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RomanceRe: Your Ideas Are Needed Here Plss!! by firstking01(m): 11:39am On Jan 01, 2017
CyberGypsy:
sorry to say but you are very dumb . how old are you if I may ask .. pardon me if I sound rude (that's if you are in your 40's)
Sorry bro, but i think he made a point there and it does not in anyway warrant you to call him dumb...some of you here are just unnecessarilly rude.
RomanceRe: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by firstking01(m): 9:27am On Jan 01, 2017
The op don see comments dey fear feargrin
RomanceRe: What Do You Fear Most About Being An Adult? by firstking01(m): 5:22am On Jan 01, 2017
Magnoliaa:
Happy new year..! smileysmileysmiley
Same to you my dear...


Morning to yousmiley
RomanceRe: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Year/happy New Month. by firstking01(m): 12:19am On Jan 01, 2017
Happy new year to all romancelanders esp...



Lanicky

Laveda

monalisa185

dingbang

tosyne2much

Mentioning names is not just my thing as i might be ignorantly discriminating...should incase you feel your name is supposed to be there, forgive me jortongue


Once again, happy new year nairalanders, thankGod we all made it.
RomanceRe: An Apology Letter. by firstking01(m): 11:25pm On Dec 31, 2016
ivyy:
Safedavid, gradually I'm losing my patience with you. Enough with the ridiculous mentions. Leave me the hell alone. What is wrong with you? After blocking your lines and pleading with you to leave me be. You are still unrelentless.

Why on earth did you pose as a buyer for my mum's book? Calling the number I advertised for the sales of her book on nl. Why would you go to such lengths to get my home address even after being told countless times that I'm not interested in meeting you.

Why would you go to Facebook, download a picture of my boyfriend and I and upload here? What was the rationale?

I told you I wasn't angry nor mad. That I forgave you, but that all I wanted was for you to leave me alone, to leave me in peace. Yet you continue still, taking my silence for utter foolishnes. Safedavid, for your continued pestering and stalking, your happiness on earth will continue to reduce little by little.
Nawa oo, chai some guys eh shocked
RomanceRe: Recharge Give Away For My Bdai by firstking01(m): 11:16pm On Dec 31, 2016
Airforce1:
Happy birthday



Keep your recharge card.
You are just self centered and full of yourself, let me believe you are not like this offline.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is Your New Year Resolution? by firstking01(m): 11:13pm On Dec 31, 2016
Keep them to myself and show people results.
RomanceRe: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 11:10pm On Dec 31, 2016
Divay22:
lemme just see na pls grin grin
Nope, it's too rare for anyone to see and that's why i took it off asaptongue...You gon pay if you wanna see it thentongue
RomanceRe: He Switched Off His Phone Cos Of Christmas Gift... by firstking01(m): 11:01pm On Dec 31, 2016
falconey:
how is that our problem?
Mrcork kuku kill you here, lwkmdgrin...that guy funny i sweargrin
RomanceRe: My Only Regret Of 2016 by firstking01(m): 10:58pm On Dec 31, 2016
pimpchi:
Was in high spirit at d beginning of 2016....Had all hope and faith that I would walk down the aisle with the flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone.. Waited so long for her to emerge, but all to no avail...Should I call it regret? Or God's will for me. As the year winds down, I pray she comes forth into my warmth embrace....
To my unknown future wife.
The best thing that can ever happen to you is to continually pray that prayer, "i pray she comes forth into my warmth embrace"...my advice, walk in conciousness of that prayer.
RomanceRe: I Need A Decent Lady I Could Spend The Night With by firstking01(m): 10:53pm On Dec 31, 2016
Don't enter 2017 with this lifestyle bro, i repeat, don't enter 2017 with this lifestlye.
RomanceRe: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 10:51pm On Dec 31, 2016
Divay22:
king is not there o cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
Lol, i took it offtongue
RomanceRe: Nairaland Crossover Night 2016 !!!! by firstking01(m): 10:46pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ok, currently in methodist church but i still gon stick around here for the prophesies...keep them coming.
RomanceRe: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 10:43pm On Dec 31, 2016
Divay22:
lemme gone look for it,i'll be back
Oktongue
RomanceRe: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 10:39pm On Dec 31, 2016
Divay22:
page what
The second to last pagetongue
RomanceRe: My New Year Resolution by firstking01(m): 9:39pm On Dec 31, 2016
Nonsense, at a point i almost took you serious sef.
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Seen A Girl In A More Complex Dilemma Than I? by firstking01(m): 9:32pm On Dec 31, 2016
Scented:
Hey guys, I opened this account just for this reason alone, I just can't use my popular Nairaland moniker. I'm a very active and popular member on Nairaland but I'm using this moniker because you guys might give bias advise if you all know who I'm.

I'm 27, I work, not earning high though, but enough to keep me financially independent to some degree to fix my basic needs and wants.

