₦airaland Forum

Ginomel:
Amazing!! What do you do when she challenges you and argues with you. I have a case at hand where he says the wife is claiming to be virtuous but argues with him and challenges him.

How do you handle such cases.

I cannot stay with a woman who gives a yes to all my proposals. When she challenges me I usually take my time to see if I can see it from her point of view or I simply try to see how I can make her see things clearly from my point of view.

If I want to have my way no matter what I will tell her that I am the authority and no matter what even when I am wrong I am right and she is bound to stay with me. That is me vetoing!




My mom just passed on!
This morning

Ginomel:
What did your spouse do? She was helping to provide? Just curious

Beyond provision!
Supportive, consoling, strong, loving!
She literally emptied herself for me. She gave my life a meaning.

I never knew she will do 5 years with me in marriage but by next year she will be doing 10. Even if she decides to go for another man (God-forbid) I will stay the rest of my life without a spouse.

OKOATA:
All I see is fear, na you talk say Obi no fit win and BAT will win all Nigerian state and na same you say Obi won't clinch the ticket. Oga stay one place.

They will not o! Blokos dey shake up and down! Lol!

DomPerignon:
Only SS has all its state being ruled by APC.

What does that tell you?

APC under Tinubu isn't the same under Buhari.

Its the ADC that is more like Buhari era APC.

I pray! Be whining yourself!
Just wait till campaign starts.

The only option for Tinubu is that Obi should not be on the ballot. South South nor send anybody papa.

Tinubu can win o but not with South South or South East just take it to the bank.

DomPerignon:
SS?

What are you smoking?

SS that all states are under APC?

You too dey dream.

What I know that this time next year, una go begin insult ADC when Obi no.get ticket and Amaechi emerges as their flag bearer.

South South APC? Who be this one?
God forbid APC!

Normal election and no one want to see APC.

richmond500:
Your 2025 resoluti0n, how many did you achieve?

Almost all but 2025 is laced with so much life threatening temptations. God has been with me all along.

Despite my business breakthroughs you won't believe I couldn't get my kids new stuffs like I usually do. Thank God for the ones I have gotten before now that they have not used.

Mom as been in a very critical condition and has greatly affected my businesses but I swear if not for God it would have been worse.

In any case, 2025 is a good year.
2026 will be the year of my beautiful spouse. I will celebrate her by God's grace like never before. She deserves all the accolades.

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Omo two website gone

Thanks!
I don't have up to forty characters to add I beg.

The question is what if the wife is innocent?
In most cases on issues like this you will see windows of innocence.

Please he should take it easy.
In marriage and as Catholics we were told that our spouses are our crosses hence we should all we can before getting married cos the church will always frown at divorce.

We have seen so many cases where the victims where later proven to be innocent.

Please tell your paddy to take it very slow. When someone is getting lost he walks very fast.

I plead, he should still give that woman some benefits of doubt. Even if she is loosed I don't think she will be so loosed to fill up the toilet chamber. At least we should reason it

spencekat:
Aptly written!.What did you do to the over zealous police man?

So he insisted he must talk with my wife and ask her some questions. I placed my wife on call and they spoke at length asking her all manner of questions which my wife answered including what my baby was wearing.

Along with some men at the roundabout they insisted they must meet my wife who then was working at Sapele. That was how they drove us to Sapele Roundabout where we met my wife. Already I have apologized on my wife's behalf because I know the second part will not be easy.

Moment we got to Sapele Roundabout and baby saw her, my baby screamed mommy and that was where the problem started. She held the police and refuse him to go that he must take us to his station. She has already called the various uniform men including her family members and they told her not to let him go.

I beg lemme stop here.
That day was not funny. I later got to Benin in the evening.

Ofunaofu:
Wike is no longer a member of the PDP, having been expelled. He is now affiliated with Wike & Co. Caretaker Committee Limited, which you erroneously described as PDP members. They are not.

Some Nigerians actually wishes that Wike still hold PDP to ransom.

Well, let's see how it will go.
2026 is going to be very interesting in my view.

What they have reduced our country to! People will still be celebrating this one.
Only Yerima has been able to size him perfectly.

Iamcute:
Ashawo joint
Enerhen junction

I know there but I have never gone there because of woman. So na you be the real Orosco here.

Una wan flex Warri na Dwellers una see.

Rapmoney:
If you know this place in Warri, Delta State, then you dor cast

Cast how?
That dirty place?
Enerhen junction is the most popular place in Warri. So how we take cast?

Almost all government agencies are strongly on ground here, including the presidency.

Caseless:
virginity no mean say when something tear and blood come out. Your first time is when it's said that you lost it.

