The fact that he or she lets you down doesn’t guarantee every other person you meet in life will treat you the same way. What happen in your last relationship was only a means for you to learn something from someone or some set of people. This kind of event should make you strong and well prepared for a better relationship that is yet to come. Trust me, if he or she was perfectly meant for you, he or she would never elude you.

No man is indispensable and no feelings is irreplaceable. Are you afraid of replacing him? or are you afraid you may not get over the feelings? This is a self-deception for an ignorant being. God has given us the chance to get over pains and troubles unless we choose to confine ourselves within the boundary of “I can’t”. Time will heal whatever the pain, the trouble or the challenges may be. The problems you see today will fade away if you will free yourself from the deceptive imagination of “I can’t”.

Can I still ever love again is synonymous to saying, can I still ever make READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-157-can-i-still-ever-love-again.html

The true meaning of life is not defined by the luxury we gather in life; it is not the number of wives we have; it is not the number of greatness we achieve; it is not the peak or position we attain in life, it is not in the fame we have; it is not in the number of degrees we get; it is not in the amount we store in the bank or the wealth we gather and hoard; it is not in the pain we suffer, the disappointment we get from others, neither is it defined by our present individual status. The true meaning of life is the actual life or the moment after death closes our eyelids.

The true meaning of life can never be found in this present life. The true meaning of life can never be fully understood as a mere man. The true meaning of life can only be found in the life after the life itself (the life after death).
The amazing thing about the true meaning of life is that each and every one of us will get different definitions after we pay our inevitable debt. The different definition will depend on the way we live our lives today and it is at that READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-156-true-meaning-of-life.html

The true meaning of life is not defined by the luxury we gather in life; it is not the number of wives we have; it is not the number of greatness we achieve; it is not the peak or position we attain in life, it is not in the fame we have; it is not in the number of degrees we get; it is not in the amount we store in the bank or the wealth we gather and hoard; it is not in the pain we suffer, the disappointment we get from others, neither is it defined by our present individual status. The true meaning of life is the actual life or the moment after death closes our eyelids.

The true meaning of life can never be found in this present life. The true meaning of life can never be fully understood as a mere man. The true meaning of life can only be found in the life after the life itself (the life after death).
The amazing thing about the true meaning of life is that each and every one of us will get different definitions after we pay our inevitable debt. The different definition will depend on the way we live our lives today and it is at that READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-156-true-meaning-of-life.html

The true meaning of life is not defined by the luxury we gather in life; it is not the number of wives we have; it is not the number of greatness we achieve; it is not the peak or position we attain in life, it is not in the fame we have; it is not in the number of degrees we get; it is not in the amount we store in the bank or the wealth we gather and hoard; it is not in the pain we suffer, the disappointment we get from others, neither is it defined by our present individual status. The true meaning of life is the actual life or the moment after death closes our eyelids.

The true meaning of life can never be found in this present life. The true meaning of life can never be fully understood as a mere man. The true meaning of life can only be found in the life after the life itself (the life after death).
The amazing thing about the true meaning of life is that each and every one of us will get different definitions after we pay our inevitable debt. The different definition will depend on the way we live our lives today and it is at that READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/08/topic-156-true-meaning-of-life.html

[img]https://4.bp..com/-CLvq2dSeJsQ/WX0bZQ8NokI/AAAAAAAABPQ/f-blzaefT0slpJmaDW-y_sgKIvxGKzaQwCLcBGAs/s320/TALIBE_3b.jpg[/img]To the rich guys out there who brag, ridicule and belittle the lesser ones; to the wealthy ones who are intimidating the less privileged; to the money hoarders who believed so much in the power of their money; to those who maltreat others because they feed from the stipend you pay them, be careful.

For a wise man, the last thing you want to underestimate in life is the potential in every human being. The table of life is not constant; it turns around. That hopeless boy, girl, man or woman that you see today can be your hope for tomorrow. Within a twinkle of an eye, the tattered man you saw yesterday in the miry clay can be the one that will build a castle on the rock tomorrow.

