Everbody makes their own bed then has to lie in it. You were foolish to lavish money on this girl from the start. You cannot buy love or affection.
But you decided to buy the phone and spend money on her. Forget the outlay, let it go. She does not seem worthy of your affection. Move on. I am not sure whether you slept with her, if you did, just think of the phone as payment for three minutes of sexual gratification and move forward. forget her and put this down to experience. In this life, aim high or don't aim at all...

Sperm donation...

Never run after girls and definitely never asume anything. Seems like you made up a fantasy about dating this girl, a fantasy that she unfortunately is not part of and does not want to play. Never rush into things. They is someone for you out there, you just have not met her yet... People under the age of 25 do not know what love means, but dish out the word like sweets... Saying you love someone is a very easy thing to do, but it takes time to lovesomeone, real love that is

We do not know the whole story here? Its very easy to take sides without knowing the facts. Maybe his wife has not been giving him the sexual gratification he needs? Maybe she has failed in the bedroom which has left the husband frustrated and led to him having sex with the home help?

Still, he has children. He needs to provide for them over everything else. If his wife has not been showing him enough attention sexually, then naturally the attention of a younger woman would become more appealling. If he is now happy with his new sexual partner he should stay with her, but should allow the children back into the home. His wife should leave and find a new life for herself and reflect on her impotency in the marriage.... The third solution would be for them all to live together. His wife can look after the children and his new mistress can take care of his sexual needs. This probably would be the best solution. Maybe at some point in the future she would join them in the bedroom...

Those that can change the law and could raise the age of consent to an acceptable level are probably the same people that are sleeping with very young girls. Its a catch 22 situation. Nigeria has many many problems, unfortunately this is just one of them. Africa needs to grasp fully we are in the 21st Century and be seen to do the decent thing. The age of consent should be increased to at least 16. That does not mean kids under this age won't be having sex together, many still will, that is how it is. But it does mean that underage girls will not be prey to older men, especially if the consequences of breaking the law are extreme enough and enforced...

Lets pray that the Senegal team are feeling virulent with strong African male hormones rushing through their bodies. Senegal can do this and we should be behind them all the way!