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Kirchoffs:
Are you cursed with the spirit of lies? You went to copy something from Twitter ole

Be calming down na haha

Hello guysss

My a year and 4 months old baby just stopped breastfeeding please what food can I give her

She previously takes Ogi, Golden morn that's her regular food and one in awhile eat normal rice,swallow ,indomie with us

But now she has fully stopped breastfeeding and I'm lost on how to start giving her normal food.

She can't chew properly yet that's why I'm not sure about solid food

Please what can I start feeding her

HerRoyalFlyness:
Sweetheart don't let anyone guilt trip you. You did nothing wrong. Even if you did, he should stop being a coward and talk about it or leave and never come back.

I've been in a similar situation before and one thing that helped me and I need you to understand is that some people are just out to confuse you and waste your time. You must never let them. Don't even give them a listening ear talk less of being friends with them. Stop the whole "benefit of doubt" thingy. The guy does not deserve it. In fact, no one deserves more than 1 benefit of doubt.

You're a Queen. A gem. Believe it! Own it! if you don't, no one will and he and his likes will continue toying with your emotions.

Thank you royal

I'm actually tired and I think I just need to actually let this go

Oshey dear

lagusboyyy:
Should i tell you the honest truth?

Most guys cant adhere to your own type of dating/romantic relationship. Not touching you till MARRIAGE? Not many will accept that T&C.

I wish you best of luck.

well,that's true but that's just want I want

I barely will go intimate with someone I'm just in a date with that I'm not even sure will marry me

And besides,I said he has another girl, meaning while he was wooing me,he also had someone else in mind,guess I'm not such a necessity. Just imagined I'd agreed,I'd be what,side chick?��

Htop:
believe me... it's hard sometimes.... I just got away from someone that used me and played with my heart for ten months.... she and her mother .....just try everything to distant yourself from him... everyone deserves true love... you need to have peace of mind and stay happy.... stay away from him

I will

Thanks

Sorry for what you went through,it's life

lagusboyyy:
In your own terms,whats the difference between DATING and ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP?

Dating to me is just growth,I'd manage to be there in anyway. Romantic -Im sorry,If we're not married,don't touch me!

emmyN:
Smiles. You know you don't need closure, because there was no proper definition to what you had. Platonic friendship between opposite sexes are often difficult to keep, especially when one party wants more. Give it time, you'll get over it.

For the reason you gave for being single, you were never in a relationship before, remember ? I think you ladies should be realistic on what you look out for in a partner. Be flexible but firm. Show whoever doesn't tick most boxes the door and keep the door closed.

Regards.

true

I'm not firm with what I want

Most time I'm like..ermm maybe he'd change, maybe with time blah blah

But I was wrong.

Well,thank you very much

lagusboyyy:
you are the one confusing yourself sis.

What do you want from him? Do you love him? You dont want a romantic relationship right? Yet! You cant let go,its obvious he wants to date you,but you dont want this.

My sister,you cant eat your cake and still have it,the guy is not ready to be a casual friend to you,he wants a relationship,why not give him a chance,since you like him so much,or are you scared of something?

if he didn't want a romantic relationship then just maybe we might date,I can't offer anything romantic.and yes,it's hard letting go and maybe that's my mistake

Sawzer:
Isn't it obvious?
He's just catching cruise. When he feels bored and lonely he comes back to cruise. He doesn't really love you. He also wanted you to be jealous because you are not really giving him the answer he wanted that's why he post those things on his status without blocking him from seeing his status.


And always follow your instinct, you did the right thing for not accepting go his demands the first time.

exactly guyyyy


The first time I decided to leave I should have just trusted my instinct. But give him another chance na, maybe he'd change baah blah blah,see where it got me to

I'd block my access to him


Oshey dear

Starz825:
bae , calm...I know aw you feel...I guess you feeling hurt because you did the right thing...*you don't want a romantic relationship**...you stood your ground!...
me like your courage. muah

thank you

Htop:
he knew you have a soft heart..... you should help yourself no one will..... disconnect him in ur life... avoid conversation with him.... time will heal u

This is easier said but I know it's like almost the only option

Thanks

Stargurl20:
Listen, sis. I'm aware it isn't easy, but trust me, you will be doing yourself a great favor by moving on. Stop checking up on him. You could even ignore his messages if need be cos your sanity right now, is important. Love can be acted just like in the movies. Don't let a guy toy with your emotions cos he has nothing to lose but you. I understand how you feel and don't mind those criticising your age. Love has nothing to do with age. Just move on... Only you can help your self move on... By always resisting the urge to check up on you.

I'd really want to do this but sometimes I feel this guilt that just because he didn't date me,I'm cutting him off,,it's like I'm going to the extreme..

Thanks for this

Privatepart00:
Are you still available for a new beginning huh?

No

I need healing and have work to do on myself

Thanks

jornwhite:
You will get pregnant maybe not now, don't curse yourselve o ! the best way to move on is to look for a long term distraction & don't isolate yourself.
i think meeting new people is the best form of distraction ever.

Yes o,I'd get pregnant at the right time,

Thank you, I'd meet new people

Pancakeey:
Hey flolovtri I hope I spelt the moniker right.

