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“Be careful before you dabble into a marriage. It’s is not a child’s play and it’s not for ‘just men’. Everybody pray for a heaven-on-earth marriage, but if you miss it, a rough marriage can be a like a hell-on-earth. It is better you break a relationship now that you can still, before it becomes a life fate for you”.

(7) A lady that compares and complains a lot: it is true that human’s want can never be completely satisfied, but when you meet a lady (the Oliver Twist offspring) that is always and greedily obsessed by her needs to the extent of always comparing you or your effort with other guys, it is high time you gave the relationship a second thought.

You need to know there is nothing you would do that will ever make are truly happy. They will sarcastically and ironically compare you with
Wizkid, Davido and the likes. They will compare you with their friends’ husbands or boyfriends. They will always remind you what other guys with big Benjamin in their pocket are doing to satisfy their partners, forgetting the reason why they loved you from the onset. You will never be secured with such a lady because their patience in and with life are infinitesimal. If you wouldn’t give them, they will always go for it outside.

( A lady that is more concerned about her beauty more than her character: Yea, it is a blessing to be beautiful and it is splendid to be gorgeous, but when you meet a lady that her beauty has become a curse to her, you need to trace your steps back. I’m not saying you shouldn’t go for a beautiful damsel, but try not to let your eyes and heart rule over your head. This simply means the beauty is not enough; not just enough for you to marry her if her attitude is nothing to write home about. They are the kind of ladies that can sacrifice the basic and urgent needs of the family for the trivial materials that will spur their beauty for a day or for that party they want to attend. They believe their beauty can fetch them more than their character can. She becomes nonchalant about the progress of the family in as much as she is glowing every now and then.

(9) A woman that shows no sense and charisma of a “mother”: it is one thing to be a wife, and it is another thing to be a mother. The danger of marrying a woman with no motherly spirit is more than what I can exhaust in this article. Not just will it affect your home now, but it may... READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-123-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

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“Be careful before you dabble into a marriage. It’s is not a child’s play and it’s not for ‘just men’. Everybody pray for a heaven-on-earth marriage, but if you miss it, a rough marriage can be a like a hell-on-earth. It is better you break a relationship now that you can still, before it becomes a life fate for you”.

(7) A lady that compares and complains a lot: it is true that human’s want can never be completely satisfied, but when you meet a lady (the Oliver Twist offspring) that is always and greedily obsessed by her needs to the extent of always comparing you or your effort with other guys, it is high time you gave the relationship a second thought.

You need to know there is nothing you would do that will ever make are truly happy. They will sarcastically and ironically compare you with
Wizkid, Davido and the likes. They will compare you with their friends’ husbands or boyfriends. They will always remind you what other guys with big Benjamin in their pocket are doing to satisfy their partners, forgetting the reason why they loved you from the onset. You will never be secured with such a lady because their patience in and with life are infinitesimal. If you wouldn’t give them, they will always go for it outside.

( A lady that is more concerned about her beauty more than her character: Yea, it is a blessing to be beautiful and it is splendid to be gorgeous, but when you meet a lady that her beauty has become a curse to her, you need to trace your steps back. I’m not saying you shouldn’t go for a beautiful damsel, but try not to let your eyes and heart rule over your head. This simply means the beauty is not enough; not just enough for you to marry her if her attitude is nothing to write home about. They are the kind of ladies that can sacrifice the basic and urgent needs of the family for the trivial materials that will spur their beauty for a day or for that party they want to attend. They believe their beauty can fetch them more than their character can. She becomes nonchalant about the progress of the family in as much as she is glowing every now and then.

(9) A woman that shows no sense and charisma of a “mother”: it is one thing to be a wife, and it is another thing to be a mother. The danger of marrying a woman with no motherly spirit is more than what I can exhaust in this article. Not just will it affect your home now, but it may... READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-123-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

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“Be careful before you dabble into a marriage. It’s is not a child’s play and it’s not for ‘just men’. Everybody pray for a heaven-on-earth marriage, but if you miss it, a rough marriage can be a like a hell-on-earth. It is better you break a relationship now that you can still, before it becomes a life fate for you”.

(7) A lady that compares and complains a lot: it is true that human’s want can never be completely satisfied, but when you meet a lady (the Oliver Twist offspring) that is always and greedily obsessed by her needs to the extent of always comparing you or your effort with other guys, it is high time you gave the relationship a second thought.

You need to know there is nothing you would do that will ever make are truly happy. They will sarcastically and ironically compare you with
Wizkid, Davido and the likes. They will compare you with their friends’ husbands or boyfriends. They will always remind you what other guys with big Benjamin in their pocket are doing to satisfy their partners, forgetting the reason why they loved you from the onset. You will never be secured with such a lady because their patience in and with life are infinitesimal. If you wouldn’t give them, they will always go for it outside.

( A lady that is more concerned about her beauty more than her character: Yea, it is a blessing to be beautiful and it is splendid to be gorgeous, but when you meet a lady that her beauty has become a curse to her, you need to trace your steps back. I’m not saying you shouldn’t go for a beautiful damsel, but try not to let your eyes and heart rule over your head. This simply means the beauty is not enough; not just enough for you to marry her if her attitude is nothing to write home about. They are the kind of ladies that can sacrifice the basic and urgent needs of the family for the trivial materials that will spur their beauty for a day or for that party they want to attend. They believe their beauty can fetch them more than their character can. She becomes nonchalant about the progress of the family in as much as she is glowing every now and then.

(9) A woman that shows no sense and charisma of a “mother”: it is one thing to be a wife, and it is another thing to be a mother. The danger of marrying a woman with no motherly spirit is more than what I can exhaust in this article. Not just will it affect your home now, but it may... READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-123-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

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“Be careful before you dabble into a marriage. It’s is not a child’s play and it’s not for ‘just men’. Everybody pray for a heaven-on-earth marriage, but if you miss it, a rough marriage can be a like a hell-on-earth. It is better you break a relationship now that you can still, before it becomes a life fate for you”.

(7) A lady that compares and complains a lot: it is true that human’s want can never be completely satisfied, but when you meet a lady (the Oliver Twist offspring) that is always and greedily obsessed by her needs to the extent of always comparing you or your effort with other guys, it is high time you gave the relationship a second thought.

