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The most important on the list should be “know yourself” well enough before taking that commitment.

This one na proper military descendant. Looking at the man’s demeanor one can likely infer he was in the force.

Samantha125:
I'm telling you... I went from attending every church service to attending therapy sessions.

And when I see one of the pastors in public, I'd immediately make a U-turn and take a different route just so they don't see me, sometimes I'd even lock myself in my room for a whole day and isolate myself from everyone... I'm not against Christianity or anything like that, in fact, I enjoyed it, I still go to church every once in a while but the things that I witnessed in the previous churches made me to start questioning everything.

There are wolves in sheep clothing. But I will encourage you to wake up the fire again and know God personally. Attending church is important, look for a bible anchored church and attend.

Samantha125:
I was an invested and dedicated Christian some years back and the things I witnessed in the church the deeper I went left me depressed.

All these well articulated preachings are just smoke and mirrors... I now wish I'd have just remained a church goer instead of being a member and dedicating my time and energy to the church.

But anyways, I wish you well.

Indeed ignorance is bliss.

She is remorseful for leaking her sextape, always quick to copy western habits, forgetting this is Africa. I’m sure at the time she did it to promote her career like Kim kardashan. But while the whites are dumb and promote moral decadence. Africa is all about culture, custom and traditions. Most ladies whose porn or nudes are uploaded online will end up with serious depression much later in life. Na madness(hoe phase). The thrill will fade away and they will regain sanity and won’t be able to turn back the hands of time. Well except the “GREAT RESET” happens again.

I will continue, to say it Tinubu na baba for politics. I mean those guys were so close that El Rufai was instrumental in his ascent.

marlow1962:
If you can't approach a woman (harmless approach) in front of your dad, how will your dad get the notion that you're ageing and becoming a man (abi na your dad wn toast your kids mother for you?) and I believe you're above 20.

Or is it only when you go and get a woman pregnant, that your dad or you will know you're aging?

And sir in dating is act of respect, you don't force it.

I appreciate your input brother, i didn’t think of it that way, was just trying form African child.

Sometime back, a guy created a thread where he talked about things that make you know you are getting old. A few people stated theirs and whilst they were numerous, mine was “ladies referring to me as sir”. Yesterday I went to the pharmacy with my dad, this beautiful nurse just walked towards us greeted us and attended to us, she referred to me as sir all through but we both kept exchanging occasional glances with soft smiles and she using her hand to move her hair to the back of her ear, after we were done I felt the urge to approach her but my dad being there made me respect myself. That’s how we left, but I’m sure I could feel some tension.
Now to the topic at hand, ladies referring to guys as sir is it good or bad in the dating game? We are all mature, so I expect us to act accordingly.

Find ur purpose before u lose it.

She don start brightly and has an achievement to be proud of. My prayer for her is that God protect her from any preek that intends to reset her destiny.

Abeg make hand touch them very well, before u know it they may start infiltrating my beloveth Delta state

Omo this one strong well well
I de even fear to comment before mod ban me

Sadly it happens, love turns sour at some point, but at this stage stop coitus and look for other bonding activities, this will ease tension, then you gradually and honestly have a heart to heart talk and maybe you might figure it out. If it don’t work, then focus on yourself(exercise and make some cool cash) las las everybody go de alright.
Chillax

Egungun be careful. Na express u de go so. Any day wey ur mind reason say Jesus na scam start de cry to God for mercy. Don’t become a fool.

Dtruthspeaker:
When God don close book on top person na so dem must do die

It is well my bro

fyneboi79:
Make una free the guy life don tire am...e wan marry active ho put for house? She go stab am if he prevent her from knacking around... Bet am?

Make tomorrow no de too late for that guy to locate master Jesus.

advanceDNA:
What has this Bible verse got to do with marrying an active olosho....Jesus wey u dey quite, did he marry the olosho??

Shuu! My brother the mata weak u too? 😂😂. Captain save a ho! Don’t know Wetin e wan put hand inside.

Mariangeles:
Every man na simp to at least one woman.
Even you, so forget. 🙂

Just pray make woman wey hold your mvmv button no manipulate you.

