Lindalilian: Pastor‘s wife who was caught in bed with her husband's brother speaks. Hear what she has to say, it's very touching.
She claimed her husband didn't touch her for 8 months that her husband fasts for 14 days, sometimes 21 days at a stretch and whenever she complains, the husband waves it aside as nothing and claims he want to serve God.
Now my question is why did he marry the lady if he knows he won't be doing his duty as a husband
Why would the lady sleep with her husband brother
Is the pastor clean? Was he not seeing another woman outside for him not to have touched his wife for good 8 months?
Many things are missing I just don't get! Video link
He is not Doing Well for the Harmony of his Family...But it is very Possible for him Not to See any Other Woman in One Year and yet not touch his Wife,but it is very Bad. He Needs BALANCED Counselling, Pls. And this Doesn't Exonerate his Wife lor her ADULTEROUS acts,Pls
ecolime: These guys and the buyers of the metals need to be sentenced to life imprisonment. This is not just greed, It is plain wickedness.
You need to see the entire Eko Bridge stretch, they've removed almost all the hand rails.
Go to Surulere, almost all the drainage covers at Bode Thomas, Eric Moore have been stolen. Several cars have been involved in accidents because of this.
This is the Same Experience in Port Harcourt,Rivers State ...where All the Drainage Metal Covers along most Roads have been removed by these Scraps Sellers and mostly Hausa/fulani Boys with Wheel Barrows and Carts...without any Arrest Yet or Investigation of this Sabotage and WICKEDNESS, Pls.
I saw when the latest girl he impregnated ( his fifth or sixth) was all over Instagram jumping all around, going around in matching-wears licking ice-cream, posting herself and portable. Calling him sweet names. I just shake my head.
In this life, just have money even though you are not mentally alright. I mean, portable is not even a billionaire. But he is with 4 wives and uncountable concubines. Not only that, he make sure he ridicule womanhood by bragging about it nonchalantly. And yet, they cant stop coming.
They idle Fellows with low Self Esteem and Poverty Stricken...without Hope and Focus.
Guy leave what you read , I have a family in Cyprus who happens to be friends with some of them (OPM children)
They have a WhatsApp group like literally I laugh anytime they forward messages from there .
The matron in Cyprus I have forgotten that her nonsense name eats the money the pastor sends and tell this children no food not water, when you reach the man directly a so called man of god will curse you for disturbing him.
When he was broke now let me tell you the condition, he sold one of his house in Cyprus t finance the so called scholarship and feeding for the kids .
He then told them no more money that they should contact Thier family to take them back to Nigeria, like nigga what the actual fvck , people whom you carried on scholarship some people don't even have enough to eat and you want them to generate money for Cyprus flight back to Nigeria, that means the sham scholarship finished media PR already gotten.
Many of them if not all that period till this Happy boiz matter came out last week have not been going to school for 6months .
They do Yahoo Yahoo, like that girl I told you has one leg ,she is an orphan she is stucked right now in northern Cyprus frustrated
#sorrynovex
You are Spueing Lies,Pls...Re Verify ur info and Source...
DamianDd: My dad is a really good guy, I love him so much and he's gentle most times. Though he gets angry sometimes but he's reasonable about everything he does.
I came home 11:30 which is very late and I knew that and I even hated it too that I came home this late so I was trying to avoid him even when he asked to come to his room because I had a gut feeling that things won't gi right.
But I ended up going to get my charger that was with him, then for the first 5 minutes in he was making sense about why I came home late and I was agreeing to it that it's true
Then all of a sudden he starts saying "what will people think?" "Neighbors are watching" "they'll start saying god forbid, like father like son" "I nor fit let my pikin be like this boy" "which kind family be this, see when their son dey come house?" "People are watching, people are judging" and even more words and it started getting annoying to me, then he said they will say "see when this small pikin dey come house"
It was at that moment that I shut it down, I've never been that way to him but it was so infuriating, I told him I'm not a child I'm 18 which is legal age, I work for my money, I make 50k to 300k a month on my own; no neighbors give me food when I'm hungry, the landlord doesn't clean my eyes when they hurt from viewing my phone too much so I don't give a Bleep what they think of me. I told him to not put all those orientations in my head because it affected me alot when I was younger and it made me timid and shy and scared of being myself or having different opinions and that's what I'm trying to fix in myself and my mindset now.
