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jeff1607:
I agree that training a child is the parent's responsibility, but when such a parent is no more would you turn away your eye?

this is Africa, parents aren't the only ones who train up a child, the community has a role to play. When one wants to involve himself with a family, he looks at the behavioural patterns of such families, that is why families don't joke with the upbringing of their wards.

what is family to u, if can't risk your life for them.

we do things just to make our loved ones family and you run back to family when all cards are down, now Dats family

tola4think:
nurturing a child itself requires wisdom,am sure at some point in development of your sister your mum would have noticed her excesses but turned blind eye.your sister didn't wake up one day to become a cultist and start doing drugs,someone gave her the freedom and she abused it

jeff1607:
Bros try and use your head


married men who have daughters with busy schedules nko? so been busy is an excuse not to morally train his daughter abi?


go to secondary schools, you see boys protecting their siblings and preventing them social vices



in some neighborhoods, you can't get too close to some girls because people fear their brothers

the list goes on and on

if you can't protect your siblings who will?

being in school ain't an excuse, so engineering students don't go on holidays abi? even b4 he got admission




when you are the first born protection and guidance comes automatically to u




if brothers did their job we won't ve slay queens

LordOfNaira:
I am enjoying the conversation here. As a medical doctor and a psychotherapist, these discussions hold a lot for me.

Well done, PaperLace, but I do believe that you feel life is as easy as you make it. Well, we professionals know it is not in all cases. Sometimes, the victims may have mental disorders like bipolar disorder or narcissistic personality disorder and the husband may be unaware because their marriage counselor is a pastor and not a professional. A man who marries a woman with narcissistic personality disorder is likely to beat her one day if he does not quickly walk away. Same goes for a woman who marries a man with narcissistic personality disorder. She is likely to become so battered emotionally and physically if she does not quickly seperate herself from him. Having given therapies to a lot of people, I can confidently tell you that not every man who became violent liked it. Some of them only did it once and regret it for a long time. Take for instance, a gentleman who marries this beautiful woman without knowing that she has narcissistic personality disorder. She begins to frustrate his life by throwing blames, abusing his parents whenever she feels like, is so jealous that she wants him to only work with males even though he is not the owner of the company where he works, slaps him and does not expect to be hit back and then one day, he defends himself. And one thing with people with narcissistic personality disorder is their ability to make you feel guilty in order to continue to manipulate you and make you feel worthless without them. So, the day you hit them (even if they have been hitting you for years), they would surely play the victim's card and then they will nag you everyday to make you feel bad for ever daring to stand up to their manipulation. I can tell you that there are men going through frustrations like these. Just as there are women going through same. Cases like these are sometimes unique that it is difficult to judge them. The one that came to social media first might have even been the aggressor.

Elparaiso:
I'm a dude, so don't make me start explaining why that black Adonis that makes guys feel insecure is hot.

Elparaiso:
Ehn ehn, na now on talk wetin ona like for the character, the hotness. Like I said, take away the blindness and he is just another ninja.


Besides, Luke Cage is HOTTER!

Lalas247:
It's not only you o
Every time I see Luke cage .. hair just dey stand for my body
Dunno just something about him I don't like
Maybe it's his head

Elparaiso:
Irritate ke? How? I kind of like his cheesiness in the show. In fact, the scenes he has shared with Danny so far are usually funny. If we were to pick a weak link in the team, it would be Daredevil sef. No powers, except not being actually blind. He's just like Hawkeye in Avengers, useful but meh. I'm even surprised that he could fight the Black Sky and escape unscathed.

Lalas247:
Trying to give it a chance
It's the Luke cage character that irritates me ..

But you know some seasons starts slow then picks up .. hoping it's the same
Actually like daredevil in this ..

bily:
Tried watching a couple of episodes, but I just wasn't feeling it. Dunno why.

Now it's officially my Valium whenever I need to get some sleep

Evaberry:
m...

A beach wedding is what I would love, in February or August, I want to put on a lovely pink or blue gown with only 30 or 35 guests in attendance. I want it to be intimate and close. I want him to know that the wedding is about us and not about pleasing some asholes.

even better if we can elope

HIScraziness:
The second pic, ladies whatya think

HIScraziness:
The second pic, ladies whatya think

tEsLim:
I've once seen maggots in smoked fish too. And I hate those insect that comes out of stocked fish when you put them into hot water.

And generally those beans bugs. they once took control of the kitchen when my wife wasn't around. Because I'll never cook beans so they multiplied in millions.

greenermodels:
99%of Nigerian girls are like that, that's how one was impregnated at onitsha by a guy that claims to work in an oil company at asaba,the guy then claimed to have been transferred to abuja and disappeared. the olodo girl is still arguing till today that the guy is an oil worker whereas he's a trader.

benedictnsi:
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See dem faces..... Bad market

They thought it was blow--job and hand jobs.......... Most of these babes brain no pass 10MB

KPboy:
So ladies aren't supposed to tell body count to their hubby?

Martinola:
please burry dis crap...a lady slapped me d oda tym, i was told to let it go jst because IT'S A WOMAN...if i had returned d slap, som bastards would call me irresponsible...why becos IT'S A WOMAN.

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in Taliban Afghanistan, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.

MrsMurphy:
This is the true definition of what mainly African women go through

KealDrogo:
Hmm having plenty beards. Unless it is intimidating like mine which is very good to your advantage. There was this interview i went to, the lady couldn't look at me straight in the face she was so nervous and sweaty. I tried to ask if there's any problem but she won't say. I guess my beautiful nicely shaved bears unbalance her and she couldn't cope with my cute bearded face staring at her. She ended up asking me some simple personal questions, sweet chat then a handshake.