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Bigdee, listen to thief man, you phucked up big time. what sux 4 you is that you got caught.

lolol

"Am" or "I'm," isn't the issue at stake here, unless you want to split hairs. Anyway, thanks for the grammar lesson.

Good, I'm glad you now realize this, you offered to loan me a dictionary, hence the kind words.

The woman is stingy, because she is trying to hoard the fuel she bought into the car, even though it is his car. And the fact that your friend allowed her to get away with it, (especially since it is his own car), proves that he is emotionally immature.

you see the fatal flaw in how you tried to connect your concepts?
allowing a woman to get away with keeping your car keys = emotional immaturity? hmm, needst I say more?
What would you suggest as a reaction to the action? beat up on her? begin a war of words with her? what? emotional immaturity my pubic hair.

Period. No one is "excusing" the act. Kindly read my previous post again. And there is no need to resort to name-calling. Using words like 'daft', 'fool' etc. merely reveals the low-grade mentality of the speaker or writer, if you prefer.

Bragging about how large one's vocab-empire is, isn't a revelation of the "low-grade mentality of the writer"

Why are you so hung up on this age thing? Exploitation and manipulation are character traits, that occur in people irrespective of their age or gender. You claim "older women are more likely to exploit younger guys than older men with younger girls." That is not strictly true.

Yes it is.

Only gullible and/or greedy people are exploited.

Hahahah, now that's not true.

Being gullible, is a mind-set.

And this is not true as well

Exploitation also has to do with who holds power over the other. If a man is a good provider for the family who doesn't depend on the wife for residency or daily bread, he holds the power, irrespective of wether his wife is older or not!

Oh money is the only thing that gives a man authority/power over a woman if I hear you correctly?
Let's assume now that the woman is as wealthy, or wealthier than the man, add onto that her age-factor, do you think she'd let the man be "in control"
it certainly doesn't happen in most of these western countries, especially now that we have feminists running the show.

Again you feel the need to delve into the realm of insults to make a point. How sad. Your choice of words like 'numskull, simpleton, idiot etc.' says a lot about the kind of person you are and the quality of thoughts you have stored up in your mind, if this is all that can come out of it. Shame!

Ke s'ogbo, you started it.
If you want to discuss this topic topic we're on with factual backing, come with it, I don't mind, otherwise we can continue this chattering with generalizations.

If there was nothing tangible about my vocabulary, you wouldn't have borrowed it. I'm not complaining, so stop sweating!

I ain't sweating, and you did complain, you brought up the issue about your oh so big vocabulary, now you claim i'm sweating? hmm.

Why don't you direct your questions to the person who made the original post? Why should I respond to a double-standard on dating or love, when I wasn't the one who made it an issue?

Oh so the OP made it an issue, EXACTLY! because it is an issue, he's concerned about the girl's age, does that ring a bell.
Since you're here defending love over age-consciousness, you shouldn't mind defending love over height-consciousness.

There are different strokes for different folks. What may matter to one person, may not matter to the next. Simple. That was why I pasted the story of my tall neighbour, and her shorter husband.

That was a very touching story by the way.

Why should I condemn them? Is it my business who the Mr. A chooses to fall in love with, or who Mrs. B chooses to marry? Don't they have eyes & brains? Am I the one going to live with them?

You're here condemning me for claiming age matters. Apparently my cup of tea is your business, but their cup of tea, isn't? sorry Dad.

Point of correction, I'm not 25. I don't know what gave you the idea. So kindly stick to the facts. Who I choose to marry, will be my business and mine alone. And as for manipulation, go and conduct some more research into this area. It has very little to do with age, and more to do with attitude, power play and frame of mind. Go figure!

I partially agree with you, but how many people do you think have/want the frame of mind of being dominated? It's usually not a choice. many people just succumb to it.  Love can do that to you lolol, se you know, you love your woman so much that your love for her over-shadows the way she maltreats you.

