Pls final price and reason for selling?

Pls last price and reason for selling?

Pls last price and reason for selling?

Pls what is your final price?

Thanks for the prompt reply. I will get back to u when ready.

Hi, Pls how much will it cost to get a 2005/6 Toyota Rav4 V6 engine and Hyundai Sante Fe 2006/7 V6 engine from Cotonou to Lag.
All full option.
Thanks.

Thanks for the quick response. I will appreciate if u have any pics. The Hyundai Sante Fe seems like something I could work towards, although I would have preferred the Toyota Rav4. Anyway I know how to reach you when the time comes. Thanks again, will be waiting for pics.

Hello Mr Inspired,
I guess u know u have inspired alot of people on this forum. Pls keep up the good work.
Pls how much will the following cars 2005 to 2007 model cost (america specs). If u have
pics of any it will be much appreciated.
1) Toyota Rav4
2) Hyundai Sante Fe
3) Hyundai Tucson
4) Nissan Murano.

Thanks.

@Poster.
I read your post and I was drawn to make a little contribution due to ur need to seek a way forward. Indeed in a multitude of wise counsel there is safety. Although the ultimate decision lies with u but knowledge will help u make an informed decision. I ma joining others to say the 2nd guy seem to be a better option. Its very obvious u r tolerating the first guy, and for just relationship/friendship that is okay but for marraige, am afraid u will get so frustrated that u may loose ur mind.
For the 2nd guy even though u don't know him much doesn't mean that u cant try. Fear of failure is even worse than failure itself. The guy I presumed is even taking more risk than u, so if he could do that for love, then I think he knows what he wants. As a young man, I will advice u go for the 2nd guy because to me he will make a better husband.
When a guy begin to repeatedly use the word "u can walk away if u like, I just can't change". Then that sums it up. walk away my dear but this time u have another hands wide open to receive u. Cheers.

@Poster.
Am sorry about the ill treatment you are receiving from your husband. That is not fare at all but since we don't know him, it is only u we can advice and that means it is only you that can change things.

My Opinions:
1) Your husband sees u more as a competitor than a wife and friend.
2) He feels threathened because u r more enterprising than he his.
3) Communication in the home is more of attacks than compliments.

My Advice:
1) Use your enterprising skills to help your husband.
2) Down play your own business or goal, and put his b4 yours.
3) Soft words can be more powerful than nuclear weapons. Use them.
4) A round of sex will definitely ease of some of his tensions. (lol).

Goodluck.

@Poster.
I really feel for you and I know how difficult this must be for you. You have so far done great by your understanding, patience, commitment to your family but I will plead with you not to give up now.
Your husband is going through a phase in his life that he didn't envisage would be like this. It is in every man to be the man, to be able to provide for your family and do all the stuffs a responsible man will do. And when a man can do this stuffs, then his ego is already affected. Remember, you said he was quite successful while in Nigeria and to be a medical doctor anywhere means alot of studying. He did that and became a doctor b4 he got married to u. So he's trying to give his all to make sure he succeeds in US as a medical doctor. Please be by his side this trying period. He definitely will be upset and the slightest provocation because not everyman can deal with the fact that they used to have and now they are the dependant (it kills a man inside).
My advice:
1) Don't expect so much love, care and appreciation from him now
2) Expect him to take all is frustration on the person closest to him (and that is u his wife) and that doesn't mean he doesn't love u anymore.Remember its just a phase.
3) Don't say a word back at him when he snaps at u, u have to be overly patient and understanding.
4) Speak positive word to yourself and even to him. This will give him some hope of a better tomorrow.
5) Don't ever report him to friends, family members because it is the beginning of more trouble.
6) Divorce should not be an option, remember this is just a phase.
7) Don't expect him to apologise to you for anything because to him u made him left what he was doing in Nigeria to face this temporary situation in the US.
When he's up on his feet and he knows you stood by him throughout he will definitely apologise because I feel deep down he loves u very much.

I wish you all the best. Remember for everything there is a season. Cheers.
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@Poster. Nice ride, although the mileage is quite alot. So where is this ride at the moment?

