Romance › Re: Your Ideas Are Needed Here Plss!! by firstking01(m): 11:39am On Jan 01, 2017 |
CyberGypsy: sorry to say but you are very dumb . how old are you if I may ask .. pardon me if I sound rude (that's if you are in your 40's) Sorry bro, but i think he made a point there and it does not in anyway warrant you to call him dumb...some of you here are just unnecessarilly rude. |
Romance › Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by firstking01(m): 9:27am On Jan 01, 2017 |
The op don see comments dey fear fear  |
Romance › Re: What Do You Fear Most About Being An Adult? by firstking01(m): 5:22am On Jan 01, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Year/happy New Month. by firstking01(m): 12:19am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Happy new year to all romancelanders esp... Lanicky Laveda monalisa185 dingbang tosyne2much Mentioning names is not just my thing as i might be ignorantly discriminating...should incase you feel your name is supposed to be there, forgive me jor  Once again, happy new year nairalanders, thankGod we all made it. |
Romance › Re: An Apology Letter. by firstking01(m): 11:25pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
ivyy: Safedavid, gradually I'm losing my patience with you. Enough with the ridiculous mentions. Leave me the hell alone. What is wrong with you? After blocking your lines and pleading with you to leave me be. You are still unrelentless.
Why on earth did you pose as a buyer for my mum's book? Calling the number I advertised for the sales of her book on nl. Why would you go to such lengths to get my home address even after being told countless times that I'm not interested in meeting you.
Why would you go to Facebook, download a picture of my boyfriend and I and upload here? What was the rationale?
I told you I wasn't angry nor mad. That I forgave you, but that all I wanted was for you to leave me alone, to leave me in peace. Yet you continue still, taking my silence for utter foolishnes. Safedavid, for your continued pestering and stalking, your happiness on earth will continue to reduce little by little. Nawa oo, chai some guys eh  |
Romance › Re: Recharge Give Away For My Bdai by firstking01(m): 11:16pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Airforce1: Happy birthday
Keep your recharge card. You are just self centered and full of yourself, let me believe you are not like this offline. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is Your New Year Resolution? by firstking01(m): 11:13pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Keep them to myself and show people results. |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 11:10pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: He Switched Off His Phone Cos Of Christmas Gift... by firstking01(m): 11:01pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
falconey: how is that our problem? Mrcork kuku kill you here, lwkmd  ...that guy funny i swear  |
Romance › Re: My Only Regret Of 2016 by firstking01(m): 10:58pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
pimpchi: Was in high spirit at d beginning of 2016....Had all hope and faith that I would walk down the aisle with the flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone.. Waited so long for her to emerge, but all to no avail...Should I call it regret? Or God's will for me. As the year winds down, I pray she comes forth into my warmth embrace.... To my unknown future wife. The best thing that can ever happen to you is to continually pray that prayer, "i pray she comes forth into my warmth embrace"...my advice, walk in conciousness of that prayer. |
Romance › Re: I Need A Decent Lady I Could Spend The Night With by firstking01(m): 10:53pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Don't enter 2017 with this lifestyle bro, i repeat, don't enter 2017 with this lifestlye. |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 10:51pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Nairaland Crossover Night 2016 !!!! by firstking01(m): 10:46pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ok, currently in methodist church but i still gon stick around here for the prophesies...keep them coming. |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 10:43pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Divay22: lemme gone look for it,i'll be back Ok  |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 10:39pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Divay22: page what The second to last page  |
Romance › Re: My New Year Resolution by firstking01(m): 9:39pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Nonsense, at a point i almost took you serious sef. |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Seen A Girl In A More Complex Dilemma Than I? by firstking01(m): 9:32pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Scented: Hey guys, I opened this account just for this reason alone, I just can't use my popular Nairaland moniker. I'm a very active and popular member on Nairaland but I'm using this moniker because you guys might give bias advise if you all know who I'm.
I'm 27, I work, not earning high though, but enough to keep me financially independent to some degree to fix my basic needs and wants.
