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Nairaland / General / What We Getting Wrong About "New Year Resolutions " by Flolovtri(f): 4:38pm On Jan 01, 2022
Assalamalaikum and a prosperous new year to you!

So I read about someone breaking his/her 2022 resolution few minutes into the new year and I'm sincerely not surprised one bit. Why?

During December I thought if alot of things i wanted to stop doing and new things I want to start doing and I was like,why don't I wait till the new year before implementing any changes or starting any journey?. But then I thought, if you don't start working on your resolutions immediately you identify them then you definitely not going to start when the new year comes.

You know you have a bad habit you trying to stop,instead of taking the necessary steps to stop them,you decide to wait till the new year before you take any action, this simply just means "You never ready".

Start working on your problems. Don't wait for this time or that time before you start taking actions because tomorrow is never ever promised and waiting doesn't mean you'd even get it done sef.

So as long as you know your problem, take the necessary steps to start solving them. Don't wait!

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Assault On Lautech Muslim Lady: MURIC Asks Oyo Govt To Investigate. by Flolovtri(f): 4:31pm On Nov 19, 2021
This is so sad

Why expose something she sees as sacred?
Travel / Re: Why Are Nigerians So Successful In America? by Flolovtri(f): 1:15pm On Nov 17, 2021
Seriously?!

I don't know but lemme start preparing. Me sef wan successfull!

Thanks for the update.
Family / Re: 43-Year-Old Man Beats His Daughter To Death In Osun Over Persistent Crying by Flolovtri(f): 11:46am On Nov 08, 2021
She explained that she conspired with her husband to kill two of the children due to poverty, while they dumped one child around the Osogbo Technical School area.




We lost our humanity a very long time ago. Sad.

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Programming / Data Analyst For Beginners. Which Way? by Flolovtri(f): 7:56pm On Apr 26, 2021
Hello guys

I just got a PC and the first thing I really want to do is learn data analysis and maybe later switch to data science. But I have no idea about how to start!

I like the idea of gathering data and using it to explain history and also make future predictions.

So please,gurus in the house,just briefly explain what one needs to know about Data analysis especially as it is in Nigeria.

All suggestions are welcome

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Romance / Re: Be Blunt. Be You. Trust Your Instincts. by Flolovtri(f): 4:15pm On Apr 09, 2021
DemonInvoker:
I guess he still has his panties twisted and can't think straight...From my experience, People pretend to be different than what they really are,then from there it's downhills... It's just better to put that in Perspective when meeting someone...You're a smart and nice girl to have & to hold So I don't know why the guy is messing up...Being able to Reason,Joke and laugh with your partner is one of the most important things any relationship can have...I'm sorry for your loss.

Well,let's see what fate has for us

Thanks

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Romance / Re: Be Blunt. Be You. Trust Your Instincts. by Flolovtri(f): 2:17pm On Apr 09, 2021
DemonInvoker:

You already have your Conclusions in Front....You Know if the Relationship is on the Rocks...So I wouldn't really speak on behalf of the Guy here but How about seeing the guy,Looking at him in the Eyes, Smiling,Sitting up Straight, Ask him a few Questions about himself Again,What He really wants and so on...That's how you decide on when to draw the curtains.

We were supposed to see before he went back to school but he cancelled it that he wanted to gets things for school. He doesn't just want this and I don't want to force him because this is how it has always been,me forcing everything.
Romance / Re: Be Blunt. Be You. Trust Your Instincts. by Flolovtri(f): 1:59pm On Apr 09, 2021
omaclarry:
Op hope u re not talking about me

Pele

I don't know you

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Romance / Re: Be Blunt. Be You. Trust Your Instincts. by Flolovtri(f): 1:32pm On Apr 09, 2021
Carchoice:
No wonder you were attacking me in Allah and cryptocurrency thread.

Someone haf broke your heart. Kpele my dear. You’ll be fine in few days time.

But I see problems coming. You instincts will start playing hanky panky with your heart in your next relationship.

What hanky panky?
Romance / Re: Be Blunt. Be You. Trust Your Instincts. by Flolovtri(f): 1:31pm On Apr 09, 2021
DemonInvoker:
Women can be very picky when it comes to Dating...I bet you had a lot of things you wanted in a man that weren't just there... Despite the guy opened up,told you the truth and apologized, you still Went ahead and dropped him...Women forget Dating as in finding a Potential life time partner is easier for men,no pressure whatsoever on us...We don't have a clock ticking.
Good luck on your Quest and Recommendations.

Told me the truth because the relationship with the other lady didn't work. Would he have told me if it did work?if they were still together?

