₦airaland Forum

DaddyJapan:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023/05/12/fani-kayode-says-nigeria-owes-atiku-debt-of-gratitude-gives-reason

sukkot:
See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.

But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.

So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.

Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.

Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.

But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.

Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.

It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.

So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000.

victorVIC1:
I have a male kid that is about 3 years old and I recently observed that a particular kid in the compound that is 2 months older than him always attempt to bully him at sight.

The few times this have happened in my presence, I restrained my son from retaliating cos the boy in question is autistic. Though my wife also informed me, there was a day my son fought back and the boy stopped his bullying attempt for a while afterwards.

This morning my son was about to leave for school. Immediately he came out of the apartment, the boy ran towards him and hit him. Once more, I stopped my son from hitting him back but this time his mum (my neighbour) experienced the scenario and only made a remark to the boy to stop looking for trouble. I felt she made the remark just to create an impression that she was concerned.

I've been feeling so uneasy about this since morning and this is obviously a bullying case and I'm subtly training my kid to tolerate it. Hence, I've concluded that the next time such will happen, I will ask my boy to fight back.

Just to have your opinion on this matter, is fighting back the best approach in this situation putting into consideration the health condition of the bully ?

IyaebeTheGreat:
If she's not a science student then I don't rate her intelligence .
Modified
She's a science student and that means she's truly brilliant.
Art students are dull and I don't regard them academically

KiNg0G:
Will you blame me? Just this year alone I have slept with 28 girls all prostitute and I did it raw with some of them.

It started last 2week lymph node appeared at the back of my head. While streaming on TikTok they say it's the early signs of HIV. Since Thursday I have been feeling fiverish.. with muscle pain it keeps recurring. I got discharged on Saturday but ran back to the hospital this early morning because I couldn't sleep at night. The doctor was forced to do a general test on me, at first I wanted to insist because I know my yansh will open because have already concluded I'm HIV positive with all this symptoms but I had no choice.. I'm still here in the hospital fixed on drip and the test results just came in to my surprise the nurse said my sugar level is good and I'm HIV negative

This is the same status I have been avoiding
to check because I have made up my mind I'm infected.
I have been thinking how to go for HIV program and the antiviral drug

Salasa:
The last time I masturbated was exactly three weeks ago. The ejaculation I forced two weeks ago was due to what I'm about writing.

I'm 20 years old, never had sex before, i had masturbated harshly with water and lubricant when I got so hot, after some days, I realized my penis lay flat and numb, there was no blood circulation. I thought it to be a minor issue, but after a week, I got scared, I tried getting an erection, it wasn't coming, I beat my meat, no response. I watched soft pornography and read erotics, the erection was weak and I forced ejaculation. This was two weeks ago.

Since then till today, blood circulation in my penis stopped sporadically, I would think all arousing stuffs I could, nothing. For good two weeks, I only experienced morning boner thrice or so, others were just semi-boners...

I got frustrated yesterday and wondered if I've erectile dysfunction at this my age, thoughts of going into the seminary flooded my mind, funny, don't laugh ohhhh..

Yesterday, while I was about sleeping, I felt blood flowing down my penis, I tried getting an erection, it didn't come. I slept, woke up today to a nocturnal emission otherwise called wet dreams, I was happy.

I lay a little and my hard erection came, the tip was full and shiny, I noticed veins too, it stood for some minutes and went down. My happiness knew no bound, I took my bath, I tried again while bathing, I beat my meat and it stood vigorously, I let it off. I'm so happy.

Please, what could be the cause of my partial erectile dysfunction for three weeks, I don't masturbate oftenly, highest is once or twice a week if I want, I even go weeks without it, I got scared, I now know what impotence feels like.

I felt low sexual desire, numbness, frustration, obsession, nothing could arouse me, not even soft porn, ahhh, that was bad.

What caused this? This is romance section, some people might learn.

lhordspy:
Three factors playing out:

1. The King isnt as popular as the Late queen Elizabeth. The people are not use to the change yet and they dont seem like they want to or going to get use to it anytime soon.

2. The Late Princess Diana death is still playing against everyone in the royal family. The Citizens still looking for scapegoats.
The Queen consort, Camillia is always the victim here.

3. I think the citizens are tired of not being able to elect their leader themselves. They want a president not some fancy kingdom with kings and queens.

They wish to vote their leader themselves. They want to be the decider and for that to happen, they need to scrap the monarchy system entirely.

Not very possible with the way things stand.

Christistruth02:
Who released the guys name because the UK is still protecting his identity

webdevprof:
Watch how some insensitive ignoramuses will start insulting her dead father now just because her husband is an APC member... 👀

donbachi:
Mumu man..instead him for join apc the rest for be history.

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

depz:
So this one too dey collect digging? I pray she has miscarriage and losses that child. I also pray the first one dies in a car accident and after that, her husband divorces her and takes half of her riches. All these and many more i ask through the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ, Amen.

clockwisereport:
Buba Galadima is Buhari's friend. Trust politicians at your peril

fergie001:
SOURCE

nairalandkachy1:
https://twitter.com/toluogunlesi/status/1653769481691299840?t=WpNGXuNcW5cpTm3GlO1D0w&s=19[/quote]Does the Incoming Government especially the VP elect know what BLkchn is All about Thank God for the Policy Shift...giving Tooms to Several Adoptions...including Cryptography and Advanced E-Science and Defi ...

