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Silentgroper:
gay men identify as what please??


You say it is about sexuality .. if a man comes to say I don't identify as a man due to sexuality, what do you he's getting at

It's either you are confusing yourself or you are trolling. I said gender and sexuality are two different things, feminine is a gender trope while gayism is a sexuality

Silentgroper:
a man looking feminine translate to what ...... Huh??



Don't they look feminine to you??

They may look feminine but it doesn't mean they are gay. Feminine is a gender trope,gay is a sexuality,two different things.
Moreover,there masculine gay men and feminine straight men,I travel a lot so I've seen both,gender mannerisms is not human sexuality

Silentgroper:
They look like gays.. Are u a teen tho?

It's obvious you don't know any gay person at all or know anything about Korean culture and gay people don't have a "look",a man might look feminine not gay

Golan007:
A transvestite may not necessarily be a transgender.

With either case, people require understanding and not threat of violence.

I so agree with the bolded

ghettokid1:
the possibility is not low.. hundreds of men are raped on a daily basis but nobody will report it and if reported, no justice will be served.
some ladies will even rape a guy and say otherwise, and everybody will believe them

Oh please, let's not pretend as if it's not your fellow men that will laugh at you and wish it upon themselves. In my ordeal,after my rape,women were the only sympathetic ones while the men laughed at me and told me I should've enjoyed it

Kelvinhunta:
Do u even understand d difference between a transgender and a crossdresser?

LoL.....you are obviously mistaking transgender for transvestite and cross-dressing isn't even on those plane. Please do me a favor and research both terms instead of spreading misinformation

2blessed01:
Are you truly SORRY?
cos, u should be!
Gay is by choice while TRANS is not!
Get that into it SKULL DUDE!!!

Do me a favor and research what transgender means, it's different from what you think it is,what you are gearing at is called transvestite and it's obviously what you are mistaking transgender for and dude, sexuality isn't a choice

cooooooks:
Golan007 seems confused.

Like super confused. I think he's confusing transgenderism with transvestism

psalmsjob:
Obviously from the comments here most people do not know the difference between being a transgender persons and gay persons.

A transgender person are people who are born with both male and female genitals that's born with penis and virginal or grow up to develop breast or even male/female voice cords or shape etc.

While gay persons are male persons who choose to engage in same sex relationship. The same apply to Lesbian which is female who choose to engage in same sex.

Transgender have no choice in who they are because they are born that way.

Dude,you are also part of them, there's a difference between a transgender person and a transvestite (intersex) person, everything you just explained falls on the intersex (transvestite) plane not transgender

TheWolfen:

You see
Confusion is what their likes bring to society. LGBT whatever nonsense

I'm part of that community and I bet if you researched on human sexuality and gender,you'd be less confused

Golan007:
For being trans?

One may have a problem against gay people , that may even be understandable. But having a problem with someone who is conflicted on his/her gender should require understanding and not opposition.

Believe me, these people wouldn't wish it on themselves.

Please explain to me what your version of transgenderism is because I think you are confusing transgenderism with transvestite

reuben81:
do u really the the difference between gay and trans

Moreover dude,you need a crash course on gender and sexuality. There's a difference between transvestite (intersex) and transgenders. Please take an education on both

reuben81:
do u really the the difference between gay and trans

I should be the one asking you that question because Golan made it seem like one is a choice and the other is innate

Golan007:
I'm against neither.

What I'm saying is trans people have a mixup in their chromosomes which make them feel one way despite their physical displaying something else.

Hardly their fault.

I get it dude but the way you put it made it seem like sexuality is also a choice

Golan007:
For being trans?

One may have a problem against gay people , that may even be understandable. But having a problem with someone who is conflicted on his/her gender should require understanding and not opposition.

Believe me, these people wouldn't wish it on themselves.

I'm sorry, let me get this straight,you are for trans people but against gay people?

psure:
Last sentence dey confuse me

Gay guys that do straight porn are paid times two of what they make in gay porn

psure:
I am tired af. Tried all legal hustle but no pay. Salary was a mockery of my reality. Even tried to do olosho hookup for the money, e no work. I I think becoming a P0rnstar is the next hustle. But how do I begin? Na who go carry me trabaye?