I'm dating Daniel, I'm in love with him, he is 29, he works for an average firm, his pay is just like mine, just average pay. But enough for basic up keep and basic "flexing". Now I wanna tell you what's so special about Daniel, he is 6 feet tall, he is not too slim and not muscular, he has not just a handsome face but a pretty one, he makes my intelligence seem like ignorance with his high level of intellect and smartness, he has taught me a lot I couldn't have learnt even at Harvard University, calling him intelligent is an understatement! And about intimacy, ladies, have you ever met a guy who is so good in bed that you can hardly resist him even when you are in your worst mood? Daniel is just something else in bed, he is perfect in bed. His is a firm and loving guy, he doesn't tolerate me behaving silly but yet he still draws me closer if I behave silly. He has never hit me even when I get on his nerves, he acts calm and collected and goes silent if he is not in the mood to put me in my right place with his some harsh words.
Career wise Daniel has focus and has a vision where he sees himself in the next 5 years. He is my 3rd ever boyfriend and he is the type any girl would wanna keep.
Now the only issue with us is that Daniel has told me he would be ready to get married when he 31 years, that's 2 years from now, he has calculated everything for me to see how it would take 2 years before he is ready financially and otherwise, he is not a fantasy dreamer who thinks he would win a jackpot and marry tomorrow therefore his 31 years age mark of getting married considering his current job and future career prospects.
Now guy number 2 is called Joe, he is 32, he is a very high earner financially, generally he is a nice guy, handsome, neat and a gentleman.
I met him at my place of work some months ago, although he doesn't work there, he had a project with us which made him to frequently be at my work place a lot during that period. From the initial familiarity talks and all he stated it from the beginning that he wants me as a wife and he has observed me for about a month and I'm the one but I always sternly told him I'm dating someone else I love and nothing can happen between him and I. He has asked I follow him to his family house to see his mom on a couple of occasions, I refused on all occasions. I have never accepted to even hang out with him for once, we just talk on phone and chat.
I was surprised when one day at work during break at the cafeteria he came with his mom, he smiled and left us alone, his mom looked me straight into the eyes and told me that as a woman she gives me her word and she is telling me that her son is for real and not just after sleeping with me, she even told me that she already told her son she will not vouch for him if he wanted a sex involved courtship with me. And she also told me she liked me the first time he son secretly brought her to the office so she can see me. She also said if I agree the families would commence marriage plans after Joe and I have had about 3 months of courtship, after which we would do all medical tests and proceed to the actual wedding proper.
My dilemma now is this; In 2 years from now, would Daniel still love me and remain faithful to me and still keep to his promise to marry me? If I decide to wait for Daniel, in 2 years from now I would be 29, isn't that too much of a risk to take?
My parents and relatives keep pestering me about marriage and in my family all ladies get married before they reach 27, I'm the only person who has clocked 27 without being married yet.
I'm in love with Daniel, I'm crazy for that boy, but Joe on the other hand offers me what Daniel can't offer for now. I don't have feelings for John at this stage and to be fair he is the type of guy any girl can fall madly in love with if given a chance into her life, so my question is this- "Should I wait for Daniel or should I give Joe a chance?"
Please this is more complicated than the popular cliché; "If you are confused about two people to love, pick the new guy because if you really loved the former guy you would not consider the new guy". This is more complicated than that, please I need good opinion and advise, and your reasons for your opinions.
Thank you all!
