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[quote author=miss-sweety86]I'm sorry but I don't consider insults as any sort of criticism.... Maybe Nigerian girls take insults as critics but I just take insults as insults![/quote]insults are not insults if they are true.

[quote author=miss-sweety86]My situation has nothing to do with vulnerability. I simply don't want to hurt a friend by pushing him away like I would do with any other guy! Anyway, I'd rather be vulnerable than materialistic and calculative like many Nigerian girls![/quote]an advice, take it or leave it: when someone criticizes you, no matter how harsh it is, dont try to refute, deny, argue it or think they're hating, instead try to search inwards and consider the criticism, if there's any truth in it. Only that way you can learn and grow.

[quote author=black_beau]when my bf is too busy 'playing' nerd with his computers and when my bf tries to be all mushy with me[/quote]which one is all mushy?? Aint that a good thing?

Smartie gurl: Get lost biko!

here to stay until my oga above says otherwise

Rooneyboy: ur head is there bro

i know

Kckelly: Dating a girl u can't is all foolishness. Plz hw do i post comment in naira land

are you not a foool?? Please answer honestly

alaoeri: Ogbeni park well joooor, i have & 'll still do it may God forgive me.

may oga at the top glue that your useless finger to the keyboard.

[quote author=miss-sweety86]you can both keep your stupid comments for yourself! not everyone is the same and i certainly don't act like a Nigerian girl so you can keep your judgments for yourself![/quote]ofcourse you certainly dont act like a nigerian! My naija girls can never be this vulnerable.

ItsModella: OMG!!! LMFAO!!!!! bwahahahahahaha!!

She was crying cos she was gonna miss you...awwww.

or could be tears of joy

Idowuogbo: F00lish buoy!

i talk true abi

GaussS: @flashaldrin i beg to differ.
you are the mugu here

how? Please do tell. . .

Smartie gurl: Oh! Shut it please!

lol, truth is very bitter hun.

ok, after going through your posts, i have to two conclusions.
Op is both stupid (still stays with same boyfriend that neglects her and she has allegedly broken up with many times) and an attention seeker (keeps advertising her stupidity online). No offence.

oh! Not again. . .

GaussS: well, i'm ending mine today. been a long time coming. long distance relationship, he doesn't call regularly(once in a month) and doesn't see anything wrong with it. he came to lagos and didn't tell me he was. this is someone i haven't seen in a year. only for him to text me on the day he was leaving. i'm saying i'm tired and i'm out

another mugu, once in a month?? And yet that wasnt enough sign?? Goodness. . .

sexkillz: [color=#000030]No thanks. [/color]

No , thanks.
There should be a comma, otherwise it means quite the opposite.
Talking about eyes, beams and logs....

Smartie gurl: That moment whn u wanna hear his voice and all u get is "I will call back ok, am busy now" It can be annoying i swear.

and guess what?? At that moment you're also very annoying to him.

nyere84: Bia, Flashaldrin, wats the meaning of this rubbish?? Who talked abt pimping? Or are you a love-vendor? Pls, get out of my way!!

relax sister, what i'm just saying is that with the level of tolerance you have, it wont be long before the slavery gets to a higher level. Thats all.

EsosaDiva: Theirs!!!!!! Oga aw many are dey?

i'm not saying i have multiple girls, but i dont want to call one now, and oga above will say another. Thats all. Yhim.

nyere84: As for me, i hate it wen he turns me into his laundry woman.

He hardly say “i love you“ to me. And, this drives me crazy, am begining to tink he dont love me anyway.

hang in there sister, until he starts pimping you.

CrazyMan: Cos you wouldn’t want to see what you look like while kissing.

if you open your eyes, can you see what you look like??

Oieezhah: solution: open a joint bank accnt for airtime purchase only.

nah, i'd rather stop talking altogether

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Nothing. [/color]

for your yellow mind.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Hmmm. Flash is in a derailing mood[/quote]boy, i'm tired of ignorant cliches

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Your personalized gift sounds great as you've only been dating her son for a few months. You don't want anything to over the top. Someone mentioned toiletries. That's another good idea. I know Clinique has gift sets. You can find that and other good sets at Macy's. Bath & Body Works too, but their scents are quite strong. I wonder how she'd take to it.[/size]

ok, we now know you know those places. What else??

Dondav: You know exactly what it is because you spelled it correctly (Baba Ijebu)... Unlike the @Op who spelled it wrong (Babe Ijebu)..

lol nah, just wrote it cos it sounded right, later i saw it was babe, but couldnt be arsed to modify it.

blessedWMN: That's a black woman born in the USA

aint that a black american then??
So are you saying lil wayne, eddie murphy and all'em celebs are african americans?

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Please, don't get her fabric. Get her something that's culturally symbolic of the US, a gift that can only be found here, or a personalized gift as you noted. She probably has a million kinds of fabric. Giving an older Nigerian woman fabric is like offering water to a fisherman. I bet she has better fabric than what you can find here anyway.[/size]

exactly my thoughts. Who still accepts fabric this days??
Give her something that will make her know its from oyinbo.

just do as you said or choose anyone of them. What's the big deal??