Fellow Nigerians, please e gbemi de be. Please. I will give 35% of my first cash out to anyone that can connect me.

I am ready to use what I have to get what I want.

PS. I don't want gay connect. Thank you

LoL....dude,a lot of straight porn stars do it for free,only a few are paid and it's not up to what the women make. The only men who make money from porn are gay pornstars, that's why majority of gay pornstars are straight men..... it's called gay for pay while gay guys with big dicks are paid ×2 to appear in straight porn

sollolucci77:
Incase you dont know the reason why men started becoming gay is because we watched women being lesbians...you ladies are the reason why some men are gay

Yea dude...... that's not how human sexuality works

sincere9ja:
she want to try something naught. but i have never insert peni on any anal. i feel it will give me guilty on gay act. like i have done it though not with a guy. although she told me she never done it but want to test it. that her friends told her its very pleasurable.


right now i can swear i have never done gay, but will this act change that perception?

Jesus H Roosevelt Christ,are you living in the 21st century? Listen man, that's not how sexuality works, doing anal can never make you gay. A lot of Nigerians need a crash course on human sexuality,some gay men have done vaginas, does that make them straight?

WriterNig:
Putin never said he's above GOD. He's a very dedicated Christian.

Dedicated christian my ass

Rubbiish:
Let them do it nau lol
Is anyone stopping them?
Yul didn't come online to make noise before getting a second wife

I'm just replying to someone who called it stupid

Kingcalls:
Stop being a simp and go watch El chapo

LoL,y'all keep throwing that word up and down. I'm not the one whose masculinity is so fragile that he thinks women asking for equity will make him less of a man,just with that thinking alone,you are already less of a man. Go wait for the cocaine godmother

Sion47:
Of men can pee standing
Why not women

I know women who pee standing

Redpill1:
WTF man
It is a Global culture not limited to Nigeria alone. Or have you ever seen a woman marry many husbands at the same time?
Smokes my weed in peace

Please live that me me mentality in Nigerian culture,you really haven't travelled around.....have you?

Rastaramsey:
This man and his stupid talks

How's it a stupid talk? If men can do it,why can't women do it?

ChoCho54:
That was in the good old days, when girls people were virgins and sex was sexy.


I'm talking about the days of VHS

You women keeps incorporating misogyny to yourselves

dawnomike:
Elder brother wey get sense... He stayed neutral and diplomatic while still making his stance known

Actually he never stayed neutral. The first paragraph already stated whose side he's on

Bobmarie:
A homosexual man will never have sex with women up to the point of fathering 23kids.
Gay men find women disgusting, the ones that pretend don’t last long and their wives almost always suspect, because of certain mannerisms towards sex. Any gay man that sleeps with so many different women is attracted to women in even in the littlest way, he is definitely not fully gay. He’s bisexual.

23 kids? Come on. Apply common sense, everything is not about research. It’s either you don’t know what the term homosexuality means or you are just trying to be smart for no reason. I wonder what you think gays are.


Again, how do you know Elon is fully straight? Since going by your logic, a person can impregnate several women and still be gay. Why are you so sure? Are you related to him? PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION.

