₦airaland Forum

umtitibaba:
Considering this Nigeria economy, is it advisable for a man to marry a lady earning less than 50k a month cos the upkeep of the family is not the responsibility of the man alone as they are married

So guys , is it advisable to marry a lady earning less than ₦50k monthly in Nigeria?

Toks2008:
OK for real I have a bestie who is a virgin and he is very interested in marrying only a virgin lady... Send me a PM and I will link you up... [s]You know how difficult it is to get a male virgin.[/s]

Toks2008:
I'm enjoying this convo... OK so how will. You get a Virgin boy to marry?

Will you put up an Ad?, OK lemme guess... You will be asking any man that approaches you if he is a Virgin?

Babe abeg enjoy your day.

Toks2008:
I knew you are not a male cos no male will reason the way you do.

For the last time, this thread is not about judging anyone but just stating the fact that ONLY VIRGIN BRIDES DESERVE A BRIDE PRICE.

If you are not intelligent enough to grasp sorry I can't help you and if indeed you are a Virgin and you remain so till marriage THEN YOU DESERVE A BIG BRIDE PRICE.

It is only sad that you may wait forever if you want a Virgin groom but you just might be lucky if you allow me introduce my friend to you. He is a Virgin but strangely he is about 40 years.

If you miss this opportunity you may never see it again o.

Toks2008:
I'm sorry I even responded to you in the first instance..

Toks2008:
See anytime I see anyone pull this string I just laugh at the lameness.

[s]Sexual immorality is a sin both for men and women but it is utter foolishness to place a man and a woman in the same level when it comes to sexual chastity.[/s]

Toks2008:
If you call this backward then I can only pity you and your daughters if you have any.

That you have accepted sexual recklessness does not mean it is the norm. You are the backward thinking fellow. Please change your mindset.

Ask yourself... If you are a man, will you even marry some of the ladies you know for free?

Who wants a free for all Lady for a wife?

Yes Virginity does not define a woman but it goes a long way to define a
Her marital worthiness.

maynia:
Na me hin dey pain, na you dey complain Keep on smelling public toilet

odinson1:
There is nothing like A Male virgin,speaking from a biological and cultural standpoint.

Datboredberry:
I don't think there's more than a ten millionairers on this forum...

Yet, Nairaland can boast of the largest gathering of 'virgin hunters'...

So many men here are struggling...

Fluttering from the job/vacancy section to here, creating (or commenting) on threads bashing women who aren't virgins and exonerating those who are! Spamming threads with their account numbers! Advertising accounts on other social platforms for their fellow yahoo scums...

Graphic designers... Content writers... Property agents... Crypo-miners • • •Nearly every male Nairalander falls into one or more of the aforementioned categories...

Not dissing your hustle... One love!

But when these men particularly seek virgins... It's just weird...

Like, what makes you different from the others? What do you have to offer? What makes you worth a woman whose virginity to you is an added bonus?

If you're poor, kindly focus on alleviating yourself from poverty... ❤

Your quest to tear a hymen... It's not gonna help you the least bit... Especially if you aren't worthy of doing so...

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Virgins are very CHOOSY... They've saved themselves for mister PERFECT...

Ask yourself the question, "Am I in the position to want a virgin?"... "Am I worthy of deflowering a virgin?"... "Do I even deserve to be intimate with one?"...

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Other things that qualifies you to approach a virgin:

1. You are wealthy: you actually have something to offer instead of you unrealistic dreams...

2. You are a virgin...

3. A virgin genuinely cares for you: if she gives you the green light... Then you may approach her... Never otherwise!

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I'll add more after consulting with the chairlady of the Virgin Association of Nigeria...

Thanks!

maynia:
Shocked by the smell, public toilet but still dey smell dey go, na U!!

maynia:
Wow mama, like 5 whole comments, told you not to be frustrated.. just keep on smelling like the public toilet you are mama. Full respect mama

obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, how do you feel When your ex says, you'll never find someone like me, how do you respond?


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mynd44

finishmatter:
All the women I’ve ever been with over the years and all the relationships I’ve observed from the outside have been variations on the following theme:

”I am a women. I deserve the best of everything because I have vagina. To be with me, a man must make me his number 1 priority in life.

He must strive everyday to keep me validated, entertained, aroused, and emotionally stimulated. He must spend all his surplus time and financial capital on me. He must continuously perform extravagant and absurd and buffoonish displays of devotion. He must give up all his friendships and hobbies and life ambitions for me.

He must accept all my baggage and physical flaws and bad decisions and bad manners and emotional disregulation and erratic behavior. I owe him nothing in return.

I don’t need to bring anything to the table (aside from vagina). I will be sour and spiteful and manipulative and entitled and boring and erratic and disrespectful and critical and duplicitous. I will nag and criticize him to the point of exhaustion.

I will bad-mouth him behind his back to everyone we know. I will create needless drama in order to feel “connected” to him.
I will squander his money on worthless idiotic crap like monthly pedicures and dozens of shoes I wear once every 5 years and hundreds of pounds of holiday decorations and my collection of random framed nouns and adjectives and stinky, annoying, filthy pets and different colored furniture and towels and curtains and bed linen which I will swap out every 6–12 months for no reason. I will continuously cultivate relationships with his potential replacements while in a relationship with him.

I will lie in utterly convincing ways because I do not even realize I am lying myself. Not only must a man make me continuously happy, he must make me continuously happier than all of my female friend-enemies and happier than I imagine myself being with anybody else at any given moment. If, at anytime, he fails to successfully perform this Herculean task, I will either give him the silent treatment or badger him incessantly about how our relationship isn’t “going anywhere” and how “I’m not content.”

I reserve the right drop him in a heartbeat at any time and instantly monkey-branch to any number of other men who I have been encouraging to court me behind his back.
I will then take from him everything I can no matter what he’s done for me in the past. I will do this, because, after all, he didn’t put in enough effort and he failed as a man and it’s all his fault.

Any children we may have together will be used to hurt him emotionally. I will do irrevocable harm to the children by trying to turn them against their father because doing so pleases me.

I will also use the family court system to extort as many resources from him as long as I can, hopefully until the day he dies. While I am alienating his children from him and feeding off him like a parasite, I will loudly and unabashedly recount my victimhood to anyone unfortunate enough to cross my path in my never-ending quest for attention and validation.”

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

YourFavorite21:
Been a citizen of Nigeria is already a mistake

YourFavorite21:
Mine is keeping friends that doesn't value me except when they need help.

SirDanny7:
Stop mentioning my name

SirDanny7:
Why u dey hiss lyk snake Mod pls ban this guy

maynia:
No shaking.. keep smelling public toilet.. na you!

maynia:
No shaking.. keep smelling public toilet.. na you!

maynia:
No shaking.. keep smelling public toilet.. na you!

maynia:
No shaking.. keep smelling public toilet.. na you!

maynia:
No shaking.. keep smelling public toilet.. na you!

SirDanny7:
u be werey

maynia:
Don’t be frustrated public toilet. Nobody is gonna smell pass you.. full respect