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pegix:
okay my boss...no qualms
Ina jiffy
Havebfun been an LGBT
Meanwhile
I'm not so sure nigeria constitution recognises ur gender

You may not be so safe here
Not safe, not for many years to come

I split my time between Naija and France but have a good day

Albertone:
Samjaza
FuckHomophobes
RichieMichie
Flamemignon1

Need I tell you that even HIV was first detected amongst gay men!

HIV is just one of many anti immune diseases,it's just popular because no one cared until it was figured out that straight people can have it too,that was when people know that shit has hit the fan. Besides other STDs were first detected in straight people if you wanna go on disease Olympics

edosignature:
Your sense of reasoning is highly poor & backward. I'm a Epidemiologist & a Disease Control Expert & I repeat most of my patients are LGBTQ & I find it disgusting how a man will choose to have sex with a man & a Woman will also choose to have sex with a woman & etc.

They're known as "KEY Population" & the rate at which they get infected with communicable diseases like HIV, VDRL, HSV, etc is so alarming & only a fool will see these & not get worried.

When you see the ladies Virginas, you'll be alarm & pray for Gods kingdom to come.

I adviced you read to help your self reason like a 21st century human


Peace...

Dude I didn't question your degree but how you got it and it's ok if you find it disgusting but you don't even emulate the feature of someone working in medicine,not at all and a piece of paper isn't just what you need because you are so filled with ignorance and hate. Moreover if you truly did your research,you will know it was people like you who have no empathy that made it escalate more than it was.Have a good day

TotoGame:
Being gay isn't and will never be pleasant in the sight of God and Man .....God didn't create you this way


Something is wrong somewhere.....think You need spiritual help niggar!

And adulterers are ok? Hypocrites as usual

pegix:
toor....make i finish this mbbs fess maybe certificate go pop

Gender expression?
It is clear, basic biology and science make us understand there can be only 2 gender in accordance with ur genetical /chromosomal/ make up

Xx for female

Xy for male
Aside these in humans no other gender exist
You may wanna confirm that
Any other type of gender expression is a mental state and a feeling of self unacceptance

There are certain medical condition where a male has the attributes of female and viceversa
Of course those people are given special status in our societies

The hermaphrodites, and some serious genetic conditions like Klinefelters
(Always will varying degree of mental disability)

Aside this, ain't nothing is meaningful

I understand u want a free world where everyman can decide on what's good for themselves
Commendable
But certain things are not good for our continuity as humans
I hope u understand from which perspective I'd taught from..

.no bad energy man

Wait and you are studying MBBS?yea.... that's a complete fluke,now let me school you on gender and sexuality before you mistake one for the other. Gender is a social construct,it evolves as you go through life,the fact that a woman wears a skirt or a man wears a trousers were impounded by society hence gender being social construct while sex is what you just defined not gender.

As a free world,I'm still yet to know what's terrible about queerness and if you are so worried about continuity of the human race,start by adopting children in the orphanage which you straight people dumped there

As for what's right? Finish your degree first and research on your own about gender and sexuality

siofra:
Wow!! Your friend is so cool!!

Is he Nigerian?

Yea he is. When I tell people,they are super shocked, I think it's because he didn't grow up in Nigeria

pegix:
okay boss
See, I'm in no way a puppet of american concept and way of life

I see.my world in a total different way

Many things i opposed strongly and it's is considered great by the western culture
You should realised that there's culture and there's liberty and decency
Even if those things have happened sometimes in the past
Does it make it right?
Citing ur example a particular ugandan king

The killing of twins is it not cultural?: Is it right to kill
Many things could be cultural but not sensible

Lgbt is dangerous for our continuity as human
Socially unacceptable

Individual with such orientation ( due to whatever , some says they got wicked past, poor parenting, failed relationship)
Need extensive medical rehab and psycho checkup

First and foremost,I said white supremacy not American concept and culture,two very different things

Also cultures,decency and liberty are social constructs because they were implemented by men and the thing about social constructs are it's flexibility,once a tradition that was seen as barbaric is reviewed especially when no one is hurt, it's reviewed so as to ensure inclusivity and fairness, that's how culture transitions, it's not a static concept. Yea sure.....you don't agree but it's not your right to right the"wrongs" of society all because you are in a place of power,it makes you a bully.

