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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by fearlesschicken: 11:00pm On Oct 25, 2016
Izen:


Wouldn't that be like giving him a pass for cheating? Not sure o sad

The fact that someone is bisexual doesn't make them a cheat.Bisexuals can have monogamous relationships just with any gender of their choice.

You can just ask him to know his true intentions you can ask him about the gay guys in glee or empire or ask him what he thinks of Ellen...

So lets be hopeful that your crush is bi/straight and he is into you....if not just close your eyes and forget the dude. Good luck

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by philybuck(m): 11:24pm On Oct 25, 2016
There is really no need beating about the bush, you like this guy, talk to him about what you think of his sexuality. He doesn't need to know you have e a crush on him until you have determined if he is gay or not. Asking some1 else around him won't give you the true answer. Just talk to him as a friend and you will be surprised at how much you really don't know this guy.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by fearlesschicken: 11:31pm On Oct 25, 2016
philybuck:
There is really no need beating about the bush, you like this guy, talk to him about what you think of his sexuality. He doesn't need to know you have e a crush on him until you have determined if he is gay or not. Asking some1 else around him won't give you the true answer. Just talk to him as a friend and you will be surprised at how much you really don't know this guy.

Gbam!!!! Enough said!
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by tonaydo(m): 1:08am On Oct 26, 2016
Izen:
Okay, you know what guys..... You don't have to give me any advice. Let's all pretend like we don't have our emotional sides. I'm asking a genuine question here that affects me because I don't want to fall in love and get hurt in the process. Is it bad to ask? And no, I'm not jobless. My life is perfectly okay. I'm just falling in love and hoping it's not with the wrong guy. If you have ever experienced something like this and want to help, thank you. I'd really appreciate it. But as for those of you insulting me, I really don't know what you're trying to achieve. Is it to make your selves feel better about your maturity or what? It's not by force to comment.
do you know your problem? you are after cute guys that you don't take your time to look at other personality in the guy. . .I know your type very well cos I got some around


its annoying how you girls always want a perfect man. . .my candid advice to you is. . .the day you stop going after cute guys and just get to know people not minding what they look like then you would discover you are the one at fault

and I assure you that you will find love. . .tnk me leta
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by ChemicalReaction(f): 1:58am On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz:


If you say so smiley
I love ur sincerity. About why gay guys aren't interested in a lady's as's. Enlighten me. Thanks.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Greatbeard(m): 2:21am On Oct 26, 2016
Typical ,girl has a crush on guy,guy doesn't seem to reciprocate .....guy must be gay.
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen: 6:22am On Oct 26, 2016
tonaydo:
do you know your problem? you are after cute guys that you don't take your time to look at other personality in the guy. . .I know your type very well cos I got some around


its annoying how you girls always want a perfect man. . .my candid advice to you is. . .the day you stop going after cute guys and just get to know people not minding what they look like then you would discover you are the one at fault

and I assure you that you will find love. . .tnk me leta

No I won't thank you now and I won't thank you later. No one judges guys who look at beautiful ladies. This time since it is not money I'm after, you've looked for something else to judge me for. Oh please! Only if you can't read and comprehend, that's when you won't understand the qualities I listed above. Before you get to know someone, you have to be attracted to them first at least. So please stop judging me for my feelings and face front. Me asking questions is me trying to get to know him better, that's why I'm seeking nairalanders opinions. And who says ugly guys are the best? You'd be surprised.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen: 6:22am On Oct 26, 2016
Izen:


No I won't thank you now and I won't thank you later. No one judges guys who look at beautiful ladies. This time since it is not money I'm after, you've looked for something else to judge me for. Oh please! Only if you can't read and comprehend, that's when you won't understand the qualities I listed above. Before you get to know someone, you have to be attracted to them first at least. So please stop judging me for my feelings and face front. Me asking questions is me trying to get to know him better, that's why I'm seeking nairalanders opinions. And who says ugly guys are the best? You'd be surprised.
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by tonaydo(m): 7:32am On Oct 26, 2016
Izen:


No I won't thank you now and I won't thank you later. No one judges guys who look at beautiful ladies. This time since it is not money I'm after, you've looked for something else to judge me for. Oh please! Only if you can't read and comprehend, that's when you won't understand the qualities I listed above. Before you get to know someone, you have to be attracted to them first at least. So please stop judging me for my feelings and face front. Me asking questions is me trying to get to know him better, that's why I'm seeking nairalanders opinions. And who says ugly guys are the best? You'd be surprised.
did i make mention of ugly guys? i just told you the hard truth so accept it or not. . .i don't usually comment on stuffs like this buh have it your way
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Nobody: 9:07am On Oct 26, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
I love ur sincerity. About why gay guys aren't interested in a lady's as's. Enlighten me. Thanks.

