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Samantha125:
That's just your self importance and ego speaking, not every woman wants to get married.

It's already proven that women want to marry so no need to tell lies

Fiscus105:
You are type of foolxish men, you are describing above.

Again, I insist, if you are extending goodness to whoever and he/she refuses to resprocating, you use your common sense to stop it and not indoctrination from your fellow man

You think you are the first? It would still happen again

paxonel:
To respond to that fellow up there, and for the benefit of others listening, not for his benefit
He quoted without understanding it
kingdom of God.

Then he ignored the part that says

1 Corinthians 6:11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.[/b]

Meaning, before Paul converted these people into Christianity, before God (because it is God that judges, not humans) they were fornicators,idolaters, adulterers, effeminate, abusers of themselves with mankind.
But after Paul had preached to them and they accepted Christ (ie accept to join Christianity) from that moment, they siezed to be these things before God. That's why "Paul said such were some of you"[/b] using the past tense WERE

Meaning, even though they might be commiting these sins God is not counting the sins anymore.

Another scripture says Abraham believed God it was counted to him for righteousness.

Yet Abraham was also a terrible sinner like every other human

Apparently, you are intolerant of opposition, clearly it means you know that you are wrong but you don't want anybody to tell you so.

Meanwhile, the it is written "were" which you explained that they stopped and ceased ("siezed to be these things".)

Meaning that in the absence of these things they ceased, it is presumed they only lived doing the Righteous things. So, you have only confirmed and reaffirmed what the person said

And so, how can you say even though they might be committing these sins God is not counting the sins anymore, when even Jesus in Revelations shows that He is counting sins in saying

"Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee",.. and ended "else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent/Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds."

Clear proof that God is counting and recording.

And truly we can all count Abraham's sins but who can count your sins and other peoples' own? Abraham over over gap us, so no talk it

True true don't deceive yourself. If you must deceive yourself then don't increase your sins by deceiving others like Sayt did to Eve

ReluctantAdult:
I understand her.

There's this dopamine and adrenaline rush you get when you cheat on your partner and never get caught Or whenever you fcc someone's partner and they don't find out
It's like treading a very fine line and I tell you, the orgasm is second to none!


Be warned though, it's so addictive and you can overdo it and get caught. So be careful

Urghh! See how you have fallen for her deceit. Anyway, go and marry her.

Samantha125:
Why would they need marriage when they're already being well taken cared of by other women's husbands?

Their wailing cries and all the threads of antics tells us that they still want to marry even desperately after all

Reverse psychology of hiding in plain sight. Brestina, no one will still marry you

Tenrack:
I'm not a pro, my ex was a single mother that bleeped me up. I know how much I lost. But I'll be damned if the same ever happens to me again. That's what I'm saying. How you managed to let 8 girls play you is beyond mey understanding

It is because of that lie "not all women are bad" which men unfortunately refuse to believe in their mind of being fair when already the women have shown that the game is not fair.

MarketDispatch:
Interesting...no money no love ..Elders have said it. It is money you use to become Husband of woman

Yet, the rich too are crying here

pigmania:
I pray make him survive am reach number 20.

The guy don survive 8 so maybe hin get caterpillar engine

Samantha125:
But they'll still be financially benefitting more from those men as side chicks than as wives... Most men spend more on their side chicks than wives, sad reality.

True! There are still too many foo...sh men so, she lives dreams but no marriage

247man:
Unfortunately you can never understand women

Unfortunately, you can but the problem is that men don't think it is that important. Thinking making money is greater than studying women. And so they lazily deal with women based on the common sayings of others hence all the mistakes and bad experience they get

bukatyne:
The problem is that you men classify women in your head into good & bad aka fit for a wife and fit for a good time. You don't believe that a woman can love praying and sex; a girl who is serious with her studies can also love phone intimacy; a mother who loves her children can also give a mean BJ.

And because of that classification in your head, you only show the side that will bring out the side of her you 'approve' of.

The men who enjoy their women are those who understand that their women are whole, rounded human beings who love different things.

The men who can pray with their wives and do BJ on 3rd mainland; the ones who can get their bubu wearing wives a quickie on their neighbours' staircase; the men who understand that their akpu pounding wives don't mind a spank and doggy style.

On the other hand, a woman wants a rounded man. A woman can want a kind, responsible, reliable, tongue speaking man who gives a great head, can bring flowers and a great tease.

A good visual example is the good male leads in an Asian short drama. A man can a CEO, attentive to his wife, treat her like egg and still make love to her on the highway or his office table because he misses her.

I have heard men say a good 'wife' does not do BJ because she uses the same mouth to kiss her kids.

All these are movie lies. Women should be categorised into good and bad but unfortunately for most men they don't know what is good or bad even though they think they do.

