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Religion / Re: Thinking Out Loud by finalbosss1(m): 3:27am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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Religion / Re: Thinking Out Loud by finalbosss1(m): 3:25am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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Investment / Re: We Can Make You This Stone Garden by finalbosss1(m): 3:07am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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Investment / Re: At It Again by finalbosss1(m): 2:56am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: . by finalbosss1(m): 2:36am On Apr 20, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Dating Two Other Guys Apart From You by finalbosss1(m): 5:17pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: Not All Relationships End In Marriage, But... - Bamisepeters 'blog by finalbosss1(m): 3:53pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: Women Are The Most Hypocritical Beinq On Earth!!.... by finalbosss1(m): 2:01pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
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Celebrities / Re: Chindinma Considers A Change Of Name by finalbosss1(m): 1:53pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
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Politics / Femi Fani-Kayode After EFCC Granted Him Bail Today (Photos) by finalbosss1(m): 1:34pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
He hasn't left their custody yet, as he is waiting to perfect his bail ...hope you all cn see the joy...he is free http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/femi-fani-kayode-pictured-after-efcc.html 6 Likes 1 Share
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Celebrities / . by finalbosss1(m): 10:09pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
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NYSC / Corper Lawal Kontagora Was Killed Because Of A Girl, Suspect Confesses by finalbosss1(m): 9:50pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
The suspect arrested in connection with the murder of a serving NYSC member, Lawal Kontangora in Kaduna State, confessed that they killed him because of a girl. Adamu Jibril, 22, who made the confession while speaking with newsmen in Kaduna, said his friend, Aminu Bahago approached him to help him confront a man he suspected to be dating a girl he had interest in. "He said I should come and accompany him to the guy and I told him I wouldn’t want us to waste time there because I don’t want to be out for long in the night. He went in, carried a gun and a knife and gave me the knife. When we got to the place he showed me the guy from a distance, as we approached the car he knocked on the door of the car as it was locked. The guy then opened the car and Aminu sat in front with him and the guy asked us what we want from him before Aminu started reminding him that he is dating his girl friend, then Aminu drew him out of the car and Aminu told me that I should stab the guy with the knife, I stabbed the guy at the back and after stabbing him, Aminu shot the guy with the gun on his leg." LIB recalls that Jibrin was arrested on November 2nd by the State Intelligence Bureau (SIB). Six loaded cartridges, two knives, two cutlasses, a double barrel and one Samsung phone was recovered in his room. The deceased returned to Nigeria after completing his studies in Malaysia, to do the compulsory one year NYSC programme before he was murdered in Malali, Kaduna North Local Government Area, on Monday, October 17. http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/photos-nysc-member-lawal-kontagora-was.html 2 Likes 1 Share
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Religion / Free Wedding At A Catholic Church In Enugu - Twitter User by finalbosss1(m): 12:00pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
According to this Twitter user, St Mary's Catholic church Enugu is organizing a free wedding for members who can't afford to pay for their wedding ... http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/catholic-church-in-enugu-organizing.html 4 Likes
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Politics / Buhari Starts 2-Day Visit In Edo by finalbosss1(m): 11:42am On Nov 07, 2016 |
Security has been beefed up in and around Benin, the capital of Edo, ahead of President Muhammadu Buhari two-days official visit to the state. The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the President who commences the visit on Monday, is expected to inaugurate a number of projects executed by Gov. Adams Oshiomhole, who is vacating office by Nov. 12. Men and officers of Police, Army, Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC), have taken up strategic positions in the areas the President is expected to pass through and the project sites in the capital city. NAN reports that there is heavy presence of security personnel at the Airport and environs, Golf Course Road and Government House area. Heavy security is also noticed in adjoining streets close to the airport, such as Ihama, Boundary and Adesuwa roads while security patrol vehicles, manned by the police and army, were seen patrolling airport road. The presidential visit created traffic challenges in the City on Monday morning, especially Airport road and Siloko road, a road constructed by the current administration which the President is also expected to inaugurate during the visit. Part of activities lined up for the visit, is the planned courtesy call by the President to the new Benin monarch, Oba Ewuare II, after which he is expected to inaugurate the new central hospital, Siloko road and 2nd East Circular road among others. On Tuesday, Buhari is expected to inaugurate some projects, including the new Edo University, Iyamoh, in Edo North and Central Senatorial Districts of the state. Oshiomhole, who was first inaugurated on Nov. 12, 2008 and won his second term in 2012, is expected to hand over to the governor-elect, Mr Godwin Obaseki, on Saturday. http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/security-tight-in-benin-as-buhari.html
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Celebrities / A Dead End Is Where My Life Would Come To, If It Weren’t For You" E-money by finalbosss1(m): 11:32am On Nov 07, 2016 |
E-money took to his Instagram page to shower his wife with praises as they celebrate their wedding anniversary today. lalasticlala mynd44 http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/a-dead-end-is-where-my-life-would-come.html
