freecocoa: Excuse me, I think you need to modify this post because it doesn't apply to every lady.

In fact if this your advice eventually works for the OP then I think the girl is not right for him, she was prolly just looking for someone to play around with, what kinda nonsense character and shakara is that one? Just why da feck would I turn around to go looking for a guy I practically chased away?

Only kids who don't know what they want would behave like that.