2special:
If you understand women, you won't Love them, and if you Love them, you won't understand them.

Correct!

But many men have already given their strings to women and some even say that it should be so

I even think that many crying now and giving advice where those who once hollad not "all women are bad"

Fiscus105:
Not until you people know that kindness is different from foolishness, you will keep talking thrash about man to woman relationship, common sense needs to tell you if you are extending hands of kindness to particular person over time and instead to resprocating, she is be ungrateful, you need to cut it immediately

Do you not how men have been over extending kindness to a woman yet, they did not know? The fact that you learnt to beat the system today does not mean that you won't fall tomorrow.

pocohantas:
Because women no appreciate "kindness", make person come dey wicked? Some of una no too get sense.

Person wey no appreciate kindness na wicked person and he deserve Wike.ness,Tinubuness and Buhariness

AngelSlay:
I think this presents a false dilemma. Men are not limited to being either the "bad boy" or the "nice guy." Most healthy, well-adjusted men fall somewhere in the middle. They are confident without being arrogant, kind without being pushovers, and assertive without being toxic....

And they still lost and were still kicked out too, so your theory still does not work

Goodmarlian:
When it comes to women nobody wins not the bad boy not the good boy,if she is dating a nonchalant boy she will cheat with a good guy that treats her like a queen ,if she is dating a good guy she will cheat with a bad boy that treats her non challantly she belongs to nobody

Tell them

All these because men haven't still learnt who their enemy is

Samantha125:
Many modern women are already desisting from marriage, so I'm sure they wouldn't mind being side chicks as long as they can keep milking the men's finances dry.

It is still them wailing and humiliating themselves because they are not married

Tomcorp:
Goodluck to them. They will be side chics for life.

Only because now men are beginning to look. In the past they won it all doing all these things and if not for the economy they would still have kept winning

Tomcorp:
As a single lady once you love flashy, extravagant, flamboyant, expensive lifestyle too much- no man will take you serious. Men will just use & continue to dump you- at best they will keep you as a side chic. This is the bitter truth modern ladies don't want to hear. What a man wants in a girlfriend is completely different from what he wants in a wife. I'm talking of MEN not boys. Men love simple, modest, conservative ladies. Let those with ears...hear.

Who told you they care? Are they not already winning? You are still trying to bend women to suit you. You go learn

Kalatium:
All of a sudden men are hiding their stories of how they messed up with women. Now everyone is claiming to be a pro with women as if they never pass through something like this in the hands of some ladies.

C'mon man, 8 women on the same pattern? That means you do not learn.

ppogba:
" Failed to satisfy their sexual desire....." . You sure say dis alaye see some of their pants sef?

You sef need to wake up.
No be every body be Ronaldo and Messi combined like you.

Hin think say hin still dey 2006 where women mu button dey Gspot

pigmania:
Worse off, he still thinks some women are angels, he has not learnt the bitter lesson that these women are all the same in nature. AWALT

Maybe by the 20 girl e go learn

Say it bros. "every woman is like that" after it is everybody's experience and those who are not like that do not have their husbands complaining here

See everyone has this problem. Alluta continua
https://www.nairaland.com/8703796/nobody-please-woman-rev-funke

When you see the evils women have done you would understand why. See the hur lovelink is always doing, it shows you that women can never depart from evil

tunnyl:
Women in general dont like Godly men!

Evil does not like the good and cannot like the good

Secretbloodline:
Self love is the beginning of any kind of love but they lack it totally.

That is because they don't deserve it. All these things are rather proof of what things she has done to others. So when these things happen, it means that God has caught them.

BigYash:
Money is the real fuel in the vehicle(Relationship). No let anybody decieve you. Without money you can't function properly as a man,and it will certainly affect your sex drive. You won't be able to really drive madam crazy in the oza rum. Cux as yash or buwest dey put you in the mood,na so money and doings dey put madam in the mood.

We can say sex is water as coolant for the engine in the relationship. That's one of the things to spice it up.

Guy broke first,make them carry toto put your laps. Guy your deek fit no rise.

Anyways we are wired differently.. sex fit be your fuel,make another man fuel na money..

Money is easy and I have lots of it and I enjoyed it alone. It is even sweeter to enjoy it alone and did not want/need to marry. So, money doesn't not fuel marriage unless you are marrying a prosty. And that is not who I married.

Obakoolex:
With this your level of thinking, you must still be a kid with no business discussing marriage yet. Wait till you're grown and you'll understand some things naturally.

You are just deceiving yourself and others. If other things are more important than sex then why are marriages breaking up because of sex?

Which married couple have you seen sucessfully run "a sex is not a problem" marriage?

Please, you can bury your head in the sand and pretend like it's not a problem to you but I rather choose to face it and try to solve it, rather than pretending that it is not killing me