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Eriggadune:
The same girl who hurt me did contact me and unblocked me everywhere. When I asked her why she called at first, she said it was a dare from her friends to call and unblocked me everywhere me and she was drunk so she did as they dared. Then we got talking after Xmas and she said she has called me and that it’s left to me to decide what I want with her.
I just told her I can assist her with money when I have but dating will be a bad idea, over the months she’s been away I’ve sunk really deep into personal growth. I’ve come to realize a lot of red flags I worked on in myself. I am enjoying this solo journey for real and for the first time I can remember, this is the longest time I’ve been single without feeling lonely. She meant to manipulate and punish me, but it’s turned into peaceful solitude for me. I love nairaland, they made me realize I can forge ahead without needing to replace her, she thought I couldn’t live without her cos u made a terrible mistake I now know was a mistake. I showed her the full extent of my love. That was a mistake and I hope guys learn a thing or two from my story and chose growth over distractions.

Akalia:
You can order online and have it delivered via courier. I am not positive o!!! Just a suggestion.

Starz825:
Masturbation destroys the brain and damages the heart.


But come to think of it.....The student pastor was only avoiding fornication but ended up masturbating due to his urge....

bros...that sexual urge can be uncontrollable sometimes for some people....esp for people with high libido.

Now, people mostly advise that you marry....but my question is.....How does a man manages this urge pending the time he gets married...since its not advisable to rush into marriage all cos of sexual intercourse and satisfaction?


Because mehnn...............if you know the amount of this shit going on with christian folks.......u go shock...

Osiris12:
Well done deputy god

Jjjj

Goldrosewine:
Whatever rocks your boat.
People like you were ranting on my previous posts of how I am not real now your low self esteem is making you feel a bold girl putting herself and her craft out there is seeking your x-rated attention right?
[b]Please use your moniker sir[/b]

GoldRose 🍷

Drifter02:
At 25 years, I've never had a proper girlfriend.. might sound like fiction but it's true

I've actively chased girls all my life.. but I've never actually met any that liked me for me..

This was particularly worse in university.. all the girls I met were dumb and were only interested in chasing good grades instead of just actively existing..

Some are even married now and their lives are still robotic and pathetic.. these days they're chasing corporate certifications and more needless difficult things instead of just calming down and living their lives

Interestingly, the only one that had a school cert I met that gave me her number later told after two years (we never had sex btw) that she feels my family won't allow us marry as I had a BSc and she doesn't.. (young girl of 22 ).. naso she break things up. Bro the reason was just weird and strange. I suspect though she has another man she's attracted to.

All the other girls I keep meeting keep using me for money.. rather than bonding emotionally, it's always send me card.. buy me ice cream.. take me out.. stupid nonsensical crap and whatnot

Bro.. I'm just tired. I earn 100k a month and all I do I just sit indoors, jerk off and hate my life.. it's almost true love died with the last century. Without a partner.. my life just feels hollow and meaningless

Samantha125:
You guys are gonna get some of us triggered because we're married to the night shift gang...

ManuelNate1:
Okay, I rili didn't wanna talk about this but it's making my head spin.
Reason... It made me realize that I have a very low IQ that should be almost zero.
Just this evening, about 30 mins ago, I was strolling on my street, on my way back to my apartment.
Of course it was already dark, I mean completely dark except for a few streetlights at strategic points.
So, a bike stopped by, just a few feet away from me, then I heard my name, a female voice. Then I slowed and turned towards the direction, I discovered the bike man was carrying two ladies. Then I tried to shine my phone touch on the faces of the passengers, the two ladies tried to shield their faces from the light rays from my phone touch and I immediately moved the light away from their direction.
Then one of them enquired about the location of a new hotel around the neighbour hood. I didn't know the exact location but I know the same hotel name has about two properties in the area, that is well known.
So, I just directed them to enquire about the hotel they were looking for in one of the nearest company property.
Immediately the bike kicked off, and I continued with my walk, then it rang in my head that one of the ladies called me by my name and cudnt even remember to ask who called my name so I cud know the person who recognized me even in the dark.
I was like wat the f**k! Na so my brain no dey sharp reach?? I just feel so stupid and disappointed with my I.Q.
Omor, this kind IQ, if them measure am, no be minus e go be??
Crying***

Unclebayo:
Hey guys…

Why did we always go with the girls that don’t care about us and leave the ones that has pure heart for us.

A man sent 250k to a lady and she replied with seen and same man sent launch to another lady and the girl wrote a long epistles thanking him and appreciating the love..

But guess what the man will still go with the one that wrote seen..

I’m currently in the show that’s why I don’t blame him… I know a girl that loves me so much but I don’t have feelings for her and I still don’t knows why, this girl can do anything for me to survive Yet I’m not even replying her messages.

Why ? 😢