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When a man lacks foresight he ends up always regretting.

True leaders always see the end from the beginning and that is why I will always respect Ex President Obasanjo non like him in the crop of some of the non*entities we call leaders today.

Hence the saying, today is pregnant what it will give birth to tomorrow nobody knows.

APC on paper, PDP in heart!
We are Deltans and we are political.
Time will tell.

Soon they will wear red blouse on top Tinubu wrapper. Soon enough it will be clear Delta is not Rivers.

cutecommend:
If they have dealt with you in several relationships dont ever enter a toxic marriage. Your life was not designed by God's to suffer and suffer and suffer.

Pray to God genuinely and look well before you marry.

It would have been better if you will remain single for life. Instead of going to marriage and let other people pay for what they did not do to you.

hotseat:
One of the primary reasons why Tinubu would still win the 2027 presidential election is because the opposition lacks presidential materials.

All of them have something in common: lack of credibility.

The only reason that they are ganging up against Mr President is because they are disgruntled.

They have next to zero love for the country.

PO who the Obidients parade as the next thing after sliced bread has been tried and tested at the sub-national level and his performance while in office was below average.

Taking him to the national level would be a disaster for the country.

If it's cho-cho-cho, he has all it takes but not in performance.

With the benefit of hindsight, none of those jostling for the Office of the President could have done any better than the incumbent who has already set the template for the nation to take off.

Nigeria is not a guinea pig for experiment by political lilliputians.




@hotseat

Are you scared of e-transmission, Yes or No?
Can we just let the process be free and fair?

[quote author=GloriousGbola post=138378794][/quote]Blank the "child" that was topographical error.
Thanks though!

kiddaz:
You know what? I take it back. You are absolutely correct.
As for your question... I would say my definition of good might not be the next man's It's why I operate on live and let's live. So long as whomever settles with her is truly happy then she's good

The bold sums it all up

Now you can see it.
I once had a very beautiful girl and before my eyes a guy came and was toasting her and he used a line that made me gave up like wow.. this girl is gone. The guy said cheat on me and I will still be your man, I adore you even in your widest fantasy. Oga na once I know say my girl don go. Today they are married.

I cried and begged like a kid when she started acting funny but it happened. To me!

Gerrard59:
Women are earning as much as men, and in some cases, more than men. So, things are changing, and it is not even a Nigerian thing, but a global phenomenon. A growing number of women now prefer to be alone or adopt newer dating/mating concepts than date a man if it does not make sense to them.

The ability of women to earn their own money and control if they can have children and how many has changed the relationship landscape.


Polygamy actually benefits women in this case. The side chic model benefits men too. Maybe we will soon have a growing number of non-Christian women advocating for polygamy in the coming years. That would be interesting to note.


Maybe because, on average, married men spend more on single ladies than bachelors do. I agree that he has to know how to cook and clean his clothes in the current dispensation. But I think the spending power and will of married men push bachelors out of the dating scene.

You are a smart guy and you are swift!
I don't have anything to contest in what you have said or submitted above.

In relationships and marriages most times both sides are right.

If a single lady come to my house and sees how neat I am, how tolerating and teaching I am. How cool she is when she is with me and at night I am not after her figures... Things will start running through her head.

By morning I am leaving for work and I am leaving some dishes unclean while I have some few change close to her pillow in case she needs anything. BY the time I return in the evening most times she must have done the cleaning. It is in their instinct..

Get some few undies, rush to shower and look clean most likely only one thing will be in her head. Who is this guy? Most likely she start texting her friend "like I don't know this guy is, he looks different not like he is really spending buh....

nnamdi640:
Can you teach me that method because I don't really understand them again

I don't know how to summarize them but I usually say. If you want to know a good woman or man take her or him to the dinning.

If you are very intelligent you will discover the past fifteen years in the life of that person.

Ask for sex but never be in a hurry.
Ask your proposed friend what their likes and dislikes are.

Their goals, dreams and aspirations.
What they think about family and marriage.
Check if they are wounded and what can be their healing therapy.

As a guy you must know and understand how to play with a woman's emotions and keep her spellbound.

I once told a friend that every woman's brain can be reprogrammed. Yes you can do that mostly if you want to keep her for a wife.

That is enough!
Just think!

kiddaz:
That she was married by someone doesn't make her good.

...but good enough for that fellow. Helloooo!
"Ones meat is another one's poison" HELLOOOOO!


What is your definition of good?

