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justwise:
I understand your question but i don't know the answer..do you want to find out?

OMG did someone add sugar in my popcorn? Kikikikikikikikiki

Nasadiva:
@ Firsttymum, I am falling in love with your MIL and DAD

Go away kikikikikikikikiki

Nasadiva:
Justwise, are you gay?

Coughs *

Where's my popcorn Abeg

TOKNOW:
Would that not be too stressful for her?. I would suggest you just send the letter of change of intent, pray and whatever the outcome may be, accept it as the will of God. It is not a do or die thing.

But she'll be emotionally traumatized. If she's turned back? And guess what? Waste of money
If he can afford her flight and a short vacation it's totally worth it. Change of intent is a letter u send to d embassy and u get a generic response but u show to the cbp.. At his discretion can do and undo now the emotional trauma they might put her through is what I call stressful.

It's practically a clear case of misrepresentation... Those people don't hear "is not like that sir" or "lemme esplain sir" or "pity her condition sir"

Omoba88 if u can afford it, do the safest and surest thing. Let her go for a short vacation. Some locations have extremely cheap tickets right now.
It's different if she wasn't pregnant at d time of interview (that one dey still even send people back).

damidamsel:
'I don't know how to do Abeg Abeg'...lol, i feel u. @shrekandfiona and @firsttymum, coz i gat respect for a couple of peeps on here, you 'guys' inclusive.......,

awwwww sweetie thanks for the offer. This means alot. And ur kind words put a huge smile on my face... Mwuah mwuah

The low key peeps on this thread tho.

Ok so I've gotten plenty of thank you because of this flight tingy..

I'm glad I'm able to make u guys happy jare.

And low key people I see u too...

Ya'll book ur flights o... Especially those travelling soon... My low key peeps shocked me today aswear.

I saw Eti 222k for 5th and 7th of dec... To LA

Gracemum OMG what are d chances? U gave birth a day after me? And ur Edd is Feb?
Now I see why I'm ur Dejavu OMG.... I had goosebumps. OMG OMG

I'm gonna shorten the flight names so that Google search doesn't bring d search here

Qat cheapest if u fly on a Thursday and ur return is on a Friday or Wednesday . Also cheap Friday followed by Thursday then on Monday then on Tuesday. Wednesday bein the most expensive
Emi cheapest on Monday to Thurs
Eti fly on a Monday return on a Tuesday and fly on a Wednesday return on a Thursday
Ethio fly on a Thursday return on Fri and even cheaper if u fly on a Tuesday nd return on a Wednesday or travel on Wednesday return in Tuesday

Qatar airways isn't looking bad this morning.... I just checked for 1st December. I'm seeing 270
Amd Emirates 301k

Mamacajah I see u peeping.

Ajujuju2:
Nne sometimes ignore is PRETTYY DIFFICULT TO PRESS especially when d person de yarn opata! So i judge not when d spirit of reply hits a momma.
However i truly agree... Silence is golden.
Silence when deserved hurts to the bone marrow.

ikr... U can say that again

Ajujuju2:
Kikikiki
In thick igbo accent: young and fresh mama
Biko fire on. Bible say be fruitful and multiply.
Plus age de ya side!

God has great plans for u

kikikikikikikikiki
Amen o..amen o

bigfido:
please if you are using travelstart, always pay for free changes! it is still cheaper than paying for a flexible ticket with airlines. to each his/her own

I think it's like extra 15k or so

LadyGuinivere:
I have missed this FTM! Gbam . The spirit of ignore we receive

kikikikikikikikiki

GucciOluwa:
Biko you pipo shoul send the grace my way mbok. Zenk U

Oya receive grace now in Jesus name... Amen

Kemo88:
Lol it kinda works, it's just that some peoples body can be extremely fertile right after delivery (1st six months) plus your hormones aren't stable yet, your cycle isn't stable either. Lol my dear just tell people it's the kind of spacing you want between your children.