I'm dating Daniel, I'm in love with him, he is 29, he works for an average firm, his pay is just like mine, just average pay. But enough for basic up keep and basic "flexing". Now I wanna tell you what's so special about Daniel, he is 6 feet tall, he is not too slim and not muscular, he has not just a handsome face but a pretty one, he makes my intelligence seem like ignorance with his high level of intellect and smartness, he has taught me a lot I couldn't have learnt even at Harvard University, calling him intelligent is an understatement! And about intimacy, ladies, have you ever met a guy who is so good in bed that you can hardly resist him even when you are in your worst mood? Daniel is just something else in bed, he is perfect in bed. His is a firm and loving guy, he doesn't tolerate me behaving silly but yet he still draws me closer if I behave silly. He has never hit me even when I get on his nerves, he acts calm and collected and goes silent if he is not in the mood to put me in my right place with his some harsh words.

Career wise Daniel has focus and has a vision where he sees himself in the next 5 years. He is my 3rd ever boyfriend and he is the type any girl would wanna keep.

Now the only issue with us is that Daniel has told me he would be ready to get married when he 31 years, that's 2 years from now, he has calculated everything for me to see how it would take 2 years before he is ready financially and otherwise, he is not a fantasy dreamer who thinks he would win a jackpot and marry tomorrow therefore his 31 years age mark of getting married considering his current job and future career prospects.

Now guy number 2 is called Joe, he is 32, he is a very high earner financially, generally he is a nice guy, handsome, neat and a gentleman.

I met him at my place of work some months ago, although he doesn't work there, he had a project with us which made him to frequently be at my work place a lot during that period. From the initial familiarity talks and all he stated it from the beginning that he wants me as a wife and he has observed me for about a month and I'm the one but I always sternly told him I'm dating someone else I love and nothing can happen between him and I. He has asked I follow him to his family house to see his mom on a couple of occasions, I refused on all occasions. I have never accepted to even hang out with him for once, we just talk on phone and chat.

I was surprised when one day at work during break at the cafeteria he came with his mom, he smiled and left us alone, his mom looked me straight into the eyes and told me that as a woman she gives me her word and she is telling me that her son is for real and not just after sleeping with me, she even told me that she already told her son she will not vouch for him if he wanted a sex involved courtship with me. And she also told me she liked me the first time he son secretly brought her to the office so she can see me. She also said if I agree the families would commence marriage plans after Joe and I have had about 3 months of courtship, after which we would do all medical tests and proceed to the actual wedding proper.

My dilemma now is this; In 2 years from now, would Daniel still love me and remain faithful to me and still keep to his promise to marry me? If I decide to wait for Daniel, in 2 years from now I would be 29, isn't that too much of a risk to take?

My parents and relatives keep pestering me about marriage and in my family all ladies get married before they reach 27, I'm the only person who has clocked 27 without being married yet.

I'm in love with Daniel, I'm crazy for that boy, but Joe on the other hand offers me what Daniel can't offer for now. I don't have feelings for John at this stage and to be fair he is the type of guy any girl can fall madly in love with if given a chance into her life, so my question is this- "Should I wait for Daniel or should I give Joe a chance?"

Please this is more complicated than the popular cliché; "If you are confused about two people to love, pick the new guy because if you really loved the former guy you would not consider the new guy". This is more complicated than that, please I need good opinion and advise, and your reasons for your opinions.

Thank you all!

Cc: Seun, lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano, Mymzcoli, agarawu23, firstEVA, Ishilove, INTROVERT, LadyF, Mynd44. Sveen, Naijaboiy, tosyne2much, Twaci, Dygeasy, Naijasinglegirl, buygala, MadCow1, Cutehector, FriedPlantain, safarigirl, MizMyColi, voltron, Tomfrench, englishmart, SUGARBEE, prettythicksme, RomanceLander, emusmith, wristbangle, Ghostlady, Kachisbarbie, EroticAngelina, dechandel, ireneony, freecocoa, MzNelly, elantraceey, Debby16, Creamish, ijebabe, KashBaby, MissyB3, Fynestboi, cococandy, vizkiz, cocoberry, standd, MrCork, Estharfabian, MrsPhyno, FlirtyKaren, Ladyboss1, debbie, whizqueen, Fabulocity, looseweight, IamMissMarvel, EggovinMma, misspicy, PunkyVeer, Lanicky

