Food › Re: My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by flyinnizam(op): 12:34pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Geemax: Your brother had to 'pay' or bribe the security guy abi na official guy to allow him hunt, that means ur brother committed a crime by killing D animals, some people get mind o, which kind conscience una wan use eat this thing wey be like Human so? Oluwa o do not permit me to eat anything that doesn't please u. Amin whatever u choose to eat or not is ur business ooo |
Food › Re: My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by flyinnizam(op): 12:32pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Candidlady: lovely... Can you sell your dog to an individual who you know most def' wil KILL it and EAT it? mature dogs can't be train by another individual so yes but I can't be there when the killing is going on |
Food › Re: My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by flyinnizam(op): 11:44am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Candidlady: iknow idont... Can you give me some of yours?
cant arrest you! Ionly pray/hope the souls of those animals torment you at night...
are you a petlover?¤please dont answer that, ialready know your answer¤ yes just dog and parrot. I don't eat the dog I train sha |
Food › Re: My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by flyinnizam(op): 11:11am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Candidlady: check am popcorn and raw yam na thesame thing? And who eats raw yam.. To you e make sense?
ican never be palz with a dog/cat eater! That person cant be trusted.
abeg come colect am... Alhaji wan get me anada one i eat dog cat monkey....come and arrest me ooo |
Food › Re: My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by flyinnizam(op): 11:08am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Candidlady: Are you going to eat 'em?
if yes! Can you also eat dogs?
if yes! What bout cats can you eat 'em
if yes! Then am sure you have eaten human beings before! this one don't have sense |
Food › My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by flyinnizam(op): 9:09am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Hunting is a profession and when we sell the animals we make monkey so we are not stopping anytime soon because forestry officers gave us the go ahead after paying necessary fee but I personally don't hunt nonetheless feel free to express your thoughts. Cheers
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Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 11:00pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Homeboiy: Your brother just take life wey he no bring
E too bad na u bring d cow life wey u dey eat or chicken life wey u eat for xmas day idiot |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 11:00pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Homeboiy: Your brother just take life wey he no bring
E too bad na u bring d cow life wey u dey eat or chicken life wey u eat for xmas day |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 10:59pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Iyaebe: This is wickedness, you killed animals that were just going about their normal life. You're a hypocrite if u eat chicken. Goat and cow. U think those animals don't deserve to be alive but antelopes |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 10:51pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Memberclub: Olodo full nairaland. You can always use Google I'm very sure u have not used google otherwise u won't he dis foolish to know deer don't have horns but antlers and we have never killed any antler animal here |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 10:10pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Valwezzy: I see most of your posts are about the "Killings" your brother made.
Where exactly do you live? I go like buy one of your bush meats someday. i live in Mozambique |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 10:09pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
sleekman: When will you all learn? This is a deer, not an antelope. u wan teach me my job...no deer grows horn, they grow antler....one of d animal there has little horn which u can not see so shut up. use google |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 10:07pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Jollos: That is a deer bro @ Op no deer grows horn. the bigger one has little horn |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 10:01pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Tmcruise: where are the horns.. u can't see the horns but the bigger one has grown a little horn which i didn't snap |
Food › Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 9:59pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Memberclub: this is a deer u have no idea what a deer is...deer have antlers not horns |
Food › My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 8:17am On Nov 09, 2021 |
My brother trap caught the bigger one while the smaller one was waiting for it to break free, my brother met both of them and killed them both.
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Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:39pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
sonofElElyon: Your brother is a danger to wildlife !!! nigeria has no wildlife reserve so shut up |
Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:39pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Differentiate: Nice one he try but shey na inside bush your bro dey stay .? Cause na only person wey dey stay inside bush fit catch all these animal.. we live in town....that's why there is transportation |
Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:38pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
olaolaking: Can you please connect me with your brother? I need a life monkey. I can give him tips on how to catch it life.
Where is your location? I am in Lagos u can't give him tips...he has caught many alive |
Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:37pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
numericalguy: Your brother is a very dangerous person for killing endangered animals. He should be arrested and prosecuted bubari dat is dangerous, why u never arrest am...fooollll |
Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:36pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Semaj77: I don't see any crocodile there look closer |
Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:36pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
OkukoIgbo: You, your brother and whosoever is supporting this barbarism and carnage are ultra useless and stupid period. We should clap for you that your hunger is pushing you to destroy our ecological balance. Stomach infrastructure. shut up |
Food › Re: Photos Of Porcupine, Monkey, Antelope, Deer & Crocodile Killed By My Brother by flyinnizam(op): 3:35pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
princewarri1985: How is it possible for your brother to kill all these in just one expediction or in one day?? Is he a superman its now possible |
Romance › Re: What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by flyinnizam(m): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
ezechidera: Money has been a symbol of status and power for thousands of years. And for thousands of years, women have desired wealthy men. It makes sense…money makes the world go ‘round.