Gerrard59:
Honestly, these days, I see more marriage tips and stories from men than women. Does it mean men need marriage more than women? If marriage benefits women more than men, why are our men always threatening the women with old age and whatnot? Are they not supposed to die old and single?

The biggest beneficiaries should be at the forefront of campaigning for marriages, not those who lose the most.

I tire o!
I have seen the worst of revile men.
Ok, at Idumota park or somewhere around that axis back then in Lagos, we were in the park waiting for the bus to be loaded when this couple entered but thinking the back of the driver seat will be too hot the lady left her guy to join my seat that was behind them. The boyfriend commanded her to join him at the front which she reluctantly did. On getting to the front this man beat the hell out of her with multiple slaps and she did not utter a word.

I felt like taking a knife through his throat. A lot of men that are not well brought up are parading the street looking for a victim to deceive with a wedding ring and some of these women are getting wiser. Once they meet a man they can quickly tell if he is a tyrant or something worse.

Some women prefer to date a sound married guy than a stupid single guy hence some will say "the best guys are already taken" this is my 10th year in marriage and I have had more than ten marriage proposals. When a woman say she will be honoured if you will take her as a second wife. What will you do? I simply just date if I can and some I still keep till date. Not exes!

A lot of men are loosing it. No training!
My neighbor who is a bachelor will patronize buka all year round if there is no woman to cook for him or do his laundry and he thinks all a woman wants is marriage. Fat lie! He gets angry that a married guy is pulling creamy girls that he desires for marriage but marriage does not come like that.

The question is do men know what they want? Are you what the woman want? Lol! It is deep!

nnamdi640:
Not that alot of people don't know what they want, when a man that is ready to settle down start meeting ladies that are confused, will you say that the man doesn't know what he wants. Alot of our ladies are confused while others are too materialistic

You are very correct. So I device a means of separating myself from the confused ones.

As e dey women na so e dey do men. Na vice versa.

I beg make una leave women alone!
It's enough already I beg. Everyday women this, women that!

Everybody is now becoming a relationship counselor now. If you cannot get a good woman check yourself and your choices. The woman that is not good to you will have her fingers ringed by another man.

Almost all my exes got married before me.
Bottom line is a lot of people don't even know what they want.

Julibet:
I was almost agreeing with some of your submission till you typed this nonsense.

Please love your wife, it's good for the society but don't come here and defend nonsense.

A woman should give her husband 4 kids that aren't his own to make him 'a proud father?'
Please wish that on yourself and your male family members

Be civil try to read and understand. Where you don't understand ask questions.

I pointed out that I know a colleague who was a practical example.

A lot of men will marry a woman knowing fully well they cannot impregnate a woman only for the woman to faced with the embarrassment of childlessness.

My second example happens to be a nurse and her marriage is suppose to be seven years this year but the man does not produce sperm and this is not a case of low sperm count. Very scanty sperm. The painful part is that the husband knew even before they got married. If that is your sister will you ask her to stay in the marriage?

If that is your brother will you allow him to do that to another man's daughter? In this case the husband pleaded that his wife should cover his shame and we all refused. Late last year the marriage was terminated.

People go into marriage for different reasons. I have a friend who currently is saying he will only marry if the lady will accept that they will not have children. Will you give your sister to such a man?

No one is wishing evil on anyone but these things happen on a daily.

opeldavid:
What are you actually trying to say?

I was trying to say nothing.

ridwintin89:
Who no go no go know,some men talked the same thing,they have changed their ideology today.

Many men were raising a bastard without knowing.

I have seen a man that doesn't have any child out of all the four children.

This was someone that did not travel out because of love for his wife.

I don't tell anyone not to love their wife duly,but nobody should cry foul online when the truth later revealed.

I beg make we hear word! You guys don't know how dumb it sounds to claim that out of four kids non is the husbands own. Show me that man and I will show you a woman who did that to make her husband a proud father.

I have a very good friend and a colleague who are practical example. You guys should go and get married and stop disturbing the marriage space.

How can a sensible man be with a woman in the house and will not know that all kids are not his own? You think marriage is a secondary school classroom.

I can vehemently tell you there is non of our pregnancy that I am not always the first to know that my wife is pregnant and she will be surprised.

If you don't want to get married it's fine don't juxtapose what you don't know.

I cannot imagine carrying and dangling my d*ck all over the place running from one hole to another. Like I don't get but that is me. Other guys may not share the same ideology and that should not be my headache.

