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I’m a girl of 23 years now… I had a lovely mother who lost her life to my father… He hated my mum and I because his family had imposed her on him and I was born as baby girl. He kept other women, came home drunk, beat up my mum in my presence and had sex (or would I call it rape) with her in my presence… My mum lived in pain and cried all her life cos she was an orphan and whenever she complained to her inlaws, they tell to ‘endure, that’s marriage, its for better for worse’, and she ends up receiving more beating… When I was 8years, my dad came home as usual, drunk and my mum was asleep cos she was tired and was pregnant at that time.. My dad wanted to rape me. I resisted him but he started beating me, tore my cloth & undies and was about raping me when my mum came to my rescue.. She pushed him away and asked me to run to d neighbours. As I ran, I heard a sound of somthing and my mum screamed aloud in pain.. When I came with d neighbours, I found my mum lying dead on d table with a knife on her belly. I cried out in pain as I held on to her lifeless body.. The neighbours went to d police but before dey returned, my dad took me and ran away frm Akure to ikirun in Osun state… My dad raped me on a daily basis and said I was good at nothing else.. When I was 14yrs, I discovered I couldn’t control my urine anymore.. So, a woman who lived close-by called me one day on my way to a store and asked what was wrong, I told her everything.. And that was how God Rescued me.. She hid me in her house until her son who lived abroad came n took me with him… The Doctors discovered that a serious damage was done to my Vagina dat led to my condition.. I was operated on.. Meanwhile, the woman reported my father to d police n he was sentenced to death for murder and child abuse .. I am now in the university and living a happy life again.. I only miss my mother who gave her life for me to be here.. But I know she’s also happy in heaven.. *God will destroy everyone that has caused u pain, setback and restore those years u have lost as a result of such situations in Jesus Name
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In what is fast becoming a very sexual world, one might wonder if there still the need for abstinence.
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Here are 10 reasons to wait till marriage.

1. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

2. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.

10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

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Nollywood actress, Mercy Johnson-Okojie
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It was an unforgettable musical experience as
Nigeria’celebrated rapper, MI, DJ Jimmy Jatt,
and other entertainmentindustry moguls
converged at the Genesis Deluxe Cinemas on
Friday, October 4 th for the premier of
Episode 1, Season 1 of Coke Studio, Africa’s
one of a kindmusical fusion project.
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Someone has this mom thing down! Kim
Kardashian might have had plenty of worries
before giving birth to North West, but clearly
she has nothing to worry about these days.
The fiercely fabulous momma was spotted
carrying a covered up Nori while going out for
dinner with family and friends. She was
reportedly joined by her own momma, Kris
Jenner, Kendall Jenner, and one of her BFFs,
Jonathan Cheban.
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Femi Kuti, the eldest son of Fela in this
interview, went down memory lane, recounting
the story of his late father, his music and
ideologies. He also talks about what the fans of
Afrobeat music will expect at this year's
Felabration among other issues .
The 2013 edition of Felabration,a week-long
concert which celebrates the life and times of
Afrobeat legend, Fela Anikulapo Kuti
commences from Monday, October 14 through
20 at the Afrikan Shrine, Ikeja, Lagos What's
new in this year's Felabration? I think what will
always be new is the enthusiasm of the crowd.
The festival runs from Monday through
Sunday. It kicked off last Monday with school
debate. Wuri Modern College won the
competition last year.
The Felabration usually kicks off with school
debate because we are trying to introduce new
things other than music. There will be
symposium where the likes of Femi Falana,
SAN, will be in attendance. The festival will kick
off properly next week Tuesday. It will run till
Saturday and closes on Sunday.
With this year's Felabration coming up, would
you say you have achieved the dream of
setting up the festival? Definitely.
We are all Nigerians and we know what it
means to run a festival at that level for 13
years.
I think we have to be applauded. It's a feat
that hasn't been achieved in Nigeria.
All the great festivals we know in Nigeria are
no longer functioning. We have never heard
any security challenges in the past 13 years.
With the crowd of over 10,000 people
attending the festival, I think we have to be
commended.
Now, Felabration is observed across the world,
especially in major cities of the world.
The event my sister, Yeni started has grown big
and stronger.
Looking at it holistically, do you feel
comfortable that a Nigerian who has
practically lived abroad all his life is playing
the role of Fela? I'm sure if they do a movie, it
will be great. Now, let us look at the broadway
show.
Critics say that it was too Americanised. They
did not want to show Fela's story from the
Nigerian perspective.
They wanted the American and the
international market to understand the Fela
story. See how Fela was misunderstood even
when he went to the United States.
It was after his death that people started
evaluating his music.
What he was doing? He married 27 wives in his
lifetime, how dare he? This man was against
feminism.? They gave him different kind of
names. He was completely misunderstood
because he wore pants, he smoked marijuana.
He had issues. He had serious issues whether
we liked it or not.
At his death, people were celebrating him but
in his lifetime, he was broke before he died.
What they did was to tell the Fela story for the
average international market to watch and
understand it. If you did watch them, you
would notice that the dancers could not dance
the Afrobeat music.
For you, the man was speaking American
English.
But you would have every reason to believe
that the Fela you know was not being acted but
if you look at it from the neutral perspective
like you didn't know Fela, you would
understand the story and even weep for him.
The day I watched it, I cried.
I cried because I knew where they were
coming from and I saw the audience.
Probably, they have not heard about Fela, the
Americans were saying, it made them want to
listen to his music to know more about Africa.
It opened their minds to so many issues.
Now, they are studying Afrobeat in many of
the schools and universities in America,
Germany, France, Sweden, Australia,
everywhere.
There are over 20 American bands playing
Afrobeat at the moment. Over the years and
given what is happening in the country today,
will you say your father has been vindicated or
misunderstood while he lived? I will answer in
the affirmative. He was grossly misunderstood
for a purpose because he saw corruption and
he knew what corruption was going to do to
the country; those involved in corruption
wanted to get away with dictatorship and
corruption which was what he was against.
And because he used his own unconventional
way of protesting, it didn't go down well with
the authorities. Then the authorities controlled
the media up to a point until after Daily Times,
when other media houses started springing up
because we have to remember that it was only
government newspapers and TVs that we had
then.
So, the story was told from the government's
perspective until The Punch, Vanguard and
other magazines were established.
Fela's story could be seen from another point
of view.
We have to understand where Fela was coming
from in the 60s. Where did the problem start?
What was the cause of his problem? And
maybe, because he was already a stubborn
character, he was going to make matters worse
and that was his character and that is the
character that people now love.
What kind of man was he, that many people
ran away from him, or even compromised
him. But he didn't have to go through all those
beatings? So, I think, he was purposely
misunderstood but yes, he has been
vindicated. But you are a different specie? I
would say, I am probably more diplomatic
because I have learnt from what I saw of him.
First, you have to understand the political
climate which we live in. Let us remember who
voted for Obasanjo?
Except if we want to be dishonest with
ourselves, Obasanjo won the first election,
clean and clear. What would Fela have done if
he was alive and this same Nigerians still went
to vote for this same Obasanjo? Didn't they
hear Fela sing about this man?
Then, it is still these same Nigerians that were
criticising this man and they know it. Let us
look at our incumbent President.
He was declared wanted by the EFCC when he
was governor of Bayelsa State and you voted
for him. That case was pending in court when
Yar' Adua made him his Vice.
Opposition parties should have objected to his
selection. But they didn't. Again, his former
boss late Yar ' Adua whom he served under had
a seven point agenda.
Where is it today? Jonathan promised that if
anything happened to him that he would follow
his footsteps. Has him followed his footsteps
today? There are many things you have to
understand as Fela's son.
Did Nigerians not hear what Fela talked about?
Are they not feeling the same pain that Fela
felt when he was alive? Nigerians are still
voting for the same corrupt politicians.
Are you worried that government has not been
able to honour your father after his death? Not
at all.
The people will always honour my father and
he will always be celebrated worldwide.
Even Lagos state has honoured him. Even if the
family doesn't celebrate him, Fela has gone
beyond the shores of Nigeria.
As we speak, New York, Paris, England, Japan,
Australia, New Zealanmd, China, Malaysia,
among others still celebrate him.
At over 50, some people say it seems you have
become more sexually active?
That is not true, I am no more sexually active.
When you see a beautiful woman, when you
reach my age and you have responsibility like
myself, you will know what I am talking about.
Before now, as a young man, you would want
to go after her.
There are many nights I go and sleep alone not
because I don't have girlfriends or want a
girlfriend, when I think of the responsibility I
have in my life, I will immediately have a
rethink.
The women in my life also have
responsibilities.
I can tell you that the mothers of my children,
we stay together, we are very serious. You
could say we are husband and wife but I don't
believe in marriage.
I just don't understand why one man will say I
pronounce you man and wife, in that case.
I pronounce myself man and wife.
I am very different from my father but in a lot
of ways like him. Like I couldn't understand
why he married 27 wives.
When he married them, he divorced them. I
didn't have a problem with my father's wives
but my mother did.
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Jamey Maxwell: Happy birthday to him in are_ass

