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Jadekitana:

Jadekitana:

Jadekitana:

Summer15:
We always talk about it. And he said devil is a liar. If I leave the marriage, am I a bad person

Summer15:
We always talk about it. And he said devil is a liar. If I leave the marriage, am I a bad person

Caravan:
Lol. Have you lived with a woman who makes you angry on purpose and pushes you closer and closer to the wall everyday, until she finally has your back against it? Have you lived with a woman who is disrespectful, arrogant, reckless, and who doesn't listen to your advice and neither follows any of your instruction?

Trust me, if you have such woman as a wife, you won't be termed weak for beating some sense into her.

Caravan:
Please enough of the age-old sentiments. There are certain times when beating a woman is justified.

1. When she asks to be beaten.

2. Beating a woman in self defense.

3. Beating a woman to drive some sense into her and to prove to her that you are still the man in the relationship.
But in this instance, there should be a limit and the beating shouldn't reach the point where it becomes fatal or causes her severe injuries.

Estharfabian:
I bet You'd have loved if he'd paired my Ass with Yours...wouldn't You babe?

skarlett:
I meant the bolded and yes I'm a christian, pentecostal too

skarlett:
I meant the bolded and yes I'm a christian, pentecostal too

Boycool1:
this just happened today in school...

While Walking with this lady I've been crushing on for a while now,
She introduced me to her female friend as her boyfriend and even went on
to ask her in my presence "isn't he cute?" and so many other things.

My Question now is, what does this mean?

skarlett:
I meant why is it in the past? I will surely check your topics to see what you mean

skarlett:
stayed?

skarlett:
Nope I'm not, just tryna ask some basic questns, if you're a christian do you adhere strictly to the bible's teaching prohibting you from fornication?

Monalisa185:

skarlett:
Is abstinence from sex and all other sexual activities before marriage as decreed in the Bible realistic and necessary?"

I came up with that because I feel the bible have made a lot of people overly hypocritical . . .I also find the rule stiffening and ridiculous. . .

It's 99.99% impossible to abstain from everything sexual before marriage, all things being equal i.e so long as he/she doesn't have some sort of disability. . .
and it doesn't have to be penetrative sex(a lot of people that squawk against premarital sex do a lot of sexual acts asides from vaginal sex so it doesn't really make sense). And since it isn't possible to completely abstain then why do people preach about it or act judgmental especially when men/women are sexual beings?

Let's look at it from an extensive view away from the constraints of religion - we are supposed to mate as soon as we hit puberty. If we were not supposed to have sex before marriage then don't you think we are supposed to hit PUBERTY only after we've gotten married or what's the essence of having a reproductive organ ready for action at 17/18 years old but kept inactive for so many years?

sofigail:
Issues

sofigail:
Issues

Preciousgirl:

sofigail:
going through some stuffs.