Life turns around. It can turn either ways (good or bad). That is just the irony of life. Few years back, Jack Ma (Alibaba CEO) was only a forgotten
READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-153-round-table-of-life.html

[img]https://4.bp..com/-CLvq2dSeJsQ/WX0bZQ8NokI/AAAAAAAABPQ/f-blzaefT0slpJmaDW-y_sgKIvxGKzaQwCLcBGAs/s320/TALIBE_3b.jpg[/img]To the rich guys out there who brag, ridicule and belittle the lesser ones; to the wealthy ones who are intimidating the less privileged; to the money hoarders who believed so much in the power of their money; to those who maltreat others because they feed from the stipend you pay them, be careful.

For a wise man, the last thing you want to underestimate in life is the potential in every human being. The table of life is not constant; it turns around. That hopeless boy, girl, man or woman that you see today can be your hope for tomorrow. Within a twinkle of an eye, the tattered man you saw yesterday in the miry clay can be the one that will build a castle on the rock tomorrow.

Life turns around. It can turn either ways (good or bad). That is just the irony of life. Few years back, Jack Ma (Alibaba CEO) was only a forgotten
READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-153-round-table-of-life.html

[img]https://4.bp..com/-CLvq2dSeJsQ/WX0bZQ8NokI/AAAAAAAABPQ/f-blzaefT0slpJmaDW-y_sgKIvxGKzaQwCLcBGAs/s320/TALIBE_3b.jpg[/img]To the rich guys out there who brag, ridicule and belittle the lesser ones; to the wealthy ones who are intimidating the less privileged; to the money hoarders who believed so much in the power of their money; to those who maltreat others because they feed from the stipend you pay them, be careful.

For a wise man, the last thing you want to underestimate in life is the potential in every human being. The table of life is not constant; it turns around. That hopeless boy, girl, man or woman that you see today can be your hope for tomorrow. Within a twinkle of an eye, the tattered man you saw yesterday in the miry clay can be the one that will build a castle on the rock tomorrow.

Life turns around. It can turn either ways (good or bad). That is just the irony of life. Few years back, Jack Ma (Alibaba CEO) was only a forgotten
READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-153-round-table-of-life.html

“When God is particularly interested in your case, all you see is frustration when you are actually not being frustrated. You see frustration because God’s intention for your life is not the procession you want, you plan and you are taking at the moment”. Therefore, you get frustrated because it seems to you that you are not just doing it right every time you try. It looks everything keeps falling apart despite your relentless effort to turn things around.

You don’t need to give up now. Never forget that the foolishness of God is far better than the wisdom of any man. He creates you and he definitely have a purpose for you. He has deposited everything needed for your exploit and greatness, so you don’t need to hastily run away from... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-152-when-you-think-god-is-deaf.html

“When God is particularly interested in your case, all you see is frustration when you are actually not being frustrated. You see frustration because God’s intention for your life is not the procession you want, you plan and you are taking at the moment”. Therefore, you get frustrated because it seems to you that you are not just doing it right every time you try. It looks everything keeps falling apart despite your relentless effort to turn things around.

You don’t need to give up now. Never forget that the foolishness of God is far better than the wisdom of any man. He creates you and he definitely have a purpose for you. He has deposited everything needed for your exploit and greatness, so you don’t need to hastily run away from... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-152-when-you-think-god-is-deaf.html

“When God is particularly interested in your case, all you see is frustration when you are actually not being frustrated. You see frustration because God’s intention for your life is not the procession you want, you plan and you are taking at the moment”. Therefore, you get frustrated because it seems to you that you are not just doing it right every time you try. It looks everything keeps falling apart despite your relentless effort to turn things around.

You don’t need to give up now. Never forget that the foolishness of God is far better than the wisdom of any man. He creates you and he definitely have a purpose for you. He has deposited everything needed for your exploit and greatness, so you don’t need to hastily run away from... READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-152-when-you-think-god-is-deaf.html

Perfection is uncommon in humanity. We all have our dark side. The hidden secret of us we wouldn’t want another ear to hear. The atrocities we have committed or we are committing secretly, that nobody but God knows.

