Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 4:27pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
olaboss: I wasn't pregnant during the interview I got my visa July 2016 I got pregnant October my dd will be 2017 am planning of travelling May 2017 then I will be in my last trimester so my questions are 1. should I go back and declare it before I travel and how? 2. Will I be denied if my Tommy is already big. Thanks. U can write a change of intent... But be ready to explain why u didn't use it for the intended purpose... 2. Are u planning to conceal ur pregnancy? It's even more dangerous. What ever u do, don't misrepresent, don't lie, don't hide, don't conceal.. |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 4:23pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
sugah: Gurlnext2u please what's the baggage allowance for infant on Lufthansa? I box weighing 23kg |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 11:39am On Nov 17, 2016 |
jaypisces: Please what is the implication of overstaying in the US after your Visa expiration and how does it affect subsequent visa renewal and visits I have answered u. There no implication. What's important is how long u r stamped in. That u shldnt exceed |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 11:34am On Nov 17, 2016 |
olaboss: Hello house please I need ur best advice I got a 2 years us visa with my family in July and now am pregnat I wish to give birth there should I still go and inform them that I will be giving birth in us or I should just go? If am in my last trimester will they allow me ? Please what procedure should I take were u pregnant during the interview? If yes? We're u asked? |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:29am On Nov 17, 2016 |
dere5: You can still send the letter to the embassy if you like,but i don't think it's absolutely necessary in your case,since you have used the visa for the original purpose it was issued. Regarding the visa expiration ,the important thing here is that you enter the us before your visa expires.When you are entering at POE it's the duration that the cbp officer stamps you in that matters not the date your visa will expire Hmmm U c this cbp officials... They r d most unpredictable specie.... If u like use d visa many times.. They will still ask if have informed the embassy. Reason mamas came up with notification of intent.... |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:26am On Nov 17, 2016 |
jaypisces: Hi house I got my US visa last year and travelled with hubby on vacation in November last year. Spent 2 weeks in the US. My Visa expires in July 2017 and my baby is due in June 2017. This is my first. I have relatives in New Jersey where I could stay. I am yet to discuss with them cos I and hubby just started talking about the possibility of giving birth in the US. I need your advice about the Visa expiration and should I still write the embassy about my intent to deliver in the US? notification of intent is what you are writing. |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:18am On Nov 17, 2016 |
jaypisces: Thanks for your reply. My problem is I'm due June 10th. I'm not sure I will have enough time to get my baby's papers and my baby would not be old enough to travel before my visa expiration. Is there a way to renew the Visa before it's expiration? See the most important thing is that d visa should be valid for travel. The cbp officials will stamp u in at their discretion. Even if ur visa expires while u r there.... It's not so important. What's important is the validity of ur stamp. |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:16am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Chanbaby: My people pls help me. My travel agent found a ticket for me from lag -jfk - Hou for 509k on Thursday I paid her to book the flight I didn't receive the ticket only for her to call me today that turkish airline said they wouldn't be able to add my baby's ticket to my ticket cos my ticket is cheap ( see me see story 509k cheap ) now she is suggesting I use Marco Air See me see something. I said no way that she should book what I paid her for. Is it for real I can't add my baby's ticket or she wants to play a fast one. I beg Sabi people make una put mouth for my matter quick my blood dey hot. can ur agent refund u. Nd u call turkish nd reroute ur ticket urself? Turkish can't tell u that except the ticket she's paying for has a condition. And then airmaroc is cheaper than turkish o... Mbok Call turkish and ask them to route ur ticket the way u want. Let them give u a quote... U go.to the bank and pay. Let ur agent refund u. Kikikikikikikikiki see d way I'm repeating my self....lol |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:16am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Colouredgirl: No try KLM oooooo.....for preggy mom or with infant....na no go area..... Their reception is bad..dem no send person ooo It was d person luck.... There are people who enjoyed them well o |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:15am On Nov 16, 2016 |
mumzt: Hello house, please how have pple been paying visa fees with the restriction on naira cards. $100 limit? But visa fee is in naira when u get to gtb... Even gtb online banking sef... Once u click on pay for visa and enter details u will see d naira equivalent |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:00am On Nov 16, 2016 |