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Family / Infertility And Your Marriage by finalbosss1(m): 11:13pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Having a baby is one of the most exciting times in a couple’s life, but for couples coping with infertility and infertility treatments, conceiving a baby can be trying. The physical, emotional and financial stress of infertility can, if you’re not careful, hurt your relationship with your partner. In fact, nearly one-fourth of women in a recent survey reported that infertility had a negative impact on their relationships. The good news is that about a third of women in that same survey said their infertility struggle actually benefited their relationships with their partners. Other good news: About three-fourths of women say their partners were very or extremely supportive while they went through infertility treatment Ninety percent of women are still with the same partner they were with when they went through infertility treatment. Those that separated said the treatments were not a major reason for the breakup. The tips and information contained here will help you and your partner remain in that 90 percent group—emerging from your infertility journey with your relationship not only intact but stronger, regardless of what happens in your quest for a child. Avoiding Blame So you just got the diagnosis. Your husband’s sperm are “slow.” Or your endometriosis has blocked one of your fallopian tubes. Or the infection your husband had during his bachelor days damaged many of his sperm. It would be easy to turn to one another and shout, “It’s your fault!” But the reality is that no matter who plays the blame game, you both lose. Does it really matter whose “fault” it is? After all, this is not something you have much control over. And it may be too late to change the few things you might have once controlled, such as trying to conceive when you were younger. The reality is what you’re facing today: Having a baby is going to be more difficult for the two of you than for many other couples. To keep from turning down the blame lane: Reassure your partner that you are both in it together Remember how you feel about your partner, why you love him or her, why you want to have a child together. Talk about your frustration and anger openly. Studies show that couples who keep their feelings hidden are much more likely to have problems related to the stress of infertility. Attack the infertility issue as a united front. That means going to appointments together, coping with side effects together, grieving together, sharing the news together with friends and family. Keeping Your Relationship Healthy There are ways to protect your relationship from the potentially damaging stress of infertility, including: Focus on yourselves. Remember that the two of you came first, before any thought of a baby. Even if you do have a child, the two of you still need to be a healthy couple before you can be good parents. Schedule non-infertility dates. On these dates, neither of you is allowed to talk about children, infertility, medical treatments, adoption or anything to do with what you’re going through. Bring spontaneity back into sex. Have sex dates that are not focused on reproducing. That can mean not discussing fertility before, during or after the sexual act or having sex without intercourse. Send a note inviting your partner to a pleasure-only sex date. Consider having sex in a different location or even a different environment. What about checking into a local hotel for just one night? Or go camping and let the fresh air energize you romantically. The key is to make it so spontaneous, so much fun, that you banish the “work” that sex has become. Take a break. You and your partner might consider taking a monthlong break from trying to get pregnant. Reducing the stress and anxiety in your sexual relationship now will ensure that your sex life will remain a source of pleasure and relaxation for years to come. Get physical together. Exercise is a fabulous stress buster. But why go it alone? Consider taking up tennis, dancing, bike riding or kayaking—all fun, physical activities you can do together. Consider taking a yoga class together. It will not only strengthen your body but also teach you deep breathing, which is helpful in relaxing and focusing. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with long walks either. Just remember to hold hands. Respect your differences. Each of you will deal with the situation differently. Just because he doesn’t cry or talk for hours about the infertility doesn’t mean he isn’t hurting. Men are more likely to distance themselves from the issue and become irritable. Understand that this may be his way of coping. Talk! He cannot read your mind. If you need him to be more supportive, tell him, but be specific. What do you mean by supportive? If you need time to be alone because you’re angry and upset and don’t want to take it out on him, tell him so he doesn’t think you’re shutting him out. If you have a hard time verbalizing your feelings, try writing them down in an e-mail or letter to him. Agree on how far you’ll go. You can easily exhaust your bank account, marriage and emotional reserves through infertility treatment. It’s a good idea to talk before the rollercoaster ride begins about which treatments and how many you’ll undergo and how much money you’ll spend. You may not know at the outset what decisions you will face, but you can talk to other couples through a support group or ask your health care provider to give you research and possible scenarios that you can consider. Seek outside help. Even if you think your relationship will weather the infertility storm, it’s still a good idea to talk to a couples’ therapist. You know the saying: “An ounce of prevention…” You also may consider joining a support group for people going through infertility treatments. From the Male Perspective Sometimes it may seem as if your wife or partner is the only one experiencing infertility. She’s the one who gets the hugs and flowers; she’s the one who is asked about her feelings, her health, her emotional state. But what about you? Chances are, you’re suffering too. A recent study found that the male partners of infertile couples were quite likely to feel depressed and to have erectile dysfunction and other sexual relationship problems. Unfortunately, too often men try to distance themselves from infertility, keep their feelings to themselves and focus on plans to “solve” the infertility, all of which are less-than-ideal ways of coping that can harm your relationship. Discussing your feelings with your partner will allow you to bond over feelings of being out of control. Initiating and participating in fertility-free dates or intercourse-free dates may allow you to re explore the eroticism of earlier times in your courtship and provide relief from goal-oriented sex. These tips can help the two of you maintain a strong relationship as you work through the physical and emotional issues of infertility in your quest for a child. http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/infertility-and-your-relationship.html lalasticlala
