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ijeomaobi1:
Hi firstymum,nef et al,

Biko so after the hospital stuff, I go back and ask for zero balance/letter of non-indebtedness?? Hope Houston Methodist hospital will not give me wahala. Waiting for LO any moment.

yes... Just ask. It shldnt b an issue. Get it from every department u pay.

Abeg no ignore my personal pm when the time comes for documentation as I changed SIM on my fone and all my saved info disappear as per this forum.

kikikikikikikikiki

Also the surrogacy thingie, i have one interested lady. Can you give me the link to the ivf thread? And how do you go about it?

https://www.nairaland.com/773873/anyone-trying-ivf-iui-icsi
I hope she's not interested to extort. I also hope she knows what it fully entails.

bissysummy:
Thanks to all that help me through the procedure of expedited appointment, its quite unfortunately that i was denied. Please any other way to get a closer date pls. The date i was able to secure is 1st of September and i will be due for my 3rd cs then. Pls at all,kindly help as usual God bless you. @firstmumy,ladyg,xx10, guinevee,lobus and all .

I kno people were checking Btw 12 midnight and 1 am for both Abuja and Lagos. U might have to do that. It worked for them. Good luck darling

ajiedeko:
Thanks. I asked d admin officer if I could come to the office, she said all complaints are handled via phone and that no one will attend to me.

Since u already have a quote. Ask Dr F to help u. Tell him what's going on

happytbaby:
Just reading this. Wow! Some people are so rude. Am sure the person that said women exagerate morning sickeness is one of those that have it easy. For that insult to your person and the rest of womanhood, I wish the person double portion of my first trimester illness.

I add mine too o. Some people are plain selfish

Nogen:
Firstymum, thanks for your love and support towards people who are trying to conceive. It is indeed a difficult journey.

I have also thought of being a surrogate for someone in need. May God please bless every mom waiting. Amen.

Amen Amen

Pamperme:
I have thought about this issue of surrogacy over and over again. A friend needed similar help but my partner is so old fashioned, he doesn't think it's a good idea. Our society ehn! he was asking questions o, plenty questions, will i be the one to impregnate you and you will give out the child? so you will carry a child who was fertilised by another couple? Will you be in this house for the nine months? How about your job? What will you tell people when they ask for the baby after nine months? The questions were too much so i aborted the idea.
Unfortunately, some of us want to help but we have non-supportive partners/society...

i read through the TTC thread once in a while and say a prayer for them everytime...

my hubby said I will have to convince him very well but only after we r done with having kids.... I don't mind helping out. Inshort I've given it a good thought. My only ish is the morning sickness except mayb the gestational surrogacy which I wld prefer anyway.... I don't mind donating eggs too. This one my hubby is on board.
I'm a health professional so telling my colleagues et al it's surrogacy wldnt b an issue. Of course I will tell my family and friends. I wld only leave out the identity of the owner of the baby. It's something I really wanna do.

joanazubu:
Good morning firsttymum abeg were e sit if e no sit well cos na person wa sit for turkey now no sit well. please clarify quote author=firsttymum post=47641912] this doesn't sit down well at all.

In this era of drugs and desperation of people... Let's not forget people will do anything for money.

You don't carry such things for people.
Didn't we see on d news where a woman was carrying clothes for someone and there were drugs on the hem of the clothes.

People are wicked.. So it's time to shine ur eyes.
What ever that liquid is if u r the one buying it to carry for the person no wahala.

No one shld even give u food stuffs to carry. Insist on buying it urself.

The heart of man is desperately wicked

Chrisdew:
Well I know it's inappropriate taking stuffs from strangers but I am not new to naira land over 20 preggy moms have ridden with me .. It saddens my heart if am stil regarded has a stranger in NL... I am not forcing anyone I just felt it's a platform for Nigerians both abroad and home . I am entitled to add an incentive for a favor .. If I was shady I can solicits from filtering from the houston options online ... Thanks

Looks like u ain't sure about the definition of a stranger.
Dude u r still a stranger. That u do cab business for mamas in Houston doesn't automatically mean u r a friend or one who isn't a stranger.

