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So I met this guy like three years ago and within a year I noticed he was keeping me on a low so I felt he wasn't serious with me and I had a discussion with him that if he isn't interested in something more it's best we go our separate ways since I wanted a serious relationship which will eventually lead to marriage, he cried and begged that he was serious, things went on still no formal introduction to his family members or friends.
Then he started making plans to travel, I was part of it, the plan was for us to get married then travel together, before I knew it he became secretive and and avoiding me, fast forward to some months back he called me on a WhatsApp call crying for me to forgive him that he was abroad and doesn't know what came over him and why he couldn't tell me, he claims he is still in love with me and wants us to work, without a promise as to what all this will lead to, he wants us to lean on hope for the best.

“The extremist remarks of Wike are still on record. He declared Rivers State a Christian State contrary to the constitution,” the group’s statement reads in part.





Hmmmmmm, Contrary to constitution
this huge.

princeade86:
Lol. Too much juju to attract men

Not necessarily men, since she is a food seller. It could be to attract customers which still brings us back to men, being the majority of food customers. All the same we all should be careful how and where we eat.

Best tetfund University, you mean?

As a woman you need wisdom to run your home especially when dealing with the inlaws. Sometimes you have to keep your knowledge aside.
You should have gone with the first offer which was lesser amount then smartly chip in your doubt to your husband. If it crumbles your husband will trust your judgement next time, that will also put a stop to any further scam by her and you never would have been in a situation with your mother in law. But if for any reason it works you have nothing to lose ( besides what makes you think she can't pull it all the way from Lagos?, I only hope that offer wasn't genuine and your pride got the best of you).
You messed up big time, apologise to them and agree on the offer.

It's both ways, women lose interest in their husbands too. The difference is they (women) are good at hiding their true emotions.

Why won't he be in love, after eating her free food. 3/2 of men's problem will be solve if they mind how they eat from women

Righteousness89:
Many antichrist agents are all over..

It's the Presence of the Bride of JESUS Christ on Earth that is Hindering them from Operating openly!

Once Our LORD and SAVIOR Appears in the sky and takes his Church away! It will be Real Crazy Down here..
JESUS Describes it as " Such as has not been since the World was created"

Men and Brethren, Brothers and Sisters, the Time is Short! There is No More Time!

Make Peace with GOD And ACCEPT JESUS CHRIST..

There is No other way!

You are getting it all mixed up here, what about the rapture of the church? And the seven years period before the coming of Christ? It will get crazy after the rapture, ( which was what you meant, not His coming) and the second coming is for those who will survive the wrath of the antichrist

I have been married for less than a year now, close to the wedding I noticed that he had been on medication for ED which I found in his bag I asked why he broke down and opened up to me of how he has been on that drugs for years I promised to stay only if he would seek medical help because marriages have been broken due to such issue he then agreed and told me that he had always been afraid of getting married believing his wife would cheat on him due to his inability to satisfy her, I didn't really bother about sex in order not to make him feel inadequate, we finally got married just a week into the wedding fight started he picks offense on every little thing so we don't have to make love though in the past the sex would last for about a minute or so but this time around he hardly ever gets hard and when he does he spills almost immediately i reminded him of his promise to see a doctor but rather he yelled at me saying he has no problem I endured until I couldn't anymore we then decided to leave codedly without informing our families but on the morning I was to leave he copied a chat I had with my ex forwarded to his family accusing me of being unfaithful the chat carried dates which clearly showed the conversation was before wedding (we talked about some nutty things we did in the past, clearly stating how I love the person I was to marry being my husband ). What amazes me the most was that he had to deviate from the truth and blame me instead, after the lonely months I endured for him.

I have been married for less than a year now, but my sex life is a misery, my husband had only willingly made love to me twice after our wedding I always make the move and he complains before finally giving in sometimes not at all. and when we eventually have sex there's no pre-intimacy, and the worse it takes about two to three minutes before he spills all over the place. When was the last time I had an orgasm? No idea. I have complained and suggested we seek medical help but he refuses, I am afraid for the future. ........... pls help me