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Romance / Things That Really Attract A Man To A Woman by finalbosss1(m): 10:55pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
it is a general perception that when it comes to dating men are extremely selective. Women too are picky but not as much as men are. It is like their brain is wired in a certain way and hence that’s the only way they can function. It is not like men are completely superficial yet it is also true that they are creatures who are attracted to the visual cues. It often happens that men have a certain set of specifications for the kind of girl they would like to date which might work initially but not in the longer run. The truth is that physical appearance even though is marked to be an extremely important factor on the basis of which men choose their partner yet there are many other things too on the list of what really attracts a man to a woman.The male psychology of attraction is not so complicated to understand. There are some things that will draw their attention like a moth to a flame in the beginning and then there are some other traits that keep their interests burning in the long run as well.Here are some things that really attract a man to a woman. Things that attract a man to a woman are: 1.General body type: As mentioned before physical appearance tops the list that attracts men initially. And do not blame even women do care about it when it comes to choosing partners, it’s just that men are about more particular about it. 2.Fun loving and spontaneous: Men look for a person with whom they can let their guard down, with always worrying about what’s appropriate and what’s not. Do silly things together, laugh out loud and just be you. 3.Independence: Well even women do not like a needy, clingy person and same is with men. They like women who do not suffer from insecurities and have their own interests and are passionate about them. 4.Confident: Men like women who know what they want for themselves and also do not need a constant reminder of her worth. A confident woman whom he can confidently take to his family and friends, who makes him feels proud like he would want her to feel for him. 5.Feminity: Feminity absolutely does not mean vulnerability. It is about embracing your womanhood. Look pretty and be strong, be the nurturing kind and not manipulative. 6.Intelligence: Intelligence is sexy but a know-it-all person is a big turn off. Men would like to be with a woman with whom they can have a healthy conversation without having a battle of wits. 7.Encouraging: Men often do need a boost to their ego especially from their significant other. They need to feel that they are needed from time to time. 8.Gives them their space: A woman who does not creates a fuss about a boys night out and even more is supportive of it is a real catch for men. Happily let him enjoy his time with friends and genuinely mean it to so that he does not feel trapped and he will not want to go free from you, as simple as that. 9.Adaptable: Everyone like a person who goes with the flow, so do men. Don’t always play hard- to- get with him. These are the things that really attract a man to a woman. more here lalasticlala http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/things-that-really-attract-man-to-woman.html
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Health / . by finalbosss1(m): 12:01pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
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Politics / Court Convicts Four Firms Linked To Former Jonathan's Aide by finalbosss1(m): 4:48pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
A Nigerian court has convicted four firms allegedly used by a former aide of ex- president Goodluck Jonathan to launder $15.5 million in suspected stolen funds. Federal high court judge Babs Kuewumi said the conviction of the property and investment companies — Pluto, Seagate, Transoceanic and Avalon — on Wednesday in Lagos came after they pleaded guilty to money laundering in September. The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) had in July frozen the accounts of the companies and seized $15.5 million (14 million euros) while investigating Waripamo-Owei Dudafa, Jonathan’s former domestic assistant, over money laundering. But then Patience Jonathan, the wife of the former Nigerian leader, sued the EFCC, claiming ownership of the money found in several accounts in local banks. Jonathan, who has not been charged over the money laundering, said she had been withdrawing the money from the accounts to pay for her overseas health expenses. Directors of the indicted companies had in September pleaded guilty to money laundering but Dudafa and two others, lawyer Azubike Briggs and banker Adedamola Bolodeoku, pleaded not guilty. EFCC prosecutor Rotimi Oyedepo asked the court to order that the money be forfeited to the government but that was refused by the judge, who deferred his ruling until the trial of Dudafa and the other suspects, which he adjourned to mid-December. President Muhammadu Buhari, who defeated Jonathan in the 2015 vote, has launched a wide-ranging campaign against corruption targeting key members of the previous administration. Former ministers, prominent party chiefs, media owners and relations of the former president are in court over similar charges. The focus on officials from the former ruling party has led some critics to claim Buhari is using the anti-graft crackdown to silence political foes, an accusation dismissed by the government. http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/court-convicts-four-firms-linked-to.html mynd44
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Romance / Re: Checkout These Lovely Pre-wedding Pictures Of A Cute Nigerian Couple by finalbosss1(m): 4:36pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
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Nairaland / General / . by finalbosss1(m): 3:46pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
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