Crime › Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Fixey: 8:52pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
That's the point. Trauma induced decisions. I'm done with relationships forever. He hasn't just had his way, if you make this your resolve, then he also went away with your soul and you're under his spell.
However the grief and pain, we must be careful about the resolutions we make during these moments because those decisions aren't purely ours but what wound influenced us in becoming.
Far from it for me to ever declare support for a rapist. I'm saying it will hurt for a while. Not just the biological advantage he took from you, but the violated trust and betrayal and the deep emotional scars that would occur. I'm merely telling you to not give into the blackmail the hurting process is forcing on you by simply yelling you not to allow the pain determine your essence, womanhood and future.
If we open ourselves to healing to find salve for our battered and wounded souls, life could just surprise us. Who knows.. The acknowledgement of pain and the process that leads to pain may turn around to be the critical ingredient that makes us come into greater revelation and application of ourselves some time later in future.
I hope you find the healing you deserve
Peace.
The Sage |
Career › Re: No Body Care About Who Start It First by Fixey: 8:50pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Preach it |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Uber/taxify Driver Wanted. by Fixey: 6:45pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Saved |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 5:49pm On Feb 07, 2021*. Modified: 6:20pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
plaindealer: And you still have time to sit on NL spewing rubbish and beating chest..
Liars and comedians..
 . When you're a Ceo,you maintain the vision why the team does the work. Enjoy your ignorance in peace. Idle vile soul |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Product Review Writer Needed by Fixey: 5:37pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
GoldmanHarry: Attached, bro. That's you saying I refused to pay you. .. ... Now check those handle and check mine. Go see an optician for your recovery Good day. Next time don't make false accusations |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Product Review Writer Needed by Fixey: 5:33pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
GoldmanHarry: Mate, you're replying to my job ads- this one and the other one "Copywrites Needed." I am not your FedeliMaldik or whatever the guy who scammed you is. Delete these! Show me where I was the one who first established contact with you accusing you. Make the screenshot and send it |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Copywriters Needed by Fixey: 5:32pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
GoldmanHarry: Man, you replied to this ad and the new one I posted "Product Review Writer Needed." Screenshot where I contacted you first accusing you. I'm waiting |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Product Review Writer Needed by Fixey: 5:27pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
GoldmanHarry: Please, delete this false claim when you've confirmed that I am not your FedeliMaldik. I have hired a handful of writers here and have paid them duely. . Did I I'm at the first place reply or mention you. Respond? Cause you're the one now accusing me of being an accuser. Did I in anywhere accuse you. Answer me? |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Copywriters Needed by Fixey: 5:18pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
GoldmanHarry: You replied to my ad that I didn't pay you. I only know one guy who wrote a horrible 1200 piece for me and assumed it was you. I use one number, message me there to confirm and send a screenshot of the chat (if you previously had worked with me) .... Are you alright . Show me where I ever quoted you in the first place |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Copywriters Needed by Fixey: 5:14pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
I was on my thread. Someone quoted me the reason he refused to make payment for project done. I simply replied the individual accordingly. |
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Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Copywriters Needed by Fixey: 5:06pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
GoldmanHarry: You wrote a poor article I didn't use and you expect me to pay you for that? Don't think so, man. If you find your article anywhere, then call me a scam. Otherwise, go get better with your skills. Blessings, bro.
Lastly, as a proof you wrote a nonsensical article see the clumsy mistake you made on this sentence. I refused to "may" payment. Wow! Kudos, man. Interesting From Clients wife had an accident To You've not heard from client To I am blocked until whenever you hear from client To Coldly as the psychotic I am, I wrote a poor article. What a pleasant excuse I promised you that the blood that went into the work will be the judgement on your head. I am not broke. I suffered temporary loss Your pain will be more severe FidelMalik continue changing handles |
Literature › Re: Scam Alert by Fixey(op): 4:51pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Be wary of the thief |
Investment › Re: Scam Alert by Fixey(op): 4:41pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Be wary of the thief |
Literature/Writing Ads › Re: Scam Alert by Fixey(op): 4:40pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Be wary of the thief |
Business › Re: Scam Alert by Fixey(op): 4:39pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Be wary of the thief |
Politics › Re: Drama As Gov. Makinde Exits Oyo PDP Whatsapp Platform In Anger Over Comment On I by Fixey: 1:25pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
MrPolitics: How are you people even believing this? There is no proof of anything. I can make up a chat like this and label it as PDP group chat I disbelieve. I'm addressing it as though it happened |
Business › Re: Nigeria Startup Piggyvest Pays Out Ninety Five Billion Naira To Savers by Fixey: 1:24pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Shows the type of economic activities the nation engages in. 95 billion with not much significant robust economic productivity but mere petty trading. What a shame? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Benin Republic Bans Fulani Herdsmen From Entering Country, Says BILMPAN by Fixey: 1:22pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
You see. |
Politics › Re: Drama As Gov. Makinde Exits Oyo PDP Whatsapp Platform In Anger Over Comment On I by Fixey: 1:19pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Person go quote Obinnau tire on serious issues he won't respond. Mtcheew |
Politics › Re: Drama As Gov. Makinde Exits Oyo PDP Whatsapp Platform In Anger Over Comment On I by Fixey: 1:16pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Snitch everywhere.