Laudate, I'll give you one thing, minute age difference doesn't matter, but when you start speaking of a gap over 8 years, etc, better check yourself.
I suggest you read what Lady TI posted above, true talk.

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Yeah, the word is 'stingy.' Am sure you know what it means. And you are right I don't know your friend. But a clear look at the story you shared, shows that the lady did not deny him the keys to the car, because she was older than him, (at least you didn't say those were her initial remarks!), she did so, because she was stingy. And I didn't need to conduct any research, or plot any results into any chart. A simple observation of human behaviour, would make you arrive at the same conclusion. Its' funny though, to see you quoting my words back at me, because it shows you do not have such a large vocabulary, so you feel the need to borrow some of mine. Feel free, if it makes you happy. Would you like me to loan you my dictionary, so you can get more words & meanings?

Loan me a dictionary? This coming from a boy who cannot distinguish between "am" and "i'm" - let's not get into that.
A woman won't let you drive your own f.ucking car, because she is stingy? lololol, good lord, are you daft.
Isn't it "his" car, after all? they're supposed to be a couple fool, being stingy doesn't excuse the act.
A simple observation of human behavior would also reveal to you that older women are more likely to exploit younger guys than older men with younger girls.
What is so tangible about your vocabulary, ehn? numskull, I used your words as a way to disprove your buggy logic.
You were pulling statements out your ass, while @ the same time telling me to go conduct an in-depth research

Yeah, you can only share what you see in your own little world. It doesn't mean it does not happen elsewhere. A woman dating a younger man may be non-conventional in your eyes, but it doesn't mean it is wrong, bad or that such a relationship cannot work. And for your information, conventions DO change. In every society. So don't continue living in the past.

What little world? Are you implying that you're conversing with an alien?  You are a yeye simpleton, you couldn't think of a sound response abi?
We're not debating right or wrong here, we're talking about the issues that may arise as a result of the chosen scenario, don't be an idiot

If vulnerable is the way you choose to see it, then that's your own call. I see it as a lack of emotional maturity, and last time I checked, I had the right to my own views.

So do I, you don hear?

If a man has a strong sense of self-worth, a legit income, he fends for himself & his family, has a strong sense of self-esteem,doesn't depend on his wife for daily bread, treats all around him with respect and sincerity, I find it hard to see how a woman he married with his own money, would stand up to disrespect him simply because she is 'older'. Older, my foot. Why can't she take her old age back to her father's house? Why did she marry him in the first place & how come he did not see the signs that she would disrespect him on account of the age difference, before he married her?

What little world are you living in? lololol(sorry I had to borrow your vocabulary again, don't cry)
This happens, el grande.
Maybe she needs a boi toy.  Come to think of it, everything you listed above isn't usually the case with all men.  They're lacking in one or more of the categories, don't be deceived.

I have met several couples with older & younger wives. Age has very little to do with how a woman treats a man. I have seen younger women treat their husbands like trash, and vice versa, while I have also seen older women treat their husbands with respect, maturity, love & understanding.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen.
Even gan paapa, if the guy loves his woman as you stated, why chooseth he to come here and ask if dating a woman 3 years older than he is, is okay?
perhaps a little insecurity there, se you see it?

Ask those who gave answers as to why they wouldn't marry a shorter guy.

I don't need to ask, view the thread yourself, what I'm asking you to do is respond to the double-standard on dating/love.
The guy chooses to date a woman older than himself, you claim love conquers all, the chick claims she doesn't want a shortie, then what?
Why don't you go on there and start condemning them, let's leave that one.
Assuming you're 25 by the way, you shouldn't have any problems with handling a 47-year-old woman, I hope you fall in love with one.

3-years isn't that big a difference by the way, it ain't bad at all ya heard me, but age does matter, agree or not.
the greater the age difference between the two lovebirds, the greater the possibility of manipulation by one of the parties.

Re-ea-ally? You actually conducted some in-depth attitudinal research into this area, plotted the results into a Gant chart and discovered that bossy women were often 'older or richer' than their husbands.

