Hmmmmmm, i have been trying to solve this puzzle or question, yet not answer
the whot app is very good but you must have network to play it....i am enjoying it ..
I even saw that Mr Green (Odewale) has submitted his answer

VeeVeeMyLuv:

www.Pdfdrive.com for books

Thank you.

Tohsynetita1:

let's be friends.
What do you love to do? You can get friends through that.

I love to help people and get busy a lot.

Adegbem02:

Alot is happening, it not only you, what I will advice try get good friends, loyal gf/partner... Things are happening in this Nigeria, but we gat no option than to muvee

Hmmmmmm....

Thank you.

I will work on myself.

VeeVeeMyLuv:

U can also read books too

I laugh when people say books cannot work in Nigeria or you can't apply the principles in Nigeria. They are ignorant.

I am very lazy to read books.

I downloaded a lot of ebooks 📚 on my laptop few years ago but to read them is huge problem.

VeeVeeMyLuv:

You are welcome.

U said u are new in that place? Well that is one of the major problems that come with readily changing schools, workplaces, church, accomodations...

U will have to scratch from the scratch and build up.... Give it time.

Earn those people's trust....

Before you know it their suspicions about you will reduce or stop entirely.

Thank you so much.

The funniest part is that you're actually following my real moniker.... 😢

I am an old Nairalander

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Not necessarily money, you can give your time, advice, care, support, love, and so on...

Well in Nigeria now, remember that most people will only reason you or care about you if you are rich or come from a wealthy.

It is that bad. It is just the terrible part of life we have to live with. So will you now put on gloomy, depressed, dejected appearance because of these? It will just be like adding salt to injury!

The antidote will be for you to be cheerful, put on a friendly, agreeable countenance to swing things in your favour

Use your mouth, add sugar to it literally

Thank you so much.

You're so helpful.

VeeVeeMyLuv:


U just have to manage it like that, that's life for you.

Or u force yourself to mingle, socialize actively and aggressively. This is the only way.

I even went to club like 5 times last year when I got here thinking I will be able to socialise well but no.

Thank you for your input.

It is going a long way for me..

Atleast I'm aware that6 I am not alone

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Then change your circle

As long as human beings are concerned or involved, almost every aspect including relationships of life is not perfect.

The only place where you find perfect is sadly in movies.

Therefore relationships exists to some extent because of what either parties are gaining from each other.

Then other factors are common interests, shared goals, shared values, hobbies, and so on...

What value are you giving? Sharing? Are you useful in one way or the other,

Granted there will always be idiots that will try to take advantage of you, that always itching to treat u like trash. identify them and minimise communication.

If you treat it like this, I think your situation will improve.

U can also do all these online

I will definitely look into this.

Many people do remember me when they need help from me.

Despite the fact that I don't have much..... I enjoy giving out a lot.

Wodu89:



See. Again if I can hear from my Father accurately, I just got an idea what I feel if you apply would fill your empty soul.

I would like to recommend you look for farms in your state. Visit them one by one and tell them you would like to offer even free services or intern.or would like to offer help in any areas they may need for a month. And start from there. Farming hubs have countless of production sections you can easily fill in and begin your journey of transformation from.

The problem is I am new in this area.

It was the work that brought me to Bauchi.

I don't even understand Hausa.

These are the problems.

touchalex25:
You need friends not just online but offline friends. Friends you can meet and hangout out with

Everyone I meet offline seems busy.

Sometimes I will call them they won't pick.

I will message them.. It will take days before they reply.

Wodu89:


It's dicey. I could recommend a thing or two.


Let me explain what I believe someone in your shoe needs.

Example I run a small team of Nairalanders offline. Or hmm. It may seem like I want to advertise let me use a different scenario


Example. Let's say a company or a tech team wants to build a blogging company. It begins to search for like 20-60 hands to blog daily. The day to day activities everyone has their roles to play which ultimately makes the part of a sum


Or a long company that needs field agents to manage day to day operations, telling people about their operations and monitoring customer activity.


Your lack of day to day productivity is wounding your soul. You may be getting paid while being absent at work. But that's not what your soul is yearning for.

Thank you for understanding me.

This is helping me right now.

Red02:


What's your gender
What area(state) do you stay

I am a man.... Bauchi

Wodu89:



Life will be meaningful when you find the right team and the right path. What you're experiencing isn't depression. It's God stirring up your spirit to help you find a more meaningful life. A better productive path towards a better destiny ahead

I have tried to meet with people but I am not comfortable with those I've been seeing... Maybe because I'm kinda selective.

Wodu89:



Well. If I can hear from the Spirit of God that has never dissapointed me. You are not feeling useful. And that's what this is about. There's a yearning calling you to seek out more useful avaenues as the right path to walk in life.

Please give me practical examples of what I can do.

Did you know that my work is so comfortable that I can decide to go to work just once a week or twice a month with full pay.... It is government work.

I used to be friends with my parents but they are no more.

Parents are dead...... Just alone 😢 😢 😢

VeeVeeMyLuv:
U might just be having trust issues

Yes, I have trust issues because I have been let down in so many ways.

This is why I don't have friends.

When I see someone to talk to... I always say everything... But it always backfire.

Some close friends stopped checking me or talking to me... I tried my best to communicate with them but all efforts are negative.

Wodu89:



The last part is bad

For starters, I feel deep within my spirit you're not really utilizing yourself. What I mean is you need a work that will fill your spirit and make you happy

That's just the thing.... I am not doing the job I love... I am doing the job I see... You know Nigeria situation nah... The pay is okay.... Feeding and even helping others isn't the problem.

But I am not feeling useful enough.

Crystalsweetnes:
Let be friends

I am not a woman actually... I am man... A very popular nairalander.

Boredom is just too much.

Wodu89:



Perhaps you need to be in work community where you can interact and apply yourself. Why not look for where you can offer volunteer services to become part of a productive community.?

I started this volunteering sometimes last year but it's not helping.

Especially in the night when I am alone... It is so terrible.

I can stay in my flat a whole week and months without going and no one will ask after me.

I just need people to share things with.

I don't trust anymore... That's what's leading to my boredom and living all alone.

The saddest part is that I am a very popular Nairalander that everyone thinks he's okay emotionally.

But I am not.

Can some one share experience with me on how to overcome boredom and rejection... I am just tired.

Wodu89:



Life's worth it. What's the problem?

I am just always bored.

When I feel like talking then I will start talking too much.

I am just bored... Living all alone.

I started drinking last year thinking that I will overcome and be fine.

No friends... Nothing...

Everything is just somehow.

But I am grateful that I am alive with sound health.

Resting on my pillow.

Sitting on my bed.

Feeling like there won't be tomorrow.

I may be writing off point tonight but please don't be mad at me.

You know sometimes when you're alone...bored... Feeling rejected... Anything can happen...

Actually... I don't know what to write but I feel like writing.

Menhhhh... I'm just tired of everything.