The side I may not tell you, and the side you will never tell me. So who are we to hold unto the open sins of others? Who are we, that we would stand so firm and rigid on the mistakes of others as if they have committed the worst? Better to
correct and forgive than to castigate and keep malice.

If God would give us another chance; and yet over and over again. If he would not destroy us because of our hidden sins and mistakes; if he wouldn’t give up on us despite our unfaithfulness, lies and other unspoken hidden things we have done, then why should it be... READ MORE http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-151-we-all-have-our-hidden-sins.html

Perfection is uncommon in humanity. We all have our dark side. The hidden secret of us we wouldn’t want another ear to hear. The atrocities we have committed or we are committing secretly, that nobody but God knows.

The side I may not tell you, and the side you will never tell me. So who are we to hold unto the open sins of others? Who are we, that we would stand so firm and rigid on the mistakes of others as if they have committed the worst? Better to
correct and forgive than to castigate and keep malice.

If God would give us another chance; and yet over and over again. If he would not destroy us because of our hidden sins and mistakes; if he wouldn’t give up on us despite our unfaithfulness, lies and other unspoken hidden things we have done, then why should it be... READ MORE http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-151-we-all-have-our-hidden-sins.html

Perfection is uncommon in humanity. We all have our dark side. The hidden secret of us we wouldn’t want another ear to hear. The atrocities we have committed or we are committing secretly, that nobody but God knows.

The side I may not tell you, and the side you will never tell me. So who are we to hold unto the open sins of others? Who are we, that we would stand so firm and rigid on the mistakes of others as if they have committed the worst? Better to
correct and forgive than to castigate and keep malice.

If God would give us another chance; and yet over and over again. If he would not destroy us because of our hidden sins and mistakes; if he wouldn’t give up on us despite our unfaithfulness, lies and other unspoken hidden things we have done, then why should it be... READ MORE http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-151-we-all-have-our-hidden-sins.html

Stupidity can be the best term to describe it when your extravagant expenses (just to impress people) are far more than your petty income. You envy the lives of those stars and celebrities, but you have forgotten most of them are living nothing but fake lives;
they face reality at the corner of their room. Why not try to be yourself and work diligently to achieve those big dreams you
have? Be diligent and you will sit among kings. Be a fake and you vanish out like a slave.

It is not a crime to live a large life (if you are capable and genuinely have all it takes), but it is a psychological sickness when all what you do is to deceive yourself (and others), pretending to be what you are not. At the end, you fizzle out like flame.

There is more to this life than faking up what you aren’t. There is more to what you are meant to be than to be living a wasted fake life. You are a girl out there and all you want is that Brazilian hair that your pocket and your parents cannot afford. All you passionately desire is just to get someone’s ready-made hair for yourself. You put so much pressure on yourself and you go extremely low on your entity as a virtuous woman, and succumb for just any guy who is ready to give you a stick and carrot at the same time; all in the name of a "Brazillian wig" that would not last more a couple of months.

You are a guy out there, and READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-150-living-larger-than-life-stop.html

Stupidity can be the best term to describe it when your extravagant expenses (just to impress people) are far more than your petty income. You envy the lives of those stars and celebrities, but you have forgotten most of them are living nothing but fake lives;
they face reality at the corner of their room. Why not try to be yourself and work diligently to achieve those big dreams you
have? Be diligent and you will sit among kings. Be a fake and you vanish out like a slave.

It is not a crime to live a large life (if you are capable and genuinely have all it takes), but it is a psychological sickness when all what you do is to deceive yourself (and others), pretending to be what you are not. At the end, you fizzle out like flame.

There is more to this life than faking up what you aren’t. There is more to what you are meant to be than to be living a wasted fake life. You are a girl out there and all you want is that Brazilian hair that your pocket and your parents cannot afford. All you passionately desire is just to get someone’s ready-made hair for yourself. You put so much pressure on yourself and you go extremely low on your entity as a virtuous woman, and succumb for just any guy who is ready to give you a stick and carrot at the same time; all in the name of a "Brazillian wig" that would not last more a couple of months.

