Business › Re: Shoprite To Open 14 New Stores In Nigeria by Fernandowski(m): 10:19am On Aug 19, 2015 |
I dedicate this piece of land to rahman,chelsea's new signing |
Music/Radio › Re: New List Of Songs Banned By NBC - Includes Olamide's Shakitibobo by Fernandowski(m): 9:21am On Aug 19, 2015 |
emperordan: Those officials no get work to do that's why. Well, that won't stop me from wats POST TO BE. Oya Shakiti bobo!!!! that post to be make sense die |
Music/Radio › Re: New List Of Songs Banned By NBC - Includes Olamide's Shakitibobo by Fernandowski(m): 9:20am On Aug 19, 2015 |
ochallo: eat the booty like groceries. post to be I guess....jhene aiko I verse |
Music/Radio › Re: New List Of Songs Banned By NBC - Includes Olamide's Shakitibobo by Fernandowski(m): 9:17am On Aug 19, 2015 |
Why post to be nah??
*in chris brown voice*
YOU WANNA KNOW HOW I KNOW WHAT I KNOW? |
Romance › Re: Who Is The First Woman To Wear Bra? by Fernandowski(m): 9:23pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Osama bin laden |
Forum Games › Re: Funky Tuesday; List 5 Things U"d Wish To Do Dat U"v Neva Done Before. by Fernandowski(m): 9:22pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Dunking on michael jordan....he is lucky he is retired....
Basketball players understands |
Crime › Re: Drunk Man Dies During Fight With Wife by Fernandowski(m): 10:12am On Aug 17, 2015 |
What a hero!!!
Died while fighting |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Arrogant by Fernandowski(m): 6:13pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Hey dude.....remember
These hoes ain't loyal |
Celebrities › Re: Checkout Timaya's Dope Church Outfit (Photo) by Fernandowski(m): 6:03pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Na people wey no attend secondary school he go dey deceive |
Jokes Etc › Re: When Your Parents Don't Have Any Intention Of Buying Uniform For You.. by Fernandowski(m): 10:19pm On Aug 15, 2015 |
Those were the days hard work for ever pays |
Jokes Etc › Re: When Your Parents Don't Have Any Intention Of Buying Uniform For You.. by Fernandowski(m): 10:18pm On Aug 15, 2015 |
Those where the days hard work for ever pays |
Romance › Re: ADVICE; My Boyfriend Is Too Fat; It Embarrasses Me, What Do I Do? by Fernandowski(m): 3:37pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Judith1000: My boyfriend is just too fat and it is so embarrassing. He just came back from the US for his masters and he looks as fat as ever. Before I use to pose to my friends that I have a BF in the US who use to send me money because he always sent good amount of money to me. I was ready to even marry him if he proposes. But now, shame dey catch me. He’s always been chubby but while in the US I realized he’s got really fat. He is so fat that people stare at him and start laughing and passing comments. Sometimes I have to pretend we are not together. I felt so embarrassed to be with him and wished he didn’t look so bad. It’s a turn off for me to see him naked. Even in clothes it’s not attractive. I have spoken to him many times about his size, healthy eating and exercise. I tried to get him to join a gym with me. He laughs it off and says he is fine. The guys has been nice to me and even promised to buy me a car. Do I just get the car and leave? What do I do?