Note: I copied all the romance section commentators I know who I'm sure would not disappoint me in giving me good advice.
Ok, since you 've vouched for the ones you called and bestows your confidence on them, let me kuku wait for them maybe i might learn one or two things from them too.
RomanceRe: END Year 2016 With A Shout Out To That Nairalander Who Made You Smile This Year by firstking01(m): 9:20pm On Dec 31, 2016
OBTSubtle:
Special New year greetings go to..
Mimzyy
Ogorwyne
Olihilistic
JIXnation
Jubrealguy
Smellinganus
Xoella
Lezz/Lezzlie
Thesonofmark
Creamish
Yourmajesty/greatness22
Suzanne404
Kinginvahala
Kingrex1
Sandoski
Smellymouth
Nkemma54
Royalblak007
Bitchcrafts
Muvacci/sinz/siinz
Daddysly
Iykekelvins
Laveda
Ls0fdk/Lsofdk
vizkiz
Cherlene
Oyind17
Drisklef
Makydebbie
wristbangle
firstking01
hadez
twaci
Berlynn
Vicstar
pabloomoescobar
Refiner
Mysticgal
nathaniel007
Dollyjoy
Cherlene
Pennytrate
Qhutetomsel
Handsam/centaurxxv
McBrooklyn/Brooklynthebully
Iluvgummybears
Estharfabian
Airsultan
Gloryisaac
Peachyp
mzlarem
Lanicky
alobright17
Milonis
Iamlegend1
Debbiesean
Naijaboiy/iceydee
Twaci
Mhisbliss
Benita27
Marlvin
Balancediet
Jeffreyjamez
Berbierklaus
Sweetjude
Tosyne2much
Mamagee3
Falconey
Dingbang/cutehector
Dezolo
Stupidgoat
Knightrod



2016 was a great year and it was because of you guys..

Looking forward to 2017
Chop nuckles brahgrin
RomanceRe: END Year 2016 With A Shout Out To That Nairalander Who Made You Smile This Year by firstking01(m): 9:19pm On Dec 31, 2016
ivyy:
Happy new year loves kiss kiss
Monsurufatai xynerise ferdyboss Jamean tizzelseun Ls0fdk vizkiz Cherlene Oyind17 Lezzlie Lezz jazmiynne mimzzy thesonofmark petux wristbangle firstking01 Obiorathebully kingtom hadez twaci Iykekelvin Berlynn Vicstar Suzanne404 pabloomoescobar tygaah pweetychyka refiner brite02 celibate phalmesG Mysticgal nathaniel007 Dollyjoy Cherlene Pennytrate Juhan Qutethomsel DaddySLY Hansam McBrooklyn Makkydebbie LSOFDK Iluvgummybears Eastherfabian Airsultan Gloryisaac Peachy mzlarem Lanicky alobright17 callmescofield EmperorLee Centaurxx Chelseafan1 Secondeva davide470 davep tamedwolf90 topestbilly Fearless15 Liesdictator dreyl
Thankia my amiable queengrin
RomanceRe: END Year 2016 With A Shout Out To That Nairalander Who Made You Smile This Year by firstking01(m): 9:17pm On Dec 31, 2016
EmperorLee:
Thanks my baby kiss. Na this year i go bring that bride price. grin
Lol, you funny ogrin
RomanceRe: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 9:13pm On Dec 31, 2016
[quote author=Divay22 post=52427242][/quote]You didn't see it?, i 've uploaded it ogrin
RomanceRe: Can You Die For Your Spouse?. by firstking01(m): 8:22pm On Dec 31, 2016
Thought i saw a similar thread like this few mins ago sad
RomanceRe: Help Mimzzy Saw My Thing And Fainted by firstking01(m): 8:19pm On Dec 31, 2016
Some of you guys here are a disgrace to the entire maLe species including your parentsundecided
RomanceRe: How Do I FFUCKK This Girl (need Help Badly) by firstking01(m): 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2016
Alondra:
Misplaced pioritiessmiley
You and this smiley tho.
RomanceRe: How Do I FFUCKK This Girl (need Help Badly) by firstking01(m): 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2016
Others are thinking of how they will drop their bad habits before the next 4 hours and you are here compounding your woesundecided
RomanceRe: Scientific Proof That Love Is Really Blind by firstking01(m): 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2016
Ok
RomanceRe: Can You Die For Your Spouse?. by firstking01(m): 8:02pm On Dec 31, 2016
Jesus christ has already done that for the girl i'm supposed to do it for, so, thinking of it is never an option.
RomanceRe: Its Gonna Be 2017 In A Few Hours Time, Guys What Are You Dropping Behind? by firstking01(m): 7:58pm On Dec 31, 2016
Even if i say it here, i 'll still go back to my vomit, so, no need.
RomanceRe: Upload Your Last Selfie For This Year!!! 2016!! by firstking01(m): 6:58pm On Dec 31, 2016
I'm cominggrin
RomanceRe: Is This A Movie Poster Or A Pre-wedding Photo by firstking01(m): 6:17pm On Dec 31, 2016
This is simply exceptionaL
RomanceRe: Benefits Of Making Love To Her While She Is Menstruating by firstking01(m): 6:12pm On Dec 31, 2016
Sex during menstruation is harmful to the health and disgusting, eventhough i 've not tried it before and never will i....i even hate the sight of girls menstruating.

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