What I do feel bad about is last year I paid for the house rent and packing when I had alot of money, I brought it up when I was talking to him and said "I paid for this house with my own money so who is landlord or the neighbors for me to be sacred to come in and out of my own home, I know what I did is wrong and I'm sorry but don't put those bad thoughts in my head" I shouldn't have said that though by bringing up what I did for family. He only called me back and said "don't worry I won't talk to you anymore until I use my own money to pay for the house next time" I didn't say anything because i know I was wrong and nothing good would come out of talking back, I just left his room.
What's your thoughts on the matter?
What are You asking for really here...Go back today and Apologise to your Father...for answering back that Way you did. He is ur Daddy and can Caution or advise You...just 18Yesrs...¿¿¿
Ahmed0336: Anything to move this nation forward is welcomed.
I stand on my mandate while some peeps are still looking for their manhood wey no loss
This is Obviously a Trashy Advice and Can not Stand... They are not All Knowing and we can not afford to do Experimentations in Policues and Governance,Pls.
Lorenzo may be Mentally impaired or Psychologically unstable...to have acted in such a Dastardly Manner... Envy and Racial Bluff may also be reasons for such Wickedness meted out to her NEIGHBOR.
lhordspy: Bawa, obviously satisfied and proud of himself, inflated by the report he had cooked for the president, coupled with the backings he's got from 'power brokers', he went home happy and fulfilled. He even stopped for a quick photo op. Oblivious of the fact that it was the 'last supper'.
He forgot that the best of men are the ones who are unpredictable, like my president. Carried away by Tinubu's quiet demeanour, they think they can fool him. They dont know Bola Ahmed Tinubu. They underrated Jagaban.
Some or most of His Claims and False Premises were busted by d DSS Verified inputs and Appraisals...The President is well guided by Sound intelligence Presently...except he begins to Play Dirty Politics.
JasonScoolari: Though I commend him for helping youths, Atleast, he's better than some moronnic politicians giving their supporters only polo, cap and a miserable loaf of bread during campaigns.... It's not easy.
But I don't get why it's always when something or someone trends for whatever reason on the internet, that's when he comes out to show his philanthropic life.
Don't get me wrong, but that's what I noticed about him.
God bless him and others doing likewise silently.
How Else is he going to get the information, Pls? Can you INBOX him for such Needs urself without Trending?
I just joined 2 friends to squat with them pending when I will get employed and get my own place. When I joined them, both of them complained of having body itching but I ignored since I'm using an antiseptic soap. and not long after, I started having this itching especially in my pubic area and my sacs itch more.
Even though it itches, it kind of feels good while scratching (sweeting me) and I have been managing like that for almost 2 months now. But I woke up this morning to see below on my dick. I've not had sex since March this year so I'm very sure i didn't get this through sex. What can I do please?
Mod please help push to FP
This is a bacterial infection that can be Cleared with ur Commitment to Sanitation in that Jouse. Ur Co Travellers in that house are Dirty to harbour Hives infestations in d Apartment...1. Regular Washing of Bedding, and Sleeping Cloths,Ironing ur Cloths to wear are some of d Remedy. Aside Antiseptic Soap,Pls use Dettol for ur Bath and Apply FunBact Cream on d Areas affected Daily,Pls. Take antibiotics Augumentin or Amoxil for 5 or 7 Days...twice Daily...to Clear All. This is a very Poor Hygiene Environment Friendly Bacteria...Be Warned to Speed up ur Recovery Process or BEST CONSULT A MEDICAL DOCTOR/FACILITY FOR PROPER CARE.
family6644: It started when I lost someone dear to me, I almost ran mad, they had to call a local nurse who administered an injection to me, the thing off me, when I woke up it started again, I was given another dose, it got me so high that I don't know anything again until I slept off again.
This is how I started requesting for it, I started taking it to get over the trauma, the lady noticed I was getting addicted she refused giving me saying it's dangerous, I had to call my pharmacist friend to get regular supplies, though he didn't stop warning me but I'm already addicted taking it every 4hours, trying to stop when I started seeing the damages but I couldn't.
The fatigue that will follow is unbearable, I will end up taking it to feel okay again. I attached a picture of my hands with the damage.