Expert advice from Petra; Dear friend,
I don’t think you can ‘make’ him change. Giving you instructions on how to force him to diet or exercise doesn’t help him, or you, look at any underlying reasons (assuming they exist) around overeating, or his feelings about food, exercise or his body. I have no context about his lifestyle, your income, what your food budget is, how food and exercise fit with his work patterns, or if alcohol plays a role. I don’t know if his weight is affected by disability, pre-existing physical or mental health conditions, or the side-effects of medication. You may get further by thinking about these factors yourself, or talking to him about those, rather than your previous instructions about his diet and fitness (more on this shortly). None of that will help you, though. And there isn’t any point in having advice columns if people don’t feel free to confide about how they truly feel - and know that someone isn’t going to shut you down for saying things your friends or family members might frown on. You are entitled to feel upset about this. But if we go back and look at how you have described him, there is no getting away from the words you’ve used. These include ‘chubby’, ‘really fat’, ‘embarrassed to be with him’, ‘wished he didn’t look so bad’. You say ‘It’s a turn off…to see him naked’ and ‘not attractive’. As you read these statements, can you identify if this is you feeling worried about him, frustrated over how he is acting, or a sign you simply don’t fancy him anymore? Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/advice-my-boyfriend-is-too-fat-it.html quit your relationship with him and come for me....mhen,I swear,am as slim as wiz khalifa |
Romance › Re: Couple Return To Their Honeymoon Spot 51 Years Later. by Fernandowski(m): 3:35pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Those 6 packs and sexy body is now gone....Fucck old age mhen....very soon now,I can't be able to even walk sef |
Family › Re: 6 Things You Can Learn From My Mum's Death. by Fernandowski(m): 12:15pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
Rip....see her again |
Romance › Re: IF YOU HAVE A 10 INCHES DICK, ENTER HERE by Fernandowski(m): 1:29pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
You are a useless goat indeed |
Education › Re: WAEC To Announce May/june 2015 Results Monday by Fernandowski(m): 10:26am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Hysmady: Candidates go dey shiver now with partial high bp  u got me there |
Crime › Re: Nurse Arrested For Stealing New Baby In Ogun (Pictured) by Fernandowski(m): 5:48pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
She needs jesus in her life |
TV/Movies › Re: One Film You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching? by Fernandowski(m): 10:56pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
Okochi
Derico nwamama!!!
Teneeeeeeeee!!!!!!! |
Literature › Re: The Preacher's Son III: Diary Of A Player by Fernandowski(m): 3:01pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
*runs from part one to part 3*
*breathing heavily*
Man pro!!!! Ur the only consistent writer I have seen on nairaland......keep it up |
Crime › Re: Meet Nigerian Yahoo Boy Who Makes N100M Every 6 Months (photo) by Fernandowski(m): 11:42pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Looks like lebron James the basketball player |
Romance › Re: See What 18 Year Old Girl Did To An Online Lover. What Do U Guys Say About This? by Fernandowski(m): 9:59am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Remember,THESE HOES AIN'T LOYAL! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 5 Strong Reasons Why Chelsea Might Defeat Arsenal In The Community Shield by Fernandowski(m): 9:40am On Aug 04, 2015 |
Abeg the cup don come and go....my team lost.....abi the cup dey get returnin' leg?? |
Crime › Re: Bouncer Shot Dead At Orange Room Nite Club In Owerri (Graphic Photo) by Fernandowski(m): 12:49pm On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rip
See you again |
Crime › Re: Bouncer Shot Dead At Orange Room Nite Club In Owerri (Graphic Photo) by Fernandowski(m): 12:49pm On Aug 03, 2015 |
Rip
See you again |
Celebrities › Re: Toolz & Tunde Demurun, Toke And More Celebs At Dolapo Oni's Wedding (Pic by Fernandowski(m): 8:30pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Its their lifestyle
Stunna life everyday |
Romance › Re: Guys:your Response To "I Can't Double Date" by Fernandowski(m): 10:13am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Dump him and date me |
Celebrities › Re: Everyone Is Disappointed With Meek Mill's Drake Diss, 'wanna Know' by Fernandowski(m): 10:07am On Jul 31, 2015 |
This is why I love wiz khalifa and his group 'taylor gang'
They got no time for gossips and bulls hits.....hopes fetty wap doesn't go like this |
Family › Re: See What Nigerian Women Can Do (photos) by Fernandowski(m): 10:12am On Jul 30, 2015 |
So amazing how this world was made....I wonder if God is a woman |
Family › Re: See What Nigerian Women Can Do (photos) by Fernandowski(m): 10:12am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Strength of a woman!! |
Politics › Re: New Head Of Multinational Force On Boko Haram Appointed by Fernandowski(m): 9:24am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Is this one deaf and dumb or what? |
Jokes Etc › Re: Caption This Hilarious Photo Of This Man, by Fernandowski(m): 8:56am On Jul 30, 2015 |
looks more like a boko haram refugee |
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