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baralatie:
literarily there is nothing wrong!
you already have your doubts about even going into the relationship in the first place and all you want is a simple friendship with no strings attached.
this he doesn't want and definitely be wants to play the I love you (yes) and the I don't want (no) game at the same time.
if you have someone who is playing a yes and no at the same time.just drop the person abeg

Thank You v.much

Anoth:
Please who can summarize this?



All this long speech just because of one guy

Yes

Keep moving if you can't read

CoderX:
Yan yan yan... Are u above 20 yrs?

You are a small girl my dear. They sent you to school to learn, not to follow a boy. After all the lovey lovey, what next, isn't it premarital sex?

What an elder sees sitting down, a child cannot see even if he climbs the iroko tree.

You saw where I wrote I didn't want a romantic relationship

Amazingboy1:



No advise for you,,,,

We don't know what you've done,,,,,

You came to drop the sweet sidesnd uncomplete story,,,,,,,

Maybe I'm indecisive

If he had told me I did something wrong and I'd write it here too

Anytime I ask he'd say nothing,I didn't do anything

We barely saw too, mostly communicate through WhatsApp

I'm not looking for sympathy bro

Thanks

CoderX:
So what do you want us to do now?

Move on, small girl... and face your studies cos that's why your father sent you to school.
Don't go and carry unwanted pregnancy oo! This one that you typed a whole epistle because of a boy... Belle is around the corner

I'm not a small girl and I won't get pregnant

Thanks

baralatie:
huh?

huh

So I met this guy during a lecture. He collected my number and we became friends. I wasn't looking forward to dating him,it never crossed my mind. But we chatted regularly and well,I started to like him. And he said he loved me too and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I didn't because I felt it was too early and deep inside I never planned to have a boyfriend and it didn't feel like love. I had my doubt

After the decline,things were a lil bit shaky, awkward conversations unlike before. I just liked him and was confused if we should or not go into relationship. Relationship means alot to me and I felt he was trying to play around and didn't really want something serious. After awhile I left him,I was confused,I wasn't sure I could offer him what he wanted too-a romantic relationship. All this happened last year

During the very beginning of covid-19,he sent a text and I did same but not with the intention of getting back. But he suggested we spoke on WhatsApp and gbam!we were friends again. Telling me how much he missed me,how he felt about me and those stuffs they tell you. Well we were friends again and this time I wanted a defined relationship,if we have nothing then it's nothing. He wanted me to be his girlfriend but I didn't feel that he wanted something serious. He never calls. If I don't greet he won't. And when he does he'd take time to reply this was like few weeks after we reconnected o. He started saying he was busy. Like mannn,I'm busy too but will still tàje time to text you. It got so so so bad. Man whatsup?why you like this?

Nothing,I don't just feel like talking to you or anyone else. Which was a big lie

I just stopped texting him,took him off my WhatsApp. I was really pained. Had to start working to get my mind of it. I was really hurt.

All this still happening during this lockdown.
Then one day he called my phone, remember I took his number off my phone,so I didn't know he was the one.

Well,we got talking again. I made sure I let him know why I took him off and he apologized. I accepted and we were back again. I know, I'm such an idiot. But are we not supposed to give people benefits of doubt -atleast he apologized.

Well,we became friends again. Told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend. At this point I was scared and I hardly trust him. Why you always leaving? I have this guess that he's still stucked to someone else maybe his ex. But they only guesses.

I told him I didn't want a romantic relationship. Well,we didn't come to a conclusion but we were still friends. Until recently,he said he was going through shi and normally, I'd do what I can. But I knew it was about another girl he's after. He post romantic shi on his status and I just feel pain really. Why? I always leave because you are not ready but then you come back forming whatever,I always do the mistake of letting you in back because I feel I could give you another chance.

Just recently he posted something on his status telling a girl he loved her blahhh(he wanted me to be his GF when he was actually chasing someone else.Yes,I'm pained. I know he's gone but ahhhh.


I've been off WhatsApp for like Two weeks and baba hasn't called or texted. Something I'd never do if he were in my shoes.

A part of me was waiting for closure but I know it's not necessary. This is not the first the second time

Sincerely, I'm pained. I know I should move on but that hurt is just too much. I really loved him

At this point I don't even know what to do with him.

I'm stupid? I dunno

How will someone withdraw that kind of money and nobody will notice

The money that went into this should be worth the tears

It's not easy na

They said government is not working and yet destroy the one government manages to do

It's not fair

DenreleDave:
Wise woman... Thank you

His children wunt even step out

they won't

We don't even know them

It's just so sad sha,the poor masses are the ones mainly affected by bad governance

Donspicey:
Lolssss,,,,You no wan die.......


Good tinx dont come easy it always come wit sacrifices.....


Weda u protest or not one day u go sha die.....