I need help, I want out so that I can live my normal life but I don't know how, has anyone been there before? How did you get over it? I don't want to die from this. Please help me
Go to a Competent Medical FACILITY or outfit or Doctor for Proper Attention, Pls...Here is not d Best for ur Remedy...Man.
uzomakanaki: Fellow nairalanders, please I need advice from matured minds in this group.
I'm in a two year relationship with my woman, we're both working. I'm 34 while she's 27. My montly salary and commision is over 200k with other side hustle i do that bring in funds for me, i also just got a car i want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time.
My fiancee on the other hand is earning 75k monthly. I take good care of her needs and makes sure she doesn't lack anything I can afford.
We both plan to settle down by December.
Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant.
I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary.
She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet
I'm gradually losing interest in the relationship cos that single act of her. I've kept this to myself.
I just need advice on how to handle this. Cos I'm already fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public.
My Friend, are you very Sure you were the Man responsible for her last Pregnancy despite ur Efforts,Pls?
Observe her still for Sometimes before ur final Decisions,Pls.
IRRESPONSIBLE People in Positions of Influence or Power doesn't make them Exemplary or to be given attention...Acclaimed Youths without Maturity abounds in d Society...and Keyamo is one such Fellow...Very Disrespectful to Elders and Pretentious
fadilaMaikiriki: I love this combo below so so much. It is my cocaine. I love it so much. If three days go by without taking this I won't feel alright. I can cross seven rivers and seven seas to go get this. That's how bad I love it.
Who takes this combo too? Who has tried it before?
This is; Tiger nuts (aya), Dates ( dabino), Coconuts (kwakwa).
Tryagain77: I saw a post on this forum which looks similar to mine and that inspired me into writing this to share with people how my boss (former) was abusing me.
I graduated from one of the courses in social science in one of the federal universities and have been job hunting to land a good job but to no avail.
Bills were piling up while I was going down economically. Out of hunger, lack and frustration, I settled to work as a barman in a hotel.
A week after resuming that work, the man that the hotel is leased out to started showing me his true colours. Nobody is above mistake in life. Even minor things that could have been settled without raising eyebrows, he would shout at me and abuse me right in front of customers. He would use derogatory words to describe me and say all sort of inhumane things to me, all to show that he's the boss.
Despite all that, I couldn't leave because I had no other job option at hand. For the 9 months I have worked in the place, these are the things I went through.
1. I have been verbally and physically abused by the said man. There is no kind of derogatory and inhumane word that man has not used on me and most times, right in the presence of customers and also when in the presence of the girls he brings to sleep with.
Note: this is how he behaves with all the staff, not only me.
2. He kicked me, slapped me, knocked my head, spat on me, yelled at me. Calling me a fool, an idiot, useless something etc, was no longer anything worrisome to me again because I got used to it.
3. Because of all these abuses, his friends who use to come there took advantage and started abusing me too. One slapped me the other day because I presented a bill he thought I surcharged him, which we later found out I didnt. I don't blame him actually.
4. You would work 2 months plus before you receive 1 month salary. For example, you would receive January salary between 10-15th of March.
5. Salary was N25,000 but I have never received that amount complete. He always look for something accuse me of in order to deduct our so called salary and pay less. There was a month I received N7000 as my salary.
6. Any customer that breaks a glass pays N1000 for it. When he first mentioned this in a meeting, we thought he was joking, but he was being serious. When he started deducting my salary for broken glasses, then I realized he was serious. I have never heard anything of such anywhere before. That a customer who breaks glass should pay N1000 for it.
What happened on the 23rd of May. 23rd of May was his birthday. He invited friends and celebrated. Right in his presence, one of the guests broke a glass. I'm the only one serving both the bar and guests in the room including food. So it was a very busy time for me. Just because I didn't sweep the broken glass immediately because I was busy serving people, as I wanted to pass, he shouted angrily at me, aimed me with the broken glass and broke my head. I was bleeding and I left the place to a pharmacy to treat the wound. Guess what? He was not even remorseful about it at all.
The following day I tendered a resignation letter with immediate effect. Obviously if I don't leave the place, the man may kill me or make me do something I will later regret.
Now pay me off, he's telling me I need to work again at least another one month for him to find a replacement, if I'm serious about receiving my outstanding salary or I should forget about it. Even at that, I know too well that he will pay me anything he likes, claiming glasses were broken, I did this and I did that. Presently he's looking for job seekers but nobody wants to work with such a crude person anymore. Even someone he sacked as usual over two months ago, he's not been able to replace till today.