I won't CARRY any liquid for any family member if I didn't buy it myself.

LadyGuinivere:
Hmmm

Lemme be the one to say it. Mommies and Daddies. Please please please do not be quick to accept stuff from strangers .

as in en... In this era of

joanazubu:
Hi ssup,traveling to houston Aug from lagos ..pm me quote author=Chrisdew post=47635649]Hi , August H town bound preggy mamas please I need someone to help me with liquid body lotions less than 2 kg for picks in lagos ,, will give u a Free airport pickup to anywhere in houston .. I mean it....inbox if u can .thanks

this doesn't sit down well at all.

temmy2103:
"Ebami kigbe OLE!!!"

kikikikikikikikiki

tyconcepts:
Whoa!!! This miracle don reach your side Abeg make we join forces together and start a church, I can be treasurer and secretary at the the same time. My multitasking spirit on on another level.

Kontinue!

Haaaaa
Only u? Kikikikikikikikiki

mitchyy:
See tif oooooo!

Hehehehehe! Nor be only miracle. Hehehehe

kikikikikikikikiki

phummy2:
Wow!!! It's sad when people spoil show for others cos I just don't understand why we can't all be humble in our ignorance especially when we find people who are always ready and willing to help. Lol @ snap ur jotter! The person for ask u to mail d whole jotter na lol. I feel you firstymum but pls find it in your heart to help the humble ones and ignore the others, guess the thread is not for everyone after all.

some people are born nasty. I'll try dear

Fortius:
slept off again afta to

firsttym..mama u gat brilliant business idea o..i wan join ur ministry too o as a treasurer

mumi mofe Abeg hAnd dey pain me o..enkaydewdrop boobies na heavyduty o..owo n ro mi o

Kikikikikikikikiki.... No o... I don't want a treasurer ooo

Correct1:
Hahahahahah, you know I enjoy reading your comments.... Lol. Very funny!

wink wink

chizeal:
Hehehe, firsttymum iIsama u with 4000 recharge card,.

Ohhhhnn, my miracle ooooooo. Waiting

Hope hav nt bin duped

Duped ke? No way
Kikikikikikikikiki

feddy27:
Today I'm down with flu (sneezing non-stop, blocked nose, loss of appetite, a bit of temp, headache)

Last weekend, my toddler of 15months had chicken pox! Thank God he took d first dose of the vaccine so it wasn't so severe but all the same, so much discomfort for a small child. He's been on treatment all week.

I didn't experience all dese illness with my last preggo! Spoke to my anty that's a midwife and she said I shld treat malaria

So tired jor!

Kpele my love.. Get well soon

Do u know that A guy sent me 500 airtime and he was promoted at work?
The next day, a lady sent me 1000 and got engaged to a very rich man.
The next day, another guy sent 2000 and he was granted a visa to d U.S.A.
Don't b left out! Why not send yours now and give your testimony.
The higher the amount you send, the bigger your miracle.
Don't be left out! Hurry now b4 I stop collecting...#etisalat only.

Temyb Hmmmm I can only say Hmmmm. I'm praying for two people there. This year they must conceive. Amen

Momo13:
Ahan! This one be like home video O ma ga o. People need help and are talking like overblown balloon.. Thank God im not ' hot cake' here oh, cos if someone had the effontery to try that with me the fumes of my preggie plus fx wahala go burn them badly.
Some people are animals in human form #verylonghiss

no b small hot cake. Kikikikikikikikiki
Big animals Mscheew

Feddy27 that's why I'm not doing pm again. If the moniker doesn't click I won't reply. Let me blab... Rubbish.

LadyGuinivere:
What?! Hmmmm. U patience quotient is bigger than mine o!
Me I am a teacherr. The daughter of a tracher. And grand daughter of a teacher. So e de my blood not to aid indolence. If you can't work hard for your own sef, I won't.
Imagine the effontery. Person go gimme atitude on top ma pm

U know when you are too shocked to talk en... Hmmm that's it. I try so hard to be polite so as not to start exchanging words even at that e no dey work.

