Prosper123: It could be true. He values emotional connection more. He may not be gay
Asexuals can also be gay,they can be gay, straight or bi so if he is...... he's a bisexual asexual......he prefers emotional and romantic relationships with both genders but not sex or he doesn't feel like sex is important for a relationship to thrive
Jaybull: No. Do you know any gay. Just tell them to open up to you, if they can. They were introduced at one point or the other. I know people in boarding school introduced or exposed to it. The number of homosexuals is high. You can't compare it to the entire population of US. The population is huge.
Dude.....go work on your internalized homophobia,you really need the therapy because the self hate you possess will be quite traumatic for you......I should know,a lot of queers have been there and it's not a place I pray for anyone to be in
Karleb: Homosexuality has nothing to do being raped or exposure as a kid. I might be wrong tho but I strongly believe this.
Take for instance, in US where homosexuality is legal, where kids get to see gay couples kiss in the open, you'd expect that majority of the population will be gay but that's false, a lot of people are still straight, in fact, only few people are homosexuals compared to heterosexual.
In your own case, you've always had it in you.
The gay thing could be learnt tho but trust me, if you're not gay you cannot be gay. Even if you grow up in a place where you are the only straight person, you still wouldn't be gay or bi or any letter in the LGBTQ.
The worrying thing is, a lot of people don't know they are not straight, until they get exposed to gay content.
Wow.....is this really coming from you? We've both had convos on this forum about this very topic and your homophobia always showed......glad to see you evolved. The OP is obviously suffering from internalized homophobia,I hope he finds peace
lexy2014: Which dictionary did u use to find out that choice means preference means PICKING from specified varieties and choice means PICKING unspecified varieties? Can u pls share the screenshot?
From both definitions that you gave, one word is common... PICKING. if PICKING is common to both choice and preference, how is choice and preference now different?
Meanwhile, u haven't answered this simple question:
These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice".
I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
1. What's the difference between preference & choice?
2. What is the difference between PICKING from specified varieties and unspecified varieties?
These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice". Kindly find the screenshot below.
3. I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
Now it's completely obvious you are trolling,have a nice day
What's the difference between preference & choice? These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice". Kindly find the screenshot below.
I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
Preference is Picking from specified varieties while Choice is Picking from unspecified (all) varieties
lexy2014: The more reason why u shouldn't have any challenges answering these questions:
What's the difference between preference & choice? These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice". Kindly find the screenshot below.
I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
Pedophilia and bestiality are both sexual orientations but they are not valid because apparently they are sex offences
lexy2014: Is the internet not at your beck and call? If it is, why are u having challenges answering the simple questions?
What's the difference between preference & choice? These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice". Kindly find the screenshot below.
I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
lexy2014: You still haven't answered my questions:
What's the difference between preference & choice? These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice". Kindly find the screenshot below.
I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
Dude it's the 21st century,my experiences are not punchbags for you and your fellow homophobic bullies to punch because you want to actually have the power. The internet is at your beck and call. Have a great day
lexy2014: What's the difference between preference & choice? These are your exact words: "Sexuality in general is not a decisio or a choice". Kindly find the screenshot below.
I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality? What's the difference between preference & choice?
If we are gonna go by that logic,then I guess you also chose your sexuality as a straight person then
TenQ: Maybe you can out of your relative wisdom define in exact terms who a woman is if you can!
I don't need to define anything to you, it's completely obvious you won't listen as this argument is already at it's hilt and it will end in agreeing to disagree,have a great day
lexy2014: I didn't ask you about whether anyone is hurt or not. We are talking about choice which u say no one makes as far as sexuality is concerned. Is it the same way paedophiles and beastiality practitioners don't choose their sexuality?
When your preference hurts a particular minority,then it's monstrous..... notice I used the word "preference" and not "choice"
Kraik: It isn't about money or material things, but I'm certainly depressed\
I have no friend, I'm misunderstood and thought strange by my family\\.
Even with life in general, I don't get along again, most times I feel alone, empty and lost.
The word "Earth" is becoming more and more strange to me as each day passes by, why am I here? Why so alone? Why do I see, perceived, and know what others don't? It's all weighing on me. I'm loosing it.
I tried to relate with people but it ain't working. I might just be off the radar soon.
I reckon you to enjoy your pain,wallow in it,suffer for it, embrace it because it's part of you
Kraik: It isn't about money or material things, but I'm certainly depressed\
I have no friend, I'm misunderstood and thought strange by my family\\.