Now I'm jobless, hungry and penniless.
I need advice on how to go about to collect my money from this man. I don't have strength for any fight with him. I just need my hard earned money but let it not be until another blood is spilled. Story of a struggling Nigerian.
You said U are Educated and Peace Loving...and that's very Good of You. If I were You, bcoz of the Experiences of the Man's Behaviour,You should have Incidents his Barbarism over you in the Nearest Police Station,to Record ur Broken Head...as an alibi for Future Instances like this refusal to Pay You. His Labour Practices are Criminal in Natures and need Law Enforcement attentions... However, Pls remain a Peace Lover... and Peaceful Fellow,Pls
A Nairalander, Dr Akorede Kamil, who is a medical doctor, a Commonwealth scholar, and the Regional Coordinator with the UK Commonwealth Scholarships Commission, has returned from the UK to inspire the young girls on the street of Ilorin by introducing them to basic coding, and productive learning platforms like Google and YouTube.
Inspired by the enormous application of coding in healthcare, Dr Akorede who holds a masters degree in Public Health at the University of South Wales (UK), and masters in Disaster Medicine at the University of Central Lancashire (UK), joined Lancashire Coding school to learn computer programming. Ha Only e has since been inspiring young girls in senior secondary schools in Ilorin, Kwara state.
YouandiAllofus: Female airforce officers are usually beautiful. Why commit sucide when you are not faced with any conflict inflicted trauma? Could it be as a result of sexual abuse by male superiors or personal issues? Thorough investigation is required asap to determine cause of death. God rest her soul
Can her Soul be Rested by God if or when She Committed Suicide? How are truly Sure that, She Committed Suicide and was not Murdered? Not all Deaths is Depression...Some People are Cleverly Murdered for unknown Reasons and Covered Up...But Knows All things, Pls.
Dainy1: This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids. The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.
Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage? Is the sugar daddy the main target here? What will you advise in this situation?
The Man in Question is very Stupid to have Abandoned his Family to date. He brought the Family into this Problem...so should first of Retrace his Foolish Steps before attending to the Wife's Wild Goose Chase,Pls. He should be very Grateful to the #AllegedSugarDaddy for sustaining his Poverty Stricken Family and Empower his Wife from Flirting. Foolish Men Abounds everywhere CHASING VANITY & WANTONNESS
dustmalik: Not that I am supporting anybody, but does it mean that all the cars in his compound belong to the government?
WHY NOT...? Even himself Belongs to the Government of Zamfara State and so Should be Arrested and Confined for Proper Lessons of Life...These are Opportunist that Couldn't Control their Greed.
BIZNess123: I remember those days this op will be insulting tinubu..now that tinubu has flogged their master wat he does now is to promote anambra from top to bottom
Since October last year when I bleeped one my girl my dvck has never been the same
Blisters has now become part the of my dvck I was ashamed to visit the hospital and was rubbing funbact a on it….. the funbact clears the blister but just temporarily
After then someone prescribed a drug for me which I used it, it cleared the blisters but after a while they resurface but not like the first time…. the blister will grow then pus will on be coming out of the blisters on my scrotal sack and my penis
Mehn I’m so boxed up on what to do right now can’t even have s.x with my girl for some months now cuz I’m scared I minght infect her
So inconvenienced as the pus is afflicted with pains im experiencing pains on my divk and then can’t even relax properly most times
Is showing as its going but the pains I’m experiencing now is out of this earth I regret doing that shit
Please what should I do?
PLS GO TO HOSPITAL AND STOP DANCING AROUND ON NAIRALAND.COM...Ur Future is in Peril,Pls My Friend, I think U are truly Joking with ur Life and Future...Sex is not ur Need now but Complete Recovery of Sex Organ and Health. U MAY DAMAGE URSELF FINALLY AS YOU DELAY TO GET REMEDY.
dopedan: I have some bad habits im trying to stop like porn and masturbation, because wen im with a girl I get erect but when its time to put it in it goes flaccid , it’s quite shameful So i need advice from people who experience this on wat to do to speed up my recovery process and get my morning wood back thanks
Consult Ur Doctor and Health Exoerts...Not NAIRALAND...You know urself...Do d Needful and Free Urself from Shame and Regrets