Moreover, you compared crossdressing to killing of twins,one is complete murder,the other is a sense of gender expression,again two different examples and I will continue to say it, hating queerness is a western concept drenched in white supremacy. Queerness was never an abomination because it was a recurring theme from the dual gender of gods of Yoruba land to the bushman artworks in Pretoria depicting same sex relationships to the first gay couple found in Egypt about 5000+ years old, it's always been here but everything changed when white men's religion attacked teaching hate to us and we passing that hate to generations to come.
P.S: Queerness is found in all living species whereas queer phobia is found in one "humans"

Besides,I'd like to see your certificate on human psychology and gender and sexuality then I will take you seriously because you still haven't told me how queerness is dangerous to society,I'd love to know how

Gamesmart:
More foolish misinformation!

Good morning

Gamesmart:
Look at the balderdash this one is full of.

Oh it's you again

christianjoy:
I like your statement up there but some takes advantage of your situation

Irregardless of gender and sexuality,there are friends who wanna take advantage of you,the thing is people should know who their friends are and ditch the ones creating a toxic friendship

pegix:
because it happened at some point in history doesnot.justify that it was prevalent

Really prevalent?..ahahaha
Most likely in secrecy
Socially disgusting act that would have been chastised by the community
If you think it was rampant in history and was widely acceptable to the people

U should be able to give a stats of how many people and their regional distribution engaged it in

Names exist for this things
Hausa has what they call it
Yoruba does
The ugdandans do

But there were never evidence of it peaceful reception much less it prevalence in any african culture

Queer people have always been in the minority since time immemorial so yea

As usual,the shackles of white supremacy strikes again and y'all fail to get out of it's chains. Nobody was forced to be queer,it just happened naturally and society had no problem but white people as usual do what they do best and notice I used queerness and not sexuality because other things denotes it

Yea,let me give stats because our history wiped out? Go research king mwanga of Uganda if you don't know your history, he's just one of few and it was wholely accepted

1stGenAmerican:
Although I’ve never thought of it that way I agree with you one hundred percent!

When you see a man impersonating a woman especially a black woman, it's rooted in laughter but a woman doing the opposite is not. People will rather see men impersonate black characters like the vixen, fire and Mami but will shame men lifting women via drag

JohnOkolo:
Bleep your Mother and that alliance

People like you are the ones who will ask their friends their sexuality before being friends with them. It's literally obvious you haven't left the four walls of this hell hole. If something like that is needed from you as criteria to become friends with someone,then you are literally shallow and why will you bring someone's mother into a debate? What do you expect to gain by doing that? Did I ever insult you or call out your mum? You know what,I thought you would've quoted me like a matured adult and have a civilized convo but no,you acted immature so I'm not surprised

Acidosis:
And that's why feminists are the major advocates of ga.y rights. The idea is to subjugate men and make them behave and act like women, so men can literally become women, isn't?

It's not like many of you would leave a bicep six pack man for a lipgloss, makeup, and bum short wearing man o. But the idea of seeing the majority of men act and behave like women gets you pathetic feminists turned on.

Sorry but it will never happen, at least in your generation. There's something called culture, morals, and public peace. Even in America, you can't simply go into the streets naked just because you own your body. Public morals and sanity must be upheld by all and sundry.

When they say gender is a social construct,this is exactly what they mean

Is your masculinity that fragile that any poke in it,it breaks? If you ask me,that guy is 10 times of a real man than the lynching cowards, feminine gender expression should not synonymous with weakness,I reckon if those cowards took him one after the other,he'd win. he's a real man because he f*cked society's gender roles and expressions and did what made him happy despite knowing the risks. That's the first rule of being a man, doing whatever the hell you want as long as no one is hurt.

Golan007:
That guy could never be a medical doctor.

Well,he calls himself a doctor,if he is,I don't wanna know how he got his license but you are so right,that comment doesn't show the empathical side of a doctor, majority of them thinks it's just by having a piece of paper

cigaricon:
I hope my heading is comprehendible, and I'll just go straight to the point

First of all, I am a very open minded person. I do not discriminate whatsoever and I don't judge anybody for whatever choices they make in their lives as long as it doesn't interfere with my own life. I've met a couple of gay guys who seem cool and i like them just enough to make them my friends just like any other guys i make my friends. I see everyone as human first before anything. Now the problem is that these guys always would want to get down with me even after knowing that I am not gay and this sickens me because I have chosen to respect them and their sexual orientation but they have chosen to violate our friendship by not respecting my own sexual orientation.