You need to know there is nothing you would do that will ever make are truly happy. They will sarcastically and ironically compare you with
Wizkid, Davido and the likes. They will compare you with their friends’ husbands or boyfriends. They will always remind you what other guys with big Benjamin in their pocket are doing to satisfy their partners, forgetting the reason why they loved you from the onset. You will never be secured with such a lady because their patience in and with life are infinitesimal. If you wouldn’t give them, they will always go for it outside.

( A lady that is more concerned about her beauty more than her character: Yea, it is a blessing to be beautiful and it is splendid to be gorgeous, but when you meet a lady that her beauty has become a curse to her, you need to trace your steps back. I’m not saying you shouldn’t go for a beautiful damsel, but try not to let your eyes and heart rule over your head. This simply means the beauty is not enough; not just enough for you to marry her if her attitude is nothing to write home about. They are the kind of ladies that can sacrifice the basic and urgent needs of the family for the trivial materials that will spur their beauty for a day or for that party they want to attend. They believe their beauty can fetch them more than their character can. She becomes nonchalant about the progress of the family in as much as she is glowing every now and then.

(9) A woman that shows no sense and charisma of a “mother”: it is one thing to be a wife, and it is another thing to be a mother. The danger of marrying a woman with no motherly spirit is more than what I can exhaust in this article. Not just will it affect your home now, but it may... READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-123-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

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“Be careful before you dabble into a marriage. It’s is not a child’s play and it’s not for ‘just men’. Everybody pray for a heaven-on-earth marriage, but if you miss it, a rough marriage can be a like a hell-on-earth. It is better you break a relationship now that you can still, before it becomes a life fate for you”.

(7) A lady that compares and complains a lot: it is true that human’s want can never be completely satisfied, but when you meet a lady (the Oliver Twist offspring) that is always and greedily obsessed by her needs to the extent of always comparing you or your effort with other guys, it is high time you gave the relationship a second thought.

You need to know there is nothing you would do that will ever make are truly happy. They will sarcastically and ironically compare you with
Wizkid, Davido and the likes. They will compare you with their friends’ husbands or boyfriends. They will always remind you what other guys with big Benjamin in their pocket are doing to satisfy their partners, forgetting the reason why they loved you from the onset. You will never be secured with such a lady because their patience in and with life are infinitesimal. If you wouldn’t give them, they will always go for it outside.

( A lady that is more concerned about her beauty more than her character: Yea, it is a blessing to be beautiful and it is splendid to be gorgeous, but when you meet a lady that her beauty has become a curse to her, you need to trace your steps back. I’m not saying you shouldn’t go for a beautiful damsel, but try not to let your eyes and heart rule over your head. This simply means the beauty is not enough; not just enough for you to marry her if her attitude is nothing to write home about. They are the kind of ladies that can sacrifice the basic and urgent needs of the family for the trivial materials that will spur their beauty for a day or for that party they want to attend. They believe their beauty can fetch them more than their character can. She becomes nonchalant about the progress of the family in as much as she is glowing every now and then.

(9) A woman that shows no sense and charisma of a “mother”: it is one thing to be a wife, and it is another thing to be a mother. The danger of marrying a woman with no motherly spirit is more than what I can exhaust in this article. Not just will it affect your home now, but it may... READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-123-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

Epidode 1 here http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-121-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html#more

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(4) A lady that nags: Recently I met a lady while serving as a Youth Corp member. This girl is an epitome of beauty. From a distance, she has everything a rational guy would want to see in a girl. Coincidentally, we were able to had a chitchat, and from our discussion I realized this girl was single.

I asked her the reason why, because I was a bit stunned and simultaneously curious on why a lady of such beauty and endowment will be without a guy in her life. She told me a point as we conversed further. She said all her past boyfriends used to complain she nags a lot, which she wouldn’t admit from the way she presented it. She didn’t see
this behavior in herself. Different guys she has dated complained about the same thing, yet she wouldn’t accept to this flaw.

The earlier weeks of our friendship proved her right because she didn’t show any sign of nagging. Later when we got closer, I started seeing this poor attitude in her. When she starts, she remains uncontrollable, the ego inside of her escalates her nagging behavior. At that point, I saw the reason why guys have been dumping this girl. Because none of them could actually cope with this beautiful girl’s poor attitude.

This is a kind of girl you don’t want to risk taking home. They are the kind of ladies that turn the home into a hell. They are the kind of ladies that can go as far as locking up your shirt morning and night if you refused to react to her fuss. They make life and your home extremely miserable with their hot-tempered nature. Is hope alive?

(5) A lady that wouldn’t find any reason to say sorry: also the egoistic type. They are almost synonymous to the kind of ladies I explained right above. The difference is that these category of ladies will never see any reason to come down to the level of saying a simple “I am sorry”, even when they are obviously wrong. Saying sorry makes them sick. A simple sorry is always READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-122-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

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(4) A lady that nags: Recently I met a lady while serving as a Youth Corp member. This girl is an epitome of beauty. From a distance, she has everything a rational guy would want to see in a girl. Coincidentally, we were able to had a chitchat, and from our discussion I realized this girl was single.

I asked her the reason why, because I was a bit stunned and simultaneously curious on why a lady of such beauty and endowment will be without a guy in her life. She told me a point as we conversed further. She said all her past boyfriends used to complain she nags a lot, which she wouldn’t admit from the way she presented it. She didn’t see
this behavior in herself. Different guys she has dated complained about the same thing, yet she wouldn’t accept to this flaw.

The earlier weeks of our friendship proved her right because she didn’t show any sign of nagging. Later when we got closer, I started seeing this poor attitude in her. When she starts, she remains uncontrollable, the ego inside of her escalates her nagging behavior. At that point, I saw the reason why guys have been dumping this girl. Because none of them could actually cope with this beautiful girl’s poor attitude.

This is a kind of girl you don’t want to risk taking home. They are the kind of ladies that turn the home into a hell. They are the kind of ladies that can go as far as locking up your shirt morning and night if you refused to react to her fuss. They make life and your home extremely miserable with their hot-tempered nature. Is hope alive?