Abeg leave them, they never know anything yet 😂. But men don’t pray but stand your ground on female manipulation, just do and say nothing when the heat starts otherwise they will guilt u and begin control.

chiiraq802:
I mean for centuries they've also preyed on the innocence of men and devoured.... Haven't you heard or read where men sponsors women with there time nd finances...and after everything dey get disappointed by the other gender.....

It's gud wen the other gender are the ones lying n cheating baaa....she get lucky self!, if na me, ah for scope her to sell her Father house.... carri the money tuwama

😹😹😹

chiiraq802:
@mimi jaja!!

You need to give me dat guy man number, mk I learn work.

Na man dat guyman be.

You call lieing and cheating “guyman”? I mean he actually preyed on her innocence and devoured her. Not gentlemanly, men can be men and still be kind.

Thereedemer:
Oga na same bible talk say he without a sin cast the first stone.

Bible go whyne u , tinubu go attack you and trump go still dpot una
So no panic

Cultivating discipline is for your own benefit, not for me.

There is this worrisome trend amongst nairaland guys from the numerous threads that grace romanceland, one can accurately conclude that “sexual indiscipline” is a common denominator in almost all their complaints. If you do not control “lust” as a man, it will ultimately end up destroying you.
No other demon (addiction) is as dangerous as lust, it will slowly start off as harmless fun until it gradually erode your sense of reasoning which is very risky as you will end up being a role model to someone consciously or unconsciously.
Yesterday I came across a post that brought me tears, where by a young man got a prostitute pregnant and she aborted it and now they are about to get married and live in the same neighborhood.

https://www.nairaland.com/8487898/finally-getting-married#136297287

If this is not madness then I don’t know what else to say. As for the young man, all I can say to you is desist from embarking on such suicidal mission.
If you must be foolish and proceed then better hold Jesus strong e get why.
I will leave with this word of God.

The mouth of an adulterous woman is a deep pit; a man who is under the LORD’s wrath falls into it. Proverb:22vs14

illicit:
Ok now

Kafayat.

That night when she was with the LGI, he tried to share a room with her but she refused. She made him sleep in his car.

That was the truth. She recorded their conversations.

I heard the man tell her that it was because of this opportunity that he transferred me to a very far place.

I had not thought that he had a hand in my posting.

But I was surprised at some other things I found out much later.

So when she called me. I was still at the RAC centre and watching Mathematicians and statisticians doing their thing. There was a big paper result on the ground and you can actually walk on it. They were looking at numbers and recording as the results come in...

It was wonderful.

I told her to stay put in the hotel till day break. When day breaks. She could locate a better hotel because people were leaving already.

If it was me and I found myself in such situation I am sure I would have spent the night at the palace or anywhere else at the Kings expense, I was a corper so I would just knock his big gate and explain my predicament.

The palace was new and I know the rooms much be nice. Buy I never went there till I was posted to another town, my PPA.


Now my APO we went to town, surprisingly shops remained open and there were people outside even though there was still tight security.

At a particular shop. We are amala and gbegiri with Ewedu and assorted meat.

Maybe I drank beer I can't remember


From there, I called Tunrayo, she said she's fine and would find me once it's morning... Do that we can go back... But we didn't go back, stay tuned

My APO wants to sleep. Why can't we walk up to the palace here and see a room then... Lol I don't even know the palace there...

I just asked for a hotel, a nice hotel. Somebody took us halfway and pointed to a beautiful building, well lit from the distance... It was enticing... We couldn't walk... We kind of ran towards it...

I will follow u now, return the Favour my gee.

When ladies in my area start referring to me as sir after greeting me. In Joey’s voice “God please don’t do this to us, don’t let us get old 😭😭😭”.

Na that man for suit na una suppose to fear pass. Their teacher I suspect.

Bimpe. You are giving out too much info. Have some respite woman. Na Africa we de.

After the fall of man God cursed both gender, to the woman “pains during childbirth and submitting to her husband”, for the man it was “sweat before he feeds himself n family”. I wonder why my gender de look for who go carry the curse on their behalf. 😂😂

God bless Jagaban. Na only a few people still de hate, but las las they go get reason to happy. Amen
Countries with vision wan begin gather Naira, if u like de wasteful with yours.

Bsssss:
@the last part: You need to stop this thing you are smoking! Not good for you.

Who said anything about smoking? Sir?