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BusinessRe: Shoprite To Open 14 New Stores In Nigeria by Fernandowski(m): 10:19am On Aug 19, 2015
I dedicate this piece of land to rahman,chelsea's new signing
Music/RadioRe: New List Of Songs Banned By NBC - Includes Olamide's Shakitibobo by Fernandowski(m): 9:21am On Aug 19, 2015
emperordan:
Those officials no get work to do that's why. Well, that won't stop me from wats POST TO BE. Oya Shakiti bobo!!!!
that post to be make sense die
Music/RadioRe: New List Of Songs Banned By NBC - Includes Olamide's Shakitibobo by Fernandowski(m): 9:20am On Aug 19, 2015
ochallo:
eat the booty like groceries.
post to be I guess....jhene aiko I verse
Music/RadioRe: New List Of Songs Banned By NBC - Includes Olamide's Shakitibobo by Fernandowski(m): 9:17am On Aug 19, 2015
Why post to be nah??
*in chris brown voice*
YOU WANNA KNOW HOW I KNOW WHAT I KNOW?
RomanceRe: Who Is The First Woman To Wear Bra? by Fernandowski(m): 9:23pm On Aug 18, 2015
Osama bin laden
Forum GamesRe: Funky Tuesday; List 5 Things U"d Wish To Do Dat U"v Neva Done Before. by Fernandowski(m): 9:22pm On Aug 18, 2015
Dunking on michael jordan....he is lucky he is retired....
Basketball players understands
CrimeRe: Drunk Man Dies During Fight With Wife by Fernandowski(m): 10:12am On Aug 17, 2015
What a hero!!!

Died while fighting
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Arrogant by Fernandowski(m): 6:13pm On Aug 16, 2015
Hey dude.....remember














































































These hoes ain't loyal
CelebritiesRe: Checkout Timaya's Dope Church Outfit (Photo) by Fernandowski(m): 6:03pm On Aug 16, 2015
Na people wey no attend secondary school he go dey deceive
Jokes EtcRe: When Your Parents Don't Have Any Intention Of Buying Uniform For You.. by Fernandowski(m): 10:19pm On Aug 15, 2015
Those were the days hard work for ever pays
Jokes EtcRe: When Your Parents Don't Have Any Intention Of Buying Uniform For You.. by Fernandowski(m): 10:18pm On Aug 15, 2015
Those where the days hard work for ever pays
RomanceRe: ADVICE; My Boyfriend Is Too Fat; It Embarrasses Me, What Do I Do? by Fernandowski(m): 3:37pm On Aug 14, 2015
Judith1000:
My boyfriend is just too fat and it is so embarrassing. He just came back from the US for his masters and he looks as fat as ever. Before I use to pose to my friends that I have a BF in the US who use to send me money because he always sent good amount of money to me. I was ready to even marry him if he proposes. But now, shame dey catch me. He’s always been chubby but while in the US I realized he’s
got really fat. He is so fat that people stare at him and start laughing and passing comments. Sometimes I have to pretend we are not together. I felt so embarrassed to be with him and wished he didn’t look so bad. It’s a turn off for me to see him naked. Even in clothes it’s not attractive. I have spoken to him many times about his size, healthy eating and exercise. I tried to get him to join a gym with me. He laughs it off and says he is fine. The guys has been nice to me and even promised to buy me a car. Do I just get the car and leave? What do I do?