You are a guy out there, and READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-150-living-larger-than-life-stop.html

Stupidity can be the best term to describe it when your extravagant expenses (just to impress people) are far more than your petty income. You envy the lives of those stars and celebrities, but you have forgotten most of them are living nothing but fake lives;
they face reality at the corner of their room. Why not try to be yourself and work diligently to achieve those big dreams you
have? Be diligent and you will sit among kings. Be a fake and you vanish out like a slave.

It is not a crime to live a large life (if you are capable and genuinely have all it takes), but it is a psychological sickness when all what you do is to deceive yourself (and others), pretending to be what you are not. At the end, you fizzle out like flame.

There is more to this life than faking up what you aren’t. There is more to what you are meant to be than to be living a wasted fake life. You are a girl out there and all you want is that Brazilian hair that your pocket and your parents cannot afford. All you passionately desire is just to get someone’s ready-made hair for yourself. You put so much pressure on yourself and you go extremely low on your entity as a virtuous woman, and succumb for just any guy who is ready to give you a stick and carrot at the same time; all in the name of a "Brazillian wig" that would not last more a couple of months.

You are a guy out there, and READ MORE on http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-150-living-larger-than-life-stop.html

Destiny is the fixed order obtained. Destiny is an end and purpose is a means for an end. It is a predetermined end. God does not wait for the end to determine the end. Destiny is the ultimate person you are meant to be. Destiny fulfilled is the manifestation of the real you. Talent is just a divine endowment that helps you fulfill your purpose in life.

Purpose is the means to an end. Daily decisions, through metamorphosis, develops to destiny fulfillment. Your appearance is the result of your decision. For instance, before a rational man can appear in a crazy-jean, he would have thought of the pros and cons of it in his closet before appearing outside with such. What you are seeing is just the sum total result of his decision. In short, unless retarded, what you wear, what you do, what you say, where you go per time are a simple function of what you decide.

Many people don’t live their self-willing decision, but live by people’s opinion about them, and at the end they become the victim of public opinion. Any decision not base on strong conviction will result in READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-149-still-confused-about-your.html

Destiny is the fixed order obtained. Destiny is an end and purpose is a means for an end. It is a predetermined end. God does not wait for the end to determine the end. Destiny is the ultimate person you are meant to be. Destiny fulfilled is the manifestation of the real you. Talent is just a divine endowment that helps you fulfill your purpose in life.

Purpose is the means to an end. Daily decisions, through metamorphosis, develops to destiny fulfillment. Your appearance is the result of your decision. For instance, before a rational man can appear in a crazy-jean, he would have thought of the pros and cons of it in his closet before appearing outside with such. What you are seeing is just the sum total result of his decision. In short, unless retarded, what you wear, what you do, what you say, where you go per time are a simple function of what you decide.

Many people don’t live their self-willing decision, but live by people’s opinion about them, and at the end they become the victim of public opinion. Any decision not base on strong conviction will result in READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-149-still-confused-about-your.html

Destiny is the fixed order obtained. Destiny is an end and purpose is a means for an end. It is a predetermined end. God does not wait for the end to determine the end. Destiny is the ultimate person you are meant to be. Destiny fulfilled is the manifestation of the real you. Talent is just a divine endowment that helps you fulfill your purpose in life.

Purpose is the means to an end. Daily decisions, through metamorphosis, develops to destiny fulfillment. Your appearance is the result of your decision. For instance, before a rational man can appear in a crazy-jean, he would have thought of the pros and cons of it in his closet before appearing outside with such. What you are seeing is just the sum total result of his decision. In short, unless retarded, what you wear, what you do, what you say, where you go per time are a simple function of what you decide.

Although your decision may be orchestrated by one factor or the other (palatable or not palatable; with choice or no choice), but the ultimate thing is that you decide before you act. Show me your attitude and I will tell you if you will go far in life or not. To tell you the power of decision, you don’t need to tell me who you are. Life will not give you what you decide unless you demand for it with every fervency and determination.

