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Swears bro, ladies have it easy, majority tho, imagine a fine lady with over 20 toasters, if she sabi play her game tight, she can be collecting at least 40k from them all every week. But chatting would be very tedious. Hmm I really pity ladies, in my next life I will still be a man. If chatting too much can cause a headache for me hw much more a girl who has to entertain at least 20 men trying to spoil her life.

Iamdbull:
Let’s face it the basic the thing a man wants from a woman is sex while what a woman wants is money.

Now is the crazy part, woman can ask her dad for money, she can ask her brother, her uncle, her mum, her sis and literally anyone for money, but here’s the funny thing a man can’t ask any of these people for sex, he can only ask a few specific women for money.


This is why after break up someone women seems to move on easily and don’t even mention sex cos we know women can get sex, anytime, anywhere, anyway.

What do you feel about this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jd6YLPH4vYM?si=7vIddyDbpQ1yVpMB

Dbull nice hard work on dat physique, do more of pull-overs and skull-crusher immediately afterwards with any weight you’re comfortable with.

Stephen0mozzy:
Looks like you believe that you don't deserve love and happiness. Looks like there's a void in your life that you're trying desperately to use this relationship with her to fill, even when the relationship is unhealthy.

My guy, Love is like the Sun, if e Rise from the East, e go also Set for the West.... But it appears that you are the only one rising and setting the sun all alone in that relationship. At what point this thing you think is love that always makes you go back to her when when she treats you poorly, will one day turn to something so evil and dark that you either hurt yourself so terribly if not fatally.

Heal my man.

No matter how much you love a person, you must first love yourself more. So ask yourself, why will the "affection" you have for someone causing an affliction in you?

Then It's not love, looks like Stockholm Syndrome - you have become accustomed to the toxicity, it drives you - the new drug. If so, what you need is to take a break from her... Think about it as soon detox.

You cannot find happiness in any human being, except first through yourself.

Can one give out what they don’t have? To love a person right you must first love yourself, but this right is a man being controlled by hormones in guise of the cliche “love”.

budaatum:
My own question is what emotion does he lack the will to control that is making his fiancee that he has been together with for over 2 years and planning to take the next step of marriage arrangements with to be blocking him? Or do you think she mad or something, and she's reacting to nothing?

Toolegit123, what did you do to your fiancee to make her block you?!

According to op, d girl in question doesn’t love him (disrespectful) but he can’t walk away even when he tries (easy sex), my suspicion na “see finish”. Maybe op dances and moonwalk at the sight of moist sugar, being overly excited at the sight of pussy could damage your frame as a man.

Recommendation:
Quit and work on himself, add value to himself.

budaatum:
Why are you disrespecting us with this lie? Do you think it is not obvious that you do not "really want my peace of mind back"?

It in fact makes me think you are the one who might be "toxic and disrespectful" and traumatising someone who has already blocked you on whatsapp and walked away from you because they want their peace from you.

It's either that or you are seeking advice for her, in which case your thread should actually be, How Can She Walk Away From My Toxic Relationship?

Bro still in his feelings. He lacks the will to control his emotions, but then emotions are not masculine nor feminine, they’re simply humans he just need to start building one for his mental health. Na Wetin nearly make Ekene mad op de joke with.

Just do it like a man, ignore her and meet other ladies, you’re just emotionally attached to the version of the connection that got to you and you keep hoping will come back. Wake up!

Bros if you want to quit, just take ur mind off it and drink loads of water to hydrate your throat always

ErnestNc:
You're talking off. "Woman " in this context is the kind with romantic interest.

Do you think people truly change? If you know you have no intentions to wife her, Don’t have anything to do with her, cos her comeback pass surface level. You deserve someone better, someone who loves and cherish you, who will make you never doubt your worth even when at your lowest. Good luck 👍🏼

MatrixReloaded:
All this epistle reeks unforgiven spirit.
What has a woman got to do with your feelings ?
If you can't invest in a woman someday you will invest in your daughters.
They are equally women and you will understand that to be a man no be to open mouth "Waaaa"

No sir! The op has the right to decide to forgive her without accepting her back into his life. Carry on with your life op, don’t be a back up plan for any lady. If she leaves once never let her back in.

Chai. I really feel for the man, Konji go do nearly disable him. Please release the wife before una push the man commit sin 😭

Diamond098454:
Everything is not money

You can have money but the happiness is not there.

Bless you. Poverty mindset cannot think like this, everything is survival to them and no growth in view.

poshestmina:
She didn't have sex with you since and now you want her to defile herself and covenant to God to please you?

Them use f^^k swear for some of una?
She should get you arrested and made to sign Restrictions order.

I like the fact you didn’t generalize. This guy is messing up a lot but lust Can’t let him see this. Babe prepared for every worse scenario

Julibet:
Cleanliness isn't a deal breaker? Na your type the children go dy get lapa lapa and ring worm for head. Tufia.

He is the clean on, the logical thing to do is limit visits to her place and only invite her over. When una marry you as the man will use all those your neatness to compliment her, except he no tell us the full gist, cos I repeat that is a very lame reason for breakup. Don’t push good people away over trivial issues, he will learn make he enjoy fess.

New Toto de hungry u, i understand. Free agent enjoy ur life. Na d babe Bleep up yo let you see her finish. Cos dats a very lame excuse for a breakup 😂, clearly u compliment each other.

