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Literature / Re: I Present.... (the Travails Of A Medical Student) by Flashaldrin(m): 10:57pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
As long as I can remember, I always saw myself as intelligent (well, who doesn’t – I mean, see themselves as intelligent), not brilliant though, intelligent. And as such I felt like I had no limits when it came to my career choice. With time I started narrowing them down to the things I was passionate about, and believe me when I say medicine was never in the forefront. The most interesting ones then were, engineering, computer science, piloting, writing, law, in that order. This was further narrowed down when I joined the science class in senior secondary. The decision to become a science student was quite straightforward. Then, science was said to be for the intelligent ones, (though I’ve since realized that to be a faulty orientation), and since I thought myself to be intelligent, ergo, I had to be in science class. How naïve I was. Medicine was not high in my consideration list because I felt it requires brilliance more than intelligence (and that, I have found out to be true. It has a lot to with cramming, hard grueling work and little space for reasoning as the lecturers can be very rigid.) The final nail in the coffin was when I realized that If I were to do it, I won’t be writing mathematics in JAMB, which is my best subject of all time. But ironically, the suggestion, consideration and resolution of my medical career was carried out in less than a minute, without even my participation… lol. {side note: I believe there is a big difference between intelligence and brilliance, intelligence more like has to do with being smart, good spatial and abstract reasoning capabilities, you know, this kind are usually problem solvers and deal better with the rigors of life, they do well in reasoning games like chess, scrabble etc while brilliance is mostly academic, usually possess good memory and are hard working. The intelligent peeps pass exams not by having actual knowledge per se but by being able to reason out the answers, lol. And of course, one can be both. For those still in the school system, I would advise you to cultivate brilliance (if you can), but then try hard to improve your intelligence, this will serve you much better in life. Some of the ways you can improve your intelligence include, solving puzzles including mathematics, playing brain games like chess, draughts, scrabble, monopoly, reading books, biographies, novels, watching highly rated Hollywood movies, please stay away from nollywood movies, my I.Q usually drops by 5points after each nollywood movie I watch – no offence to nollywood producers, they’re trying but they are not yet there} |
Literature / Re: I Present.... (the Travails Of A Medical Student) by Flashaldrin(m): 10:52pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
PART 1 INTRODUCTION I’m the second child and first son of two children. It was just I and my elder sister. So, yeah, growing up was lonely and boring as hell. My family is a deeply religious one. Father is a pastor, mother is a pastor’s wife (though not full time, both are also working), and sister is an upcoming pastor’s wife lol… guess I’m the only one not in the pastoring business……….yet. We were trained up in a very strict, rigid fashion, almost military style. Father is a strict disciplinarian, mother is a worrier (wow, there’s a word for that), so bad combination for the children. She worries about every little thing; where you are, where you are going, what you’re doing, when you cough, when you belch, in fact to summarize it, she recently suggested I see a doctor (mind the pun lol) cos my urine looked too ‘concentrated’, wtf! Like what the hell was she doing in my toilet checking out my urine to start with??! Anyways you can understand why this can be bad for any kid, you just can’t keep any secrets, she goes through every stuff, and if anything unholy turns up, straight it goes to my father and you’re promptly disciplined! Like I said, bad combination. Whether this was constructive or destructive, I’m yet to fully ascertain, but the fact is, it made us very serious academically, have always been among the top five at least, in every class I’ve been in. Growing up, I can remember wanting to be so many things in the future, factors influencing this ranging from level of respect it accrues from the society, to level of difficulty (I’ve always loved challenges) to income. I can remember one time when I was young, after my sister told me about how so much Night soil men (that is people that empty feaces from pit toilets then - don’t know if they still exist) made, I made up my mind, regrettably loudly, that I would be one when I grow up – of course she hasn’t stopped calling me ‘onye oburunshi’. |
Literature / Re: I Present.... (the Travails Of A Medical Student) by Flashaldrin(m): 7:54pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Sorry for the long delay guys, started having double minds about putting lots of my personal details out in the public, but then I had a rethink, I now think I can relate most of my medical school experience without divulging much personal details and besides it might help some people out there, who knows. so, we continue... |