A man with money provides stability and a better standard of living. He can support children. He can offer new experiences. We, as men, know this. It’s why so many of us work hard, dress to impress, and buy possessions that display our financial status. We want to position ourselves as high-value mates over other men.
However, some guys take this too far. They shower women they just met with absurd amounts of money. They pay for fancy dinners, lavish gifts, and high-end vacations.
The thing is, overspending doesn’t always get you the outcome you desire. It can be a viable option when you’re looking for a short-term hookup or a one-night stand…but when you’re looking for a more substantial connection, using money to attract women only sabotages your chances. I’m here to argue that money buys you attention, not affection.
It will influence less than you think
As I said, women value money…but the value of money is relative. Money matters much more when it directly impacts your survival. It carries a lot of weight when it’s the difference between having food and shelter or starving and being homeless. It matters less when it will just buy you a newer smartphone or designer clothes. While there’s still tremendous poverty in the world, global living standards have increased significantly. The influence of money is also dictated by scarcity.
Not only do more people have a stronger financial foundation, but for young, attractive women — money isn’t that hard to come by. Women have their own successful careers and independence. Some have also been financially supported by their family. And it’s easy for beautiful women to get men from bars or online dating to spoil them. The point is, throwing money at women isn’t going to be enough to make them stay with you.
You send an unattractive message
But even if your money doesn’t buy a woman’s loyalty, what’s the harm? Isn’t it just another tool at your disposal? There’s always a catch: when you do this, you’re NOT positioning yourself as a genuine, long-term romantic partner. For a woman to seriously consider you, she first has to become emotionally attracted to YOU. She should want to connect with you for your personality. She should desire your confidence, character, kindness, and sexuality.
She must value you as a potential lover first and foremost. Then you can eventually be a provider as well.
When you’re trying to impress a woman with money, what are you conveying?
You’re telling her that your primary value is what you can offer. You’re showing her that your real assets are…your assets. Not you. And the fact that you give up those assets so readily to someone you barely know tells her you don’t really value yourself. You are desperate. Because any man who has worked hard for his money wouldn’t give it up so frivolously. When you position yourself as the guy who buys a woman off, she won’t see you as the top-shelf guy she wants. She knows how it feels to be truly attracted to a guy, and she’ll know that she’s not attracted to you in the same way. You’ll always be the backup plan whose primary role is to provide for her. She may settle with you because it’s easy…but not because she’s in love with you.
You lie to yourself and overlook important people in your life
Maybe you’re still trying to justify spending your money on these new women. Maybe you have a lot of money and it’s not a big deal to part with some of it. You just want to be a generous, nice person to a woman who may not be as fortunate.
Every time I challenge a guy who makes this claim, he eventually reveals that yes, he does have ulterior motives. Deep down, you’re still trying to manipulate a woman into liking you. You’re not as innocent and charitable as you think. Just think: you probably don’t do this with other people in your life (especially the ones you don’t want to sleep with). If you really want to be generous, think of the people who have cared for you and invested in your for years. Don’t they need your support? Couldn’t your friends and family use some help? Aren’t there charities you care about who could really use that aid? So the fact that you’d rather spend your money on a woman you don’t even know tells me you’re not doing it out of the kindness of your heart. And if I can see through the ruse — women can, too.
You attract the wrong women who will leave you
What type of woman do you think chases men primarily for their money? By placing yourself as a financial provider first, you’re likely to attract women who value money over genuine connections. These are women who care most about living a lavish lifestyle. They will pretend to be invested in you as long as they get that monetary value. You’re also setting her up to consistently expect that kind of spending because that’s what she wants out of the relationship. You’ll have to keep financing her lifestyle as long as you’re together.
I’ve seen these types of women gaslight men, use sex as a bargaining chip, threaten to leave, and cause endless drama. I’ve watched guys keep buying their women big homes, fancy cars, luxurious vacations and loads of high-end jewelry. Almost always they run out of money…even the rich. Many multi-millionaire athletes and celebrities have lost their wealth due to fruitless spending on women or through divorce.(mostly in the western world) Eventually, you’re going to run out of money or your woman is going to find a man who she’s both attracted to as a person AND/OR has money. When you have nothing left to offer, there’s no reason for her to stay.