Lol ok it's getting awkward talking about this here grin. Thanks anyway.

Well, for a gay guy, when it boils down to sex, it's not just about the sex, it's who you're having it with. I'm attracted to a guy first, before the sexual part of him. Thinking that a gay guy would also be interested in a lady's ass makes it seem as if gay guys are all about sex.

A married gay man (who is married to a woman ), would rather have sex via the vagina, cos to him it's just to satisfy the woman and not cos he gains any pleasure from it. So why would he want to have anal sex with her? He might as well jerk off to a gay porn than do that, except of course the woman asks for it.

Lastly, there are gay guys that have no interest in a guy's ass whatsoever, While others are. I think the population is evenly distributed.



There's just sp much to it sha. Sorry for derailing grin

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by ChemicalReaction(f): 10:44am On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz:


Lol ok it's getting awkward talking about this here grin. Thanks anyway.

Well, for a gay guy, when it boils down to sex, it's not just about the sex, it's who you're having it with. I'm attracted to a guy first, before the sexual part of him. Thinking that a gay guy would also be interested in a lady's ass makes it seem as if gay guys are all about sex.

A married gay man (who is married to a woman ), would rather have sex via the vagina, cos to him it's just to satisfy the woman and not cos he gains any pleasure from it. So why would he want to have anal sex with her? He might as well jerk off to a gay porn than do that, except of course the woman asks for it.

Lastly, there are gay guys that have no interest in a guy's ass whatsoever, While others are. I think the population is evenly distributed.



There's just sp much to it sha. Sorry for derailing grin
Now i understand better. Thank you.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by ChemicalReaction(f): 10:55am On Oct 26, 2016
Masonkz, one more question. You said 'there are gay guys that have no interest in a guy's ass' right? If this is true, how then do such guys make out? Sorry, just answer.. #winks

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by harry2sexy(m): 12:09pm On Oct 26, 2016
slimthugchimee:
i pray for your brain cry cry


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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by jieta: 1:46pm On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz and chemical reaction am following u guys
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Dvibs: 2:05pm On Oct 26, 2016
Am learning
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen: 4:16pm On Oct 26, 2016
Dvibs:

Why do i feel like... you don't know your worth?
Is more like you are suffering from inferiority complex.
Work on actualization of self-worth dear, and your love life will fall back into normal.

Really dude? Honestly, people like you disgust me. Let's say you're right and I really do not know my worth, is it necessary for you to push someone who is already down lower? It's just like people who throw low self esteem round as an insult to those who didn't hurt then. The only time you're allowed to do that is if the person with a with low self esteem or inferiority complex as you call it is trying to drag you down with them. But that is by the way.
My dear, you don't know jacks.h.it about me. Having a crush doesn't mean I'm stupid or that I don't know my worth. It is just what it is. Falling in love. Don't read too much meaning into it. If I was that stupid I wouldn't even be asking for opinions from others. And asking questions doesn't mean you don't know your worth. No one knows it all okay?
It seems to me that you're the one who lost your worth and you're trying to drag me down with you. I won't let you.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by hibiscus76(f): 5:50pm On Oct 26, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
I love ur sincerity. About why gay guys aren't interested in a lady's as's. Enlighten me. Thanks.
Are you a Chemistry student?? From your Moniker
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by ChemicalReaction(f): 5:57pm On Oct 26, 2016
hibiscus76:

Are you a Chemistry student?? From your Moniker
Lol.. Far from it. Art discipline to be precise. You a gardener? From your moniker too.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by hibiscus76(f): 6:42pm On Oct 26, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
Lol.. Far from it. Art discipline to be precise. You a gardener? From your moniker too.
lol nah..an industrial chemist..asked cuz I felt you were a colleague
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by ChemicalReaction(f): 7:06pm On Oct 26, 2016
hibiscus76:
lol nah..an industrial chemist..asked cuz I felt you were a colleague
I see.. Well, my big sis is ur colleague. A bio-chemist.