One time I needed a favour from a friend who is gay and I couldn't believe it when he told me that I would have to f*ck him first in order for him to assist me. I was very disappointed and angry.

Honestly, this have made me to start developing resentment for them and i think I'll start avoiding them by all means. Why do most gay guys behave like this?

I'm so sorry about your experiences with queer people. Seriously, this makes me super sad,that you think gay men and straight men can't be friends is the same trope when people say straight men can't be just friends with straight women. I'm not going to belittle and gaslight your experiences because it's valid,I've seen straight men validate their homophobia because of actions like the ones you mentioned. I would advise you to cut your relationship with those guys because irregardless of their sexuality,they are just men willing to take advantage of their friends for appraisal or ego boost,if they were straight....they would've done the same thing to women..... practically,they are sex offenders and I advise you to take action when the sexual assault persists or report them to the appropriate authorities

Moreover, where I take offence on your post as a queer man is how you made all of us a monolith,you made it seem like all gay guys are sexual predators going back to the same homophobic rhetoric,I know you did it out of pain, betrayal and anger but we are all not the same and I'm sorry you had to go through that but "gay-straight alliances" exist because I'm a living witness. I do hang out in homosocial spaces but almost all my friends are straight, apparently there are five of them and they are all straight but we would die for each other as they know I'm gay but I'm gonna talk about my bestest (if that's a word)best friend,the bond we share is more like brothers..... infact, there's this stereotype that every gay guy has that straight friend they treat like their husband...lol and it's true because I tell you,we are so tight that sometimes we think we are clingy and this is a guy that's so secure in his sexuality that he doesn't think having a gay friend will make him gay (believe me, he's a complete womanizer) because I'm not the only gay friend,I'm just the closest,we met in France when I was there for my academic fellowship and we met in a gay bar,we really hit it off because not only were we the only two men of color there,we were also Nigerians,he was there to hit on a girl who would become his future fiance because women now have taken over gay bars (kinda annoying though because I thought it was a safe space for queers but now women are even more in there than gay men because they feel more safe than in straight bars but then they attract straight men to them). Anyway,I thought he was queer as he's really handsome and he's in a gay bar and I shot my shot,he just smiled and said he's flattered but he's looking to score a goal for another team,still remember those words,we bonded over a lot of things,anime stans, culture clashes and more and since then, it's history,we've been each other's shield in dark and light times, through thick and thin, he's that friend that I know will stick up for me and clothe me even if I'm naked (don't know if I will do the same for him though... kidding), he even introduced me to someone but I blew it because I was unfaithful (yes,I cheated...don't judge me) till date he still teases me about that because the guy was a business partner to his firm and it made the firm loose on in a deal because of the breakup,yet he forgave me,I helped him propose to the love of his life who calls me her second husband,he helped me get my business up even the smallest thing such as helping me pack when I was returning back to Naija to helping me get a capital to start up my business,yet till date he refuse to take back the money he gave me and he's never used his wealth to insult me or make him look superior rather he treats me like a equal,I don't think anything will ever ruin the bond we have and when his fiance gave birth to twins in January last year,he made me their legitimate godfather even though I wasn't there as I was busy with work,even though we were separated,he's always calling me like twice a week(I'm a terrible friend because I've never called him once),I've never asked him for something once where he will tell me he's broke or can't help out,even if he can't do anything,he will connect me to someone who can because he's well connected. When he came for his introduction last year june,him and his fiance slept in my house and when she went back with the kids,he stayed behind to take care of some documents about his life here but it was mostly to keep me drug free, I lost everything due to a terrible investment and business decision I made,I refused to tell him because I knew he would do something to help but for once,I wanted to be my own man then I got into drugs,during those Crystal Meth drug induced days,he stood by me and even made his introduction early so that he could come see me and help me get clean,his fiance begged me to watch him while she's gone because he's a serial womanizer and it wasn't easy, I had to remind him 3-5 times a day he's engaged especially when he comes across a curvy girl on IG,it wasn't an easy fit....I literally had to kidnap his phone from him. 80-90% of the things he had here,he transferred them to my name,from his houses to his old cars,he even quit going to clubs to stay with me because he knew I would join him and clubs are just gateways to getting drunk and high again. To be honest,I'm still trying to keep up with everything he's done for me but I just can't because he's far to wealthy to do so and by December,I will be going back to France to be his best man for his white wedding

