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Celebrities › Re: End-time Beer! Would You Drink This Beer Made By Using Vaginas? (PHOTOS) by Flexherbal(m): 10:36pm On Apr 01, 2016
It sounds very funy. I wonder what will be on your mind when drinking it!
Family › Re: Red Handed: Married Lecturer Caught Sleeping With His Student By Wife by Flexherbal(m): 4:15pm On Apr 01, 2016
It is bad for someone to be sleeping with girls for grades. The matter should be reported to the appropriate quarters.
Celebrities › Re: Mo Abudu's Estranged Husband, Tokunbo (photos) by Flexherbal(m): 3:02pm On Apr 01, 2016
The challenge most couples have is lack of communication.
Travel › Re: Ghana Visa Requirement For Nigerians From July by Flexherbal(m): 2:39pm On Apr 01, 2016
Politicians can still get in and out at any time.
Politics › Re: APC Now Has Two Factions —timi Frank by Flexherbal(m): 2:37pm On Apr 01, 2016
APC put your house in order.
Family › Re: Advice Needed: is she being ungrateful, or she is too kind. by Flexherbal(m): 2:30pm On Apr 01, 2016
You should have your own borehole. You can't continue to be fetching water from someone's house. How long will you do that?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job Discrimination Based On Institution Graduated From by Flexherbal(m): 2:16pm On Apr 01, 2016
This is bad and should be frowned at , at all levels.
Family › Re: What Is Your Take On Women That Grow Bears by Flexherbal(m): 12:31pm On Apr 01, 2016
Although it is natural . But, I don't like it.
Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Situation Maturedly:::: See Pix::::::::::::::::::::::::::: by Flexherbal(m): 12:27pm On Apr 01, 2016
Maybe you should call a family meeting for his sake.
Family › Re: 8 Things You Should Not Joke About On April Fools Day by Flexherbal(m): 12:21pm On Apr 01, 2016
OP: I am adding my voice to your voice.
Family › Re: How A Frustrated Man Fixed His Sexless Marriage (By Becoming An Asshole). by Flexherbal(m): 12:19pm On Apr 01, 2016
Thank God for your marriage!
Romance › Re: Woman Attempts Suicide Twice Because Her Lover Married Another Lady by Flexherbal(m): 12:12pm On Apr 01, 2016
Too bad.
Family › Re: I'm 8 Months Pregnant With Hymen Still Intact, Can't Bear To Be Disvirgined by Flexherbal(m): 10:52am On Apr 01, 2016
divinehand2003:
April fool
Could it be?
Celebrities › Re: Skales Celebrates His 25th Birthday Today by Flexherbal(m): 10:47am On Apr 01, 2016
Happy Birthday!
Family › Re: My Wife Has Little Or No Urge For Intimacy. Possible Causes & Solutions. by Flexherbal(op): 10:14am On Apr 01, 2016
Please add yours. Some people divorce because of little things like this.
Family › My Wife Has Little Or No Urge For Intimacy. Possible Causes & Solutions. by Flexherbal(op):
An intimate relationship is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy. Physical intimacy is characterized by friendship, platonic love, romantic love or sexual activity. While the term intimate relationship commonly implies the inclusion of a sexual relationship, the term is also used as a euphemism for a relationship that is strictly sexual.
Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience.
(https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intimate_relationship)
Now to the main Issue.
POSSIBLE CAUSES:
1. Lack of Sexual Satisfaction : When you can't satisfy a woman sexually, she tends to switch off her emotional button, making her always not in the mood. Imagine how it feels, when she is still enjoying it and wants you to continue, you always tell her you are done. You make her wait for a second round that will never come. This makes women to hate sex. If she does not reduce her urge for it, she might go out to satisfy that urge. Instead of her to cheat on you, she rather kills the urge for intimacy.
2. Child Birth: After child birth, the urge for intimacy gradually reduces for most women. This is cause by what they used in treating their inner body. Things like hot water and other medication could reduce the urge for intimacy.
3. Lack of Finance : When there is no money, she may also reduce her urge for intimacy. She will now turn her focus to making money and forget about intimacy.
4. Lack of Understanding: Many a time, men misuderstand their wives. She might be saying NO when she actually means YES. She might need you to understand that the weather is not condusive. When your house if full of guests, she might also go into her shells.
5. No More Attraction : Probably she fell for you because of your six packs. The way you dress. Your smell. Your white set of teeth etc. If these things are no longer there, the urge for intimacy will greatly reduce.
POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS
1. Satisfy your woman sexually. Make her feel loved and wanted. An average man may not be able to satisfy a woman. You need to put in extra effort to do so. That is why women stick to men that can satisfy them. Have you ever wondered why that woman can't leave that poor street guy, who beats her up every time? It is because the guy is a professional in satisfying her. Take a very good care of your male organ. Watch what you eat. Reduce your intake of sugary things. Eat lots of fruits and vegetables.
There are also some well known herbal products that can help you do well as a man. Play with her. Take your time during love making. If you can satisfy her, she will always want you.
2. Remember that most women's urge for intimacy reduce after child birth. Just look for a way to bring the groove back. Talk to her about it. Take her for counselling.
3. The role of a man is to provide for the family. Buy her things. Take her out once in a while. If your allow her to be doing the work of providing for the family, taking care of the children, cooking and other house chores, she will not always be in the mood for intimacy. Help out in some of the house chores, buy her gifts and also tell her sweet words.
4. Understand your wife. Know her body language. When she say No, double check to be sure that she does not mean YES. Study her weak point. If you know this, you will be able to always put her in the mood.
5. You have to remain atractive. If she marries you as a six packs guy, don't turn her off with a pot belly. Keep yourself and the environment clean. Maitain good oral hygiene. Mouth odour turns women off. Wear good perfumes and deodorants. When you smell well, your woman will be proud of you.
NOTE: These are just some out of the many causes and solutions.
I wish you well in your marital life!
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Pictured With Her Mother-in-law And Baby by Flexherbal(m): 4:00pm On Mar 31, 2016
It is good for a woman to have a good relationship with her inlaw.
Celebrities › Re: Seyi Law Kisses Kate Henshaw On Stage At AY Live 2016 - Video by Flexherbal(m): 3:51pm On Mar 31, 2016
Making use of the opportunity.
Celebrities › Re: Photo: Yemi Alade Stunes In New Look by Flexherbal(m): 3:49pm On Mar 31, 2016
This girl is blazing!
Celebrities › Re: Mayhem In Lagos Island As Davido Shoots Streets Themed Video by Flexherbal(m): 3:47pm On Mar 31, 2016
It is good to visit some of those pplaces. They are humans too.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor E.A Adeboye Is A Murderer – Kemi Olunloyo by Flexherbal(m): 3:44pm On Mar 31, 2016
There is no religion or tradition that supports being a sigle mother. If it happens by mistake, nobody will blame you. It is not what to brag about.
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo And Wife Celebrate 4th Wedding Anniversary In Dubai (pics) by Flexherbal(m): 3:38pm On Mar 31, 2016
May God continue to keep them together.
Celebrities › Re: Taiwo Aromokun & Her Twin Celebrate Their Birthday With Lovely New Pics by Flexherbal(m): 3:33pm On Mar 31, 2016
I love twins!
Christianity Etc › Re: Baby With Heart Condition Completely Healed. See Photos + Testimony by Flexherbal(m): 3:27pm On Mar 31, 2016
Thank God for the life of the baby.
Business › Re: Today's Naira Exchange Rate by Flexherbal(m): 2:50pm On Mar 31, 2016
There is hope.
Politics › Re: Good Change Hits Owerri/port Harcourt Road by Flexherbal(m): 2:43pm On Mar 31, 2016
A good job!
Career › Re: Thread For Auditors & Potential Auditors by Flexherbal(m): 2:29pm On Mar 31, 2016
Tinfomation is power!
Crime › Re: Shocking Moment Chinese Teacher Strips In Playground And Tries To Molest Student by Flexherbal(m): 6:51am On Mar 31, 2016
That man should be taken to the Psychiatric hospital. See the way those guys are just looking at him without doing any thing.
Crime › Re: Cult Clash Again In Kwara State Ilorin by Flexherbal(m): 6:40am On Mar 31, 2016
Is that what they do for a living there?
Crime › Re: Lagos Chief Flogs Pregnant Bread-Seller (graphic Photo) by Flexherbal(m): 6:39am On Mar 31, 2016
Will a sane man flog a pregnant woman? Those opressing the poor, you will never go unpunished, either by man or by God.
Politics › Re: What Can You Say To This(photo) ? by Flexherbal(m): 6:30am On Mar 31, 2016
That car will never agree to be brought to Nigeria in its next life.

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