People wey die for protest sef no reach anywhere compared to dos wey die even as dem no protest.....


Nigeria must be Great again.....

Part one don go......


watch out for part two.......

It's not really about person no wan die

The president has said he'd address it

Let's wait for that

Things are already been done

And most of the people fueling the protest won't move an inch from their house stating one excuse or the other when really they are staying safe

Make una stay for una house

Twitter will do the job

Don't get your innocent self killed

Return in which two weeks?
Poor masses will go out and protest and will get killed while doing that

And you'd be in your own house fuelling the protest

We are not protesting

HelenBee:
I fried it in a small pot instead of frypan. The frypan will make it flat I guess and I whisked it a little bit more than normal.

okay

Thanks

HelenBee:
I'm not a plantain fan but then...

how did you get this fluffy egg

mariahAngel:
Ok. A good amount of onions, 3-4 cloves of garlic, curry, thyme, turmeric, with chicken seasoning, added to your vegetables, especially carrots.... I'm sure it'll taste very nice

Okay

Thank you very much

kinah:
I prefer to use turmeric when boiling my rice.
For more colour
I add curry to my veggies when I want to stir fry it.
You can add the chicken seasoning to the veggies. For boost in taste.

Okay,thank you very much

mariahAngel:
What about beef? Do you have?

I don't have any anything to boil

Just my rice and vegetables

kinah:
Add
TUMERIC
If there is no chicken broth
Use meat broth or chicken bullion seasoning could do the magic word

I've thought about that seasoning cube idea but wasn't sure if it'll give me the right taste

I'd definitely try this

What of curry,I thought that's what they use to get the color

Thank you very much though

Saifulah:
I know our so called leaders are the worst scum on the face of the earth. But are we not out doing them in this race for rascality?
"If you see something wrong do something, but if you can't then say something if that also fails then despise it in your heart...."

We are better than this Nigerian youth, even though this is what they want to turn us to

this us true

But mehnnn, there's hunger

People are hungry

Why did they delay the distribution of the palliatives

Lockdown has been raised na

Shey dey want to be sharing it when everybody will be busy

mariahAngel:
You can just use vegetables then. Carrots, sweetcorn and onions will give sweetness to it.

should I parboil my rice with ordinary water or is there anything I can add if I don't have that liquid chicken stock?

mariahAngel:
Are you a vegetarian or you don't have chicken stock?

No chicken to boil to get the stock

Blexino:
When you die people start saying different things.....like what happened? Why didn't she speak out....ah....fine girl! Nawaoo, etc.. am not seeking for attention.... but this shit is 1000% real....mo ni kee ni nice day...

Don't ever commit suicide because you'll only pass the pain to someone else

And remember na only dey this waka,be very strong for yourself, very very strong

Cheers

Can one prepare fried rice without chicken stock?

What can I use as a substitute

RedPhoenix:
E dey pain them. I feel it from afar


I can't deal with gossips. Cause people will spread ifnormation that isn't true and to recover from such damages usually takes a lot. I can't deal o


I can't


My rule is simple


You only know my first name


Nothing else. Not what I do. How I do it


Cause when the enemy strikes,it's with what they know about one

Trueee


See finish no good at all,just keep to yourself

They don't need to know

RedPhoenix:
When people know one internally that's when they can hurt one. I rather take the premptive strategy of not being found out than being sorry.

That area is safe


But some will still gossip about things they are not sure of,them go dey spread am like say ba true even if they don't know you well


God will protect all of us

I like your style,just dey mind your business dey go

RedPhoenix:
I don't give people face. I give my entire street the I don't care. But from the fifth Street I chat with people ND they know. I don't want unecessary gossip bonding me with people.

You see say you sef harsh small�

RedPhoenix:
Stop all movie and browsing activity an hour earlier than your sleep time to reduce your mind activity

I'd definitely try this

Thank you very much

RedPhoenix:
You go dey harsh

na so e suppose be na

When people are looking for who they'd step on,you suppose dey at alert too

RedPhoenix:
Still your mind from wandering. You're in a state of anxiousness and worries like debts and commitments. Get yourself GNLD Tre en en to boost your cellular energy levels to uplift you from that state of constant fatigue

You just explained it all

Thanks

I might not take the medicine thought l,not a fan of medicine but will try to still my mind

After long hours of working I'd feel really tired and feel pain in some parts of my body but won't be able to sleep

I'd just be tossing on the bed,eyes closed but my mind is wide awake. Thinking of a lot of things. No matter how I try to shut it down,it won't and most times I won't get any sleep but will still feel that tiredness


What can I do to actually sleep when I'm weak and stop my head from roaming

Thanks

sisisioge:
Gossip in neighborhood bawo....how will know there are gossips if you're just going and coming your own with the occasional "hellos"? I dont think we have them here

people changed behavior towards you without you doing them anything will tell