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by hibiscus76(f): 7:26pm On Oct 26, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
I see.. Well, my big sis is ur colleague. A bio-chemist.
Oh well I see..say hi to her
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Perseus: 9:21pm On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz:


Lol ok it's getting awkward talking about this here grin. Thanks anyway.

Well, for a gay guy, when it boils down to sex, it's not just about the sex, it's who you're having it with. I'm attracted to a guy first, before the sexual part of him. Thinking that a gay guy would also be interested in a lady's ass makes it seem as if gay guys are all about sex.

A married gay man (who is married to a woman ), would rather have sex via the vagina, cos to him it's just to satisfy the woman and not cos he gains any pleasure from it. So why would he want to have anal sex with her? He might as well jerk off to a gay porn than do that, except of course the woman asks for it.

Lastly, there are gay guys that have no interest in a guy's ass whatsoever, While others are. I think the population is evenly distributed.



There's just sp much to it sha. Sorry for derailing grin

Apparently being gay is now synonymous with arse-hole action!!
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Nobody: 9:21pm On Oct 26, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
Masonkz, one more question. You said 'there are gay guys that have no interest in a guy's ass' right? If this is true, how then do such guys make out? Sorry, just answer.. #winks

They are at the receiving end when making out. They're attracted to the " D", not the ass. Hence why I said the gay community is evenly distributed.
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Oct 26, 2016
Perseus:


Apparently being gay is now synonymous with arse-hole action!!

Well, she asked for the sex part of it.
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Perseus: 9:26pm On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz:


Well, she asked for the sex part of it.

Yeah...I get.Peeps here don't know that lostsa gay guys never even seen an arse-hole before, same way many straight men don't know what a vagina looks like...Haha
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Nobody: 9:29pm On Oct 26, 2016
Perseus:


Yeah...I get.Peeps here don't know that lostsa gay guys never even seen an arse-hole before, same way many straight men don't know what a vagina looks like...Haha

lol exactly.

Meanwhile where have you been? angry
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Oct 26, 2016
Izen:


Ha! Rape is a no no for me.
ok, i read ur story but i dont know if they have said anything reasonable to u. I would like to know ur religious differences first so i can say something
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Perseus: 9:38pm On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz:


lol exactly.

Meanwhile where have you been? angry

Haha...away,working at being uber successful, and following yellow boys.Yeah,I know I should be on here more often,my bad!
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:41pm On Oct 26, 2016
Izen:


Oh sorry for the long text. I don't want someone like hon pat lol. I'm just looking for someone who can hold a normal conversation without throwing bombs here and there. I come from a family of educationists and I'm generally surrounded by this category of people. So please understand. Everyone would automatically expect me to do better in terms of grammar.
let's see your pic.. I have a better guy for you.. but first, we will need to access you.
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:55pm On Oct 26, 2016
youngaz:
C'mon u really ave time 4 diz dollop-heads here on Nairaland sha...dat is why i dnt comment on posts like dis...dey will just start 2 talk as if dey reason tru d bottom of their slippers...u knw i do say it...wen dey hear of d word "Gay" d only tin dah comes 2 their mind is dat fvcking of anus dey made mention of up there...beta leave dem wit their crack heads...sometimes d way i read some comments ehn?...just lemme May-chaw-nu
op izen
is this dude one of your exes who throw bomb here and there?

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Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Oct 26, 2016
Perseus:


Haha...away, working at being uber successful , and following yellow boys.Yeah,I know I should be on here more often,my bad!

LMFAO @following yellow boys grin grin grin

@bold, ok that's it! I'm getting off nairaland. Need to be uber successful too grin
Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Perseus: 10:01pm On Oct 26, 2016
masonkz:


LMFAO @following yellow boys grin grin grin

@bold, ok that's it! I'm getting off nairaland. Need to be uber successful too grin

Nooooooo....get back here!

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