lolz

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Nigerian rapper M.I was a year older on Friday
and he was thrown a surprise party on the 4th
of October at Cafe Vanessa Victoria Island,
Lagos.
His birthday party was attended by his fellow
celebrities like Davido, Noble Igwe, Victoria
Kimani and a host of others. Sure they had
fun...
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The actor has recently shared their images on
his Instagram.
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they do look good for each other .
what can you say?

joychioma19: Happy birthday love, but you don pass 31 oo

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Khloe Kardashian went shopping with her little sis and mum yesterday wearing a clingy low-cut top with no bra. She didn't seem to notice or care that her nipples were on full display through her shirt. And although she didn't step out with a bra, she stepped out with her wedding ring still in place, despite removing her estranged husband's name from all her social media accounts. See more photos after the cut -

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lindaflorence: happy birthday sweetheart

surs linda

Airforce1: They look good together

lols sure, today way you no insult person

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Popular Nollywood actress and movie producer, Stephanie Okereke Linus turns 31 today.
Happy birthday to her!!! You could also wish her a happy birthday.
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BBA winner Karen Igho wore this very daring outfit to Warri Again comedy concert which held in Warri yesterday. You like?

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VillageBoi: Yes I did... I've not seen it... yet!

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Akshow: Son or daughter? Cute baby though

son bro

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Here is what Davido said when he posted a
picture of himself and his bodyguard;
lifeofdavido : En route ph!! Say hi to my
bodyguard TJ!
Lol Davido shouldn't have shown the guy's pic.
Omg!! Very funny dude... So one of his
followers said;
kcee23 : Ur body guard skinny sha. Check out
commander. Thats what u call guard not
tolotolo
And another one said this;
jaffarelle : Uv changed bodyguard?

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joyli: Pretty though!!

sure

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Actress, UN ambassador & refugee ambassador Chika Ike got a HOG (Hall Of Grace) Award for her humanitarian works on Friday September 27th. Congrats to her! Lovely dress..



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