Mrperfecto: I will just be brief without writing too much.
We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.
She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.
I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.
My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.
Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?
Send her to her Biologist Mother or Grand Mother if they are Alive,Pls
Do you people actually make money from this crypto true true?
I don't even take anyone into this crypto thing seriously, it's same as betnaija gambling to me and if not why is it only men that do the crypto thing and the very few women involved are tomboy?
What you don't really know and understand is Greater than you. CRYPTO is Not Betnaija...
APOPTOSIS: I won't rush to conclude. Sometimes it's not always the way such is reported. Wrongful accusation is terrible too. Jumping into Conclusions without concrete facts can be really devastating even if the person has got tell-tale signs of halotry
Hypocrites are everywhere...What Concrete Evidence do you need Pls? Is it Dangote Cement Concrete? A Husband had been Catching his unfaithful Wife in actions Always and it comes to the Dead End...But u are still look for C.Evidence Don't you Read or Listen to what is Presented?
Fuckyoumod: thank you bro, this is exactly my point. How can somebody from Opobo say he is Ijaw? Where is the connection? Andoni will say he is Ijaw? Same for Bonny, Abua Okirika and kalabari. Simply because of politics. There are no Ijaws in Rivers State.
All this IYC nonsense should stop in Rivers State.
Ijaws are in Bayelsa and Delta state not in Rivers State.
The problem with these riverine people is that they play a lot of ethnic politics and create more problems for every other ethnic groups in Rivers State.
What you don't know,go and Sit down and Read to Learn Properly...not from Nairaland Children of Yesterday, Pls. Rivers State is More of Ijaw Ethnic Nationality than any.Fubara is Very Correct. Greater Populations to the Credit.
She herself not a bonafide Lagosian. U can't distort our history or rewrite it for us. The dosumus aren't aboriginals of Lagos.
The Dosumus aren't even Awori their forefathers are Benins reason she's trying to steal Lagos for her linage but we refused to accept this as our history is clear and in sooner time we must make available to the general public of our origin to Lagos and the Benins are obviously delusional
You are Obviously Confused and lacking the Nolez of ur Own History...Pls Go and Learn ur Past,Present and Future before Commenting on What you know Nothing about,Pls. The Erelu has more Facts than your Claims.
Goalnaldo: Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992). About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes". I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me? PS; I'm not a virgin
She is Testing You,Pls.. Let it not Bother You.She was Joking.
Goalnaldo: Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992). About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes". I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me? PS; I'm not a virgin
She is Testing You,Pls.. Let it not Bother You.She was Joking...
lovelilyn: "Never you blame or curse me for what DNA test brought out. My husband can't perform at all, and I disclosed this secret by meeting other men outside for us to have children " - Tella Oluwatoyin Olarewaju reveals
Oluwatoyin Olarewaju Tella aka Mummy G.O, whose DNA test revealed out that her husband was not the biological father of all her four children, has revealed the secret behind this.
According to her, while addressing the group of Journalists at Ikire, in Osun State, she stated that she married her husband since 2007, and later discovered that he can't perform on the bed.
She spoke further that, she doesn't want this secret to leak to their church members and the general public that's the reason why she stepped outside to meet other men for sexual intercourse.
She also stated that the family should tell him to look for another woman and sleep with her to confirm what she said. "Let him or his family get him another woman and sleep with her, and confirm what I said", she said.
immortalcrown: If Datti accepts it, then he is not like Obi.
ADDED The above sentence is because I knew only one Datti before this moment. You have every right to insult me since the Datti in the news is a different one. I am not Mr. Perfect. I admit my flaws and move on.
My Dr. Friend. Datti is a family Name,Pls. He may be of Same Family with PO Vice...So No One Can accuse you of Wrong doing...We Keep learning till Death.
Sonia Adesuwa, the estranged wife of former Super Eagles striker, Odion Ighalo, has taken to social media to make serious allegations about him.
She claimed the former Manchester United player was sleeping around with different women including a Nollywood actress and a Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) reality star.
In her recent outburst, Adesuwa also threatened to expose more of Ighalo’s dirty secrets.
Adesuwa also claimed she helped Ighalo throughout his career and assisted his immediate family travel to Europe.