oniwoski: Hi dearies....can someone help with this....Turkish airline vs Ethiopian or klm...which is better for a preggie........its quite urgent pleeeeeeaaasssse Klm first Then turkish Then Ethiopian |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 12:07am On Nov 13, 2016 |
XX01: So, really, these Dallas people just decided to disturb me for no reason. lol |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 11:57pm On Nov 12, 2016 |
TripleKMama: TKM Jnr arrived today. 4wks early. To God be all glory! We're doing well. Details later. congratulations darling |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by firsttymum(f): 4:50am On Nov 12, 2016 |
ultimatebunmi1: Goodday sabi mama's plz I need response,the last scan I did my edd was 12/12 and my last LMP was march 11,so as at today I am 35weeks.when I got to the hospital today I went to run scan to my greatest surprise scan said I am 37weeks 2days and EDD is november.baby weighing 3.2kg how possible is this plz. And this is the same scan I have done like 4times and same place saying December why the change all of a sudden plz I need Response am so worried,plz don't pass me by plz irrespective of the scan the baby will come when the baby will come. Besides the first scan is the most appropriate scan Don't let things like this disturb u |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 6:24am On Nov 11, 2016 |
Akorkor: Lol@laundering money. Thanks lol uw |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 5:52pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
Akorkor: Hiya, please I will like to know if it's necessary to declare currency at lagos airport before leaving? Am asking because all my waka waka I have never declared any before ohh but this is my first time of traveling to US and I don't want story that touch.
Help a FTM please. @firsttymum,Feddy27 and all sabi people. whether u declare or not it's not a big deal na... Except u r laundering money. If it's not up to $10000 u might not need to declare. But they ask how much is on u nd all |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 12:18pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
Correct1: @ Firsttymum thanks, it is not selfmedication. They insisted on me taking fansidar, and I refuse because I did not like the effect I had the last time I took it. But he later recommend same coaterm. I don't like taking medicine any how especially when I am pregnant. It scares me. @ misscanada, I have done that already, wanted to hear from a mother and professional..... Oh okay.... I don't like drugs at alll too |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 9:28am On Nov 10, 2016 |
Correct1: 26 weeks pregnancy.it is malaria and pls is there any medicine for malaria prevention during pregnancy. Thank you. coartem is safe for ur gestational age. I'm not a fan of pregnant women self medicating |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 1:12am On Nov 10, 2016 |
Correct1: @Firsttymum pls what other medicine can one take for malaria in pregnancy. I am asking because you are a doctor and a woman too. What trimester / how many weeks pregnant. Is d person sure it's malaria? |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 1:11am On Nov 10, 2016 |
Gagat: Hailings to all the Feb 2017 mamas and papa's in da house!!!!
How's is the planning and 'strategizing' coming up? fine o.... We thank God |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 10:32am On Nov 09, 2016 |
FabioRomani: yes, she already has a b1b2 visa. We plan to pay in instalments but we are scared that this will affect her when she goes back to the US to give birth next year. this is what my fear is... If u can't clear ur outstanding bill, how can u take care of cost of delivery. She might be lucky and they won't ask her anything about ur son... Since u guys agreed to pay instalmentally. But b prepared to answer the cbp in case it comes up |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 4:59pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
100shades: @firsttymum, Thank you. Sent mine on Thursday and still no response. Should I be worried? check ur spam or something. What embassy did u send it, Abuja or Lagos |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 3:09pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Even pairing keep money safe o... There are some gummy finger pregnant women.... Plus beg beg ones too sef dey... Etc... I think Part 1 had plenty Gist like this... This journey en.. Hmmmm it is well.
At least u can sit d pregnant woman down nd u guys lay rules or talk to your selves... No one is doing anyone a favor.. Unlike when you are staying with someone else |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 3:05pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Mumcdab wow... My dear find someone to pair with or better still get a one bedroom apartment. I got a one bedroom apartment to myself on airbnb for same price or even less than what I was seeing for a two bedroom I was to share... Cos even sharing u have to look out for two bedroom two bathroom apartment incase u r obsessed with clean bathroom like me. |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 2:54pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
100shades: Hello house, how long does it take typically to receive a response for the declaration of intent letter sent to the embassy?
Received an automated response with frequently asked questions but not the generic response I have seen on the thread.