Nobody shld try u... Remain to use Cain.

Do u know that A guy sent me 500 airtime and he was promoted at work?
The next day, a lady sent me 1000 and got engaged to a very rich man.
The next day, another guy sent 2000 and he was granted a visa to d U.S.A.
Don't b left out! Why not send yours now and give your testimony.
The higher the amount you send, the bigger your miracle.
Don't be left out! Hurry now b4 I stop collecting...#etisalat only.

nefertitiram:
As I reach there. I see say them de fight. Na so I close page.

One lady is trying to scam them o. Promising 100% fertility. Mainwhile she don try scam them before. Did u go to ivf thread

wapu:
Please I need your expert advice.

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and want to have the baby in the us.
I and hubby applied for visiting visa but we were denied.
I don't know why.
Hubby and I have good jobs and this is not the first time he's traveling.
His elder brother who is a Dr sent us an invite but the Vo didn't ask all these.

I'm guessing it's because we ain't wedded yet.
We've done just trad and the wedding is scheduled for Oct.
I'm thinking of us doing court and applying alone this time.
Please I need your advice.
I'd hate to been turned down again.

post ur transcript

So today I was thinking... If u go through the ttc thread and ivf especially ivf thread Hmmm.... You'll melt...

So I felt if u can freely and willingly donate eggs especially if u know one who's in need pls do.
I wanted to discuss surrogacy but that'll take personal conviction.
These people are spending alot... OMG a whole lot. So pls I indulge us to visit and pray and do what you can as d spirit leads (like donate eggs, surrogacy) . During ur devotion pray for them or even if it's only one person.. Pick a name and pray.

God bless us all.

nefertitiram:
.

God will put it in my heart to help who genuinely needs help. If I am not moved by the spirit, then nothing will move me.

Maybe I should put auto response, 'thanks for your email Nef will not respond except she has heard from the Spirit on your case. The Spirit is available for consultation 24hrs a day 7 days a week. While waiting for Nef's response, please go through part 1 to part 4 of the US birthing thread. If it's about cheap tickets... please consult the airline office nearest to you! Thank you and have a nice day"

auto response sounds good o

LadyGuinivere:
Biola 1 of life! Congrats o! U went, saw and conquered. We bless God.

@Ftm ah ah, why you andd Neff dey do like this na?! Una must answer PM oo!
Well, for me its always been my policy that if you are on visa matters,here is no reason why you can't post your kweshun here.
Somebody actually buzzed me on the health thread and when I replied, na visa kweshun. I referred her back here and till today she nevr ask the kweshun so apparently it wasn't important. Darris how someboy will now send me to be cracking ma brain on matter wen no important

Someone said and I quote "na wa o I sent that msg since morning and u r just replying ( after 5 hrs) that's not Nice"
I now said wow u didn't assume I'm busy? Anyway I'll reply at my free time and it's not even compulsory I do.
He now said is that how I speak to my husband at home?
I ignored. Next he sent an email the next day asking questions I added him to spam. He sent me emails with his other emails and I kept adding to spam. He actually said I won't apologize if that's what you are looking for such nerve. I said I'm not ur wife go and pour ur tantrums on her.

Then one hormonal brat
I replied her the next day Inshort I managed to reply her was really down cos of ms. And she said
Ftm so it took u so long to respond. I now said sorry jare u know how this morning sickness can b. She now said we women like exaggerating... So I can't just take my phone and quickly answer her.
It was as if she was paying me.
I now said no way, I will reply when I can. She said I'm feeling like I have all d information. She will get her info without me. I said Ok then... later and God bless. She shamelessly sent me a msg about a week later apologizing nd asking me for the pages of bla bla bla I shld just snap my jotter for her. I ignored and added her to spam.

People have eaten up their humanity and are so insensitive and selfish.