My Advice,Learn to Forgive him and Reunite for the Peace of the Family...Reconcile with him and Settle All Scores for the Good of the Children...And Ur Eternity Pls.
uwuana: Today I took a stroll around the neighborhood and I saw people rushing to one particular spot, me self waka go there to have a glance,omor see better fresh catfish yakpa for ground,na so I grab two, the woman say #2500, I transfer the money sharperly because the fish worth more for this kind time wei price of everything don skyrocket. I carry am go house and prepare my bachelor stew with the tomato I bought yesterday.
Congrats that you can afford it. I think it is expensive for 2500 though.
I'm of the view that Ijaw youths who had adopted Fubara as one of their own, even though Fubara is from Opobo, will contend with Wike and his allies in Rivers State
Opobo is Ijaw...Opobo/Nkoro is typical Riverine...so understand the Politics on Display. Wike will Lose out and may begin to Go Down...if he doesn't Wise up now. His time here is Winding up henceforth. Watch it to unfold,Pls. We are Rivers People...
Get Sense Pls...Not Every Ibo Man is an Obidient or Supporter of Peter Obi...So Stop Generalization or Wrong Ethnic Profiling. Face the Matter on its Merit. This Drug Peddler is a Shame to Every Man...Though all Tribes in Nigeria are Complicit in D.Peddling...
The best part is Joe Biden and Rishi Sunak won't join Natayahun this time Death toll
Palestine 400, Isreal 700 Naso Ukraine Started in SouthEast and Donbass region, Putin talk, they signed agreement at Minsk, Jewish Zelensky still went to war thinking as usual US will lift a finger
Isreali are throwing missiles recklessly at Civilians target, building with family sleeping, airport with travellers , pilot and staffs
Hypocrite should not call Anyone terrorist when a response is giving
Go and read up what Adolf Hitler and Germany did to Jews during Holocaust, 5 million Jews wasted
1: Jews in Labor camp under Adolf Hitler Germany Nazi
Kobojunkie: 1. You mean kind of like how oyinbo dey wear bathing suit dey swim with their kids while Africans feel they need to cover it all up in the name of modesty yet their children are just as hypersexualized from a young age?
2. I have to disagree with this notion that it is wrong or right. I believe it is of great importance to raise children who are very very comfortable with their body and that of others. So long as the parents are not having sex in front of their kids, I don't see anything wrong with it even though I would not go for it myself.
You have No Mind of ur Own...A very Worthless Opinionated Fellows everywhere...
HISSCRIBE1995: I noticed that the jehova witnesses around me usually feel uncomfortable when a christian song is been played but they are quick to dance and sing along to secular (even ungodly ) songs. They seems not to like hearing a christian sermon but would prefer to listen to sermons from other faith (islam)
Now the question is - why do these people react this way but chose to be more positive to unchristian subject rather than christian subject of which they are already familiar with. It is also a wonder that these people Choose not to be identified as Christians (please if I'm wrong with this assertions you can correct me) I think these organizations need to be studied very well to see why they Choose to be the way they are (their doctrines, and differences in scriptures)
If you know anything about this group called jehova witnesses, or had experienced some of their reactions, please share so that the church and general public can know more about them and their beliefs without castigasting anyone.
Bcoz it is a Pseudo Christian Group.They are going No where in Christ Kingdom.Deceivers of the Endtime. Any Who doesn't believe in Christ Jesus is an Anti Christ...whatever ur Argument or Opinion,Pls.
Controversial Teachers and Preachers...of the Confused Sects...Plain Truths are Twisted most times by Simple People. There is Heaven of Heavens...There is a Place for His Dwelling as Scripture Puts it...So Stop there as Revealed Truth gives it..
Was it Biden that made a phone call, urging for votes?
Is any democrat a witness in all the cases? They all republicans!
Hello! Georgia is governed by a Republican who is not on Trumps side! Is that also Biden’s fault?
Where does Biden or Democrats come-in all of his indictments. Stop giving excuses for a criminal! His own people are turning on him, and you are here busy accusing democrats
My Dr. Friend...You can see that,Some Nigerians are too Sentimentally Ignorant to a Fault...Defending illegality...Even in Nigeria"s Electoral Mishap¿¿¿
Penguin2: Yesterday I saw a publication by Tinubu’s propaganda blog, Podium Reporters, asking why Peter Obi has kept quiet while “Obidients” attack Kumuyi for “praying for Nigeria”.