Response will be highly appreciated. Oshey My first time it was within 24 hrs.... This time it took 3 working days |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 12:40pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
FabioRomani: @Firsttymum, pl
Please in case of subsequent times, since b1b2 visas do not cover any insurance, how do we manage a situation whereby one travels with an infant for like 3months and during the period the child falls Ill? Cos my wife land to travel again next year for about 3 months and am scared of experiencing such. Please ur advice will be most appreciated. does she already have a visa? Or she has to apply |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 9:32am On Nov 08, 2016 |
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Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 9:30am On Nov 08, 2016 |
mamas on a serious note
save urself the stress, enjoy freedom and get a place to stay. if u genuinely cant afford a place, pair.. u can get an airbed and share a one bedroom... plan early and scout for a partner. if u have to stay with a family.. ensure its a close relative .. not someone u or ur husband remembered simply because u need help.
ensure u have gotten ur hospital.. so ur host doesnt impose a hospital on u. if possible make ur host feel that u have paid some money for the hospital. they have given u accommodation.. consciously learn not to ask for anything... i know some women are naturally begi begi.. but u have to drop that in naija.
most importantly let them see u r prepared and independent.
UNFORTUNATELY THIS CANT EVEN WORK FOR EVERYONE... ESPECIALLY THE ''BAD'' HOST VS GUEST |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 9:17am On Nov 08, 2016 |
some women are iron... while pregnant they are strong. its not same for everyone.
i am a lazy pregnant woman.. i can cook and do surface cleaning... use stick broom or brush... but i wont bend except to carry my son...
and please not everyone is also buoyant enough to afford an accommodation.. haba... some women here are just struggling to ensure d child has d blue passport... she has a friend or family abroad who can help... please for Christ sake why make dem a slave? wont u eat if shes not there, wont u clean and all that?
dont get me wrong, somepeople abuse it. both host and guest. +but some people genuinely cant afford to rent an accommodation. and if such a person stays with u, she can only assist financially in d very little way she can.
are there not people who can afford an accommodation and family will insist she comes over? and when she gets there its something else. to move out and rent for sanity sake is a problem.. to remain there is even more problem.
some hosts are just devils incarnate same thing with some guests too.
thats why i said its not one size fits all. u had it good doesnt mean other people did, and because u were assisting and being generous doesnt meant same measure worked for another.. is there not a woman here who was being nice and buying groceries and the host was angry and said she felt insulted.. yet they wont buy what she needs or cook what she likes and when she does they'll say she shldnt . and when she wanted to move out dey refused too. |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:43am On Nov 08, 2016 |
Abioolly: If I must say if am to have my baby again in the US.. I will neva say with any relative or friend.. I had a terrible experience with my own aunt.. wow... just wow.. i am totally speechless |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:41am On Nov 08, 2016 |
FabioRomani: Please I need help. My wife travelled to the US with my one year+ son for visit on a b1b2 visa, but while they were there, my son fell I'll and was taken to the hospital. I was advised by an immigration lawyer to apply for mass health or medicare for him cos of the bills. But I am scared of the implication. Please can someone with knowledge advice on the implication. Thanks let ur wife tell them shes self pay... disscuss discounts and work out a payment plan. taking issurance of any kind isnt in ur visa ''jurisdiction'' |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by firsttymum(f): 8:39am On Nov 08, 2016 |
modath: Chloe7,
Y'all know I don't take myself so seriously & love love love humour, especially in the right situation... Worry backtracked, it was shade but i didn't need an umbrella. 
Slimwendy85 ,
Thanks for your concern but you are over reaching...
I didn't miss worry's intent... The respondent to my post was trying to be clever by half and i saw through the ruse... I may no longer be a regular on this thread but i know how this ish go down, There was no humor there, s/he implied i wanted to impose on LadyG's willingness to assist cos i didn't want to put in the work the thread (s) required & that is obvious to any mumu sef..
So telling me to reread a post where someone asked "Lady G to respond" cos she's being PAID to do it has zero positivity. .. S/he probably doesn't know I was really active on this thread and just thought to have a laugh at my expense....That i had to check & i have no apologies ma'am..
Thanks once again.. 
Cc Firsttymum , Nita2013 , ozycy ,Kaylaychi , Popri nefertitiram , LadyGuinivere  and posts were raptured... i'm crying here... must everyone see d humour in a post? not to take sides but u guys have to understand how madam A will read and understand a post is different from how madam B will do. plus that madam X concluded a certain post is a joke doesnt mean d poster meant for it to be a joke. on this note lemme sip my tea |