(5) A lady that wouldn’t find any reason to say sorry: also the egoistic type. They are almost synonymous to the kind of ladies I explained right above. The difference is that these category of ladies will never see any reason to come down to the level of saying a simple “I am sorry”, even when they are obviously wrong. Saying sorry makes them sick. A simple sorry is always READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-122-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

Epidode 1 here http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-121-10-reasons-why-you-must-not.html#more

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(4) A lady that nags: Recently I met a lady while serving as a Youth Corp member. This girl is an epitome of beauty. From a distance, she has everything a rational guy would want to see in a girl. Coincidentally, we were able to had a chitchat, and from our discussion I realized this girl was single.

I asked her the reason why, because I was a bit stunned and simultaneously curious on why a lady of such beauty and endowment will be without a guy in her life. She told me a point as we conversed further. She said all her past boyfriends used to complain she nags a lot, which she wouldn’t admit from the way she presented it. She didn’t see
this behavior in herself. Different guys she has dated complained about the same thing, yet she wouldn’t accept to this flaw.

The earlier weeks of our friendship proved her right because she didn’t show any sign of nagging. Later when we got closer, I started seeing this poor attitude in her. When she starts, she remains uncontrollable, the ego inside of her escalates her nagging behavior. At that point, I saw the reason why guys have been dumping this girl. Because none of them could actually cope with this beautiful girl’s poor attitude.

This is a kind of girl you don’t want to risk taking home. They are the kind of ladies that turn the home into a hell. They are the kind of ladies that can go as far as locking up your shirt morning and night if you refused to react to her fuss. They make life and your home extremely miserable with their hot-tempered nature. Is hope alive?

(5) A lady that wouldn’t find any reason to say sorry: also the egoistic type. They are almost synonymous to the kind of ladies I explained right above. The difference is that these category of ladies will never see any reason to come down to the level of saying a simple “I am sorry”, even when they are obviously wrong. Saying sorry makes them sick. A simple sorry is always READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/03/topic-122-reasons-why-you-must-not.html

[img]https://4.bp..com/-b_Y48OdhzCY/WLWDYehQj0I/AAAAAAAAA_Y/312yjcXz1doGwh0CwEqWZGjFYhHW9NsGACLcB/s320/marry.jpg[/img]He who found a wife finds a good thing. Well if we are going to split and interpret this, it means not all woman in a home are wives. If you notice some of these attitude in your girl, it is better to take to your heel than to force yourself to marry just for the sake of the peripheral love you have for her. Never let your heart rule over your head here.


(1) A lady that is not ready to change: I put this to be the number one because you are not going to find a perfect lady to marry out there. We are all still growing
and working towards perfection, so prepare your mind for this (besides, you too have got some flaws in you). The fact that she is not perfect is not the issue but the most dangerous thing is if she is not ready to learn or to change. This is very crucial for you to observe before you dabble into marriage. This kind of girl will always believe everything she does is right and it is always the best, so you have no choice but to live with it for life. You won’t be able to reason together with such a girl and correct her mistakes. Eventually, you guys will always be in a loggerhead every time. These type of ladies are extremely egoistic, proud and selfish. She becomes the husband of the home with time.
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(2)A lady that doesn’t believe in your dreams: Martin Luther King Jr. of America (in the book “I have a dream”) said her wife has been living like a widow since she started his mission in delivering the Afro-Americans from racism. He said most times he would traveled for months in the pursuit of his dream, yet the wife would not complain, and also sometimes he has been jailed for months, but the wife stood by him all through. It is not that Martin Luther King Jr.’s wife really loved the fact that her husband was not always there for her and the children, it was because she truly understands and believed immensely in the dream and calling of her husband. Although it wasn’t truly convenient for her, but she needed to brace up and take the responsibility of being the mother and the father of the home in her husband’s absence. This is a typical example of a wife and a mother. With this kind of girl behind Martin Luther King Jr., he was ready to fulfill his dream and purpose in life.

Another global and popular example is Michelle Obama. It was obvious how this great woman supported and stood behind her husband through the ups and downs before and during the actualization of his dream. Remember Victoria Osteen, the wife of the popular pastor, writer and TV icon, Joel Osteen. These are not just amazing women or mothers, they are also great wives
If you mistakenly marry a girl that doesn’t believe in your dream, it marks the beginning of a shattered dream. Unfortunately, you are on the verge of missing your purpose in life, unless mercy prevails. Such ladies show no concern whenever you say anything about your dream or plans for your life. Their body languages are always against such topic pertaining to your dream. They are always nonchalant about what you are about telling them.

(3) lady that always think she is right every time: these are the conceited ladies. She is always full of herself, always self-centered and she always believe she knows more than anyone else. These are the kind of ladies that try to be the husband of the house. They are not the submissive type. They always want to have their opinion to subdue that of their husbands’. They are dangerous.

Episode 2 on www.ishopealive.com

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(1) A lady that is not ready to change: I put this to be the number one because you are not going to find a perfect lady to marry out there. We are all still growing
and working towards perfection, so prepare your mind for this (besides, you too have got some flaws in you). The fact that she is not perfect is not the issue but the most dangerous thing is if she is not ready to learn or to change. This is very crucial for you to observe before you dabble into marriage. This kind of girl will always believe everything she does is right and it is always the best, so you have no choice but to live with it for life. You won’t be able to reason together with such a girl and correct her mistakes. Eventually, you guys will always be in a loggerhead every time. These type of ladies are extremely egoistic, proud and selfish. She becomes the husband of the home with time.
For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com

(2)A lady that doesn’t believe in your dreams: Martin Luther King Jr. of America (in the book “I have a dream”) said her wife has been living like a widow since she started his mission in delivering the Afro-Americans from racism. He said most times he would traveled for months in the pursuit of his dream, yet the wife would not complain, and also sometimes he has been jailed for months, but the wife stood by him all through. It is not that Martin Luther King Jr.’s wife really loved the fact that her husband was not always there for her and the children, it was because she truly understands and believed immensely in the dream and calling of her husband. Although it wasn’t truly convenient for her, but she needed to brace up and take the responsibility of being the mother and the father of the home in her husband’s absence. This is a typical example of a wife and a mother. With this kind of girl behind Martin Luther King Jr., he was ready to fulfill his dream and purpose in life.