Well, what can I say? I’ve not really been in this position but I’ve been with someone who didn’t care or do too much to reciprocate my feelings.
No calls, slow replies, he’ll ghost and all. Then after a while he’ll come back saying something happened and that he’s sorry. Lol, NEVER AGAIN will I let that rubbish happen to me.

Just move on. It’s even foolish telling you to move on when you guys never started anything together.
And you said you don’t want a romantic relationship then what do you want?
A platonic relationship?? You want a platonic relationship and you’re already having feelings and writing an epistle over this guy who doesn’t care about you.
Believe me, if a guy is really into you, you’ll see it.

I’m sure you’re feeling this way about the guy maybe because he was the first person to make you feel wanted or something Idk.

Lemme not talk too much. Take your mind off him and breathe fresh air
Also go back to WhatsApp abeg. You didn’t download WhatsApp to be staying offline and waiting for someone to notice your absence.

girllllllllll���I'm going back to whatsup,don't worry

If I go into any relationship is mainly for growth. How can I grow you and how can you grow me. Then when you're ready,you pay pride price and even other thing is yours


Thank you very much

emmyN:
You've obviously gotten emotionally attached to him but are still indecisive. He's wooed you thrice and you turned him down, what then do you expect he sticks around doing? Oh you want friendship? He made it clear from the get-go he wasn't in for "just friends". The kind of relationship he's proposed you've consistently turned down, so you shouldn't feel sad that he is backtracking.

Next time you are with someone, ensure to know what you really want to avoid unnecessary emotional entanglement. Now tell me, why has he met you "single" every time he breezes in? No option?

please note that I leave whenever I notice he's doing that,I always leave so he can focus on whosoever he's after.

And for why I'm always single-i don't rush our of one to rush into another,I'm not that desperate to have someone in my life.

Thanks though

Anoth:
This happened to me in school then
This guy collected my number.
I have always liked him from afar because he is my coursemate. So we clicked when he wooed me.
We were doing lovey dovey(no sex).
Until suddenly, he doesnt pick my calls and will not return the calls.
I was confused and annoyed at the same time.
The following week we had lectures, we bumped into each other
He just snubbed me(i was dazed)
Instantly i deleted and blocked him!!!
Good riddance to bad nonsense!!!
Our situationship was just (3wks)


I know its hard but just TRY and move on.
Go out more, Your own guy will surely locate you.
Gracias!

why do they come when they have no plans of staying

Well,you savage though

Thanksssss

Shortyy:
It is dear.

Just dey your day. That's what I do.

Think about my life and future and how to be wealthy.

Live in my own little world.

I'd girl

Thank you

Uzomacharles:
if him play him role well...

He's acting like a Peacock on the heat..

The guy just wan 4ck...

Make the girl better forget about am unless she wan enjoy too

no

We'd rather leave

Anoth:
You love him more than he does..

He no send you sef..

Block that guy and mouve on!!

the truth is just too sad

Thank you very much

Amazingboy1:
Though I don't really get what you wrote,,,,,

But if i wanna answer you according to what I understand,,,,


Leave him,, if he come back he just wanna temper with yaa emo,,,

I won't let him in

Me sef don tire emotionally

Thank you

Rapsodee:
Forget him and redirect your focus. If his life is this complicated to you without entering relationship with him yet, I wonder how you will be so pained if you eventually agree for him. It will end in premium tears.

And in case you need a cool friend to chat with. You can enter my DM.

Thank you

I'd redirect

Shortyy:
Lmaoooooooooooooo

I don't know why it's hard for women to realize that most times men use them to catch cruise.

isn't that sad

Uzomacharles:
The nigga dey find puna to kpesh

him no go see am o

Amazingboy1:
I'm not saying you're looking for sympathy,,,,,,

What i said is the truth,,,,

Listen to yaaself you don't see each other always but you're down for him,,, you haven't know him yet,,,,,,


Haa ,, gad,,,, I don't have strength to school somebody today,,,,,, but note that if a boy didn't like a girl he won't give a fvck about what you're going through,,,,,,,,,,,

If he's into you he will be checking on you,,,, this yaa action is dangerous for your soul,,, girl loving a boy is more dangerous dan boy loving a girl,,,,, your heart break is going to be brutal,,,,,,,

Face yaa study,,, work harder and make money,,, aswear nah boys gp dey chase you up and down,,,,,,,

Thank you Amazingboy

I'd be my best

baralatie:
aha!

WhatsApp love!

stick to career development and making money biko

Thank you

Anoth:
Hey kid, don't you dare be rude to me

You were sent to school to study, which you are not serious about, instead of using your school fees to start-up something else, rather you went ahead to subject yourself into the passenger's seat of an emotional rollercoaster.

Mind your studies, you go dey alright las las

thank you

That's what you should have said at first

Amazingboy1:
True talk my brother,, ❤️

Lemme add,,,


What a wise man see 100 meter away,,,,, a fool can't see it 1metre away,,,,, ,,,,


She really put boys matter for head without knowing dat some boys are brutal and don't give a fvck about what we don't want,,,,,,

You are so blunt. True talk though but why he keeps coming back. I know you don't want me so why you back?