And no,I didn't dump him. He said the last time that we had a complicated relationship and the things he wants keep changing (whatever that meant) and he didn't exactly knows what he wants.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Ruling On Trading Cryptocurrencies by Flolovtri(f): 12:13pm On Apr 09, 2021
Carchoice:
madam, I did not criticize it o. You are the ignorant one here for criticizing me.

Educate yourself before talking on an issue you know nothing about

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Romance / Be Blunt. Be You. Trust Your Instincts. by Flolovtri(f): 12:12pm On Apr 09, 2021
Hello my people.

Straight to the point.

If it doesn't feel right, it's not right,know this and know peace. Learn to trust your instincts and believe in your feelings.

This year will be almost two years since I met this guy and they've been doubts in me about trusting him,I even told him I had trust issues with him. It was a long distance relationship. I felt one has more work to put since we barely saw each other,so I took that as a challenge and tried to meet up.

Since the end of last year through to this time,I was so thinking of ending things with him because I know,I just know this wasn't love,but I was like "maybe he'd change"," you have to be patient","it's part of the sacrifices"..... And all other excuses we put up for our partners.

But recently I just stayed away for like a month,but then we spoke recently and I told him I was away because I know he had someone else. And I received a shocker. He told me " that's was last year na,the relationship I had with the girl started and ended last year and I didn't want to tell you because of I know how you'd feel,I'm really sorry."

Eyin Nairalanders egba mi\(°o°)/

I was shocked but didn't show it. So all those while I would worry,call,text and everything,you were actually with someone else.

At that very moment the respect,trust I had for him just varnished, everything I ever felt for him varnished, like,I was already at the breaking point before sef.

I don't feel that urge to text him anymore unlike before where I'd be so worried if we don't talk in two days. He still has my number and I still have it but it just there, nothing he does pushes me anymore. Trust just totally gone


And I felt bad for myself because I know how badly I tried to make it work. And then I remembered my doubts and how I didn't listen to them.

I was sacrificing for someone who didn't have me in mind at all.

At this point I've decided not to settle ever again. If he's not living up to or atleast putting in that effort that I'd equally put then that's it.

We all deserve better sincerely. Just keep improving and being a better person and along the line,you'd get what you deserve and sometimes even more.

Cheers to a wonderful weekend!

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Ruling On Trading Cryptocurrencies by Flolovtri(f): 11:51am On Apr 09, 2021
Carchoice:
Allah knows what cryptocurrency is?

Wonders!!!

How can you criticize what you don't know,isn't that ignorance?

For everything in islam, there's a ruling

Indirectly or directly

Tell me what becomes of a nation without rules

May Allah increase all of us in wisdom (Amin)

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Romance / Re: When The Ones We Love Don't Love Us Back by Flolovtri(f): 12:44pm On Feb 02, 2021
Legalcriminal:
Ignore both, guy C is still coming for you.

Hahaha

Shey?
Romance / Re: When The Ones We Love Don't Love Us Back by Flolovtri(f): 12:26pm On Feb 02, 2021
Kriss216:
Stay where you are.

Hahaha,why is this funny �

He spoke about his GF breaking up with him recently and that got me even scared maybe he's looking for where to numb his pain and not like he likes me. O su mi o
Romance / When The Ones We Love Don't Love Us Back by Flolovtri(f): 12:16pm On Feb 02, 2021
Guy A and I has known each other for two years now(on and off dating). Recently he was off WhatsApp to because of exams and didn't want distractions. I do take breaks from socials too but I didn't this time because I didn't want to lose any information regarding school. Meanwhile we attend same school but different campuses.

Guy B and I attend same religious gathering,he had my number one time but we barely chat so recently again he collected it and I guessed maybe he replaced it the first time. Now,Guy B always chat me up,no matter how I try to ignore, he'd chat me up just to say hi and know how my day went.

Now,Guy A is back on WhatsApp and doesn't even chat,I called him regularly when he was offline and now I believed he only use to pick to fulfill all righteous and not because he wants to. This Guy B is trying hard to get my attention,he even calls,text regularly. I'm trying to withdraw from Guy B because I know I have a commitment with Guy A. Since yesterday Guy A has not texted or called me. Guy B has called me thrice,sent me multiple messages and VN's.

I'm trying to fix things with Guy A but it just looks like I'm forcing things,you talk and talk and yet nothing changes. I really don't know what to do, because Guy B is getting really close to me and sincerely it scares me.
Celebrities / Re: Emma Ehumadu: Stop Smoking Weed On Social Media - Labista Tells Wizkid, Davido by Flolovtri(f): 8:18pm On Jan 27, 2021
Are they the only ones doing it?