A lot of you barely talk of the multiple bastards some married men has outside wedlock and the wife will not know until the day the man dies. Who will you blame?

Lopsided analysis everyday by baby men! Tah! Make una comot.

Cum4me:
if marriage favour you you're lucky. I've seen married men facing hell because of no money to cater for family.

So women are not suffering also?
So you haven't seen a woman selling pure water, carrying a baby on her back and still looking for a way to breastfeed the baby? The man responsible for that will still shift her pants when night comes o.

The man will come in at 10:30pm and drop #1000 for a family of 6 and in the next 20mins he demand for pounded yam and cow head Ogboni soup.

Women suffer more in marriage that anyone else. I have been chanced to witness the delivery of three of my kids and you don't want me to continue.

Women suffer more in marriage don't get it twisted. Some women goes into prostitution because their spouses are lazy.

Is this the only picture or profile you saw there? Why did you single this out? It didn't appeal to your fantasies.

So many matured boys sometimes in this section of NL.

Minus me. I don't share in that your ideology.
Personally for me if not for women I for don excuse una for this world.

Ehn! So I will just be looking at all these strong faces and bony structures.
My God! No woman no life!

Forget certificates my wife is almost my greatest reward, she gave me my beautiful kids and don't tell me any woman can do that cos I don't do that nonsense "my baby mama kind of thing.

I will always choose one ugly woman over 10 handsome guys.
I will always choose one good woman over 10 foolish guys.

Hellooooooo SIR, spare me that crap!

Dtruthspeaker:
Would you not ask what she did for her husband to cut her off, if truly she is married?

Of which I do not believe that she is married. It looks like she is crying and dying to be married but she just bent it so that one guy would come and fall for her trap of tears

I only relate it from the angle that she is married. That is my crux in what she posted.

I can relate! I know the depths of what you are saying.
Trust me, you can work it out and still awesomely desirable.

You can still get all the spice you want you only may not need to increase your body count any longer.

Break free from those shackles and redefine what love may be to you in marriage. You can unlearn and relearn.

Let's see what the outcome will be.
There are so many sides to this dissolution of thing.

The politics and conspiracies!

Racoon:
Oga go rest with all these your political flipflop and instability. Nobody send you busybody.

God bless your soul!
They use such narrative to scale the reaction of the average Nigeria to a conclusive end.

Since the result of the 2023 election was declared APC has never rested.
Ask Jacob how many years he spent on exile after stealing what was not his, thinking he will come and impress his brother but he didn't believe what he saw.

Quite a long childish question!
Every man is made up of three categories.
Body
Soul
Spirit

Jesus said do not be afraid of the one who can destroy only the body but be afraid of the one who can destroy but body and soul in hell.

Do a search on the nature of God!
You cannot use human tendencies to equate God's nature or formation.

Na your own you don talk abi?

Virginity is a priority for men and it will remain so till His kingdom come. Hellooo!

AriseAndShine01:
What are the attributes of His own that made them more than treasure?

I don't know how to put that into a picture.

Even the parties no longer counts.
Nigeria political parties are some of the most use'less organization in the world.

You all will vote ADC today and by 12 noon the next day they will wake up in APC.

Hahahahaa...
When the devil gives you a cap he will always want to take your head along with it.

A practical example of all that glitters are not gold.
Fubara has learnt his lessons the very hard way.

A good woman is more than just a treasure.

I asked God to give me my choice woman, He said I should hold on till I see His own. I met His own and saw how foolish my choices were.

Indeed a good woman is a treasure.

BigYash:
How you want make he satisfy you at that age nau? Madam you have to put somethings in place to make that up o. There is a reason why sex experts put toys dia o. I don't advice cheating on your husband,but toys can help him improve. Age affects sexual performances for men. The gap was too much,so you have to hear the consequences. People when say 5years gap maximum get reason.

Lol!
I am over 13 years older than my wife. *Four kids!
*10 years in marriage
*She still cannot match my sexual prowess.


Individual differences!

All manners of permutations!
Let's see how it will play out.
Interesting months ahead.

Be whining yourself!
When you people stop attributing the Anioma to the eastern region then we will start taking you serious.

Ned or no Ned, ANIOMA will fly.

Ginomel:
Oh no! Accept my condolence. I can imagine your mood presently. Take heart bro.

Very devastating mood!
My mother was my everything!
She is a wonderful protector.


Thank you so much.