Many people don’t live their self-willing decision, but live by people’s opinion about them, and at the end they become the victim of public opinion. Any decision not base on strong conviction will result in READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/07/topic-149-still-confused-about-your.html

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Where is our sense of humanity, humility and godliness? It is a pity we are failing humanity because of our nonchalant attitude towards the less privileged and the hopeless ones in our societies. I beseech you all: save our children and secure our future.

They do not belong to the street. They do not belong to the road side. They do not deserve the poor attitude and negligence towards them. They belong to the future; they are our future. They are what we should look up to, and it will be a huge mistake by looking down on them or by forsaking them today. They deserve our best, our love and our care. They are our future. Show them love, irrespective of whose wards they are.


Have you ever felt the extremity of hunger before? These are what these children face almost every day. I have been with them, I have lived with them; I know and I feel their pain. I see the pain in their eyes anytime we converse.

They are broken, and they cry within every day. But see you! You, your children and family are relishing the thigh of a chicken and the savor of that well spiced meal, but you have forgotten those less privileged ones who can’t afford the nail of a chicken, let alone the leg.

The children we ignore to rust on READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-148-save-our-children-preserve.html

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Where is our sense of humanity, humility and godliness? It is a pity we are failing humanity because of our nonchalant attitude towards the less privileged and the hopeless ones in our societies. I beseech you all: save our children and secure our future.

They do not belong to the street. They do not belong to the road side. They do not deserve the poor attitude and negligence towards them. They belong to the future; they are our future. They are what we should look up to, and it will be a huge mistake by looking down on them or by forsaking them today. They deserve our best, our love and our care. They are our future. Show them love, irrespective of whose wards they are.


Have you ever felt the extremity of hunger before? These are what these children face almost every day. I have been with them, I have lived with them; I know and I feel their pain. I see the pain in their eyes anytime we converse.

They are broken, and they cry within every day. But see you! You, your children and family are relishing the thigh of a chicken and the savor of that well spiced meal, but you have forgotten those less privileged ones who can’t afford the nail of a chicken, let alone the leg.

The children we ignore to rust on READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-148-save-our-children-preserve.html

[img]https://3.bp..com/-vZKj5ltGo4s/WVWKNZxA1QI/AAAAAAAABNQ/ZRYLwRo6XM4uHzkgy6K3orjUJHJvnSZTwCLcBGAs/s320/wpid-street-hawkers.jpg[/img]
Where is our sense of humanity, humility and godliness? It is a pity we are failing humanity because of our nonchalant attitude towards the less privileged and the hopeless ones in our societies. I beseech you all: save our children and secure our future.

They do not belong to the street. They do not belong to the road side. They do not deserve the poor attitude and negligence towards them. They belong to the future; they are our future. They are what we should look up to, and it will be a huge mistake by looking down on them or by forsaking them today. They deserve our best, our love and our care. They are our future. Show them love, irrespective of whose wards they are.


Have you ever felt the extremity of hunger before? These are what these children face almost every day. I have been with them, I have lived with them; I know and I feel their pain. I see the pain in their eyes anytime we converse.

They are broken, and they cry within every day. But see you! You, your children and family are relishing the thigh of a chicken and the savor of that well spiced meal, but you have forgotten those less privileged ones who can’t afford the nail of a chicken, let alone the leg.

The children we ignore to rust on READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-148-save-our-children-preserve.html

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#beat_no_wife. Show me a man that raises hand to beat his wife, and I will ask: “is their hope for such a man”? This irritates me a lot when I hear a man raising his hand to beat the weaker lady he once professed his love for. A lady he knelt down to propose to? You have turn yourself into one mighty Big Show that has found a hapless punching bag to be boxing around? Don’t be a coward; if you need someone to flex your muscle on, why not go to the street and challenge the “baddos and baddest out there”, and let them teach you a lesson of life.
If this article has been beneficial to you, kindly share or recommend for the consumption of others. Thank you…