Even if they stop,are there not still people who'd still do it?

It's the youth he should talk to not calling out celebs
Family / Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Flolovtri(f): 5:04pm On Jan 26, 2021
Yes


So when house help travels to village or fall sick you'll still be able to cook something edible yourself

And cases might come up where you just have to cook-someone might come visiting-and you definitely will want to serve something nice

Ladies just know how to cook,it's not about husband-its a really good asset

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Romance / Re: Why Do No One Help Girls Willing To Use Skill To Work But Help To Naked Girls? by Flolovtri(f): 12:23pm On Jan 23, 2021
Hustle for capital

Be very good at what you do

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Romance / Re: Can One Actually Stop Masturbating? by Flolovtri(f): 1:01pm On Dec 28, 2020
illicit:



I really think so....
Well,seems there's no hope for masturbators then
Romance / Re: Can One Actually Stop Masturbating? by Flolovtri(f): 12:19pm On Dec 28, 2020
illicit:
Yes, when they are indisposed, like paralysed or outright dead....
so the person has to be indisposed,paralysed or dead?

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Romance / Can One Actually Stop Masturbating? by Flolovtri(f): 10:50am On Dec 28, 2020
Good morning guys

Sometimes you'll hear people say as soon as you start it,it's very hard to stop and almost impossible. Even if you're not aroused you still feel the need to indulge in it.

Is it true?

Sometimes you might not even do it for 6months or even a year and then suddenly you have the urge to,thereby locking oneself in that chain again

Is masturbating permanent?

How can one stop exactly?

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Religion / Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Flolovtri(f): 1:09pm On Dec 13, 2020
vonlogon:
The number one cause for your problem is idleness, I've work with people that are worse off than you, try not to be idle at any point in time, if you notice that you get tempted easily when you are alone try being around people, if you are unemployed look for some business to do, no matter how small. Getting married may help, but I've heard of married people masturbating too.

Secondly, learn to tell your inner man NO!
Even dangote is not always busy

You'll be idle once in awhile and the urge will set in

Like you said,learn to tell your inner man NO!
Business / Re: Should I Continue With The Boutique Or I Should Opt For A Massage Centre? by Flolovtri(f): 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2020
I'd say it depends on your area

Some places are meant for fashion alone,when people go there it's to but cloths

So study your area and know which of your business will strive in that area boutique or Massage

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Celebrities / Re: YBNL Princess Refuses To Change Name Despite Leaving Olamide’s Label (Pix) by Flolovtri(f): 8:59am On Dec 04, 2020
I've followed up with Temmie right from when olamide announced her

From jabole to Afefe to Bamidele

She was actually doing well and suddenly we stopped hearing from her

And now this

I wonder what happened

Alot has happened obviously but I wonder what and what happened for this change to happen

She got ruder

Looks like she's looking for who'll enter her trap so she can insult them

It's just not the Temmie I knew

I really really hope she's fine
Travel / Re: Why Don't We Have These Kind Of Streets In Nigeria? by Flolovtri(f): 1:44pm On Nov 23, 2020
ProfessorBerlin:
make money travel out.













Nigeria na scam
if everybody travel out

Who will stay to build this Nigeria to where we want it to be

Travel out,good. But please when time reach,you too come and do your own part in your father's land.

Make everybody join hands make Nigeria for better

Cheers

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Celebrities / Re: Akpororo And His Wife, Josephine Celebrate 5th Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by Flolovtri(f): 11:27am On Nov 14, 2020
sevo:
I only saw makeup...really don't get why ladies are so obsessed with makeup. ...the lady is naturally pretty without the makeup
I really wish more girls will believe this

But things like

"My eyes are not popping"

"My face is too dark"

"My lips needs to look plump"

Quest for long eyelashes...


And it keeps me wondering,shey God no know wetin him create? Like God created us perfectly,we just want more

Just take care of your natural looks and you're good to go
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Flolovtri(f): 11:21am On Nov 14, 2020
omooba969:


Eating too many of raw tomatoes is harmful to your health.

Take it easy ok.
hearing this for the first time faa

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Celebrities / Re: Wizkids PUMA Advert Currently In UK Stores & on TV (pics, Video) by Flolovtri(f): 10:52am On Nov 14, 2020
His father is not adeleke

His own hustle has to be twice as hard
Foreign Affairs / Re: Obama: I Smoked 9 Cigarettes A Day In White House & Stopped When Malia Caught Me by Flolovtri(f): 12:09pm On Nov 13, 2020
kayusely70:
An Habit Very Difficult To Get Rid Off.
why is it difficult? What is sweet about it. I'm curious

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