Cc: Seun, lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano, Mymzcoli, agarawu23, firstEVA, Ishilove, INTROVERT, LadyF, Mynd44. Sveen, Naijaboiy, tosyne2much, Twaci, Dygeasy, Naijasinglegirl, buygala, MadCow1, Cutehector, FriedPlantain, safarigirl, MizMyColi, voltron, Tomfrench, englishmart, SUGARBEE, prettythicksme, RomanceLander, emusmith, wristbangle, Ghostlady, Kachisbarbie, EroticAngelina, dechandel, ireneony, freecocoa, MzNelly, elantraceey, Debby16, Creamish, ijebabe, KashBaby, MissyB3, Fynestboi, cococandy, vizkiz, cocoberry, standd, MrCork, Estharfabian, MrsPhyno, FlirtyKaren, Ladyboss1, debbie, whizqueen, Fabulocity, looseweight, IamMissMarvel, EggovinMma, misspicy, PunkyVeer, Lanicky
Note: I copied all the romance section commentators I know who I'm sure would not disappoint me in giving me good advice. Ok, since you 've vouched for the ones you called and bestows your confidence on them, let me kuku wait for them maybe i might learn one or two things from them too. |
Romance › Re: END Year 2016 With A Shout Out To That Nairalander Who Made You Smile This Year by firstking01(m): 9:20pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
OBTSubtle: Special New year greetings go to.. Mimzyy Ogorwyne Olihilistic JIXnation Jubrealguy Smellinganus Xoella Lezz/Lezzlie Thesonofmark Creamish Yourmajesty/greatness22 Suzanne404 Kinginvahala Kingrex1 Sandoski Smellymouth Nkemma54 Royalblak007 Bitchcrafts Muvacci/sinz/siinz Daddysly Iykekelvins Laveda Ls0fdk/Lsofdk vizkiz Cherlene Oyind17 Drisklef Makydebbie wristbangle firstking01 hadez twaci Berlynn Vicstar pabloomoescobar Refiner Mysticgal nathaniel007 Dollyjoy Cherlene Pennytrate Qhutetomsel Handsam/centaurxxv McBrooklyn/Brooklynthebully Iluvgummybears Estharfabian Airsultan Gloryisaac Peachyp mzlarem Lanicky alobright17 Milonis Iamlegend1 Debbiesean Naijaboiy/iceydee Twaci Mhisbliss Benita27 Marlvin Balancediet Jeffreyjamez Berbierklaus Sweetjude Tosyne2much Mamagee3 Falconey Dingbang/cutehector Dezolo Stupidgoat Knightrod
2016 was a great year and it was because of you guys..
Looking forward to 2017 Chop nuckles brah  |
Romance › Re: END Year 2016 With A Shout Out To That Nairalander Who Made You Smile This Year by firstking01(m): 9:19pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: END Year 2016 With A Shout Out To That Nairalander Who Made You Smile This Year by firstking01(m): 9:17pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 9:13pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
[quote author=Divay22 post=52427242][/quote]You didn't see it?, i 've uploaded it o  |
Romance › Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?. by firstking01(m): 8:22pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Thought i saw a similar thread like this few mins ago  |
Romance › Re: Help Mimzzy Saw My Thing And Fainted by firstking01(m): 8:19pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Some of you guys here are a disgrace to the entire maLe species including your parents  |
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Romance › Re: How Do I FFUCKK This Girl (need Help Badly) by firstking01(m): 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Alondra: Misplaced piorities You and this smiley tho. |
Romance › Re: How Do I FFUCKK This Girl (need Help Badly) by firstking01(m): 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Others are thinking of how they will drop their bad habits before the next 4 hours and you are here compounding your woes  |
Romance › Re: Scientific Proof That Love Is Really Blind by firstking01(m): 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Ok |
Romance › Re: Can You Die For Your Spouse?. by firstking01(m): 8:02pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Jesus christ has already done that for the girl i'm supposed to do it for, so, thinking of it is never an option. |
Romance › Re: Its Gonna Be 2017 In A Few Hours Time, Guys What Are You Dropping Behind? by firstking01(m): 7:58pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Even if i say it here, i 'll still go back to my vomit, so, no need. |
Romance › Re: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 6:58pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
I'm coming  |
Romance › Re: Is This A Movie Poster Or A Pre-wedding Photo by firstking01(m): 6:17pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
This is simply exceptionaL |
Romance › Re: Benefits Of Making Love To Her While She Is Menstruating by firstking01(m): 6:12pm On Dec 31, 2016 |
Sex during menstruation is harmful to the health and disgusting, eventhough i 've not tried it before and never will i....i even hate the sight of girls menstruating. |