Hope ur stepmother never jazz u? Cos those rams are too small for that amount. Ur mom is right, Abi u wan believe say stepmom love u pass ur real mom?

Rhymesy:
I am currently dating two women. The one I love most just finished from Federal Polytechnic, Nekede, last year and she's currently serving. The other one just finished nursing science school. Both of them are unique in their own ways. At this point, I want to be serious in my life and stop playing games. Both of them have asked me to meet their parents, but I keep delaying the move just because of fear of making the wrong choice. I'm just confused. Nairalanders, waiting I go do

If you can sideline sex for now and go on your knees, the right one will reveal herself.

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

If your intentions are genuine leave her and relax your mind, they always gravitate back. But simple advice since her mom doesn’t support ur dating her just forget about the girl cos it will cause issues tomorrow.

marcusverum:
Every man will face a season where he has nothing to show. No money. No status. No progress visible to the outside world. That season is not a curse. It is a filter.

The woman who stays during that season is not staying for what you represent. She is staying for you. That is the rarest thing a man can find.

The woman who appears after the harvest is not loyal. She is opportunistic. She timed her arrival perfectly and she knows it. The problem is most men are so relieved by her presence that they forget she was absent during the drought.

Never reward the harvest woman with what only the drought woman deserves. Your loyalty, your commitment and your ring belong to the woman who saw nothing and stayed anyway.

If she was not there when you had nothing, she has no claim on what you build.

True story bro…. However it must be pointed out that she must activate her free will and chose to not coerced to stay nor manipulated to stay. She must have options and still chose to stay, Thats the woman worth marrying. But Thats no excuse to accept mediocre life as a man, always keep striving to be better than yesterday. Get money because even good girl fit turn bar girl without adequate maintenance.

This is a very demonic forum, be careful the things you share here don’t allow people project calamity into Your household. Now is the time to seek God’s face, ask Him for forgiveness and tarry in His presence. Na una sins as children don de begin affect mama. I pray God gives you understanding.

Everything you said about love is how genuine love feels like. People only do different when they are selfish. As a man, it’s your job to take your time and study very well before investing. God bless you if you get the right one, but the wrong one will make you a philosopher like some people.

It depends ariesbull, if it’s scholarship then yes for me, otherwise stay back home and build with the money you Intend traveling with. My friend spent over 15million to secure admission to UK, since there he has been complaining about everything and right now he is a care worker and he says it’s not easy, from what he said, the system is rigged to make sure you are over there at least 8-10 years before you can happily say I’m in 🇬🇧. I just asked him one question “ what if you had got a house, marry and double and start building your hustle with your wife genuinely, in that 10 years, which will make you feel more happy, uk or Naija. He was down but I just had to encourage him that now that he is there, he must prepare to do any dirty job to gather money and come back home so long it’s not illegal. Last we spoke he has gone incommunicado on Naija girls, said once they hear abroad billings follow.

Op as you don see am, the fight is over. Just keep thanking God for victory and end your prayer session with 7 resounding “Hallelujah” Thats the victory chant

This one de campaign for Atiku lowkey

Yemite132:
My name his Ola from Lagos Epe,,I’m single with no kids and love having sex every day and go for many rounds and cause of this girls always leave me so anyone interested can contact me on

09030623315

Your life is very empty. Find purpose or that many rounds will drain the life force out of you.

Op you are not far from the truth, last year I met one beautiful Igbo damsel, when I say beautiful, words can’t do justice. However anytime I know her money miraculously vanishes from my hand and my ride request will slow up for a month, she doesn’t turn me down when she visits, beauty made me not to pay attention to this happenings, I was just blaming bad roads, fuel and expensive economy. After about 6 months with her, I was smoking my beautiful weed one evening when the pattern flashed before my eyes. After that my bro I began fearing women in general until I marry. I fear the man wey de fornicate at will, when they say after God, fear women!. I just blocked her from all angles, most times I’m tempted to call her because of her skills, but my future is very important to me. If I must back again I must target my pastor grown up daughters. No more unordained family for me well except money is involved n singular lady.

ClassicEvilSpir:
Several times, I've watched videos where the woman (or man) would describe how they are facing poverty with their children, how they can't even find a place to stay because they can't afford it, yet proceed to have even more kids.

I am a student, I make good money (Nigerian standard), yet I can't imagine caring for 1 child with my finances. However, people who earn less than one tenth of my monthly profit continue to have kids.

What is the mindset behind this?

Cos lack of money causes boredom and na only sex de give poor people joy. Just obs wella, even if the woman de use am insult the man as the only thing wey he sabi as per se “nacking”, yet she always gets pregnant still. A case of one man living in a one room apartment, had 14 children them when we were small. Almost all the daughters were victims of teenage pregnancy except the one the aunt took away. The guys all smoke and drink anything. As a man try get okay before you think marriage, so you don’t teach your kids nonsense early on. How do you get intimate without your kids eavesdropping, when d nacking too much biology is bound to take over your innocent children. Konji no know age, be responsible out there.

I will be a fool to have such money and think about traveling, with something like that, people will be trooping into my village in their numbers to purchase diff species of catfish.

Diamond098454:
Mami water dey worry you

When you tell them to flee youthful lust, they will claim woke. 😂

If obi really thinks the north will support him over Atiku , then he should come buy a flying horse from me. This man never learns, the north are making serious mockery of him but he has no idea.