All that's unnecessary, if you're witty, common sense does the trick.

Wonderful!  Did it occur to you that the lady who refused to give her husband the keys to the car because she had just put some gas in it, was just being stingy?

So you now know my own friend more than I know him abi?
By the way did you conduct some in-depth attitudinal research into this area, plotted the results into a Gant chart and discovered that she didn't release the car keys because she's stingy.
lol, very nice response "stingy" - your man needs his car and you won't give him the keys because you're stingy.

No. To you, it had to have been the age difference. Are you saying women who are younger than their husbands, do not deny their husbands the use of the car?

Are you saying that if they had been younger than their husbands, they wouldn't have been bossy?

no, you don't have to jump to conclusions.
regardless of your perspective/twist, women dating younger men is non-conventional, it's usually the other way around

It didn't occcur to you that these women were bossy, simply because being bossy' was a character trait they possessed right from day one, and not because there was an age difference between them & their husbands.

Lolololol, you're here making the same statements I'm making, and you're here telling me to research?

Haven't you seen younger women 'lording' it over their husbands or 'bossing' their husbands, around?

I already shared with you the ones I see.  On a grand scale.

What does it tell you about the emotional maturity of the man?

nothing at all.  emotional maturity ain't the question here.
if you say the man's vulnerable, then make your case I'll agree with you, but don't sit there shouting emotional maturity.

Last note: First class, Juintade, spoilt, IG & English1 thanks for your articulate words & logical reasoning. Thumbs up, guys!

Bias. I hope you date a woman that's 10 years older than you by the way.  Just for the sake of trying it out, come back and share your experience.

Your speculation is about as wayward as mine, so let's keep it up.
It's so damn funny how these principles of love tend to change so dramatically.  Since love is so age-blind, and love-driven, how come we have women saying they wouldn't want men shorter than they are? ehn?  I thought if you love the guy it shouldn't matter, right?

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why would she grow a nut ( whatever that means) about her age?

Lol, you answered your own question, "about her age"
"He can't have authority over me, i'm older than he is."

why on earth do you think that brides older than their husbands are more inclined to being bossy than the younger ones? last time i checked a bossy woman is a bossy woman despite her husband's age.

It just so happens that those bossy women are either older than their husbands, or richer than their husbands?
I've seen this often home girl, just the other day my friend told me his girl wouldn't give him the key to "his" car, because "she" bought the gas in it.
but heyyy, I ain't got nothing to worry about cos "I'm Bossy" too!

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and you think younger women don't control men? don't be ignorant.

He didn't ask about younger women did he now? that doesn't happen as much as it does with the older ones by the way.
and it's not ignorance, it's the truth. take it with a pinch of salt.

spoilt i was joking about that post, the 3-year age differene isn't that much of a big deal until she grows a nut about her age.

unfortunate

omo, 3 years, it's absolutely not okay man.
2 years into your marriage if you plan on getting married, she'll have you saying yessa-massa.

bro, is this the truth or did you bang your girlfriend and nutt in there without a rubber

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What's the source of your inspiration?
Your thirst for success, your drive to pursue your goals, the root of your focus?
That's assuming you have one.
Are there phrases, words, quotes, memories of lost loved ones, etc,  that keep you motivated?
What is/are the most influential word(s) you've ever read, or heard.

Remember,
"Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use."
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But that's where you are wrong, I do know you.

Ummmmmm okay thou all knowing. you want a cookie?

I once told someone you might find farmiliar, that I'm a smart girl.

everyone's smart in their own ways sweetie.

and i always do my calculations. Somethings along the line made me know who you are

you know they call me TI but you'ont know me lol.

But not to worry, I'm not about to shout it out either, like i said "it was fun while it lasted".

nothing lasted, it was more like a fling.

I'm tired of listenin' at yo naggin'
Whomp Whomp Whomp Whomp Whomp
speak to the back of the hand girl.

