owe God your destiny because He is the
potter and the original designer of the destiny. He is the one that has deposited in you the talents, the passion and the purpose you’re originally destined for. What your parents owe you are their guidance, their prayers and support in different areas in fulfilling your destiny in life.

It is a pity that most parents, especially in this part of the world, are indirectly so selfish that all they want is their wards to become their own plan for them, forgetting and killing the original intent of God for these children. They impose and decide for them what their future should be, and that is one of the reason why happiness and fulfillment are... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/09/why-you-must-not-allow-your-parents.html

Let me start by saying you owe no man your destiny (not even your parents). You only owe God your destiny because He is the
potter and the original designer of the destiny. He is the one that has deposited in you the talents, the passion and the purpose you’re originally destined for. What your parents owe you are their guidance, their prayers and support in different areas in fulfilling your destiny in life.

It is a pity that most parents, especially in this part of the world, are indirectly so selfish that all they want is their wards to become their own plan for them, forgetting and killing the original intent of God for these children. They impose and decide for them what their future should be, and that is one of the reason why happiness and fulfillment are... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/09/why-you-must-not-allow-your-parents.html

Let me start by saying you owe no man your destiny (not even your parents). You only owe God your destiny because He is the
potter and the original designer of the destiny. He is the one that has deposited in you the talents, the passion and the purpose you’re originally destined for. What your parents owe you are their guidance, their prayers and support in different areas in fulfilling your destiny in life.

It is a pity that most parents, especially in this part of the world, are indirectly so selfish that all they want is their wards to become their own plan for them, forgetting and killing the original intent of God for these children. They impose and decide for them what their future should be, and that is one of the reason why happiness and fulfillment are... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/09/why-you-must-not-allow-your-parents.html

The way the world is programmed has made it such that telling lie seems pretty acceptable but truth has become something easily disputable and implausible to believe. Truth seems bitter to people’s ear because they are hungrier for lies. I am not surprised that many relationships, friendships and marriages don’t last today because they are built on lies. Either of the partner just want to hear the false hopes of lies spoken by the other partner, but at the end, it all ends up in zilch.

To be candid with ourselves and especially with the way the world of human race is, telling the truth may always make you lose many things. It may sometimes deprive you of things than seem good. It may at times get to the stage of costing us our lives. Truth may READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-159-truth-will-make-you-lose-many.html

The way the world is programmed has made it such that telling lie seems pretty acceptable but truth has become something easily disputable and implausible to believe. Truth seems bitter to people’s ear because they are hungrier for lies. I am not surprised that many relationships, friendships and marriages don’t last today because they are built on lies. Either of the partner just want to hear the false hopes of lies spoken by the other partner, but at the end, it all ends up in zilch.

To be candid with ourselves and especially with the way the world of human race is, telling the truth may always make you lose many things. It may sometimes deprive you of things than seem good. It may at times get to the stage of costing us our lives. Truth may READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-159-truth-will-make-you-lose-many.html

The way the world is programmed has made it such that telling lie seems pretty acceptable but truth has become something easily disputable and implausible to believe. Truth seems bitter to people’s ear because they are hungrier for lies. I am not surprised that many relationships, friendships and marriages don’t last today because they are built on lies. Either of the partner just want to hear the false hopes of lies spoken by the other partner, but at the end, it all ends up in zilch.

To be candid with ourselves and especially with the way the world of human race is, telling the truth may always make you lose many things. It may sometimes deprive you of things than seem good. It may at times get to the stage of costing us our lives. Truth may READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-159-truth-will-make-you-lose-many.html

3: Inability to cross some significant hurdles at specific junction in our lives:
It is quite true that God has a special plan for every human on earth, but He has not made the way to the fulfillment of the plan to be as smooth as a football pitch.

At a certain juncture in our lives, we remain at a point for so long and we tend to think God is not doing enough. We sometimes neglect
the fact that the genesis of the problems can be us, ourselves.
We become the genesis of our problems when we get to a juncture where we ought to take that tough decision and act, yet we refuse because of the fear and doubt within us. Sometimes we want God to just do everything for us like a baby who needed to be spoon-fed.

God will only tell you not to worry and move on when you meet with the red sea on your way, but He will never come down and drag you to move. Well if you are READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-158-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html

3: Inability to cross some significant hurdles at specific junction in our lives:
It is quite true that God has a special plan for every human on earth, but He has not made the way to the fulfillment of the plan to be as smooth as a football pitch.

At a certain juncture in our lives, we remain at a point for so long and we tend to think God is not doing enough. We sometimes neglect
the fact that the genesis of the problems can be us, ourselves.
We become the genesis of our problems when we get to a juncture where we ought to take that tough decision and act, yet we refuse because of the fear and doubt within us. Sometimes we want God to just do everything for us like a baby who needed to be spoon-fed.

God will only tell you not to worry and move on when you meet with the red sea on your way, but He will never come down and drag you to move. Well if you are READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-158-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html

3: Inability to cross some significant hurdles at specific junction in our lives:
It is quite true that God has a special plan for every human on earth, but He has not made the way to the fulfillment of the plan to be as smooth as a football pitch.

At a certain juncture in our lives, we remain at a point for so long and we tend to think God is not doing enough. We sometimes neglect
the fact that the genesis of the problems can be us, ourselves.
We become the genesis of our problems when we get to a juncture where we ought to take that tough decision and act, yet we refuse because of the fear and doubt within us. Sometimes we want God to just do everything for us like a baby who needed to be spoon-fed.

God will only tell you not to worry and move on when you meet with the red sea on your way, but He will never come down and drag you to move. Well if you are READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-158-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html

The fact that he or she lets you down doesn’t guarantee every other person you meet in life will treat you the same way. What happen in your last relationship was only a means for you to learn something from someone or some set of people. This kind of event should make you strong and well prepared for a better relationship that is yet to come. Trust me, if he or she was perfectly meant for you, he or she would never elude you.

No man is indispensable and no feelings is irreplaceable. Are you afraid of replacing him? or are you afraid you may not get over the feelings? This is a self-deception for an ignorant being. God has given us the chance to get over pains and troubles unless we choose to confine ourselves within the boundary of “I can’t”. Time will heal whatever the pain, the trouble or the challenges may be. The problems you see today will fade away if you will free yourself from the deceptive imagination of “I can’t”.

Can I still ever love again is synonymous to saying, can I still ever make READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-157-can-i-still-ever-love-again.html

The fact that he or she lets you down doesn’t guarantee every other person you meet in life will treat you the same way. What happen in your last relationship was only a means for you to learn something from someone or some set of people. This kind of event should make you strong and well prepared for a better relationship that is yet to come. Trust me, if he or she was perfectly meant for you, he or she would never elude you.

No man is indispensable and no feelings is irreplaceable. Are you afraid of replacing him? or are you afraid you may not get over the feelings? This is a self-deception for an ignorant being. God has given us the chance to get over pains and troubles unless we choose to confine ourselves within the boundary of “I can’t”. Time will heal whatever the pain, the trouble or the challenges may be. The problems you see today will fade away if you will free yourself from the deceptive imagination of “I can’t”.

Can I still ever love again is synonymous to saying, can I still ever make READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-157-can-i-still-ever-love-again.html