Romance / Re: Am Really Confused by Flashaldrin(m): 3:20pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Op, first of all, your english may not be poor, but your writing, at the moment, is quite incomprehensible. Please work on it. Regarding your post, it might mean one of two things. The problem could perhaps be on your manner of presentation. Maybe you come on too strong, or you raise your voice, or talk in an insolent way or sarcastically, could also be that the complains are too frequent, or its usually on financial matters when he is not your father... On the other, it could be that your man is impatient or not the listening or caring type. My only advice to that is to zap! Now there is time. Because if it could be this way when you're not yet married, it can only get worse with marriage. There are always better men out there. But first of all, be sure you are not the one at fault. Good luck... |
Romance / Re: My Woman Complains About Phone Checking And Too Much Calls by Flashaldrin(m): 2:16pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
If you see a flower you love, you don't pluck or smother it, rather you water it and watch it grow. Op I'm guessing you call her frequently and unnecessarily without any interesting gist, just asking boring and repetitive questions. Girls really hate that. Try to make the calls more interesting, you can tell her about interesting events that happened to you or someone you both know, also try, if you can, to make her laugh (don't go cracking useless jokes, that one is a worse turn off). If you can't make the calls exciting, then limit it to maybe once a day and other times when necessary, making them as brief as possible. Sometimes you wait for her to flash or call you. As for going through her phones. That's a no no. Its irritating and annoying, as it shows lack of trust. Unless you have cause for suspicion, then do it in a coded way so she doesn't find out. Good luck... |
Romance / Re: Did I Go Too Far With What I Did? She Thinks I'm Silly by Flashaldrin(m): 2:03pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
I would probably not have done that, but the dude over deserves it. The kind pride wey dey enter guys head when they dey inside car irritates me to no end... Like they are so superior to every pedestrian. Well... maybe na because I no get car sha... 1 Like |
Career / Re: Nigerian Prospective Medical Interns 2017 by Flashaldrin(m): 1:58pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
cowleg:Cowleg pls add me to group, 07036584963 |
Forum Games / Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by Flashaldrin(m): 10:48pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
Vannywealth:I guess we have a winner then, on page 96. No one liked the post. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 8:28pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
casket:Wow.... Interesting! I still plan on writing the usmle but I'm keeping my options open for now. Please how is the primaries for internal medicine? Is still same medical school medicine or something different. I mean can I pass it by reading the usual medicine textbooks? |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 2:03pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
GogetterMD:Alright, what specialty? |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 12:57pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
sureboykris:My mind is on internal medicine. I'm just saying things might change, you never can tell, but for now its internal medicine. I want to write it this year, now wey my head still dey hot small. And yea, I've considered those areas and I'm not interested. |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 12:54pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
GogetterMD:Ok, have you written or planning to write the primaries?? |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 3:19am On Jun 23, 2015 |
twoondei:I'm at Ebonyi for now. We can relate on whatsapp. How have you been preparing? Have you procured the forms?.. |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 12:16am On Jun 23, 2015 |
Tightguy: Nah, I'm going for internal medicine. This is why I said I need advice. Please How do I get the forms? |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 11:40pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
GogetterMD: Thanks. But please I need advice and guidance. Seems like you've crossed this stage.... |
Health / Re: Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 8:48pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Still considering, between internal medicine and surgery. But preparing for internal medicine, for now. |
Health / Need A Study Partner/group For Medical Primaries by Flashaldrin(m): 8:14pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Hi, I'm a graduate of medicine and surgery, so I guess I'm a doctor... Lol. Well I want to start preparing for primaries, heard the next one will be sometime in october, but I need study partners, motivation, guidance, advice and materials cos I'm guessing it might be a different ball game altogether... So, anyone interested, ranging from 5th year medical students to doctors at any level, (even my chiefs that have written it before, I really need advice and guidance), should please indicate interest. If we are many we can turn it into a group. Cheers. |
Literature / Re: I Present.... (the Travails Of A Medical Student) by Flashaldrin(m): 3:15pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
will be writing about my days in medical school. this is my first attempt at public writing, so be patient with me. corrections and criticisms both constructive and destructive are welcome its a true life story, so may not be very interesting, but bear with me, i'll try as much as truthfully possible to spice it up. as you read and comment may you be blessed 5 Likes |
Literature / I Present.... (the Travails Of A Medical Student) by Flashaldrin(m): 3:10pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