FunkyJustice:
Is this country a joke?

Buhari’s APC is launching 2050 agenda when we haven’t survived 2023 yet,,,

Rikze:
If I talk now the mob with fake likes will attack me.

They are everywhere on Nairaland.

The cold atmosphere in the venue shows that people were forced to come out against their wish.

ogododo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/govt-not-responsible-for-creating-jobs-adesina/

fergie001:
FG To Opposition: Quit Griping Over Election You Lost Hands Down

https://www.facebook.com/100064531906658/posts/pfbid0RrPXkfktKR5Gz4YQ1U4pDC2A4CeXJ15LdWkB4EXwPSEEJUUvmSnRNtHxkzu8zfyfl/?mibextid=Nif5oz

alwayshapi22:
Wedding can be a very exciting time for Young people coming together in marriage, but as we all have severally seen, some couples are both happy and some one more excited than the other, a way of showing excitement is through dancing, what do you think? Who should be More excited?
A. GROOM
B. BRIDE
C. BOTH
D. NONE
Here is a video where the groom flaws the bride with his dancing moves

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nWTTTmtQx4w?

Tofax:
Witches warn against scuttling Tinubu’s inauguration


…Invites Dino Melaye for counsel

White Witches and Wizards Association of Nigeria, yesterday, urged aggrieved politicians not to scuttle the inauguration of the President-elect, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, on May 29 at the Eagle Square, Abuja.

The group also said Tinubu will be provided with no fewer than 300 witches and wizards to ensure that no harm comes his way, adding that they are unhappy about the manner in which politicians have conducted themselves since Tinubu was announced as the winner of the February 25 presidential poll.

Speaking to newsmen in Calabar, the group’s spokesman, Dr. Okhue Oboi, said they care about the unity of the nation and would safeguard it.

He said: “We welcome Tinubu back to the country. Recall that Tinubu emerged the winner at our group’s spiritual presidential election held about two months ago before the terrestrial February 25 presidential election. Now, we have reviewed the volatile developments in the country. We urge the aggrieved parties to give peace a chance because resorting to self-help will do more harm than good to the polity. There is no reason for Tinubu to be afraid because all the campaigns of calumny mounted against him are mere distractions. We are currently cleaning and detoxifying the Abuja environment where Tinubu will operate from.

“What Tinubu needs now is prayers of good health and long life from all Nigerians so he could deliver on his Renewed Hope promise for better life for all.”

Oboi, who spoke on the forthcoming governorship election in Kogi State, said the group has met with the three major tribes in the state and have aggregated their demands.

He said: “We have met with the Igala, Ebira and Yoruba population in the state. We met Igala people in Idah, Ebira people in Obehira and Yoruba people in Kabba and listened to them. We advise Dino Melaye to see us if he is desirous of realising his governorship dream. If he listens to our advice, he will laugh because the trees and waters of the confluence state will vote for him regardless of whether Governor Wike supports him or not.

“It will be in Melaye’s interest to see us too so he can smile. If he fails to see the witches and wizards, he will regret it because he will not win the election.”

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/witches-warn-against-scuttling-tinubus-inauguration/

Stargangz:
My judgement;
Liyel Imoke should be arrested asap, while the engineer should be stoned to death wherever he's sighted.

Stargangz:
My judgement;
Liyel Imoke should be arrested asap, while the engineer should be stoned to death wherever he's sighted.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Let's be realistic how much can 800k carry for the whole month considering the increase in price of almost everything

Racoon:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/04/27/buhari-unaware-of-promises-support-groups-made-to-nigerians-in-2015-says-presidency/

Deceitful Workers and Strange Bedfellows desperate for Political Power

fergie001:
In a veiled reference, Keyamo reacts to Pastor Ibiyeomie's Escobar/Osama bin Laden comparison.
Festus Keyamo

Nemere2020:
https://twitter.com/ChimarokeNamani/status/1650102175241064450?t=LbZasc98n__MTROzkyFryg&s=19[/quote]Self Serving Piece of trash Pls...You are an Embittered Senate Loser and Expired Politician engaged in Thuggery and political Emansciculte...

emexnaija:
Love isn’t real; any man you catch, eat his money!” – Bride advises ladies while on her way to get married

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbLGB6cWSqk

IyaebeTheGreat:
What happens to forgiveness, what did Jesus say about forgiveness. This pastor is a case of " practice what I preach but not what I do"

obembet:
Nigerian actress, producer, screenwriter and singer, Bukunmi Oluwasina advises all the married men to forgive and pray for thier wives whenever they mistakenly sleep with another man.

Here is what she wrote
Source: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cq8WQCKuU0d/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

obembet:
Nigerian actress, producer, screenwriter and singer, Bukunmi Oluwasina advises all the married men to forgive and pray for thier wives whenever they mistakenly sleep with another man.

Here is what she wrote
Source: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cq8WQCKuU0d/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again