But that’s a mischievous suggestion. Because Kumuyi’s condemnation was from all Nigerians.
Till now, I’ve not seen a single tweet in support of Kumuyi.
So, it’s either all Nigerians are now Obidient or Podium Reporters are being mischievous as usual by dragging Obi into what is entirely none of his business.
Does Obi think for the Nigerian youths?
Besides, I thought they said majority of Nigerians voted Tinubu? Why didn’t that majority defend Kumuyi? Why is the voice of the ‘minority’ always louder than the supposed majority?
To Kumuyi….
Who has he been hearing from? Because it’s obvious it hasn’t been God all these years.
Or why does he keep issuing prophesies that never come to pass and people expect that we fold our arms and watch these guys lie to us all the time without consequences or their bluff being called?
These guys keep taking advantage of the gullibility of the majority of Africans who have faith without reason.
I remember when Adeboye once said he drove from Lagos to Ore on an empty tank, and people believed him. They didn’t ask questions about the possibility of such. They insisted it was a miracle that must never be probed nor questioned.
Wake up, Africa!
Wake up and see that these men are conmen who are feeding fat on your gullibility “In The Name of God.”
And they know that the day Nigeria gets her leadership right, and things start working, that’s the day they will go out of business.
Because 90% of things that people go to church to pray for, are things with temporal (physical) solution that requires no recourse to the metaphysical (prayers).
Name it:
Food
Job
Shelter
Visa
Capital for business
Success in exam
Cure for disease, etc.
These are things that a functional government will see to its adequate availability and thereby reducing the dependence of people on these churches and Daddy GOs.
It happened in Europe.
There was a time when the economy of Europe was in shambles and people depended highly on God, through prayers, for their daily survival. That period saw to the emergence of big churches and cathedrals where people went to pray.
But when European countries started getting their leadership right and their economy blossomed and government started doing its job of providing basic amenities and jobs that help people have a means of livelihood, the people realized that they’ve been seeking spiritual solution to physical problems.
The population in the churches started to dwindle until some churches became empty. And some of those churches started getting converted into warehouses for storage of goods manufactured in industries.
Now, these Nigerian, nay African, pastors know this story. And they know that if African countries start to get its leadership right, what happened in Europe will inevitably happen in Africa; and Nigeria is not excluded.
That’s why they keep supporting the wrong leaders and telling lies in the name of prophecy - prophesies that never come to pass.
Now, when we call the hypocrisies of these charlatans out, some people who are irredeemably gullible, hopelessly superstitious and still operating with animistic mentality, where every occurrence is attributed to the gods, will be telling us to “touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm.” That’s the escape line of these charlatans.
FRUSTRATED Nigerian Youths are Pouring Out their Anger on Religious Leaders...But this is very unfortunate and Mischievous still. Mr.Kumuyi is not into Politics but just harps on the Need for Peaceful COEXISTENCE in Nigeria. No One Should Crucify him for his Personal Opinion and Positions,Pls. He hasn't given any PROPHESY or Talk on Political Engagements...So Leave Pastor Kumuyi Alone. Carry ur Grudgss or Frustrations to the Judiciary or the Military, Pls. God Bless Nigeria.
IconicR: I'm not even mad at Atiku but you see that one called Obi he disgust me a lot. Carrying fake image everywhere, same man that was tagged one of the worst governors Anambra state ever had but has become an overnight messiah to some few people because of religion and tribalism
You are not Fit to Comment on him...Ur Biases are Useless...Peter Obi Remains One of Nigerias Finest Political Leaders and Best for the Post of President of the FRN.
Verokeena: Good afternoon Nl family Please pardon my epistle
My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .
What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)
Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)
When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..
He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..
I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..
The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number
I don't just know what to do... Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him
But Talk True O...Where you Snobbing Him bcoz he has been idle and with out Work? Have you been cheating on him and not giving him attention since? Then You Caused it. you push him into Depression and Alcoholism...Change Ur Ways,Pls. RECOVER UR HUSBAND PLS.
Family / Re: My 13 Years Old Has Become Terrible! I Want To Send Her Back To Nigeria by fof1: 3:38pm On Feb 25
Don't you Read or Listen to what is Presented?
(before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992).