******PROLOGUE******** It was a Thursday evening, exactly 6 months ago, I remember clearly, because it was remarkable, remarkably bad. I had reached the nadir and it couldn’t possibly get worse (well I can’t be so sure because some few days ago I was also certain that the events of the days couldn’t get worse, and here I am). The thought of this new thought made me even more depressed. I was sitting at the almost empty hospital pharmacy, on a long hard metal bench, but that was the least of my problems. My back was to the window, I couldn’t bear the sight of the sky, I couldn’t bear to hope, because every single time I tried, it was crushed heavily with an even greater problem. I had given up. My head was bent forwards, as I looked down (as was in my manner this past days), I stared angrily at my dusty worn out shoes, that has served me for the past four years, I knew it wasn’t its fault but I didn’t care, I was angry with everyone, with everything. Momentarily I would glance at my bag on the floor, than gaze upwards gradually observing my ‘it was white’ ward coat, and then upwards to the dirty ceiling, and to the static ceiling fan, support my head with my hand, sigh quietly and shake my head, then look down again. The world was caving in, and my head was at its center. I had failed my 4th mbbs exam, I was to re-sit pediatrics, this was the first time I’ve ever failed any major exam in my life, and it was majorly depressing, even more depressing was the fact I didn’t deserve to fail. If you’ve ever heard about clinical exams in medical school, and the idiosyncrasies of the examiners, you would understand what I’m saying. As I was gradually adapting to this news, and adjusting to life as an ‘average’ student, and consoling myself that it was a temporary setback, a huge bombshell was dropped. The school faculty of medicine has decided that there won’t be re-sits anymore, for any course you fail, you would repeat the whole year, joining the set below. That was the last straw. I’ve failed the first major exam in my life, and I was paying the ultimate price. Seating besides me was the one woman I cared about, my mum, she was sick, she has been sick for some time and her drug bills were running into hundreds of thousands. On that day she didn’t come to the hospital with enough money for her drugs so she had called me to help her with the remaining amount. But that was the least of my problems. Because instead of giving her money, I was about to tell a sick woman that her ‘brilliant-soon-to-be-a-doctor’ son, wasn’t anymore, and that her title of ‘mama doctor’ is still a far way off. As she droned on, about the tests, the drugs, the money, my eyes moistened as I thought of how best to drop the news. (It’s in our darkest moments, at the lowest of depths, when we can’t fall no more…. we look up… and we see God) 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Jega To Announce Presidential Election Results: Part 2 by Flashaldrin(m): 9:12pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: Jega To Announce Presidential Election Results: Part 2 by Flashaldrin(m): 9:08pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: Be The Judge by Flashaldrin(m): 3:21pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: This uncle should go to hell!Why? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Federal Ministry Of Health Massive Recruitment August 2014 by Flashaldrin(m): 8:18am On Aug 22, 2014 |
obajoey: Thanks for the info...G |
Romance / Should You Point Out His/her Annoying Trait Or Do You Tolerate It?? by Flashaldrin(m): 8:45am On Aug 13, 2014 |
When you're in a relationship, dating or married, is it wise to keep pointing out your partners weakness or a characteristic you don't like about them hoping they will change it and risk irking or annoying them and being considered as nagging or do you just keep mum and tolerate it? I've had a little something going for a while with this wonderful girl and tho' I keep getting her pissed I appreciate it a lot when she points out certain parts of my actions she doesn't really like, cos I'm very flexible and ready to easily adapt to whatever she wants, but then I'm always very afraid to reciprocate it and pick whatsoever fault in her cos I don't even want to risk annoying her over some little things even tho' a bit worrisome, I can easily overlook. So which is better, tell or tolerate? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2014/2015 by Flashaldrin(m): 8:54pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Code pls. Flash fc. I need to rule this game for a while. I dey wait abeg! |
Romance / Re: Which Of These Is More Foolish Of A Lady by Flashaldrin(m): 7:38pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
opeyemmmy:Bro, you're really jobless... |
Romance / Re: The Dating Game(first Edition)-suggestion Thread by Flashaldrin(m): 7:05pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
xynerise:So? |
Romance / Re: Is Marriage By Force? by Flashaldrin(m): 7:02pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
And your point is....?? They should accept whoever comes their way?? Looks like you've been rejected multiple times... |
Romance / Re: The Dating Game(first Edition)-suggestion Thread by Flashaldrin(m): 6:59pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
I sorry for skydeep |
Romance / Re: Which Of These Is More Foolish Of A Lady by Flashaldrin(m): 6:56pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
Which of these is your business?? |
Romance / Re: Am I The Most Handsome Nairalander?? (photo) Ladies Only by Flashaldrin(m): 6:55pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
Back in the days of sexkills, this thread won't last for more than 5 minutes and the Op would get a sizeable ban with matching insults. I so miss the old nairaland! 7 Likes |
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