Another global and popular example is Michelle Obama. It was obvious how this great woman supported and stood behind her husband through the ups and downs before and during the actualization of his dream. Remember Victoria Osteen, the wife of the popular pastor, writer and TV icon, Joel Osteen. These are not just amazing women or mothers, they are also great wives
If you mistakenly marry a girl that doesn’t believe in your dream, it marks the beginning of a shattered dream. Unfortunately, you are on the verge of missing your purpose in life, unless mercy prevails. Such ladies show no concern whenever you say anything about your dream or plans for your life. Their body languages are always against such topic pertaining to your dream. They are always nonchalant about what you are about telling them.

(3) lady that always think she is right every time: these are the conceited ladies. She is always full of herself, always self-centered and she always believe she knows more than anyone else. These are the kind of ladies that try to be the husband of the house. They are not the submissive type. They always want to have their opinion to subdue that of their husbands’. They are dangerous.

Episode 2 on www.ishopealive.com

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(1) A lady that is not ready to change: I put this to be the number one because you are not going to find a perfect lady to marry out there. We are all still growing
and working towards perfection, so prepare your mind for this (besides, you too have got some flaws in you). The fact that she is not perfect is not the issue but the most dangerous thing is if she is not ready to learn or to change. This is very crucial for you to observe before you dabble into marriage. This kind of girl will always believe everything she does is right and it is always the best, so you have no choice but to live with it for life. You won’t be able to reason together with such a girl and correct her mistakes. Eventually, you guys will always be in a loggerhead every time. These type of ladies are extremely egoistic, proud and selfish. She becomes the husband of the home with time.
For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com

(2)A lady that doesn’t believe in your dreams: Martin Luther King Jr. of America (in the book “I have a dream”) said her wife has been living like a widow since she started his mission in delivering the Afro-Americans from racism. He said most times he would traveled for months in the pursuit of his dream, yet the wife would not complain, and also sometimes he has been jailed for months, but the wife stood by him all through. It is not that Martin Luther King Jr.’s wife really loved the fact that her husband was not always there for her and the children, it was because she truly understands and believed immensely in the dream and calling of her husband. Although it wasn’t truly convenient for her, but she needed to brace up and take the responsibility of being the mother and the father of the home in her husband’s absence. This is a typical example of a wife and a mother. With this kind of girl behind Martin Luther King Jr., he was ready to fulfill his dream and purpose in life.

Another global and popular example is Michelle Obama. It was obvious how this great woman supported and stood behind her husband through the ups and downs before and during the actualization of his dream. Remember Victoria Osteen, the wife of the popular pastor, writer and TV icon, Joel Osteen. These are not just amazing women or mothers, they are also great wives
If you mistakenly marry a girl that doesn’t believe in your dream, it marks the beginning of a shattered dream. Unfortunately, you are on the verge of missing your purpose in life, unless mercy prevails. Such ladies show no concern whenever you say anything about your dream or plans for your life. Their body languages are always against such topic pertaining to your dream. They are always nonchalant about what you are about telling them.

(3) lady that always think she is right every time: these are the conceited ladies. She is always full of herself, always self-centered and she always believe she knows more than anyone else. These are the kind of ladies that try to be the husband of the house. They are not the submissive type. They always want to have their opinion to subdue that of their husbands’. They are dangerous.

Episode 2 on www.ishopealive.com

He who found a wife finds a good thing. Well if we are going to split and interpret this, it means not all woman in a home are wives. If you notice some of these attitude in your girl, it is better to take to your heel than to force yourself to marry just for the sake of the peripheral love you have for her. Never let your heart rule over your head here.


(1) A lady that is not ready to change: I put this to be the number one because you are not going to find a perfect lady to marry out there. We are all still growing
and working towards perfection, so prepare your mind for this (besides, you too have got some flaws in you). The fact that she is not perfect is not the issue but the most dangerous thing is if she is not ready to learn or to change. This is very crucial for you to observe before you dabble into marriage. This kind of girl will always believe everything she does is right and it is always the best, so you have no choice but to live with it for life. You won’t be able to reason together with such a girl and correct her mistakes. Eventually, you guys will always be in a loggerhead every time. These type of ladies are extremely egoistic, proud and selfish. She becomes the husband of the home with time.
For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com

(2)A lady that doesn’t believe in your dreams: Martin Luther King Jr. of America (in the book “I have a dream”) said her wife has been living like a widow since she started his mission in delivering the Afro-Americans from racism. He said most times he would traveled for months in the pursuit of his dream, yet the wife would not complain, and also sometimes he has been jailed for months, but the wife stood by him all through. It is not that Martin Luther King Jr.’s wife really loved the fact that her husband was not always there for her and the children, it was because she truly understands and believed immensely in the dream and calling of her husband. Although it wasn’t truly convenient for her, but she needed to brace up and take the responsibility of being the mother and the father of the home in her husband’s absence. This is a typical example of a wife and a mother. With this kind of girl behind Martin Luther King Jr., he was ready to fulfill his dream and purpose in life.

Another global and popular example is Michelle Obama. It was obvious how this great woman supported and stood behind her husband through the ups and downs before and during the actualization of his dream. Remember Victoria Osteen, the wife of the popular pastor, writer and TV icon, Joel Osteen. These are not just amazing women or mothers, they are also great wives
If you mistakenly marry a girl that doesn’t believe in your dream, it marks the beginning of a shattered dream. Unfortunately, you are on the verge of missing your purpose in life, unless mercy prevails. Such ladies show no concern whenever you say anything about your dream or plans for your life. Their body languages are always against such topic pertaining to your dream. They are always nonchalant about what you are about telling them.

(3) lady that always think she is right every time: these are the conceited ladies. She is always full of herself, always self-centered and she always believe she knows more than anyone else. These are the kind of ladies that try to be the husband of the house. They are not the submissive type. They always want to have their opinion to subdue that of their husbands’. They are dangerous.

Episode 2 on www.ishopealive.com

[b][img]https://4.bp..com/-b_Y48OdhzCY/WLWDYehQj0I/AAAAAAAAA_Y/312yjcXz1doGwh0CwEqWZGjFYhHW9NsGACLcB/s320/marry.jpg[/img]He who found a wife finds a good thing. Well if we are going to split and interpret this, it means not all woman in a home are wives. If you notice some of these attitude in your girl, it is better to take to your heel than to force yourself to marry just for the sake of the peripheral love you have for her. Never let your heart rule over your head here.


