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Here is my email...
About to serve and I would like to involve myself in community projects.
fearlesschicken11 at gmx dot co dot uk

CHARLOE:
You're obviously gay!

*Coughs*

A person doesn't have to be gay to talk for gay folks. Sorry to say but your mindset is very ignorant and bigoted. Do you have to be an illiterate to talk for illiterate people? Do you have to be a rape victim to talk for rape victims?

Now run along lil boy, this ain't your playground....

double post!

Beautiful! culture representation in the wedding. Nigerian and the Australian culture has become one.....so beautiful! I feel like crying They look so happy together!

I wish them happy married life!

puresaint12:
Lie from the pit of hell! If God created homosexuals that way, then He has to apologize for destroying the city of sodom and Gomorrah. Homosexualism is demonic influence. Only spiritual minds discern spiritual things.

please go read your Bible Sodom wasn't destroyed because of homosexuality.

Anas09:
Yes. Lesbians are sinner just like liars and thieves. Jesus died for all sinners. Girl repent, Lesbianism is demon possesion.

Anas09:
Are you a lesbian? Do you love God?

Lol! please if there is anyone who needs to repent it is you, you need to head to a mental home to cure you from your delusions of demons.

A person doesn't have to be gay to talk for gay folks. Sorry to say but your mindset is very ignorant and bigoted. Do you have to be an illiterate to talk for illiterate people? Do you have to be a rape victim to talk for rape victims?

Please stop spamming this thread and Nlanders with your bigoted mindset. Thanks!

philybuck:
There is really no need beating about the bush, you like this guy, talk to him about what you think of his sexuality. He doesn't need to know you have e a crush on him until you have determined if he is gay or not. Asking some1 else around him won't give you the true answer. Just talk to him as a friend and you will be surprised at how much you really don't know this guy.

Gbam!!!! Enough said!

Izen:
Wouldn't that be like giving him a pass for cheating? Not sure o

The fact that someone is bisexual doesn't make them a cheat.Bisexuals can have monogamous relationships just with any gender of their choice.

You can just ask him to know his true intentions you can ask him about the gay guys in glee or empire or ask him what he thinks of Ellen...

So lets be hopeful that your crush is bi/straight and he is into you....if not just close your eyes and forget the dude. Good luck

zfinix:
Now what is good or bad. if you say you don't believe in God then every thing is permissible, so there is no reason to be good, therefore killing is permissible any evil is also permissible.

Abeg please don't come and misinform people, Morality and religion(belief in God) are two different things.

If it were the same the likes of Seun, Bill Gates or Mark Zukerberg would have been top serial killers

Congratulations Op! Be free from the shackles!

Wow! Thanks a lot Nateben, I appreciate
I'm doing a lot better now....

sukkot:
these are very valid questions. very valid. i need them answered. so you are saying its never a problem ? do you wear extra pad just in case ?

no it's not a problem!! Do I have to answer you? there is Google!!! Troll!

sukkot:
question i have always wanted to ask about female football. so there are 22 women on the pitch. the possibility that 5 of them are having their period and stomach cramps is very high. my question is do they have substitutes for each players incase stomach cramp starts during competition ? do they play when they have their period ? is it risky to play when you have your period ? like can you start spilling on the pitch and wet ya trausas with blood in front of the whole world ? any answers ?

Are you mad? or are you trying to be? which kind of silly questions are you asking? You do know that stomach cramps tend to reduce when you do enough exercise btw there are pain relievers you dummy. it's not risky to play! silly troll!

ItsQuinn:
Women football is crap! I will rather watch motor GP than to watch women play

Such a bigoted and silly comment. Coming from a woman it disgusts me even more! Pukes

hahn:
I no dey BBM o. How we go take do am? I have been in such a situation. I am sure I can help you out

No problem, I will send you a Pm then.

hahn:
You can add me on whatsapp @ if you will like to chat

Thanks...but I'm no longer on WhatsApp... deactivated it some time ago...Are on bbm? Here is my pin 7AAE3E06

hahn:
What are you sad and confused about?

I'm sad because I feel this way, I don't know if that makes sense. I don't feel happy within myself...it's all just complicated. I don't know how to explain it hence the *sad and confused*

Hello Durentt,

I have been offline,dealing with some ish. Scrolling down my followed topics and i saw this post. It's very shocking to me and I just decided that I must comment on this thread.

let me be blunt; what's exactly is the problem? why are you going round the bush? why say something then say something else? Where is your stand? or you bisexual? or where you just bicurious and then realised that you never really like men but women? or are you still questioning? if that's the Case why go around creating threads about been gay and all that? is this some kinda silly stunts?