You see, thats actually where the whole confussion started, yu can't see yourself taking "it" from a virgin (whatever "it" is, that is ), but you'll happily take it from a non-virgin that you still can't see yourself ending up with?? is that what you're saying??

Yes, that's exactly what he was saying, and that's what I wanted you to realize all along while you were barking at me all along. chingate!

You sound like someone i know, your words are flashing back almost forgotten memories, yea, i think i'm beginning to get a clue.
Not to worry though, it was fun while it lasted, but i washed my hands off you a long time ago. I'm not argueing nothing with your easily-irritated ass any longer, not a chance in hell.

shortie, you know my screen-name's fekuti, but really you don't know me.

The one mistake i made though unlike others was replying your first statement, silence they say has always been the best answer for some certain kind of people, my bad, that i realised it a Lil bit too late.

You realized that in your first response yet you chose to continue responding.

Ok, I appologize for making a debacle of your responses.

You've just proved my worst night-mare . .

Yes, I guessyou can call me your worst nightmare

chatting with a retard.

What's retarded is your incoherent responses, it seems like you need a modification chip installed in your brain

I'm sorry i ran into you on this happy day

It's alright don't cry

When i have discussions, insults don't have to get into the picture,

Seems like you are very fond of insults, you don't need to try to seem fault-less
isn't calling someone a retard an insult in it's own right? don't worry i'm here to help you learn

but obviously, you're not the type to have a discussion with, are you??

I am, but apparently you don't understand how to get your point across without being butt-hurt

Please go find some other ignorants like yourself (i've made my points, you've made yours. We're obviously saying the same thing but your skull wouldn't comprehend, now thats not my piece of cake to chew but yours, so don't force it down my throath)

Ain't nobody forcing nothing down your tight throat, don't you realize i'm making my points as well

Leave my path, biko i take God beg you!!

What routeless path? are you the CEO of this site abi what? omugo.
You try so hard to impress, you are very faint, in fact you lack vigor

Lastly but absolutely not least , , , your name finally rings a bell. The guy that wouldn't let me rest because for one "lousy" reason, he doesn't approve of the meaning of my signature. LOL, what a fool i was to fall into your trap all over again. Its all good though, I'll do anything in the course of "love" and "matters of the heart".

What does me questioning you about your signature 100 years ago have to do with the discussion here?
Do you somehow ride the yellow bus?

Heaven knows I'll be the last to give thumbs up to "using and dumping" of any kind, be it virgin or not.

So now you claim it's "men's language" abi? olodo.
Try making up your mind why don't you? Weren't you a hot-minute ago idolizing maleeq for leaving the "innocent" virgins alone and going after non-virgins.
looooololol.

i'm glad you've decided to broaden your bias.
oh, don't forget to tell your fellow friends to stop spreading them legs.
even you gan paapa with your cherry, you're about as innocent as my dirty sock.
innocent koh, keep day-dreaming.  what's with you and innocent anyway, is that your boyfriend's name abi what? he'll be doing the corrupting later abi, sufree o.

Dind't make a word out of this whole post of yours, seems you were just playing with your keyboard becasue they all came out some what childish, sorry.

In that case why did you bother responding.
Why don't you more carefully reveal that you don't understand abc.

I won't answer that, and from where i'm seated, it seems like this discussion is more than ended, not interested in a chit-chat.

What gives you the slightest idea that I want a chat with you
Don't cajole yourself.

Just for the records, when i post, i throw my personal/private/sex life to the bush, I don't want to appear needing pity or otherwise, so believe it or not, it had nothing to do with me.

It didn't seem like it to me, your response was very emotionally charged and neurotic

I like posting from a general sense and point of view, go check my posts

Who gives a flying f-uck, try to stay on point.

I feel "rape" is the worst crime on earth, come to think of it, I've never been Raped, so snap out of the trance dearie!!!

Are you paranoid or some sh!t, how did rape get into this discussion?