(1) A lady that is not ready to change: I put this to be the number one because you are not going to find a perfect lady to marry out there. We are all still growing
and working towards perfection, so prepare your mind for this (besides, you too have got some flaws in you). The fact that she is not perfect is not the issue but the most dangerous thing is if she is not ready to learn or to change. This is very crucial for you to observe before you dabble into marriage. This kind of girl will always believe everything she does is right and it is always the best, so you have no choice but to live with it for life. You won’t be able to reason together with such a girl and correct her mistakes. Eventually, you guys will always be in a loggerhead every time. These type of ladies are extremely egoistic, proud and selfish. She becomes the husband of the home with time.
For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com

(2)A lady that doesn’t believe in your dreams: Martin Luther King Jr. of America (in the book “I have a dream”) said her wife has been living like a widow since she started his mission in delivering the Afro-Americans from racism. He said most times he would traveled for months in the pursuit of his dream, yet the wife would not complain, and also sometimes he has been jailed for months, but the wife stood by him all through. It is not that Martin Luther King Jr.’s wife really loved the fact that her husband was not always there for her and the children, it was because she truly understands and believed immensely in the dream and calling of her husband. Although it wasn’t truly convenient for her, but she needed to brace up and take the responsibility of being the mother and the father of the home in her husband’s absence. This is a typical example of a wife and a mother. With this kind of girl behind Martin Luther King Jr., he was ready to fulfill his dream and purpose in life.

Another global and popular example is Michelle Obama. It was obvious how this great woman supported and stood behind her husband through the ups and downs before and during the actualization of his dream. Remember Victoria Osteen, the wife of the popular pastor, writer and TV icon, Joel Osteen. These are not just amazing women or mothers, they are also great wives
If you mistakenly marry a girl that doesn’t believe in your dream, it marks the beginning of a shattered dream. Unfortunately, you are on the verge of missing your purpose in life, unless mercy prevails. Such ladies show no concern whenever you say anything about your dream or plans for your life. Their body languages are always against such topic pertaining to your dream. They are always nonchalant about what you are about telling them.

(3) lady that always think she is right every time: these are the conceited ladies. She is always full of herself, always self-centered and she always believe she knows more than anyone else. These are the kind of ladies that try to be the husband of the house. They are not the submissive type. They always want to have their opinion to subdue that of their husbands’. They are dangerous.

Episode 2 on www.ishopealive.com

Hug deposits into the account of friendship
Hug gives freedom
Hugs mends broken relationship
Hug seals affection
Hugs breaks and inflict pain in your haters heart
Hugs heals
Hugs gives courage and humility

Is your friendship on the verge of destruction? Are you losing your relationship or you have lost one already, but you are ready to bring it back to life? Are you trying to mend your partnership that is destroyed? Are you indebted to someone or you are trying to win over your haters/enemies? Are you seeking for forgiveness or you are finding it difficult to forgive someone? Are you trying to express your feelings or trying to seal an affection? If you fall in any of the following categories, then this content is meant for you.

There is more to a hug than we know. The power of hug cannot be exhausted. It is sometime beyond our literary view and understanding. Some say love is magical, but the truth is hug is more charming. Hug is the outward and the last expression of love that only the most courageous people do, even when they are wounded beyond repair (forget about the Love-Me-I-Love-you hug).

Hug deposits into the account of friendship: depositing into friendship account is not the literary bank account deposit. It means creating more reason to be indebted to. A hug passes a serious message to a friend on how much you love and regard the person. Have you ever been in this situation, when your friend sticks out his/her hand to greet you, but you went with an embracing arm? To the hug receiver, what runs in his mind is that: wow, so this guy actually likes me and he’s glad to see me? He feels loved, and he tends to reciprocate, not just love, but also respect. This love and respect are indeed what you deposit in your account in his life. On a normal circumstance, people that love you and respect you, tends to go (sometimes extremely) far for you when you need their help. The time you need help from such person in the future is when you start withdrawing from your friendship account. Unfortunately, most of us are having a red account in our friendship.

Hug gives freedom: Has someone offended, angered or pissed you off immensely and you are left disgusted and having a sleepless night over the issue? Or have you spoken bad at someone (probably your office colleagues, your subordinates, children or someone lesser than you in status or rank), and you feel this deep sense of guilt? A sincere hug is what I would recommend. To be frank, you get imprisoned mentally when you feel guilty about something. Freedom is not just the physical freedom; it starts right from the mind. Freedom, most times, is a psychological state of the mind being free of things that makes you worry, steal your happiness or give you a sleepless night. Garner the strength, backed up with humility, say sorry with a powerful hug. By doing that, you have completely set yourself free.

Hugs mends broken relationship: the power of a simple, meaningful and sincere hug can never be underestimated when trying to bring alive a broken relationship, or when trying to mend a relationship on the brink of destruction. It still boils down to your intrinsic courage. When you are ready to reconcile, starts with an emotional “but sincere” hug. It speaks louder and better than the words that will come out of your mouth. It shows how much you still care about the wounded relationship. Not just that a hug speaks it all, it also lay a very conducive foundational environment for http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-119-7-power-of-hugs-you-dont-know.html#more

Hug deposits into the account of friendship
Hug gives freedom
Hugs mends broken relationship
Hug seals affection
Hugs breaks and inflict pain in your haters heart
Hugs heals
Hugs gives courage and humility

Is your friendship on the verge of destruction? Are you losing your relationship or you have lost one already, but you are ready to bring it back to life? Are you trying to mend your partnership that is destroyed? Are you indebted to someone or you are trying to win over your haters/enemies? Are you seeking for forgiveness or you are finding it difficult to forgive someone? Are you trying to express your feelings or trying to seal an affection? If you fall in any of the following categories, then this content is meant for you.

There is more to a hug than we know. The power of hug cannot be exhausted. It is sometime beyond our literary view and understanding. Some say love is magical, but the truth is hug is more charming. Hug is the outward and the last expression of love that only the most courageous people do, even when they are wounded beyond repair (forget about the Love-Me-I-Love-you hug).