Where has the initial love gone? Why is the love missing now? Why has he forgotten what initially brought them together? The day a man would raise a hand to beat the wife is the day he lost the crown of being the head. He is nothing but a mere husband without a kingdom.
Do you know what it takes to be a woman and what it takes to be a mother? Have you ever imagined the pain and stress right from the day you laid her on bed, to conception, to carrying, for 9 months, the load you injected? Have you ever thought of the pain of labor? Oh my God! What a pity! Have you ever imagined the stress of the baby right from the day of delivery? The disturbance, the cry and the READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-148-man-that-raises-hand-to-beat.html

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#beat_no_wife. Show me a man that raises hand to beat his wife, and I will ask: “is their hope for such a man”? This irritates me a lot when I hear a man raising his hand to beat the weaker lady he once professed his love for. A lady he knelt down to propose to? You have turn yourself into one mighty Big Show that has found a hapless punching bag to be boxing around? Don’t be a coward; if you need someone to flex your muscle on, why not go to the street and challenge the “baddos and baddest out there”, and let them teach you a lesson of life.
If this article has been beneficial to you, kindly share or recommend for the consumption of others. Thank you…

Where has the initial love gone? Why is the love missing now? Why has he forgotten what initially brought them together? The day a man would raise a hand to beat the wife is the day he lost the crown of being the head. He is nothing but a mere husband without a kingdom.
Do you know what it takes to be a woman and what it takes to be a mother? Have you ever imagined the pain and stress right from the day you laid her on bed, to conception, to carrying, for 9 months, the load you injected? Have you ever thought of the pain of labor? Oh my God! What a pity! Have you ever imagined the stress of the baby right from the day of delivery? The disturbance, the cry and the READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-148-man-that-raises-hand-to-beat.html

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#beat_no_wife. Show me a man that raises hand to beat his wife, and I will ask: “is their hope for such a man”? This irritates me a lot when I hear a man raising his hand to beat the weaker lady he once professed his love for. A lady he knelt down to propose to? You have turn yourself into one mighty Big Show that has found a hapless punching bag to be boxing around? Don’t be a coward; if you need someone to flex your muscle on, why not go to the street and challenge the “baddos and baddest out there”, and let them teach you a lesson of life.
If this article has been beneficial to you, kindly share or recommend for the consumption of others. Thank you…

Where has the initial love gone? Why is the love missing now? Why has he forgotten what initially brought them together? The day a man would raise a hand to beat the wife is the day he lost the crown of being the head. He is nothing but a mere husband without a kingdom.
Do you know what it takes to be a woman and what it takes to be a mother? Have you ever imagined the pain and stress right from the day you laid her on bed, to conception, to carrying, for 9 months, the load you injected? Have you ever thought of the pain of labor? Oh my God! What a pity! Have you ever imagined the stress of the baby right from the day of delivery? The disturbance, the cry and the READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-148-man-that-raises-hand-to-beat.html

“It’s like my life is an experiment before God. I don’t even think He cares about me or my existence. Or is God’s existence we were told, a mere fairy tale? Despite all I have given to life; my prayers, my supplications, my persistence, hard labor, to mention a few; but see where I am today. I am still crawling and struggling with life when my contemporaries are flying. Things are everyday falling apart for me. I have given much to life than what I am and where I am today. Even people that, ordinarily, are not at my level are now far above me”. Why me? Why is life turning this way for me?” That was Kunle’s statement as I overheard.

I felt broken where I sat and I was going to ask myself the affirmation of the existence of God if life wouldn’t just give according to how we labored, worked and prayed. I was going to ask myself the significance of time and chance in the life of a man. I was going to question God and indirectly tell God life is not fair (But I was wrong also). Momentarily, my eyes flipped through on the headset I was holding in my hand. The left side just got spoiled few days after the right side spoiled. It was at this moment the answer to Kunle’s plight came to me, and I want you the reader to learn from this.

Few days ago, READ MORE http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-145-why-need-to-be-grateful-to.html

“It’s like my life is an experiment before God. I don’t even think He cares about me or my existence. Or is God’s existence we were told, a mere fairy tale? Despite all I have given to life; my prayers, my supplications, my persistence, hard labor, to mention a few; but see where I am today. I am still crawling and struggling with life when my contemporaries are flying. Things are everyday falling apart for me. I have given much to life than what I am and where I am today. Even people that, ordinarily, are not at my level are now far above me”. Why me? Why is life turning this way for me?” That was Kunle’s statement as I overheard.