Why is this in public domain and not passed through the appropriate channels to demand appropriate response. He had the right to leave the group. The group was a party discussion group to pull together his party towards service delivery not to stir acrimonious feelings and disaffection within the group. Nigerians should be educated to understand what " appropriatey " means in its truest form.. Pettiness everywhere. |
Politics › Re: Abuja Rail Running Below 100km/h Because We Don’t Want To Kill Cows –amaechi by Fixey: 1:06pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Dey deceive yourself dey go. Slave |
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Investment › Re: What's The Way Forward? by Fixey: 11:54am On Feb 07, 2021 |
It's clamping down on southern youths business so their Northern youths won't be too distant from them. Be wise youths. They are intent on taking the advantage. |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 11:31am On Feb 07, 2021 |
lahizak: Lol. The facts dat u always result to insults shows ur level of stupidity. And it was my fault to actually think I can av an educative chat with a clown. For ur information LCC is a business and the money they give govt is part of d reason u buy bread at 100naira rather than 200naira. As usual. Stories of slavish empire stoogies. I leave you in the dust. Fulls THE DAY OF THE REFERENDUM IS FAST APPROACHING. WE CAN'T WAIT TO UNBUNDLE OURSELVES AND RID OURSELVES OF YOUR COWARDICE SLAVISH FOOLISHNESS HERITAGE |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 11:18am On Feb 07, 2021 |
lahizak: What u wrote is actually total rubbish. Lagos is still d best State in Nigeria. People go dere in numbers bcoz its one of d few cities dat can make a nobody somebody and toll gate fee in a little way contribute to Dat, u might not see it but it is true. And Sega did d best thing he could av done at that moment. Why will dey hold on to d gate after dey are done with the physical investigation of it? Imagine na u own d toll gate, won't u sue them for holding ur property after they are done. You will claim d panel is been sentimentally bias to u and that will lead to d disbarment of d panel as no court will allow a bias panel. Our emotions are high and if we no thread carefully, dats Wat d govt will use to end d panel Smiles I was born in Lagos. Schooled entirely in the SW But funny enough I've never claimed to be Lagosian. Want Lagos destroyed nor consider my place of actual origin in any form of competition in Lagos. You may continue on the path of hatred and vile competition your father's placed you upon and continue to bare the burden of their lies and antics. My dear. Do you know the New York bridge was one of the first architectural governmental and state edifices in the world where the idea of concessions in constructions was done. I will give you a slice of history training this morning. Go do your research on that bridge. And see how it's financials were lay bare That's roughly around 100-250 years ago. Now if you can give anyone an audited report on the economic profiling of the toll gate, I'll deactivate this account. Until then, please avoid me cause I know you know absolutely nothing and you're trained to take up spew and run it around cause you're mentally functionless I KNOW YOU'RE A SLAVE WITHOUT A FUNCTIONAL MIND AND CAN'T DETERMINE THINGS ON YOUR OWN. TAKE MY COMMENT AND GO TO YOUR FATHERS AND THEN RUN BACK WITH REPORT OMOLUABI-OPONU OSHI |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 11:14am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Minjim: He started the #tag on Twitter.
What I'm even more concerned about is how this Lekki massacres should make a responsible Govt asked themselves whether Lagos got a f,air deal from this concession. Just look at how much LCC claimed they are losing weekly. what's the length of the road? For how long will the operate it? How much did they they actually spend to construct it? By the time they hand it over to Lag, what will be the condition? This process is obviously shrouded in corruption and this is an opportunity to rectify it He didn't start the movement. There's a whole lot going behind the scenes with the toll gate. The average even yoruba dp not know of but I'm privy to knowing... It's the world of today. The dark and evil world where people choose clannish leanings over principles of fairness and truth If Lagos should have exclusiveness to certain issues. When I'll be heading alongside some governmental think tank in my state, I'll make sure I just a tax on head on every non indigene so we could also play the illicit and shady games. There should be no monopoly over unfairness. |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 10:31am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Minjim: Check those that voted for LagGovt, those are retired judges or former Attorney of state. They are not activist know to fight for the people. But Segalink started #EndSars even b4 it spiralled into a revolution. My disappointment is that he didn't stick with the people here Sega link didn't start the protest please. He promoted an ideology that was different from the actual end sars protest More open opinion shakers will arise from this even ration. Dubious people will be discredited with time. Time is a revealer. Wait for it. |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 9:39am On Feb 07, 2021 |
helicoptarr:
[b]I WONDER WHY PEOPLE HAVEN'T NOTICED THAT THE ADVERSARIES OF THE NIGERIAN MASSES HAVE ONLINE AGENTS EVERYWHERE.
THEY SUBMIT ANTI-PEOPLE STATEMENTS IN SUPPORT OF THEIR SPONSORS AND GET A GOOD NUMBER OF LIKES INDICATING THAT THEY ARE MANY AND UBIQUITOUS.
MAY GOD JUDGE ALL THE ENEMIES OF THIS COUNTRY AND THEIR AGENTS. Amen Amen Amen |
Family › Re: Men Should Prepare Themselves To Handle Women Who Are Over 40 by Fixey: 9:21am On Feb 07, 2021 |
Jeboy: Exactly my guy, thanks.
It needs to for wider view of people's comments.  |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 9:21am On Feb 07, 2021 |
ba7man: You're hurt cuz you're now talking too much. Reverse psyche don't work on me. Continue with the diversionary antics. You'll be fine. When you can intellectualize. I'll be here Good day |
Politics › Re: Segun Awosanya (Segalink) Voted To Return Lekki Tollgate To LCC's Control by Fixey: 9:08am On Feb 07, 2021 |
ba7man: "I have 8,476 acres and 98,765 staff... blah, blah, blah".
Small pikin talk.  You broke shamed me. I replied you accordingly, you're crying. Then intellectualize. Debate me intellectually. You saw my comment. Go read it up and establish your counter defence If you can debate and win me on this subject discussion, I'll delete my account this morning |