Virginia = Virginity.
God never relegated man to that level. I am god and I must stay so because I have authority just like my maker.

Virginity is for females!

pneumatikos:
Who still uses P2P. What I do is to send the usdt to my Busha or luno wallet and withdraw directly to my bank.

Really? Possible?

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We4all:
Lol....I like to believe you don't mean sexual abuse. Let's pretend that's what you meant, then you are just trying to be silly.

How many women sexually abuse their sons? I'm sure if we are doing numbers, it will be one out of one million women.

But fathers sleeping with their daughters has become a norm. So, stop trying to paint women black when men are the real culprits.

No you don't get it I swear.
I gave a very serious instruction that nobody touches the private parts of my kids. Their mother is not allowed to touch the guys own no matter what.

Mothers are fond of accessing their boys private part, aunties are also fond of it as they crack joke with the boys private part. This I have seen several times. Hardly will you see fathers doing something similar to their female children. That is nothing but pure sexual abuse. I don't even allow my wife to rate the boys private part. I forbid her.

Mothers and aunties will even go as far as sensitizing it so they can make joke with it. What do you call that? This I see on a daily basis. Even if it's your child it is forbidden.

Do you agree that is also child abuse?

Kingray10:
The girl that confessed she was using vibrator on her daughter from when she was 8months na MAN do am

Women abuse children far more than men. Mothers abuse children far more than fathers.

I bathe my kids including my daughter of 8.
No loving father will molest his own child. Such molestations has a lot to do with brain damage and manipulation.

Having four sisters growing up and younger siblings has shown me that the best person to protect is the father.

In my experience I have come to see that male children are more molested by the mother's friends and acquaintances.

I protect my boys even as much as I do my girl. Till date if my wife or my mother in-law is not backing or bathing my kids it has to be me.

I have carried her from Warri to Benin and stayed almost two days alone when she was not up to a year and I was accosted by a police officer at roundabout who owns the child after much proof the man was not satisfied and he got what he deserved. No one protects a girl child more than the father.

My sisters or sister in-laws don't dare touch my boys.

Fathers has always been the best protector of their female children in my opinion. I don't mean step-fathers.

Obiedun:
I don't know the reason for your post. It's either you want to be mischievous or you are a kid. For your information, nobody knows the exact date of Jesus birth but we have all agree that that day shi be set apart for Christ 💚 simple. Obasanjo doesn't know his date of birth yet a day has been set by him to celebrate his birthday. Whether we choose Januar, February or even June it doesn't matter. I hope you will not come here next year to ask the same question❓
Merry Christmas. We are celebrating the birth of Christ not the birthday

God bless you for that sweet response. Sadly, you will still find similar minds within the Christian folks.

We are not celebrating Jesus Birthday but Jesus BIRTH! So powerful and on point.

PWANMaxGroup:
Maybe that's not the interest of the government. Here in the west, there are many areas of land marked for agriculture, there are also areas for residential and also mixed use.

It has to be!
That is one area where I respect the West so much.

Every local government in each Southern state is suppose to have at least an industrial area, a medical center and agricultural estate. Maybe I am not seeing this properly.

WWE in PDP.
Now it will make sense to say kill your enemy completely.

Although it is still to early to permutate.

PWANMaxGroup:
Here's a video of the Lavender Farm City Asaba - https://youtube.com/shorts/4LDjivPPW7U

I will certainly contact you. Thank you so much please.

PWANMaxGroup:
Our properties at Rivers can be used for farming, but they aren't affordable because they are suited for residential purposes.

It baffles me that one can hardly find suitable government owned farm lands in Rivers and Delta state like we have in Lagos and most of the western states. Why?

Maybe I have not gotten the right information. Government can really get a lot of people employed through this means.

PWANMaxGroup:
Hi, we have farmlands for sale across locations in Nigeria

Delta and Rivers?
Affordable?

Mrkc:
I want to keep the baby but I don't want the baby to suffer untold harship.
I will never forgive myself if i fail to give the child the best life has to offer

Change your pattern of thinking and grow up.
My first child enjoyed, I was working in Lagos and was able to afford all she needed. My second child came suffering hell. No diapers, no food. When the third child came everywhere exploded. My wife got her job even why she was pregnant.
Business boom and I was able to secure my current job and now blessed with multiple streams of income.

Don't look at the Child but let your focus be on God. If God be for you I swear He will keep you safe and see you through.

Mrkc:
I am jobless and she is 3 level doing 5 years course.
She is suggesting I pay her bride price or remove the baby
I need advice

Keep the child and let her be your job at the moment please.
You will not regret keeping it.

Show your baby to be you are the best dad in the world.
May God grant you peace!