lynpetra: Start ignoring her partially,gurls no dey dey comfortable when an admirer starts giving them little attention.don't
be surprised wen she gives you a call after sometime


And if she calls like,"hello long time.Hope you are ok....blah blah...".No rush o.And don't ever stretch the convo.End the call by telling her you wud call her back,bit don't call till after one week .When finally you call,tell her"....besides I got something for you when I shopped recently..."Don't allow her to come and visit you to take the gift,drive,hand her the gift and be on your way ASAP.Promise to visit her only to change your mind,believe me its painful to sleep with make up after a disappointment at night .Allow her to call you,but promise to call but don't call,just send cool messages ONLY late at night(that impression wud give her a wonderful feeling ),My brother stretch her heart and I tell you,you go chop her kpomo well well eventually to make up for lost time.

Mondisweets: how dare u forget Mr Biggs

Mondisweets: This is how i want to be wooed... Ekiti style

Before he even say hie to me, in fact before he even looks at me for more than 5secs he should buy me N500 recharge card.
The next day he should go and fetch water for my compound and get firewood.
Then after that he should take my father out for hot drinks and if my father approves of him then he move on to the next step
He takes my mother out to the market to buy food stuffs
If my mother is impressed then he should give me money to do my hair, if im impressed then i will take him to church
After church he will take my friends and i for shoppings
If we like what he bought then he can go back to my father to ask him for my hand in marriage
If my father accepts then he will have to come back to me then i will tell him whether i want him or not
I dont settle for less

orgasticdance:
Read The Game by Neill Strauss, it might help you( My hit rate with chicks improved after reading that book honestly)
No one should be the love of your life, at least not when they don't even feel half that way about you yet.
You're only setting yourself up to be crushed emotionally.
She doesn't send you? Big deal. That's part of the whole hustle...Double your rejection rate by getting out and meeting more women who met your criteria. In only a matter of time you'd find someone who feels nearly as much as you do about her.

Tex42:
Hey! What about silver bird cinema?!

freecocoa: May your days be long my brother, this is just the point I've been trying to make.

I can now clearly see that these men are the cause of their own wahala, a woman has said no and instead of you to let go, you are thinking of buying her and when there's no more money you still expect her to stay, its just really funny sha.

tensor777:
You are still talking anoda thing. Those babes following P Diddy around are what are called groupies who are ready to lay it down for him merely for the ego trip and bragging rights it gives them amongst their mates. There is nothing new about that.

Mondisweets: This is how i want to be wooed... Ekiti style

Before he even say hie to me, in fact before he even looks at me for more than 5secs he should buy me N500 recharge card.
The next day he should go and fetch water for my compound and get firewood.
Then after that he should take my father out for hot drinks and if my father approves of him then he move on to the next step
He takes my mother out to the market to buy food stuffs
If my mother is impressed then he should give me money to do my hair, if im impressed then i will take him to church
After church he will take my friends and i for shoppings
If we like what he bought then he can go back to my father to ask him for my hand in marriage
If my father accepts then he will have to come back to me then i will tell him whether i want him or not
I dont settle for less

ballabriggs:

They are all over him because of the power and authority he commands.

P Diddy is even too much. Seun Osewa can have a basket full of the ladies in this forum. Fact!

Seun is even too much. Sexkid will have loads of girls in this his romance section. Not because of money but the power and authority he commands here. Fact! Why else do you think he is not willing to give up the MOD job.

WHAT IF HE DONT HAVE ANY

freecocoa: Excuse me, I think you need to modify this post because it doesn't apply to every lady.

In fact if this your advice eventually works for the OP then I think the girl is not right for him, she was prolly just looking for someone to play around with, what kinda nonsense character and shakara is that one? Just why da feck would I turn around to go looking for a guy I practically chased away?

Only kids who don't know what they want would behave like that.

Fynestboi: ^{WHAT IF HE DONT HAVE ANY}

Mondisweets: and the biggest box of popcorn

gothrones:

My sister, I learned my bitter lesson from experience. I was in a "relationship" with a woman who used the crap out of me. Although I deduced that she had no affections for me, I stupidly tried to force my way into her heart. I have no problem buying gifts for prospective partners, but if I do not see a sign that she is into me, I am buying nothing. I met this lady in college a few weeks ago who told me that her birthday was in a few days and also demanded that I surprise her. I gave her an expensive gift on her birthday: I texted her "Happy Birthday" at 12:01 AM. She appreciated my gesture, but she thought there was more. She asked me if I bought anything for her and I replied, "No, we just met. Why would I buy you anything?" She hasn't called me since. LMAO.