Till date,I always ask him what I did to deserve a friend like him and it's always the same answer that his spirit just accepted me like a brother he never had since the day we met because he's an only child to super rich parents and he's adopted which me and his fiance are the only people apart from his parents who knows

TL;DR All I'm saying is you may have had a terrible experience with queer men who are supposed to be your friends,ditch those people because they are not friends but predators and gay people aren't a monolith,there are super chill gay people out there who will show you how great and beautiful friendships can be with a straight man. Whenever there's a rape story on the front page Siofra will always say "all men are dogs" but are all men dogs? likewise the same "all gay men are sexual predators" which is also a wrong narrative to paint all gay men into

Gamesmart:
Okay, deviant poof!

Thanks love

Gamesmart:
Shut the ef up and stop trying to misinform by spreading BS.

LoL....ok dude, goodnight

Gamesmart:
Next time, don't dare open your mouth and use your useless labels, like bigot, on me.

I called you what you are,why are you mad ?

Gamesmart:
I am trolling, because you cannot prove the BS you poofs try and spread to back your deviancy?

Which homosexuality was prevalent in Africa, poof?

Like I said....the internet is free,start with king mwanga of uganda and realize queerness was a complete African trait. Good night

Gamesmart:
You are a dim-witted. I asked you a simple question, you are struggling to answer.

From the first sentence to the premise of this Convo....yea,I can't converse with you man. Good night

chatinent:
Gays are not like other humans. They deserve to be avoided. Don't say you respect their orientation...there are reasons wise men advise you avoid them.

They are a special kind of regret.

I can't believe what I'm hearing.....so men like The Rock or John Cena or even Eminem who have openly queer friends are what....or better still,Lil Wayne who officiated his gay friend's wedding isn't wise? The OP mixed up with the wrong queer men who are apparently sex offenders doesn't mean his experiences validates hate....ever heard of gay straight alliances?

Gamesmart:
No, you saw one because you said you have never seen people gang up to beat someone that did not offend them.

If you said, "Yes, I have never seen people gang up to beat someone that did not offend them", then you can argue you did not see his offence.

LoL....now it's obvious you are trolling

Gamesmart:
Man, you are giving several misinformation here yourself.

Misinformation that can be backed up by facts.

Gamesmart:
Yes.

For you that made a claim and need to back it up.

Or you are just attempting to misinform?

Dude,you and fellow bigots have the chronicle of knowledge in your hands,use it

Gamesmart:
How can you answer be: No, I have never seen people gang up to beat someone that did not offend them. And you are still asking me what his offence is?

And yet I'm asking you to please tell me his offence because I saw none

Gamesmart:
Prevalent?

How?

Where?

In what form?

Dude,the internet is free

cococandy:
and is. 100%

The amount of hate, misinformation and nerve they have especially when spilling out this misinformation really irks my skin

Gamesmart:
Cut the crap, man.

It does not stem from misogyny.

You are already a bigot so my argument will be wasted on you. Goodnight

Gamesmart:
No, you did not.

You asked if he offended, and I said "yes, he did".

And I asked you: Or have you seen people gang up to beat someone that did not offend them?

I need that answered.

My answer to your question is NO so now,can you please tell me his offence?

Gamesmart:
So women that hate homosexuals actual hate women and femininity?

Oh yea,those ones are literally doing themselves but that's a topic for another day

pegix:
I do tell people

You see all.those gay and lgbt whatever dogshit
It has not origin or roots that can be traced to africa
Normally those cross dressers exist cuz they celeb and well protected

If bobrisky waka for mushin street e go collect

The one way pain me pass be a fully grown man with big gbola come dey disguise as female , wan dey flex him co guy

If boyz catch am..we go loose guard am anyhow

Well deserved beating

Please do your research so you won't look like a fool next time, homosexuality was prevalent in Africa before the advent of the west. Next,you will tell me animals doesn't possess the trait?