Hug deposits into the account of friendship: depositing into friendship account is not the literary bank account deposit. It means creating more reason to be indebted to. A hug passes a serious message to a friend on how much you love and regard the person. Have you ever been in this situation, when your friend sticks out his/her hand to greet you, but you went with an embracing arm? To the hug receiver, what runs in his mind is that: wow, so this guy actually likes me and he’s glad to see me? He feels loved, and he tends to reciprocate, not just love, but also respect. This love and respect are indeed what you deposit in your account in his life. On a normal circumstance, people that love you and respect you, tends to go (sometimes extremely) far for you when you need their help. The time you need help from such person in the future is when you start withdrawing from your friendship account. Unfortunately, most of us are having a red account in our friendship.

Hug gives freedom: Has someone offended, angered or pissed you off immensely and you are left disgusted and having a sleepless night over the issue? Or have you spoken bad at someone (probably your office colleagues, your subordinates, children or someone lesser than you in status or rank), and you feel this deep sense of guilt? A sincere hug is what I would recommend. To be frank, you get imprisoned mentally when you feel guilty about something. Freedom is not just the physical freedom; it starts right from the mind. Freedom, most times, is a psychological state of the mind being free of things that makes you worry, steal your happiness or give you a sleepless night. Garner the strength, backed up with humility, say sorry with a powerful hug. By doing that, you have completely set yourself free.

Hugs mends broken relationship: the power of a simple, meaningful and sincere hug can never be underestimated when trying to bring alive a broken relationship, or when trying to mend a relationship on the brink of destruction. It still boils down to your intrinsic courage. When you are ready to reconcile, starts with an emotional “but sincere” hug. It speaks louder and better than the words that will come out of your mouth. It shows how much you still care about the wounded relationship. Not just that a hug speaks it all, it also lay a very conducive foundational environment for http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-119-7-power-of-hugs-you-dont-know.html#more

Hug deposits into the account of friendship
Hug gives freedom
Hugs mends broken relationship
Hug seals affection
Hugs breaks and inflict pain in your haters heart
Hugs heals
Hugs gives courage and humility

Is your friendship on the verge of destruction? Are you losing your relationship or you have lost one already, but you are ready to bring it back to life? Are you trying to mend your partnership that is destroyed? Are you indebted to someone or you are trying to win over your haters/enemies? Are you seeking for forgiveness or you are finding it difficult to forgive someone? Are you trying to express your feelings or trying to seal an affection? If you fall in any of the following categories, then this content is meant for you.

There is more to a hug than we know. The power of hug cannot be exhausted. It is sometime beyond our literary view and understanding. Some say love is magical, but the truth is hug is more charming. Hug is the outward and the last expression of love that only the most courageous people do, even when they are wounded beyond repair (forget about the Love-Me-I-Love-you hug).

Hug deposits into the account of friendship: depositing into friendship account is not the literary bank account deposit. It means creating more reason to be indebted to. A hug passes a serious message to a friend on how much you love and regard the person. Have you ever been in this situation, when your friend sticks out his/her hand to greet you, but you went with an embracing arm? To the hug receiver, what runs in his mind is that: wow, so this guy actually likes me and he’s glad to see me? He feels loved, and he tends to reciprocate, not just love, but also respect. This love and respect are indeed what you deposit in your account in his life. On a normal circumstance, people that love you and respect you, tends to go (sometimes extremely) far for you when you need their help. The time you need help from such person in the future is when you start withdrawing from your friendship account. Unfortunately, most of us are having a red account in our friendship.

Hug gives freedom: Has someone offended, angered or pissed you off immensely and you are left disgusted and having a sleepless night over the issue? Or have you spoken bad at someone (probably your office colleagues, your subordinates, children or someone lesser than you in status or rank), and you feel this deep sense of guilt? A sincere hug is what I would recommend. To be frank, you get imprisoned mentally when you feel guilty about something. Freedom is not just the physical freedom; it starts right from the mind. Freedom, most times, is a psychological state of the mind being free of things that makes you worry, steal your happiness or give you a sleepless night. Garner the strength, backed up with humility, say sorry with a powerful hug. By doing that, you have completely set yourself free.

Hugs mend broken relationship: the power of a simple, meaningful and sincere hug can never be underestimated when trying to bring alive a broken relationship, or when trying to mend a relationship on the brink of destruction. It still boils down to your intrinsic courage. When you are ready to reconcile, starts with an emotional “but sincere” hug. It speaks louder and better than the words that will come out of your mouth. It shows how much you still care about the wounded relationship. Not just that a hug speaks it all, it also lay a very conducive foundational environment for http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-119-7-power-of-hugs-you-dont-know.html#more

9 Important Things To Do When Things Are Falling Apart In Your Life (Episode 1)

Call it a challenge and tell yourself it won’t last forever: yes, things are quite falling apart now, pick yourself up, and call it a challenge, instead of wallowing in it or calling it a problem that will destroy your life. Every man is predisposed to facing his/her own period trial.; that is inevitable. Even out every moon, there is sometimes a blood moon. Life is not a bed of rose. It will always be thick sometimes though. It is the period that will mold and make you a better man (that is if you pass through and come out of it positively). So stay positive, be optimistic and don’t look for people’s pity.

Settle and calm your spirit: This is very vital because you can never use a turbulence mind to solve a turbulence situation. Also you cannot use an unsettled mind to figure out solution to a falling apart situation. This is the more reason why you need to be calm. Have you seen a blurred eye that sees a clear vision? Absolutely No! And that is why a pair of glasses is recommended for clearer vision. The same principles apply to a troubled mind too. If a corrective measure is not taken, you may never see clearly ways to put things back to order.

Listen not to naysayer and discourager: Give no hear to any advisers that comes your way with negative advices. When I say naysayers, I mean people that will come to criticize and castigate your flaws. They will always emphasize and remind you of your mistakes. They will tell you to give up. They will design a mirror of fate for you; telling you to look at it and accept it. Yea, it may be your fate, but the fate doesn’t have to end in defeat. The outcome of the http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-117-9-important-things-to-do-when.html

Call it a challenge and tell yourself it won’t last forever: yes, things are quite falling apart now, pick yourself up, and call it a challenge, instead of wallowing in it or calling it a problem that will destroy your life. Every man is predisposed to facing his/her own period of trial.; that is inevitable. Even out of every moon, there is sometimes a blood moon. Life is not a bed of rose. It will always be thick sometimes though. It is the period that will mold and make you a better man (that is if you pass through and come out of it positively). So stay positive, be optimistic and don’t look for people’s pity.