Expert advice from Petra;
Dear friend,


I don’t think you can ‘make’ him change.
Giving you instructions on how to force him to diet or exercise doesn’t help him, or you, look at any underlying reasons (assuming they exist) around overeating, or his feelings about food, exercise or his body.
I have no context about his lifestyle, your income, what your food budget is, how food and exercise fit with his work patterns, or if alcohol plays a role.
I don’t know if his weight is affected by disability, pre-existing physical or mental health conditions, or the side-effects of medication.
You may get further by thinking about these factors yourself, or talking to him about those, rather than your previous instructions about his diet and fitness (more on this shortly).
None of that will help you, though. And there isn’t any point in having advice columns if people don’t feel free to confide about how they truly feel - and know that someone isn’t going to shut you down for saying things your friends or family members might frown on.
You are entitled to feel upset about this.
But if we go back and look at how you have described him, there is no getting away from the words you’ve used. These include ‘chubby’, ‘really fat’, ‘embarrassed to be with him’, ‘wished he didn’t look so bad’.
You say ‘It’s a turn off…to see him naked’ and ‘not attractive’.
As you read these statements, can you identify if this is you feeling worried about him, frustrated over how he is acting, or a sign you simply don’t fancy him anymore? Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/advice-my-boyfriend-is-too-fat-it.html
quit your relationship with him and come for me....mhen,I swear,am as slim as wiz khalifa
RomanceRe: Couple Return To Their Honeymoon Spot 51 Years Later. by Fernandowski(m): 3:35pm On Aug 14, 2015
Those 6 packs and sexy body is now gone....Fucck old age mhen....very soon now,I can't be able to even walk sef
FamilyRe: 6 Things You Can Learn From My Mum's Death. by Fernandowski(m): 12:15pm On Aug 12, 2015
Rip....see her again
RomanceRe: IF YOU HAVE A 10 INCHES DICK, ENTER HERE by Fernandowski(m): 1:29pm On Aug 11, 2015
You are a useless goat indeed
EducationRe: WAEC To Announce May/june 2015 Results Monday by Fernandowski(m): 10:26am On Aug 10, 2015
Hysmady:
Candidates go dey shiver now with partial high bp cheesy
u got me there
CrimeRe: Nurse Arrested For Stealing New Baby In Ogun (Pictured) by Fernandowski(m): 5:48pm On Aug 09, 2015
She needs jesus in her life
TV/MoviesRe: One Film You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching? by Fernandowski(m): 10:56pm On Aug 08, 2015
Okochi
Derico nwamama!!!
Teneeeeeeeee!!!!!!!
LiteratureRe: The Preacher's Son III: Diary Of A Player by Fernandowski(m): 3:01pm On Aug 08, 2015
*runs from part one to part 3*

*breathing heavily*

Man pro!!!! Ur the only consistent writer I have seen on nairaland......keep it up
CrimeRe: Meet Nigerian Yahoo Boy Who Makes N100M Every 6 Months (photo) by Fernandowski(m): 11:42pm On Aug 07, 2015
Looks like lebron James the basketball player
RomanceRe: See What 18 Year Old Girl Did To An Online Lover. What Do U Guys Say About This? by Fernandowski(m): 9:59am On Aug 05, 2015
Remember,THESE HOES AIN'T LOYAL!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: 5 Strong Reasons Why Chelsea Might Defeat Arsenal In The Community Shield by Fernandowski(m): 9:40am On Aug 04, 2015
Abeg the cup don come and go....my team lost.....abi the cup dey get returnin' leg??
CrimeRe: Bouncer Shot Dead At Orange Room Nite Club In Owerri (Graphic Photo) by Fernandowski(m): 12:49pm On Aug 03, 2015
Rip



See you again
CrimeRe: Bouncer Shot Dead At Orange Room Nite Club In Owerri (Graphic Photo) by Fernandowski(m): 12:49pm On Aug 03, 2015
Rip



See you again
CelebritiesRe: Toolz & Tunde Demurun, Toke And More Celebs At Dolapo Oni's Wedding (Pic by Fernandowski(m): 8:30pm On Aug 02, 2015
Its their lifestyle

Stunna life everyday
RomanceRe: Guys:your Response To "I Can't Double Date" by Fernandowski(m): 10:13am On Jul 31, 2015
Dump him and date me
CelebritiesRe: Everyone Is Disappointed With Meek Mill's Drake Diss, 'wanna Know' by Fernandowski(m): 10:07am On Jul 31, 2015
This is why I love wiz khalifa and his group 'taylor gang'



They got no time for gossips and bulls hits.....hopes fetty wap doesn't go like this
FamilyRe: See What Nigerian Women Can Do (photos) by Fernandowski(m): 10:12am On Jul 30, 2015
So amazing how this world was made....I wonder if God is a woman
FamilyRe: See What Nigerian Women Can Do (photos) by Fernandowski(m): 10:12am On Jul 30, 2015
Strength of a woman!!
PoliticsRe: New Head Of Multinational Force On Boko Haram Appointed by Fernandowski(m): 9:24am On Jul 30, 2015
Is this one deaf and dumb or what?
Jokes EtcRe: Caption This Hilarious Photo Of This Man, by Fernandowski(m): 8:56am On Jul 30, 2015
looks more like a boko haram refugee

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