Fellas, you need to learn. Just as some of you only want sex, some ladies also want to just use you for money. No fall mugu o. And also realize that buying gifts for a woman does not obligate her to give up her sugar walls. Use your head!

CFCfan:


I wanna woo you "Ekiti style".

oyb:

i think the dude just wants to get laid

snthesis: hi Guys,
i just found the love of my life , but the tins is she doesnt send me.- i have sent flowers, bought chocolate, wrote poems but so far nothin for me, pls abeg how do i woo/toast her o, i cant sleep, eat, -pls save a brotha-tanx

p.s
Babes, how wud u like to be toasted, thanks

Mondisweets: This is how i want to be wooed... Ekiti style

Before he even say hie to me, in fact before he even looks at me for more than 5secs he should buy me N500 recharge card.
The next day he should go and fetch water for my compound and get firewood.
Then after that he should take my father out for hot drinks and if my father approves of him then he move on to the next step
He takes my mother out to the market to buy food stuffs
If my mother is impressed then he should give me money to do my hair, if im impressed then i will take him to church
After church he will take my friends and i for shoppings
If we like what he bought then he can go back to my father to ask him for my hand in marriage
If my father accepts then he will have to come back to me then i will tell him whether i want him or not
I dont settle for less

ballabriggs:
They are all over him because of the power and authority he commands.
P Diddy is even too much. Seun Osewa can have a basket full of the ladies in this forum. Fact!
Seun is even too much. Sexkid will have loads of girls in this his romance section. Not because of money but the power and authority he commands here. Fact! Why else do you think he is not willing to give up the MOD job.
My point here is that this young man is all over the place. He does not seem to have a grip of the situation, reason why the lady is kicking him around. He appears weak to this lady and he needs to come as one that commands some respect.

Mondisweets: This is how i want to be wooed... Ekiti style

Before he even say hie to me, in fact before he even looks at me for more than 5secs he should buy me N500 recharge card.
The next day he should go and fetch water for my compound and get firewood.
Then after that he should take my father out for hot drinks and if my father approves of him then he move on to the next step
He takes my mother out to the market to buy food stuffs
If my mother is impressed then he should give me money to do my hair, if im impressed then i will take him to church
After church he will take my friends and i for shoppings
If we like what he bought then he can go back to my father to ask him for my hand in marriage
If my father accepts then he will have to come back to me then i will tell him whether i want him or not
I dont settle for less

ballabriggs:

They are all over him because of the power and authority he commands.

P Diddy is even too much. Seun Osewa can have a basket full of the ladies in this forum. Fact!

Seun is even too much. Sexkid will have loads of girls in this his romance section. Not because of money but the power and authority he commands here. Fact! Why else do you think he is not willing to give up the MOD job.

My point here is that this young man is all over the place. He does not seem to have a grip of the situation, reason why the lady is kicking him around. He appears weak to this lady and he needs to come as one that commands some respect.

snthesis: hi Guys,
i just found the love of my life , but the tins is she doesnt send me.- i have sent flowers, bought chocolate, wrote poems but so far nothin for me, pls abeg how do i woo/toast her o, i cant sleep, eat, -pls save a brotha-tanx

p.s
Babes, how wud u like to be toasted, thanks

tensor777:
That's the truth bros. Friendship is not by force.

ballabriggs:

Abi o he might even be a pauper. But check how the ladies are all over him. Power and authority.

Mondisweets: oya lets see how far you will go

freecocoa: I've come to the conclusion that most of the guys on this thread are prolly kids, immature or just plain mugus, how can't you just tell when a lady isn't interested?

Even when a lady plays hard to get sef, the signs that she wants you are always there.

I tire o.

gothrones:
stop writing poems, for you are no longer in primary school. Also, stop with the flowers, she is not a goat.

Mondisweets: This is how i want to be wooed... Ekiti style

Before he even say hie to me, in fact before he even looks at me for more than 5secs he should buy me N500 recharge card.
The next day he should go and fetch water for my compound and get firewood.
Then after that he should take my father out for hot drinks and if my father approves of him then he move on to the next step
He takes my mother out to the market to buy food stuffs
If my mother is impressed then he should give me money to do my hair, if im impressed then i will take him to church
After church he will take my friends and i for shoppings
If we like what he bought then he can go back to my father to ask him for my hand in marriage
If my father accepts then he will have to come back to me then i will tell him whether i want him or not
I dont settle for less

tensor777:

And he bolded is the gospel truth. From her actions and reactions, a man can always tell if a girl is into him or not.