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Your missing the point.

You know what your partner likes and dislikes. You know your partner will not like you talking to that particular man or woman so you do it secretly.

If your not an open book, your not trustworthy and that's my stance.

Sometimes you make calls to someone and your partner is not around no problem but if the occasion arises, you can always explain freely why that person called you or why you called that person.

Am not saying you have to report everything you did immediately to your partner, but if there isn't anything to hide then you don't need to lie.

@ seaman 104, I am not innocent and certainley not a Liar, You can make anything out of what I wrote. I know what I feel and like

@ Sistawoman You understand what am saying arnt your? Why hide is you are clean

I don-t know about other gurls I can Only speak for myself.

Any man who loves me, rich or poor, is the perfect man for me

regardless relligion, country and so on

And if you show me you love me (and I dont mean with money) I will give you my all,  body heart and soul and more

I know am not perfect but I will love you and respect you.

And yes let's be realistic no woman wants to marry a pauper. But no condition is permenant.
I believe that, because I believe in God.

Ofcourse in adition to what I wrote up I have certain requirements but in the end this is what matters to me.
I always say i want this type of guy but I always end up fallen for the person who I never expected LOL

@George D, To me it is called cheating. If I for example textmessage someone in front of my man it isnt a problem but as soon as I do it (on purpose) when he is not there then to me that means something is going on. Who am I texting and why isnt my man allowed to see me texting who ever it is am texting

I will never ever propose to a guy. Sometimes you think you are at level 4, and your partner may be at level 1,

( Level 4 = I Absolutly without a doubt can't live even a single moment without you, I have to get married to you,    Marry me!!
  Level 3 = Can we just remain like this forever? (boyfriend and girlfriend)
  Level 2 = Am in love
  Level 1 =  Just looking for sex and  you are the next best thing, loosely translated you have a whole between your legs I would like to fill ) If it's a woman " She just wants to ride the rod" 

you can never be to sure at which level you partner is. Men never talk about how they feel, they just show it, while women talk about how they feel all the time LOL . Women will tell you up front I want to get married or at least hint at getting married.

So I guess what am trying to say is that a man knows wether a woman wants to get married to him or not. While a woman is never really sure. that's the reason 99.9 percent of women always wait for men to propose instead of to propose themselves.

Imagine the embaressment!!

And be honest men would you want a girl who goes around chasing men. If she chses you that way dont
be surprised when you find out on the later run that she is a complete LovePeddler!!!!!!!!!

I for instance will never answer a man who chases me on the street, who knows how many women he just finished chasin before me and who is to say he wont continue doing that, he chased me on the street

Anything you would not do in front of your partner when they are present is called cheating

You hide because you know your partner won't like you doing what it is that you are secretly doing. If you are not cheating you dont' hide.

That's my view.

(Of topic am new at this does anyone know how to start a new topic? Thanks in advance! )