If you want a casual hookup, be forward and obvious
So when does using money as your primary value work with women? When you’re looking for quick sex and not much more. Also, when you’re looking for a relationship based on what you both can provide for each other (money, sex, attention) and not based on deep emotional connection. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with either of those scenarios. You just have to understand the dynamic and expectations, and not delude yourself into thinking something substantial will materialize. The best way I’ve seen men handle this is by being super forward about wanting a casual, sexual, and almost transactional “sugar daddy” relationship. These guys approach women and immediately start pampering them. They buy them drinks, offer rides in their sports cars, take them shopping, and wine and dine them at the best restaurants. They even plan spontaneous getaways. But at the same time, they’re extremely bold and sexual. They tell women they’re just “looking for some casual fun” and “a good time”. They say they aren’t looking for a relationship. They flirt openly and don’t hesitate to make a move. This places your intentions and expectations above board with a woman. She then can decide if she’s down for that kind of arrangement and whether or not she’s attracted enough to sleep with you.
If she’s good with this, you’ve got a mutual understanding between two adults. Spoil her as you wish and have some fun sex in return. If you want to date her, don’t lead with money If you want to date a woman (for real) or find a long-term healthy relationship, you need to change strategies.
You have to offer your personality as your primary value. 
Focus on building a connection by listening well and being an engaging conversationalist. Show her your courage by being a more assertive leader. Turn her on by flirting with her.
You alone should be enough to attract her. If you can’t accomplish that, she’s just not that into you.
Let her recognize your financial status passively. She can learn about it when you tell her about your career. She can see it in your car, your clothes, or when you invite her back to your place. She can even feel it in the way you carry yourself. That way, she sees your potential as a provider without it being the ONLY thing you have to offer. You’re showing you have self-worth by not trying to win her over with your money.
This doesn’t mean you have to be a cheapskate. You can pay for a drink or a meal on a date. You can pay for her museum ticket or take her to a local music show. But you shouldn’t be doing anything extravagant during the first few dates with a woman you’re serious about. You can invest your money in her after she’s invested in you. That means she shows you interest, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy. Give yourself time to see if you connect to who she really is, especially after the initial infatuation wears off. And even then, I would caution being the man who constantly spoils his partner. You should balance being fiscally responsible with indulgence. Because if you don’t value your money, why should she?
Once she sees you as an ATM, you’ll never be the man of her dreams. wonderful stuff...front page worthy |
Romance › Re: What Happens When You Use Money To Attract Women? by flyinnizam(m): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
SweetOnugbo: There is something I don't understand on this forum..
Why are the guys here always painting women as evil creatures??
Every thread on relationships, directly or indirectly lead to bashing of women. truth is different from false accusation...no one is painting women evil, it's just facts |
Romance › Re: I Just Realized Something New About Nairaland by flyinnizam(m): 12:20pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
President Buhari |
TV/Movies › Re: Who Wins BBNaija Season 6: Whitemoney, Liquorose, Pere, Cross, Angel, Emmanuel? by flyinnizam(m): 7:06pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale: You don't tell a mod his job. who is this fool, why don't u say u don't tell a president like buhari how to rule his country |
Nairaland General › Re: My Brother Caught A Chimpanzee Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 8:24pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
MufasaLion: NatGeo Wild, where art thou?  when u don see natgeo wild film nigeria? |
Nairaland General › Re: My Brother Caught A Chimpanzee Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 8:23pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Namdeenero: Op I’m sure you were expecting us to clap for you and congratulate your brother the greatest hunter of all time. Chimpanzees know how to hold grudges, if they come for your hunter brother then his is a sorry case because they will rip him to pieces limb from limb it will rip ur father to pieces |
Nairaland General › Re: My Brother Caught A Chimpanzee Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 8:21pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
atheistandproud: This is animal cruelty.
That being is sentient and precious to it's mother. Let it go biko nu. the trap wasn't set to catch chimpanzee initially so get dat into ur brain |
Nairaland General › Re: My Brother Caught A Chimpanzee Today (Photos) by flyinnizam(op): 8:20pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Mummyfour: Please I use my ancestors beg you, don't eat it. Pleeeeaaasssseee  that is why its not on food section |