U people like pm sha.
Kikikikikikikikiki

First of all I don't care if u feel bad or insulted... Seriously I don't care but if u ain't active here I won't reply. And Erm if u like be a newbie learning "trade" I don't care. No fes. If u like be shy to post questions or wareva ... Mbok I'm not ur husband no b me give u belle.
I don't care.
It is my choice to reply or not.

Keyboard warriors, aka power Rangers Yer Yer those of u that always have a contradicting opinions especially when it comes to newbie topic and shii.. Take a deep breath and remember I DON'T CARE.

Somebody will just b expecting important email next thing it's samwan wld like to send u a msg. And d samwan is almost always an old account with zero or very few posts...

And the ones with never ending kweshuns mbok who is ur secretary? Me I will continue to shun if I can't answer again Abeg. It's not government work. If u like call it forming I don't care... I'm not jobless not like u r paying me.
Plus if I sense slight rudeness I'll quickly add u to spam. Yes I'm doing u a favor I don't deserve any nastiness simply because I delayed in replying u. Or I directed u to nairaland. Ya'll have guts.

Power Rangers, keyboard warriors I know u r itching to wanna type... What am I feeling like abi and bla bla bla ... Duh I don't care.. *inserts middle finger Smiley* kikikikikikikikiki e dey pain I know.... Kikikikikikikikiki

Sips tea #kermitmodeactivated

biollar1:
Thanks once again dear...We were able to pay Oakbend cos of the advice u gave Omodadi and I and we sure made use of it to the very Top.

You don't know how happy I was,I am and I will always be cos of that advice.

God bless u and urs immensely.

Oh dear Lord... This makes me happy and glad. God bless u too darling... Kisses

bigfido:
So I also read about renting a car. Here's my advise to you people.

1) if you know you didn't go to a proper driving school here, please don't attempt to rent a car. You might end up presenting driving tickets and receipt of payment as your hospital receipt when you want to renew your visa.

2) do you know road signs very well? The ones written on the floor? If you don't, buy slate for kewu, and start practising it. Just be reciting it like you are learning kewu in Ile kewu.

3) Google maps.. Please learn how to use GPS very well and if you don't have Eztag please always avoid tolls. If you enter one and you see purple light, no, it's not disco light, it's gbese waiting for you in the mail box

4) speed limit in school areas... It's very important to adhere to it. If you see a school bus park and you see the brake light blinking, please just stop behind the bus.. If the bus doesn't move, don't move or overtake it o. If its there for 1hr, just open nairaland to keep yourself entertained

5) Yield. You need to learn this one very well, or else, accident. And insurance is not sere sere

6) make sure you get a proper insurance. It is better than to stammer incase anything happens.

Good luck people

I'm sorry but this post is the post of all posts

Biollar1
Oh sweetie Mwuah mwuah

nefertitiram:
You

Are

Kidding!!!



It goes back to this conversation that came up a while back! The bladdy Zero balance y'all carry about is what yoruba's call Alakoba!

Why? How do you explain the discount? It has fancy names like adjustment, discount etc, but in the VO's head it keeps ringing, who paid for this discount if not the tax payers? What you need from the hospital is a Zero Balance letter / Letter of non_indebtnedness and nt the computer printout showing all the millions that was struck out just for you. To a lay man, it's hogwash looking at figures disappearing from $15,000, adjustment to $3,000, so where did the $12,000 vanish too? Obviously you have $15,000 of services in value which you paid $3,000 so someone must have suffered for the discount.

Even though it makes perfect sense that you got a discount but these people are there to preserve their country's interest and get defensive when they see stuff like this sometimes.

Me thinks hubby should reapply, and just that plenty talk may enter the situation when he's explaining himself and what the discounts mean.

I agree....
The letter from the hospital makes better sense.no way am I going to take that plenty bill paper.
Epidural is straightforward
Dr fee also straightforward
Nicu same
Brown and associates the payment page mayb
Hospital fee the letter from them. Amd the print out of ur payment.. Erm scratch that... Only the letter from d Hospital

Dassall
Cc feddy27