Settle and calm your spirit: This is very vital because you can never use a turbulence mind to solve a turbulence situation. Also you cannot use an unsettled mind to figure out solution to a falling apart situation. This is the more reason why you need to be calm. Have you seen a blurred eye that sees a clear vision? Absolutely No! And that is why a pair of glasses is recommended for clearer vision. The same principles apply to a troubled mind too. If a corrective measure is not taken, you may never see clearly ways to put things back to order.

Listen not to naysayer and discourager: Give no hear to any advisers that comes your way with negative advices. When I say naysayers, I mean people that will come to criticize and castigate your flaws. They will always emphasize and remind you of your mistakes. They will tell you to give up. They will design a mirror of fate for you; telling you to look at it and accept it. Yea, it may be your fate, but the fate doesn’t have to end in defeat. The outcome of the http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-117-9-important-things-to-do-when.html

Call it a challenge and tell yourself it won’t last forever: yes, things are quite falling apart now, pick yourself up, and call it a challenge, instead of wallowing in it or calling it a problem that will destroy your life. Every man is predisposed to facing his/her own period trial.; that is inevitable. Even out every moon, there is sometimes a blood moon. Life is not a bed of rose. It will always be thick sometimes though. It is the period that will mold and make you a better man (that is if you pass through and come out of it positively). So stay positive, be optimistic and don’t look for people’s pity.

Settle and calm your spirit: This is very vital because you can never use a turbulence mind to solve a turbulence situation. Also you cannot use an unsettled mind to figure out solution to a falling apart situation. This is the more reason why you need to be calm. Have you seen a blurred eye that sees a clear vision? Absolutely No! And that is why a pair of glasses is recommended for clearer vision. The same principles apply to a troubled mind too. If a corrective measure is not taken, you may never see clearly ways to put things back to order.

Listen not to naysayer and discourager: Give no hear to any advisers that comes your way with negative advices. When I say naysayers, I mean people that will come to criticize and castigate your flaws. They will always emphasize and remind you of your mistakes. They will tell you to give up. They will design a mirror of fate for you; telling you to look at it and accept it. Yea, it may be your fate, but the fate doesn’t have to end in defeat. The outcome of the http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-117-9-important-things-to-do-when.html

Call it a challenge and tell yourself it won’t last forever: yes, things are quite falling apart now, pick yourself up, and call it a challenge, instead of wallowing in it or calling it a problem that will destroy your life. Every man is predisposed to facing his/her own period trial.; that is inevitable. Even out every moon, there is sometimes a blood moon. Life is not a bed of rose. It will always be thick sometimes though. It is the period that will mold and make you a better man (that is if you pass through and come out of it positively). So stay positive, be optimistic and don’t look for people’s pity.

Settle and calm your spirit: This is very vital because you can never use a turbulence mind to solve a turbulence situation. Also you cannot use an unsettled mind to figure out solution to a falling apart situation. This is the more reason why you need to be calm. Have you seen a blurred eye that sees a clear vision? Absolutely No! And that is why a pair of glasses is recommended for clearer vision. The same principles apply to a troubled mind too. If a corrective measure is not taken, you may never see clearly ways to put things back to order.

Listen not to naysayer and discourager: Give no hear to any advisers that comes your way with negative advices. When I say naysayers, I mean people that will come to criticize and castigate your flaws. They will always emphasize and remind you of your mistakes. They will tell you to give up. They will design a mirror of fate for you; telling you to look at it and accept it. Yea, it may be your fate, but the fate doesn’t have to end in defeat. The outcome of the http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-117-9-important-things-to-do-when.html

Some people notice problems and talk about problems
ii. Some people cry about problems
iii. Some people grumble and complain about problems
iv. Some people ignore problems
v. Some people run away from problems
vi. Some people create more problems
vii. But the minority solve problems




The first stage of solving a problem is to identify a problem. Try to know the category you fall so that you can proffer solution soon.

(1) Some people notice problems and talk about problems: the category of people called problem detectors. They are proficient at seeing
problems, and all they do eventually is to keep talking about the problems. They are problem seers, with a clear view of who or what is causing the problems, but beside talking and gossiping about the problems, they take no step in solving the problem.

(2) Some people cry about problems: these are the category that burst and rant because the problems have caught them to the point of their bone marrow. They cannot persevere no more and also, they lack possible ideas to solving the problems; the problems now affect their normal day to day functions. They become so weak with no more will power to take the next step. They wallow and dine in the problems.

(3) Some people grumble and complain about problems: this particular group is like the one above, but they choose to be lackadaisical about the root of the problems. They have got that strength to manage the problems (to some extent anyways), but instead of looking for a way to solve the way, they spend their time murmuring and complaining around. These are the same set that never see the good side of any challenge. They are just not ready to take a positive from any difficulty. They rather prefer dissipating their vigor poisoning the mind of others. They so much enjoy murmuring around. Not only that, they also enjoy self-pity rather that facing their problems.


read more on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-116-7-kind-of-people-based-on.html

Some people notice problems and talk about problems
ii. Some people cry about problems
iii. Some people grumble and complain about problems
iv. Some people ignore problems
v. Some people run away from problems
vi. Some people create more problems
vii. But the minority solve problems




The first stage of solving a problem is to identify a problem. Try to know the category you fall so that you can proffer solution soon.

(1) Some people notice problems and talk about problems: the category of people called problem detectors. They are proficient at seeing
problems, and all they do eventually is to keep talking about the problems. They are problem seers, with a clear view of who or what is causing the problems, but beside talking and gossiping about the problems, they take no step in solving the problem.

(2) Some people cry about problems: these are the category that burst and rant because the problems have caught them to the point of their bone marrow. They cannot persevere no more and also, they lack possible ideas to solving the problems; the problems now affect their normal day to day functions. They become so weak with no more will power to take the next step. They wallow and dine in the problems.