Many thanks for all the replies I really do appreciate as my heart was burdened. I have thought very seriously about the spare thing as I actually do have someone else who is so eager to call me his. I have never cheated on anyone in my life and I don't want to God willing. I have met his family he has met mine thats the hope I have in this relationship but I would get a back up, I wont be intimate with the person but it has become necessary!!!

Well if u feel like he's treating u as 2nd best and u don't like it then y contemplate of doing same to someone else. In my opinion that is not fair.
U really need to try and learn to feel secure in ur relationship. It may take sometime for some people to be completely healed of their former relationship. So u might need to give him some time and also discuss the issue with him. Communicating with him might just be the only magic u need to turn things around because he may never know how u feel regarding the whole issue unless u let him know. Goodluck.

@Speedman. Well we've got wonderful counsellors on this forum and am sure they have said it all. Your greatest asset in life is your family (wife and kids). Your wife is taking all her time to invest in ur kids and u r so pre-occupied with the other lady that doesn't even care about ur family. What u feel for her is not love but lust. U feel that way because u see her alot, communicate with her alot, infact u give her precious times u shd be spending with ur family. Pls don't destroy the nice family God have given u (remember they are ur asset).
I think u shd try and spend more time with ur family, help out with the chores also, play with ur kids and just cut off from the other lady. I don't think she even deserve ur friendship because I doubt if u people can just be mere fnds with all the emotions involve. Anyway I trust u r a good man and u will heed to the voice of warning. Cheers.

@nellydamz. Well am really touched by your sincerity and willingness to learn. In courtship there will always be temptations like the one u are going through. The way you handle it will either make u guys grow stronger together or further apart. Your guy to me is a real man ( a true christian). He's a human being and that's why his emotions goes high when he's with u but at least to a great degree he's able to control it. With this u have been able to prove that he's not impotent (u dont have to have sex to prove this contrary to some people's opinion). Also u have been able to prove that he's not going to cheat on u (since he has the opportunity to have sex with u but he refused). People like your guy have proably made a covenant with God to marry as a virgin and I beg of u to help him realise that. If sex ever comes in he will forever be angry with u and he may just go wild and never be able to get himself back.
The reason I speak like this is because ur guy reminds me of me and am so glad I never did it until I finally got married. And am having the best of time in marriage and I love my wife for also helping me keep my virginity ( although she's also a virgin). I know u love him so much and he does too. So if the only sacrifice u have to pay for u guys to stay true to each other and to God is to stop the kissing, carressing and stuffs like that, then I believe it is worth it and am sure it is not too big a sacrifice to pay for God and for love. I really look forward to your wedding because I know it will definitely come to pass sooner than u think. God bless u.

Why not? Even though alot of ladies have been disvirgined it doesn't mean all have been. There are alot of beautiful ladies who have made up their mind not to lose their virginity. I remained a virgin until I got married, so also is my wife.

Breaking from parental grip is not easy but it has to be gradual. You will need to define what u want and then go for it. As much as u don't want your parents to dictate for u, u also need to show u are capable of taking care of yourself and your affairs. But please do this with wisdom. Family will always be there no matter where u go to.

@Poster. To confront ur husband isn't bad. U just needed clarification on d issue but also the manner u go about it too matters. Time proves all things. Trust in marriage is very vital. One question for u, Have ur husband done something b4 now that makes u doubt him? So pls dont assume as though something is going on with ur husband and d other lady. Temptations come our way everyday, u just need to pray about it and try not to distrust ur husband. U may just succeed in distancing d both of u if u do so. But I honestly want to pray and believe there is nothing going on with ur husband and d other lady. Take care.

@Poster. hey am new here so pls pardon my errors. Like they say water always follow the path of least resistance. Leaving your husband I think is following the path of least resistance but there is never a guarantee of your 1st love. Most people are at their best when u meet them occasionally but when u stay with them for long that's when u can see their unpleasant side. One thing u must also put at the back of your mind is that divorce is against God's commandment, and breaking the covenant is going against God. There is no problem that cannot be solved, if you put ur mind to work it ur marriage, it will work. it might take time but at the end u will be glad u did.

Please u might want to come down with the price. I think its on the high side.