This homophobes finally gotten through your thick skin? causing you to deny your sexuality? I.e internalised homophobia...Talk to me Mr Durentt...you can fool everyone here but not me....What's the problem?

Evalily:
depression, self hate and in extreme cases suicidal tendencies happens to most people, there is nothing strange abt it , Hw you handle it matters a lot so you don't go overboard as to carrying out suicidal act...........from biblical history we have cases of great men of GOD like elijah and jonah who after all the miraculous work and achievements fell into states of depression to the extent of wishing for death. find happiness from within yourself -don't let events, situations, relationships, or people's mood define you. You can configure your mind to a care-free state that even if the world frowns at you, you are unperturbed.and for the record you don't need people around you to be happy rather you need to be happy already in order to maintain a healthy friendship or else the friendship will be parasitical where you are the one draining the avaliable aura from the cycle. . Practice deep meditation to relieve anxiety and stress. Working out also helps a lot to clears the head of worry and anxiety like jogging, skipping, stairs climbing. A sense of accomplishment can fuel ur enthusiasm for life.....find something you love to do set realistic goals and do it, you will see Hw happy it would make you feel ....
It could be a hobby like singing, learning a new language, getting a six pack if u are a guy, working out for a flat tummy.......anything . Don't wait for your wishes to come true to be happy.......no one is responsible for your happiness except you.
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Thanks so much deary I appreciate

surreal15:
Good morning Sir/Ma.
Its just a phase.
How you respond to this phase will determine a couple of other important events yet to come.
Want to share a documentary for you to watch if you can.

A gmail might be perfect if you have.

Thanks

fearlesschicken11at gmx.co.uk

Hi Nlanders

I don't know where to start it begin, this has been going on for months on end. I don't know the appropriate section to put this in.

I have lost passion for anything, I feel like I'm just an empty vessel on this earth. I have no zeal,no motivation, I have become even paranoid when it comes to making new friends. in fact let just say I just hate myself, I don't feel useful. Sometimes I feel the need to pick up myself and start but then I just give up. lack of persistent.... Every day I wish something would go wrong, maybe I get shot or have an accident so I can leave this world, as I'm afraid of committing any form of suicide.

I'm just getting tired, I want to be happy with myself,i try to do nice things be kind but it just doesn't work.
i just find it difficult to appreciate myself, I have lived for people most part of my life maybe thats another reason why I just don't feel anything. I'm just sad and confused. Difficulty sleeping...

I just need help to get over this...pls

Pardon my grammar,just so frustrated right now

Thanks Hahn

Thoniameek was the article able to answer your questions?

Sources
http://thepoliticalinformer.com/the-backfire-effect/
https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/05/13/backfire-effect-mcraney/
https://youarenotsosmart.com/2011/06/10/the-backfire-effect/

Conclusion: Stop Trying to Disprove a Hypothesis with Another Hypothesis

“It does take great maturity to understand that the opinion we are arguing for is merely the hypothesis we favor, necessarily imperfect, probably transitory, which only very limited minds can declare to be a certainty or a truth.” ~ Milan Kundera

You might think your views are perfectly based in reality and facts, but nobody’s ever are.

As Milan makes apparent above, we’re all arguing for the hypothesis we find true.

Hypotheses aren’t facts, they’re assumptions. It’s a proposed explanation of how something works based on limited information.

What the backfire effect does is blind us to the reality that it exists. All of our ideas, views, opinions; they’re all hypotheses. Some of them might be better assumed than others, but you don’t have a monopoly on which beliefs are truth.

This is why you can’t rely on facts and logic alone to win people over. Heck, you shouldn’t even assume you’ve got all the facts and logic right yourself.

In many cases, what is logical is incredibly subjective, and what is factual is shrouded in controversy.

Don’t shield your mind off to contradictory evidence. Even if you don’t accept it, it will still benefit your subconscious.

Each contradiction to your currently held beliefs is a reminder that you don’t have it all figured out, and neither does the other guy. So why not focus on understanding each other’s positions, instead of trying to disprove a hypothesis with another hypothesis.