(3) Some people grumble and complain about problems: this particular group is like the one above, but they choose to be lackadaisical about the root of the problems. They have got that strength to manage the problems (to some extent anyways), but instead of looking for a way to solve the way, they spend their time murmuring and complaining around. These are the same set that never see the good side of any challenge. They are just not ready to take a positive from any difficulty. They rather prefer dissipating their vigor poisoning the mind of others. They so much enjoy murmuring around. Not only that, they also enjoy self-pity rather that facing their problems.


read more on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-116-7-kind-of-people-based-on.html

Some people notice problems and talk about problems
ii. Some people cry about problems
iii. Some people grumble and complain about problems
iv. Some people ignore problems
v. Some people run away from problems
vi. Some people create more problems
vii. But the minority solve problems




The first stage of solving a problem is to identify a problem. Try to know the category you fall so that you can proffer solution soon.

(1) Some people notice problems and talk about problems: the category of people called problem detectors. They are proficient at seeing
problems, and all they do eventually is to keep talking about the problems. They are problem seers, with a clear view of who or what is causing the problems, but beside talking and gossiping about the problems, they take no step in solving the problem.

(2) Some people cry about problems: these are the category that burst and rant because the problems have caught them to the point of their bone marrow. They cannot persevere no more and also, they lack possible ideas to solving the problems; the problems now affect their normal day to day functions. They become so weak with no more will power to take the next step. They wallow and dine in the problems.

(3) Some people grumble and complain about problems: this particular group is like the one above, but they choose to be lackadaisical about the root of the problems. They have got that strength to manage the problems (to some extent anyways), but instead of looking for a way to solve the way, they spend their time murmuring and complaining around. These are the same set that never see the good side of any challenge. They are just not ready to take a positive from any difficulty. They rather prefer dissipating their vigor poisoning the mind of others. They so much enjoy murmuring around. Not only that, they also enjoy self-pity rather that facing their problems.


read more on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/02/topic-116-7-kind-of-people-based-on.html

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Falling (or failure) in life is not the greatest crime on your path to success, but it can be when you easily give up.
Set your eyes on your initial dream; let it be above while your tribulation is below.
Gaze on your goal with an eagle eye, and assume you are almost there.

Say to yourself: “failure or disappointment is never meant to bring me down in life; it is simply an opportunity to start afresh, and also a pointer that
I am a step closer”.For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com
See the strength in yourself more than any other person would.
It is the time to listen more to yourself regardless of what others are telling you, be it positive or negative.
Your healing and recovery starts from you.
Think of people that don’t want you to succeed in life; those people that will be glad if you remain stagnant, those people that don’t want you to reach up to their height and those people that want you to remain within the same par as they are. Think of you disappointing them.
Think of those people that say to your face: “I know you can never make it”, “I said you can never make it”, “Nobody has ever done this before”, “nobody has ever done this before in your lineage”, nobody has ever tried it and scrape through, and yours can never be different”. Think of how you’d feel if you prove these people wrong.
Think of your loved ones, your true friends, your families, those who have always believed in you and those whom you think you are indebted to. Think of the joy it would be if you don’t disappoint them.
Think of those people that have suffered for you; those people that have paid the price for you to get to where you are today. Think of not letting them down.
Think of how far you have gone in life. Say to yourself it is too “late” to quit. You have gone far; You can’t just quit now.
Think of all those things you don’t want for your future. At this juncture, think more of these things more than what you do want for your future.

READ MORE ON: http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/01/topic-113-20-powerful-things-you-must.html

Falling (or failure) in life is not the greatest crime on your path to success, but it can be when you easily give up.
Set your eyes on your initial dream; let it be above while your tribulation is below.
Gaze on your goal with an eagle eye, and assume you are almost there.

Say to yourself: “failure or disappointment is never meant to bring me down in life; it is simply an opportunity to start afresh, and also a pointer that
I am a step closer”.For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com
See the strength in yourself more than any other person would.
It is the time to listen more to yourself regardless of what others are telling you, be it positive or negative.
Your healing and recovery starts from you.
Think of people that don’t want you to succeed in life; those people that will be glad if you remain stagnant, those people that don’t want you to reach up to their height and those people that want you to remain within the same par as they are. Think of you disappointing them.
Think of those people that say to your face: “I know you can never make it”, “I said you can never make it”, “Nobody has ever done this before”, “nobody has ever done this before in your lineage”, nobody has ever tried it and scrape through, and yours can never be different”. Think of how you’d feel if you prove these people wrong.
Think of your loved ones, your true friends, your families, those who have always believed in you and those whom you think you are indebted to. Think of the joy it would be if you don’t disappoint them.
Think of those people that have suffered for you; those people that have paid the price for you to get to where you are today. Think of not letting them down.
Think of how far you have gone in life. Say to yourself it is too “late” to quit. You have gone far; You can’t just quit now.
Think of all those things you don’t want for your future. At this juncture, think more of these things more than what you do want for your future.

READ MORE ON: http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/01/topic-113-20-powerful-things-you-must.html

Falling (or failure) in life is not the greatest crime on your path to success, but it can be when you easily give up.
Set your eyes on your initial dream; let it be above while your tribulation is below.
Gaze on your goal with an eagle eye, and assume you are almost there.

Say to yourself: “failure or disappointment is never meant to bring me down in life; it is simply an opportunity to start afresh, and also a pointer that
I am a step closer”.For Counsel, for testimony, contact us via WhatsApp on +2347066352274 or mail us on ishopealive@gmail.com
See the strength in yourself more than any other person would.
It is the time to listen more to yourself regardless of what others are telling you, be it positive or negative.
Your healing and recovery starts from you.
Think of people that don’t want you to succeed in life; those people that will be glad if you remain stagnant, those people that don’t want you to reach up to their height and those people that want you to remain within the same par as they are. Think of you disappointing them.
Think of those people that say to your face: “I know you can never make it”, “I said you can never make it”, “Nobody has ever done this before”, “nobody has ever done this before in your lineage”, nobody has ever tried it and scrape through, and yours can never be different”. Think of how you’d feel if you prove these people wrong.
Think of your loved ones, your true friends, your families, those who have always believed in you and those whom you think you are indebted to. Think of the joy it would be if you don’t disappoint them.
Think of those people that have suffered for you; those people that have paid the price for you to get to where you are today. Think of not letting them down.
Think of how far you have gone in life. Say to yourself it is too “late” to quit. You have gone far; You can’t just quit now.
Think of all those things you don’t want for your future. At this juncture, think more of these things more than what you do want for your future.

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