Abi o

simababe:
Setember mamas in the house, how preparation to port. Any mama traveling first week in august tru JFK let's mingle. Nywayz I'm back to square 1 after thinking dh friend has paid for my ticket only to find out that he only booked but didn't mae paymnt and has stoppd pickin 4 awhile now. So back to ticekt hunting again. I have to get it before the week runs out. The cheapest av seen is 440 with qatar but it has 2 stop ovr. God help us all.

@all, pls did you shop for baby clothing in nigeria beore travelling or you did your shoping in the U.S cos I've not even bought pin.

I didn't buy anything in naija. I shopped for stuffs till my baby is two.
The diaper i bought has not finished.
I travelled light, my hubby had things only in his hand luggage and put one box into another to check in. United allowed two boxes for my son so we had 5boxes plus one hand luggage to fill up.

TripleKMama:
Dats serious. I never knew. I thot dey'd be full of info and eager to off load to us. Genuine competitive info.
Issorait. Make all man do im own inquiries before commitment.
Thanks.

Those hospitals that stopped taking us was caused by them. I remember mihs and d likes.... They take all ur info and use it, sometimes even u dont get d opportunity to use it.
That's why we share just initials of Dr's and hospitals. Sometimes we don't share that info at all.

Gracemum:
Hi everyone, it's bn quite a while. Bn catchnup. Congratulations to all new mommies &daddies, successful missionary journeys, poe and visa stories and Grace to all preggie mommies &daddies, "in d pipeline" missionary journeys, poe and visa interviews.

@firsttymum. My sister dat gives me d feeling of dejá vu, I use e-hug abi e-hugs dey hail o. Very big congratulations to you dear. D similarities btw our stories even to delivery was jus too much dat wen I read ur earlier hint bout ds preggie b4 u wia MIA, I happy well well both for u and for me as by dat tym DH don return to 9ja& I still dey Yankee wit LO.

U rem ds ya post:-
"Shawlar
Olokings
Bigfido
And experienced mamas
I have a kweshun... Do u guys really abstain from kpekus till 6 weeks post delivery... I remember when I told my husband it was like I was speaking gibberish."

#útòyism . D Lord is Ūя̲̅strength. Happy pushing. Hugs to ur LO.

wind yaf blow chicken yansh yaf open...
Covers face....
That's how u didn't share ur experience o... Wow. I jus had goosebumps.. As per similarities Btw our stories...
Erm it's means pregnancy is loading for u.

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bigfido:
get N10,000 naira off your ticket price with travelstart.

use voucher code: TSNG10000Int expires on 7th July, 2016

for those of you that might be travelling first time and you have reservations about what goes down, you can go to youtube, search for border security, American front line. very nice series. i watch it a lot. the canada and australian one.

meanwhile, Firsttymum, if you baby comes out all gymmed up, i wont be surprised o! lol

I will enter guiness book of record kikikikikikikikiki

shrekandfiona:
Fact! Like you & feddy27 I also had a jotter and did printouts when I was too lazy to write. Mehn info on the forum is priceless but when you tell people to read up, they take offence

I am going the F1 route soon and i have started with part 1 of the student visa thread, still a long way cos it's up to part 9 of about 400 pages each but I will get there

Your dad though "do you wanna fill every where with chicks are you a chicken"

I'm down that route too... I've started reading too o... I don't know how to do Abeg Abeg.. Thank God for these threads..
My dear my dad has zero chill.

greatie:
Lmao... U are so funny. My mum and pastor prophesied that while am still nursing i will take i became pregnant
But in all God's grace is sufficient.

Kikikikikikikikiki... My dear His grace is truly sufficient

So I'm catching up on posts I've missed

Some human beings are fine tuned to fight or quarrel... They are bored when there's no ish... It's who they are... They are in church, at our work place.. Etc. But u wonder why they ain't in d market.. Cos all u can think about when u read or hear from them is "market"... They are always so "markety"

Anyway There a phase u get to on this nl u just see comments and statements that suggests a brawl... (Yes I mean brawl...) u just ignore... Just because typing a reply means u r promoting that ministry which isn't worth it in d first place.