I felt broken where I sat and I was going to ask myself the affirmation of the existence of God if life wouldn’t just give according to how we labored, worked and prayed. I was going to ask myself the significance of time and chance in the life of a man. I was going to question God and indirectly tell God life is not fair (But I was wrong also). Momentarily, my eyes flipped through on the headset I was holding in my hand. The left side just got spoiled few days after the right side spoiled. It was at this moment the answer to Kunle’s plight came to me, and I want you the reader to learn from this.

Few days ago, READ MORE http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-145-why-need-to-be-grateful-to.html

“It’s like my life is an experiment before God. I don’t even think He cares about me or my existence. Or is God’s existence we were told, a mere fairy tale? Despite all I have given to life; my prayers, my supplications, my persistence, hard labor, to mention a few; but see where I am today. I am still crawling and struggling with life when my contemporaries are flying. Things are everyday falling apart for me. I have given much to life than what I am and where I am today. Even people that, ordinarily, are not at my level are now far above me”. Why me? Why is life turning this way for me?” That was Kunle’s statement as I overheard.

I felt broken where I sat and I was going to ask myself the affirmation of the existence of God if life wouldn’t just give according to how we labored, worked and prayed. I was going to ask myself the significance of time and chance in the life of a man. I was going to question God and indirectly tell God life is not fair (But I was wrong also). Momentarily, my eyes flipped through on the headset I was holding in my hand. The left side just got spoiled few days after the right side spoiled. It was at this moment the answer to Kunle’s plight came to me, and I want you the reader to learn from this.

Few days ago, READ MORE http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-145-why-need-to-be-grateful-to.html

Three things make us give up so easily in life. It is either you just live with no dream at all, or you have one but you don’t think it is ever worth fighting for, and finally, it is because we place our pains far above our dreams.

Because of the weight and burden of the pain or the suffering the people above us or our environment subject us, we tend to put aside the dreams we carry just to exhaust the pain we bear. We put the burden of our shame, our failures, our mistakes, our pasts, our status, our abuse, etc. far above the dream we need to nurture.

If your dream is more important than your pain, then you will forgive yourself of the mistakes you made yesterday, and give yourself another chance. If your dream is stronger than your pain, you will fend off the abuse and gossip of those people (friends and enemies) around you. If your dream is more important, you will not be intimidated by the words of those people that are saying ‘you can never make it in life’. If your dream is more important, you will not give up because of the failure of the past. If your dream is more important, the way your superior is treating you will not derail you off your focus. If your dream is more important, you will give no consideration to those that refuse to believe in you. If your dream is more important, you will not be carried away by critics and criticism.

Many dreams have died, some fizzled out and some crumbled along the way; not because there READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-144-placing-your-pain-above-your.html

Three things make us give up so easily in life. It is either you just live with no dream at all, or you have one but you don’t think it is ever worth fighting for, and finally, it is because we place our pains far above our dreams.

Because of the weight and burden of the pain or the suffering the people above us or our environment subject us, we tend to put aside the dreams we carry just to exhaust the pain we bear. We put the burden of our shame, our failures, our mistakes, our pasts, our status, our abuse, etc. far above the dream we need to nurture.

If your dream is more important than your pain, then you will forgive yourself of the mistakes you made yesterday, and give yourself another chance. If your dream is stronger than your pain, you will fend off the abuse and gossip of those people (friends and enemies) around you. If your dream is more important, you will not be intimidated by the words of those people that are saying ‘you can never make it in life’. If your dream is more important, you will not give up because of the failure of the past. If your dream is more important, the way your superior is treating you will not derail you off your focus. If your dream is more important, you will give no consideration to those that refuse to believe in you. If your dream is more important, you will not be carried away by critics and criticism.

Many dreams have died, some fizzled out and some crumbled along the way; not because there READ MORE ON http://www.ishopealive.com/2017/06/topic-144-placing-your-pain-above-your.html