Even with life in general, I don't get along again, most times I feel alone, empty and lost.
The word "Earth" is becoming more and more strange to me as each day passes by, why am I here? Why so alone? Why do I see, perceived, and know what others don't? It's all weighing on me. I'm loosing it.
I tried to relate with people but it ain't working. I might just be off the radar soon.
You just described me,man....... except in my case,I love my loneliness,I appreciate my loneliness,I don't need nobody, my aunt who raised me calls me the black sheep of the family as she cries because she doesn't get or understand me, I don't fit in as I'm scared of people,I'm literally into "the weird".....like I love horror movies, crime shows.....anything drenched in spirituality and human blood or hate ,I love the protagonist getting hurt,I went through a phase in my childhood where I loved torturing animals before they die and I think I'm showing signs of both sociopathy and psychopathy (I went in and out of a psych ward for 12 years of my childhood) and to make things worse,I love it,I love being this way......i don't think anything is wrong with me as long as I don't go on a killing spree but I'm thinking about it hence why I love being alone,it's getting to the point that I'm acting like a misanthrope and I kinda love it and to top it all off......I love pain so sometimes I beat myself or I cut myself.......yea,I know, I'm all kinds of bleeped up
CountVersailles: We have to remind ourselves that rape has been weaponized or is being weaponized by women, who see themselves as the weaker sex in a battle of the sexes. Sadly, some men must bear the brunt.
A slave will always remain one even when you hand over to him the keys to his chains!
If the truth hurts you, too bad!
Says the man still knee deep in the trenches of white supremacy. If you are no me medical or biological expert then your point is worthless. Apparently,you and your homophobic lot are mostly keyboard warriors. Goodnight
Johndagr8t: i said those signs dey see in me that's giving dem the courage
They may not see any signs, a gay man may pick up courage to ask any man out because sexuality isn't written on the forehead. You should see my gay friend's Instagram DMs, he's a model, it's filled with women asking him out and he's gay......there are masculine gay men and feminine straight men,all you just got to do is tell them you ain't interested as you aren't gay.....easy peasy, majority will understand
MrBrownJay1: you may look like one of them, you may act like one of them and/or their gaydar is on alert when they see you, so they have the gut to come on to you.
its a mental/sexual disorder that will have men be attracted to other men....just like the same mental/sexual disorder that would have a father want to have sex with his own children...just like the same mental/sexual disorder that would have some people enjoy raping people....
the difference in all the above is that....Homosexuality is legal in most part of the world today.
It's obvious you know nothing about human sexuality
TenQ: All humans have the ability to do both right and wrong. However, through proper upbringing, self will and right knowledge, we CHOOSE that which is right over our feelings or emotions.
For example, All humans can be kleptomaniac BUT by choice we choose not to take what doesn't belong to us.
All humans can break civil laws, but by choice we decide to comply even at our discomfort.
All men can be sexually aroused even when stimulated by children, other men and objects BUT we choose not to get ourselves in such despicable positions.
Unfortunately, some people want to justify such demeaning behaviours by presenting them as acceptable! What is so special with Homosexuality and transgenderism: if we can legally slaughter and eat animals, why not Bestiality, why not necrophilia, why not other forms of sexual pervasion?
It's all about CHOICE and Soul Sickness !
I stopped where you associated homosexuality with kleptomania and called sexuality a choice (because a man decides one morning to be gay when we know the discrimination gays face)......as long as you are no medical biological expert,I can't converse with you. Have a great week
TenQ: There is a whole lot of deliberate misinformation by the scientific and western countries to link gay tendencies to genetic or other uncontrollable factors.
I totally agree with you on one thing, there's no gay gene neither is there a straight gene...... scientist have attested to that fact but sexuality is also fluid,no one is a hundred percent gay or hundred percent straight,read on latent homosexuality and latent heterosexuality and the Kinsey scale
wolesmile: I saw the disgusting video. That was no rape. If I am not mistaken, the girl was even riding the boy at a point. It was totally disgusting. I remember asking the person that showed me why he should even keep such on his phone. When I think about what kids these days are capable of, I become afraid for the future generation. We have thrown morality in the air. Look at Iyabo Ojo's daughter, Mercy Aigbe's daughter, and recently, the picture of Omotola's 22 year old bikini wear, (That one is even a product of Chrisland) believe me you'll know these kids have been exposed various forms of indecent behaviours since their junior school days.
It's one of the reasons why I'm never having kids because no matter how hard you try,the world will get to them