If u think u r miss or Mrs or Mr markety u can start an ish on this post. You will b ignored.

Maggie0133
Congratulations.... More good news loading..
Wish u a successful delivery.

Kemo88
Don't be scared.. People have done it, people are doing it.

Triplekmama
Kikikikikikikikiki
Thanks darling

happytbaby:
No she didnt pay twice. She bought the ticket as a local flight not as part of an intl itinerary.


@ Firsty,


My friend had a baby that is 360 days younger than the previous baby. Now she has finished having all her kids and dancing iyanga at us that are in this dollar wahala. She had d baby July last year just before dollar turned to gold. So, forget it. I dont even know why u people are ashamed o, abi u are supposed to be starving unaselves?.... just that u people no sabi keep secret, the thing wey ur hubby do for 'koro' u don use ur tummy bring am to "gbangba'.

Koro= corner
Gbangba= the open

Kikikikikikikikiki Kikikikikikikikiki
360 days Oh wow... I comot cap for her o.

I remember when I got preggers 3 months postpartum my mil saw me crying and depressed and d first question she asked is if I was raped? She said I did it with my Koro Koro eyes... someone even asked me or rather said in shock and kinda mocking me too "so you've started doing... You can't even wait to heal" Dr's gave 6 weeks of vjayjay rest. I dinor have a tear... See me see kwanter... I and hubby are young and vibrant see wahala.


At least birth year will b 2015 and 2017
I'm just finding ways to encourage myself... It's not easy dealing with being pregnant with an infant. my baby yaf not clock 8 months o. But I wasn't raped I did it with my clear eyes.. Even though our method failed us.


on a serious note
Withdrawal method fails o... If u are not ready especially those of you with twins gaan do family planning...

shrekandfiona:
Lol. Do you know people are turned back on daily basis and visa renewals denied due to this type of mistakes/white lies, i stopped commenting here cos apart from the frequent pm's, most don't say things as they happened.

A colleague posted here a while ago painting an entirely different picture of the event. She & her hubby were issued a b1/B2 visa for vacation when she was a few weeks pregnant. She used the visa the 1st time to go give birth and subsequently went on vacation twice with same visa.

Time for renewal, she & hubby were denied. They said she wasn't truthful with her 1st application. So many instances to give but some people don't take to advice.

Anyway every mallam to his kettle...

My dear..
This white lie en...
I invited some people to this thread.. Dey still lied to get the visa cos of fear and laziness to read through... They are sent back and can't come back here and beg me not to post their stories..

CHANGE OF INTENT doesn't save anymore... Except ofcourse u r lucky.. U met a cbp who is in a hurry, doesn't get alot of pregnant women or has no clue.

ozycy:
Well said @ olokings,
Are you sure am not that your friend?

sharpest shooter of all time

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Virtuousdiva:
Let me enter the matter as Nurse Virtuous as you sef know wetin we dey teach for class ...You did not mention anywhere that "ya birth control failed ooo"that means you and dede were doing the do hoping on luck because breastfeeding is not a reliable form of contraception ooo neither is withdrawal method (na play i dey ooo)
All the same jare,whether you gave 5years space or took in after 5months,people wey go look go look,people wey go talk dey talk .Make shame no catch you abeg. Its a blessing..Congratulations in advance.

But withdrawal method works na... It works jor. It's just when u mistakenly over enjoy it.

Thanks darling

justwise:
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Now married to Jesus

Kikikikikikikikiki no way...
That means u r celibate? Nooooooo nooooooo not our justwise.
U need a wife

justwise:
Yes she is and never made secrete of that though to be fair she has decided to pay and place an ad here and Education section.

sliding into my pm isn't good... That's not nice.
Now when I see them I just add to spam
Which check my spam and name more...

Double post..

Justwise he has come back again

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justwise:
Name them? will be nice if you can but if you feel otherwise fine.

Ladyguinivere and justwise
I'll name one of them.

Motherstouch

(Others can read and I'm sure they'll prolly leave my pm alone)