₦airaland Forum

Before we start. What about your father? Are u close to ur father? He can help you immensely at this repulsive stage of ur life. Fathers are importantly for building confidence in young men, a trait many ladies find attractive whether you are rich or poor as a man.

Confidence will make you weigh the words that comes from your mouth before speaking. People price and rate you by what comes from your mouth.

Samantha125:
You guys are gonna get some of us triggered because we're married to the night shift gang...

The quit nairaland for your own sanity.

ManuelNate1:
Okay, I rili didn't wanna talk about this but it's making my head spin.
Reason... It made me realize that I have a very low IQ that should be almost zero.
Just this evening, about 30 mins ago, I was strolling on my street, on my way back to my apartment.
Of course it was already dark, I mean completely dark except for a few streetlights at strategic points.
So, a bike stopped by, just a few feet away from me, then I heard my name, a female voice. Then I slowed and turned towards the direction, I discovered the bike man was carrying two ladies. Then I tried to shine my phone touch on the faces of the passengers, the two ladies tried to shield their faces from the light rays from my phone touch and I immediately moved the light away from their direction.
Then one of them enquired about the location of a new hotel around the neighbour hood. I didn't know the exact location but I know the same hotel name has about two properties in the area, that is well known.
So, I just directed them to enquire about the hotel they were looking for in one of the nearest company property.
Immediately the bike kicked off, and I continued with my walk, then it rang in my head that one of the ladies called me by my name and cudnt even remember to ask who called my name so I cud know the person who recognized me even in the dark.
I was like wat the f**k! Na so my brain no dey sharp reach?? I just feel so stupid and disappointed with my I.Q.
Omor, this kind IQ, if them measure am, no be minus e go be??
Crying***

Op, the fact that you were aware of your mistake is in itself intelligence. Don’t beat yourself up. Grow at your own pace.

Op , you are very funny. Just one month and you don shift light beam on yourself? At times sha it’s good to pause and refresh your brain with that deep lengthy post workout sleep.
Short story: I stayed clean for a year and six months, I was slowly drifting into the rat race without knowing, I had myself a boring job, until one night after coming back from work I kissed her for the first time in a long time. Next week I quit my job got a car and started uber, it’s been almost a year now and I don’t regret my decision to blaze up.
Like someone said up there, life is in phases and men in stages, don’t be quick to label anything God has made bad.

Kissing and soft tender smooches and both falling asleep feels more intimate than sex itself.

Having a sound and complete family who believes in you as a man. It is very vital if you must succeed.

First tho g u need to work on is “Patience”.

T.OT.0 na ur mate? Una no get respect for this nairaland o. Better respect women to get closer to God.

Unclebayo:
Hey guys…

Why did we always go with the girls that don’t care about us and leave the ones that has pure heart for us.

A man sent 250k to a lady and she replied with seen and same man sent launch to another lady and the girl wrote a long epistles thanking him and appreciating the love..

But guess what the man will still go with the one that wrote seen..

I’m currently in the show that’s why I don’t blame him… I know a girl that loves me so much but I don’t have feelings for her and I still don’t knows why, this girl can do anything for me to survive Yet I’m not even replying her messages.

Why ? 😢

Advise:
“keep women u love for fun purposes n keep the one who loves you for marriage”.
Those ladies that can move mountains for u grow extremely cold when dem no send again.

God bless Jagaban. Soon Warri seaport go begin work and Warri go return to her rightful place as an Elite city.

Guy man, u de waste de go small small but you think people of nairaland really care cos of few likes? Bro look for something to keep you busy so u can have little time to judge others and more time to focus on yourself. When u start interacting with ladies platonically u will knw say big tech babes full Nigeria. I knw a keke driver who got married to a lash technician and introduced him to her business, they’ve been married for over 6yrs nw and are very easily in the middle class. Bro, wen u get close to some Naija babes and they bet n like u, it’s a whole new world entirely, make I let u knw say babes get connections pass guys… After God ehn, fear (respect) woman.

This man don finally go chop efor, when they tell u to stay away from fornicating u will say “NO”. Now see how a mature man like ursef is torn between Konji and common sense. #confused entity. 😂😂

So small shaking like dis u don de begging turn blood for blood So una two no fit row together for life? 😂

This man here is an example of why discipline is vital as a man. Learn to discipline urself so u can be a slave to none.

SpaceX:
you still have the choice of a free agent lifestyle.

Free agent no de pay at old age. Na woman wey u build up with and una two Labour together towards one future and see una children stand for themselves at old age na him worth the stress. Commitments must be equal from both parties. I guess priorities shift with more experience.

The earlier men make peace with the fact that last last na imperfect woman we must end up with, the better for our mental health. This na just ur redflags for the current stage u are.

Na today I confirm say this man get sense. Funny as it sounds, Nigeria needs a ministry of religious affairs where they will pay watchmen to protect the state.
This news on suffering na hoax, cos as long as u get something doing legit, u will be alright. Dollar induced suffering is just a hoax.

Yes he is right by calling it forex cos it deals with (foreign exchange), and yes that shit is really demonic. Na my journey there make me confirm say principalities de control this world. Make all of una forget those big big grammar, if e sure for u upload ur trading history for the past 3 months both win and loss make I tell u ur future.

Don’t mind all these gen z pipo who think cos they woke, it automatically eradicates culture. They will all learn the hard way.

God bless Jagaban for coming at a critical time as this and giving us hope

Generational zone 😂

The only way I can support you is to tell u the bitter truth. “Who de gamble no get future, same with yahoo”

To build confidence, build a set of healthy weekly routine and stick to it. Avoid consuming lustful content. The joy from doing all these will shoot up ur confidence.

This is an eyesore, Benin still continues to amaze me how stagnant it had been after so many years. Could it be the blood of the innocent fighting back.

This one na brother scarr. But really this is animal cruelty

You don’t understand tradition

As a man of you don’t heal, you will damage every woman you come across. Stop blaming women search inward and work on yourself.

People Dey wicked. Those that liked the post should pls explain their reason 🤦🏿

Keep ur shit private bro. The “evil eye” is real.