Spoken like someone who definitely don't know queer people, it's either you get your info from the internet or you have few to zero queer friends hence your assumption and it's obvious you didn't do any research on the said subject, next thing you are gonna tell me is straight men doing gay porn because there are majority of straight men in gay porn who do it for the money,you are also going to classify them as bisexuals too
Now,sex and human sexuality 101, sex is an action done between two or more people, sexuality however is an attraction,the former compliments the latter but the latter have no say on the former. Sex is supposed to be an hobby and not a chore,if it's then a chore then it's loosed it's beauty,gay men have sex with women because they need to in order to affirm their masculinity especially among black men where having multiple kids is a sign of an alpha male and I don't want to get into the homophobia in the black community,when Delray (the boxer's name) came out after 23 kids, people were shocked especially the women he was with because he was great in bed and no one would've thought so because he was suffering from internalized homophobia,in his mind,he thought he hadn't found the right pussy yet to make him straight, he has his first child at 16 back in high school,he never wanted to be gay because black people especially his family will kill him for it so he had to bring out this alpha male personality and what better way to hide your sexuality and fool everyone and affirm your masculinity than sampling different vaginas every month,before gay marriage or even gay relationships became legal,there were gay men who've been married to their wives for 40 years plus,some gay men are able to adapt to that straight lifestyle because of the kids and because of the love they have for those women,mind you I said they love those women but not in love with them, loving someone and being in love with someone are two different things,gay men sleep with women because they need to (chore) in order to act to society's standards and definitely because of masculinity not because they want to(hobby), king Henry's brother of France during the Renaissance era was gay but he married women and fathered children to cover the whole thing up because of society, back then,the palace of Versailles was just being built and he didn't want to spoil his brother's reputation,he needed to sleep with them not because he wanted to,mind you those were ancient times, homosexuality was punished by death in France so he had no choice.
Sexuality is an innate attraction often factored by environment, sexuality unlike sex goes beyond,you can sleep with whomever you want thinking that will change your sexuality but it's fixed and sometimes fluid and even if it's fluid,it might not last long, sexuality is all about attraction both physically, emotionally and mentally, a gay man who's married doesn't just want sex from a man, that's just sex....he wants more,an emotional relationship whereas he can get his sexual satisfaction from his wife because that's what he sees a woman for and sex starts from the mind,yes you might think he's sleeping with a woman but do you know what he's thinking when he's with her? He's thinking about him and not her which brings me to the terms heteroflexibility and homoflexibility. Heteroflexibility refers to straight men who can sleep with gay men also because they need to not because they want to , gay sex is now a chore for them and not an hobby,there are majority of straight men in gay porn doing it for the money because men are paid less in straight porn and you can't be popular in straight porn as a man because the focus is on women,so they migrate to gay porn,they are doing it for the money,some may be attracted to these men but don't want no romantic connection with them,they are still straight because sexuality goes way beyond sex,if they were willing to have emotional relationships with these men,then you can classify them as bisexuals on the other hand homoflexibility is when a gay man can sleep with a woman because he also needs to especially in places like Nigeria where homosexuality isn't a norm,he uses a woman for a beard to compensate for society's ignorance,also there are gay men in straight porn....for example gay porn star Chris damned is gay but he also does straight porn because of his big penis and he's paid times two of what he makes in gay porn because the attraction isn't there so he has to imagine being with a man when he's sleeping with women on set and also gay men in straight porn are there to satisfy the woman unlike straight men who just orgasms and don't care whether the woman cums or not so a gay man doing straight porn like Arpad Miklos, Chris damned etc are there to make sure the woman orgasms multiple times before they do and are sometimes paid double or triple than their straight colleagues for it
So you see the disparity of sex and sexuality? One is an action,the other is an attraction. One is done without the attraction because it needs to be done not because he wants to,the other is done just because they want to
Also about Elon,he hasn't given us any reason to think he's gay or bi,until he does that, he's straight .

Bobmarie:
That boxer is bisexual, not gay. Gay men can’t stand women.

How do you know he’s not gay?
Going by your logic, Elon might be gay too since some boxer is.

Yea....I'm pretty sure that's not how sexuality works. Sex and sexuality are two different things, Please research more on it,sex is just an action, anybody can do it while sexuality is an attraction and I'm not saying Elon is gay,I'm just correcting you that just because someone has kids doesn't mean he's straight but Elon is fully straight

Bobmarie:
He has seven kids by different women.

Go figure.

Having different kids by different women doesn't make you straight. A boxer has 23 kids with different women yet he came out gay in 2015 but Elon isn't gay so I don't know why that guy asked

shantti:
Dominate men in what aspect? In finance, in education, in sports or in science, pls tell me

They dominate men in sex

Chiraq77:
Like I don't even understand the rationale behind pretending not to love sex,it's so unnatural,That's Why I Love Down to Earth Women.

Don't pretend men don't shame women for liking sex and majority of them will call her a LovePeddler